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Emily prefers to be called/a.k.a em,emz,lili,mimi,lee or emi
13 from England living in Spain - loves; giving advice, making friends, music, photography, the color pink&more ..
hates; racism, terrorism, poverty , animal testing, cockroaches, darkness, sluttyness, being tired


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+ : r&b
+ : rap
+ : hip hop
+ : reggaeton
+ : slow jams
+ : acapella
+ : pop


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advice

I can never eat breakfast- one because I'm a bit lazy because I'm tired and two because I'm not a big fan of it, but I know it's unhealthy not to eat it and I know you can gain weight from not eating it because then you pig out at lunch and the rest of the day. Any suggestions [besides fruit] and please note that I'm on a tight scheduale and don't have alot of time to eat or prepare it [no cereal suggestions, please]

Cereal bars are quick and easy, you could eat them on the way to school or whatever. So much easyer than sitting there with a bowl :P
♥Em

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Anyone know of a cute, not that expensive place to get knee socks [sort of a Harajuka Girl style]. Nothing crazy in the colors lol! Thanks!

Claires, Hot topic...
You could make your own from long t-shirt sleeves and/or some other item of clothing or you could buy some from school uniform places and customize them :) also, alot of Japanese street wear kind of stores/sites should have some.
♥Em

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We've all seen a million questions on "HOW CAN I TONE MY BODY?"

Well, I'm wondering how to just well, make your abs more.. defined and a little bit flatter. I already know about Tone Teen and Seventeen Workouts so please don't suggest that, thanks.

You can visit www.toneteen.com they have a bunch of excersizes for pretty much every part of your body they are explained well and with pictures to help you understand and they also have forums where you can talk to other people dieting/exersizing to get some tips and what not :)
♥Em

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I want to start designing my own tshirts- and I'm not talking about iron ons and stuff like that. I'm talking about like, cute, haute-couture sort of stuff- orginal, like plain tshirts spruced up so much that they look completely different. Can someone help me or give me a site with ideas? I'm not a bad sewer.

You could look in some magazines for inspiration and see if you can make something similar with your own touch of uniqueness.
Also, there are loads of sites with sewing tips and t-shirt reconstruction tutorials. If you go on livejournal (if you're a member there) and search tshirt surgery, diy, diy tutorials, etc... in the intrests box there's a bunch of communites you can join and loads of people willing to help/looking for help.
If you're not a member of Livejournal you won't be able to get in to half the communites cause most of 'em are for members only so if you're not leave me something in my inbox and I'll see if I can get you a list of sites :)
♥Em

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Any tips on how to be more patient? It seems like when I'm waiting something that I REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEALLY want [lol] I cannot stop thinking about it. Any tips?

Take a deep breath and think about something else, I'm really impatient too and just thinking about something else even though it's really hard actually kinda helps.
Also count to ten, that doesn't work on me but it does on other people :)
♥Em

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Do I have the right to be offended..this girl considers me her BEST FRIEND [we are good friends but not BEST BEST friends]. When we leave a class, she never waits for me, unless her little other friend is absent. When that girl isn't around, she waits for me and she talks to me. I mean, I have other friends I walk with, I just find this, weird.. and awkward you know. And at lunch, whatever I say, it's usually the opposite. I don't really care, but am I wrong to be a bit.. you know.. offended?

It sounds like she's using you, you can either stick with her and let her keep using you or go on a hunt for someone else that's at least less fake than her. There's got to be SOMEONE sane in your school :P
♥Em

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Weird, I know, but does anyone know where I can find a place online that sells like Japanese style clothing for teens, but its in English and possibly shipped from the USA? Even if it's on the style, it's fine with me, or any other country's styles- I love unique looks.. thanks!

