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me and my friend fight ALL the time.. i really wish she would shut up! she brags and annoys me a lot! then she thinks we are like best friends! i dont know what to do!! i dont want to tell her i hate her cause i dont know how she will react! but what if she feels the same way as I do! please dont tell me to just "talk it out" i need real advice that will work!!!! thanks
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well... i would start avioding her untill she gets the picture. i know this is mean but its definetly not talking it out. Find new friends who really care about YOU. especially once she finds some friends of her own, you two wont have to worry about this constant struggle anymore.
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Since you fight so much i think that you should tell her that you need a break from her for a couple of weeks. then if she says ok, after a couple of weeks, see if your relationship w/ her is going in a positive direction. If not , then i think that you two shouldn't b friends anymore cuz it's not worth it to put yourself through soo many fights to just b friends w/ this 1 person.
hope it works!
Good luck!
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i use 2 have a friend like that until i couldnt take it nomore one day i just told her she was being overly annoying and she said i was mean but i felt alot better getting it off my chest. so just tell her shes kinda getting on ur nerves. just tell her how u feel. hope i helped PRINCESSKISSES1
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Tell her! You wont get anywhere by keeping it to yourself. just say like "you know you bug the hell outta me and i really wish you would just GO AWAY for awhile", and if you hate her...damn it tell her! who cares what she thinks. Shes annoying right? and brags... i hate that.. i know where your comin from. Dont "talk it out" with her cause then that gives her time to speak and beg for you to still be her friend, also to feel sorry. Which you shouldnt. Just say it straight up. Maybe she thinks your her best friend, cause you might tell her some of your secrets, or invite her over or to other places, or talk to her online, or go to her house, laugh at ALL her jokes.. etc.. Hope i helped some!
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if you really ar not getting along then maybe it's time for a break. you might not like the same things anymore and are diffrent and going you seperate ways. that happens a lot unforunatly
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if you dont like the bitch then you dont like the bitch. if you keep tryna be nice and juts be your friend, you are just gonna drive yourself more crazy, cuz you will know you are being fake. just ditch the girl.
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lol I had the same problem once, trust me on this:
When you catch her bragging, tell her what she is doing and ask her to stop it. If she does it often, you can bug her about it and say, oh my gosh here you go again. Then, if she STILL doesn't get the hints, then tell her to her face that she is beginning to get obnoxious and she needs to cut it out or else you don't want to be her friend.
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Hey I think you should just distant yourself from her!! And if she tries callin you just be like hi.. act like your mad.. and be like I have to go sorry bye! And if she asks you to do something be like.. I have plans already sorry.. Anythin else just ask! x0x
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Ok.. talking it out WILL work.. but then again it might not.. ur friend could be a bad listener and will just say.. well i have better friends and so on... so just plain tell her.. dont get nasty but just say " you know what i am sick of us fighting!" either you stop bragging and try to make it work out or we cant be friends" just tell her the straight truth! see what happens.. why not take the risk.. <3 laura
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