Try onatoko.com
I think that's the address o.O
♥Em

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hi, i'm new to this subject, how often do you recommend changing a tampon? and is it okay for ppl who just got their 'aunt flow' visit for the first time recently to wear them? thanks

It depends on the type of tampon you're using. It's normally 6-8 hours. If you're not sure and want to make sure if you give it a little pull, if you feel a little pain when pulling and/or it feels a bit hard to pull out then it normally means it's not been fully used so it's not ready to come out (I'm not 100% that actually works but says that on the back of the box of tampons I have,lol)
Also, it is okay for you to wear them when you first get your monthly bitch so don't worry about it :)

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ok well im a 13 yr old female and i had my FIRST period on the 7th and now i am having it again on the 28 and i dont no if this is normal please help me and i am a virgin so i no im not pregnat



thx 4 ur help i ll hate 5's to EVERY1!

Do't worry about it, it's normal for the first 2 or 3 years of your period to be irregular.
When I first got my period I would skip periods for like 2 months then i'd end up having periods for 10 days then for only 1 and so on.
It's perfectly normal for them to be irregular.
♥Em

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i have a really odd habit of looking at peoples mouths when they talk. i am fairly short (often eye level with the chins of my peers), and tend to read lips in a noisy environment or other instances where i have trouble understanding people. Friends have commented on this before and i would really like to stop. Do you have any tips as to how to break this habit? thanks!

Personally I don't think it's an odd or a bad habit. It's just simply a habit.
When you're talking to people remind your self not to look at their mouth. You'll eventually get out of it on your own.
♥Em

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i get these horrible and huge pimples on my vigina ..thay hert bad!!! wut shoul di do ... and i dont have sex or masterbate!

If you shave down there then it could be because of that, shaving wrong or just a normal reaction the vagina has when shaving that will eventually go away when you're used to shaving more but it's recomended you go to a doctor even if it is from shaving because you could be doing something wrong and not know it and you can get creams for it if it's from shaving. If you don't shave then you should definatly see a doctor because it could be some kind of infection.
Good luck.
one love♥Em

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okay, so because i go to a private school, it ends at 4;00 pm
so i get home around 5:00. Everyday of the week i have something afetr school-so by the time i have dinner and start doing homework it is about 8:00, i am so overwelmed but my mom insists on me having these afetr school activities. the only day i have to myself is friday-but my mom usually makes me clean my room or something, so i don't even have that. What should i do, i don't wanna cancel any of them cuz i like them. But i also don't wanna be so tired and nervous all the time. I even have to do my homework in school cuz i don't wanna fail or i wake up at like 5:00 am so that i finish my hw. What should i do?
-dorinflower55

Hey Hun,
Wow, well first of all I wanna give you props for even doing that and not already having a nervous breakdown. I wouldn't be able to do it.

Anyway, you should talk to your mum about it. Sit her down and tell her what you think and what you think should be done.
There's nothing wrong with not being perfect, no one is perfect. Tell your mum that you can't do it all and you're getting really overwhelemed and nervous, which isn't even healthy for you to be nervous all the time and stressed.
Ask her if you can drop some of the after school activities (if you want to) you don't even have to drop them all but one or two would be good (depending on how many you go to)
Anyway, good luck&hope I helped.
one love♥Em

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time now. I love him so much and he asked me to marry him. I told him yes of course because I have never felt this way about anyone and he is flawless. But the thing is, I am only 16 years old. And latley, aka as of two days ago, I have been having doubts and it doesnt feel the same. Nothing happened between us, it just feels different. I want to love this guy again, because the love I had for him was perfect. I dont want to lose him for feeling this. What can I do to 'rekindle' the flame again?

Hey Hun,
First off, congrats on getting engaged.
I'm sure what you're expierencing isn't anything to worry about it, alot of people I know have had 'second thoughts' about getting married.
You should tell him you both need to wait for a couple of years till you get married, till your both older and both know what you want. If he loves you which I'm assuming he does seeing as he asked you to marry him.
Spend some extra time with him doing romantic things or anything that you like to do together see if your mind changes. Just don't jump to conclussions too fast and call off the engagement because you might be misreading your feelings.
Hope I helped
& congrats, good luck ...and all that good stuff =P
♥Em

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is it stupid for me to want to impress a guy by wearing a skirt and do my hair good? i mean i really like him and i really wanna impress him. also, do u know of anything else i can do to impress him?

Of course it's not stupid as long as you don't go over the top&wind up looking like a slut, lol.
♥Em

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I haven't started my lawnmower since last fall. Is there anything I should do to it before I start it up again?

Make sure there's enough gas in & clean it out.
♥Em

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so i`m getting my belly button pierced tomorrow afternoon, but i also play soccer. So after i get my belly button pierced how long will it take until i can sprint again? and also when can i take it out?

It might hurt for a couple of days when you get it done like when you sit down or do anything that could make the piercing move a bit. If there's anyway you can put practice off for a couple of days till the pain goes away then you should be fine or if you think you can stand the pain of sprinting you could just go to practice anyway because it won't affect it. Just make sure you don't get hit with anything on it.
♥Em

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Alright, this is a stupid question, but today I purchased a D.A.R.E. shirt at Hot Topic. Under it, it reads "To Keep Kids Off Drugs." Does this have deeper meaning? Because on the standard D.A.R.E. shirts (like the official ones) they read "To Resist Drugs And Violence." I was wondering if "To Keep Kids Off Drugs" has any deeper meaning? I don't want to go to school with people laughing or something. Thanks.

I'm pretty sure D.A.R.E is a programme to teach kids the consecuenses of drugs. It stands for Drug Abuse Resistance Education. No one will laugh at you for wearing it so don't worry about it.
♥Em

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i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him so much, like he is everything i dreamed of.. but the other day like one of my best friends *bob* told me that he has liked me since sixth grade, that i am amazing, and he is so jealous of my boyfriend, and how perfect i am and how much i mean to him.. and the thing is i liked *bob* for like 4 years and then i met my boyfriend. i talked to my mom about it.. and she said i shoudl try hanging out with *bob* to see if i like him or w/e so i went to the movies with him last night.. and had SO much fun.. would this be considered cheating ? am i a terrible person for like questioning my love for my bf ? and what do you think is the best way for me to tell my bf about this... ?

15-f if that makes any difference..

♥Hey hun,
No, it's not considered cheating if you didn't do anything with *bob* and you're not really questioning the love for your boyfriend you have you're questioning the love you have for *bob*.
You should get to know *bob* better and see what you think of him be careful what you do though make sure you are sure about it before jumping in there because if you make a mistake and things with you and *bob* don't work out you won't be able to run back to your boyfriend.
Good luck.
♥Em

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OK, so yesterday me and this girl got into a fist fight in the hallway and it started with like 4 people watching, but quickly it turned to like 30 people or more.....I'm not joking!!!!!So the girl scratched my face up and pulled my hair and made me look all torn up and I didnt make her look that bad....(I threw a couple good punches in the stomach). We spent the whole day in detention. Now everybody is saying how I lost the fight and how the girl tore me up, but really, i think nobody won. People in my school are so mean to me. (P. S. I go to Jr. High school in N.Y., so its madd tough)Well I just need to know what to say to these people before they torment me 4 ever. it really matters to me.~!~~~ plz help.

Who cares what they say? I know you said it matters to you but still, you shouldn't care. They're just immature seeing as I bet most of them people wouldn't dare fight there own fights.
As soon as something more intresting happens they'll get over it and forget all about it.
If you're THAT worried about it beat her ass again and show them all what you've got ;]
♥Em

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well i decided to have a sleep-over but i dont know what i should do or what movies i sohlud rent.. pleez help me out here. if u say truth or dare please give examples.

Rent loads of movies, chick flicks are a big hit at sleepovers (providing you're all girls lol), scary movies, comedys.
Get in loads of food - soda, pizza, sweets..
If you're all girls then makeovers and stuff are always good for birthdays.
Prank calls, calling boys...stuff like that.
Truth or dare is good, I can't give you ideas for dares because some dares just pop in to your head in the heat of the moment which is much better than.
If you're both girls and boys you could do a spin the bottle and a truth or dare where if you don't do your dare you have to take something you're wearing off (including jewlery and shit) lmao.
Anyways, hope I helped.
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