HEY EVERYONE, I'M KAT!
and i'm here to help :)
i love to give advice, and i've been told that i give some good advice, aswell.
i'm very dedicated once i get involved in someone's problems, and i'll probably make sure you're okay, and that my answer has been sufficent.
i don't 'sugarcoat' my answers, as just about every columnist on this site complains about, but i do present everything in a way that people will be able to handle, and relate to in their situation.
i could honestly care less about ratings, i just wanna help some people out. in my problems, current and past, i seek help through my friends, who i adore.
i'm a huge my chemical romance fan, and i know pretty much everything about them; so if you have a question on them, i'm here. go for it. ;)
i'm unique in my own way, so ask me for something, and i'll give you a fairly different answer.
XOXO
KAT!
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ive had discharge for about 3 years now and im 13, but i havent gotten my period. i was in health class and it said to get your period you must have boobs[[or small ones..ha like me!]] you get discharge, pubic hair, and on eother thing that i have gotten!!! i think something is rong with me. both sides of my family seem to have gotten there period young, or who ive talked to, my aunt my mom, and my other aunt. is something worong with me???? (link)
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Don't worry, you're normal. It just takes a while for you to actually get your period, after all the signs come up. =)
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i want more guy friends. like, it's not even about getting or a boyfriend or flirting or anything. i'm just SOOO tired of all the stupid, immature, catty drama that comes along with girl friends. i have a couple guy friends, but not alot - only one really good one. how do i make more? i really want more really good guy friends. any advice? thanks so much! (link)
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Haha, this makes me soo happy I've got a big group of guy friends.
Warning you, though.. the only thing that can get dramatic with these guy friends, is that once they start to like you.. things may get awkward..
My reccomendation; honestly act like a guy. Haha, not in a gross, burping, ect. way, but make jokest all the time, and don't act really shy! Also, hang out with a big group of them. That's basically how I got to be good friends with my guy friends.
You said you've got one really good guy friend? Maybe talk to some of his friends. It's always great when everyone knows each other well. It makes a kind of 'crew' and it's amazing. =)
-Kat!
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i have a problem. ive been friends with this kid 'tom'. we're really, really close, and i just recently found out he likes me because he told one of my friends, who eventually told me. i was shocked, yet happy at the same time. Ever since i found this out, we have been together all the time in school. [in the halls, ect.] we also have a couple classes together and we text all the time in class. =X, ha, anyways, i have concluded that i really like him, alot, which is great for me because ive had trouble likeing someone ever since my last relationship i was in.[it was terrible.] But, theres one problem, hes 100% mexican, and pretty dark. Im irish, and my dad has a huge problem, and won't let me date anyone who's 'not white'. This bothers me because he is honestly, one of the nicest, and best friend i could ever ask for, and i really, really like him, and would love to date him. But i know my dad wouldn't approve. How could i try to talk to my dad about allowing me to be with him ? =/ (link)
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Aw, my parents are kind of like that, too.. I really don't like that situation. =(
Try going to your dad and telling him how much of a great guy this kid is. Also, even tell him how much better he seems than the last guy, how sweet he is, and stuff like that.
Also, make sure your dad knows that you're a fairly young age, so he wouldn't have to really 'worry' about anything, and express how whether you're the same color or not, it makes no difference.
Maybe even let your dad meet this kid; I know, it sounds kinda harsh, but it just might work if he's really polite or anything.
Honestly, to me, color means absolutely nothing. Maybe make that clear to your dad?
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I am inlove with this song, and I don't know what its called. I only know one part of it. And its not much..Please Help..Thanks In Advance...
We in the car we ride slow...sumthin...doing what we girls gon Do. (link)
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Danity Kane, I can't remember the name of the song, but go to youtube and search them, you should find the music video. =)
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is it true that giving a guinea pig a bath is bad
for them? why? doesn't it clean them? like
even in shallow water in the bathtub? what if
they like to swim? you dont have to answer
all those questions but just give me some gen-
eral feedback. thanks! :] (link)
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I'm pretty sure it's not good for their fur, if you use regular shampoo.
If it's a special guinea pig shampoo, then they should be fine. Also, if they go swimming, make sure you keep them really dry and wrapped up afterwards! They can get sick really easily!
If you want to clean your guinea pig, I've heard you can sprinkle VERY SMALL amounts of baby powder on it's fur. =)
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Im not sure if this is coincidence or not but do you think the terrorists planned it to be on the day in which the numbers are the same for if you have an emergency (911). The cahnces are 1 in 365 which seems pretty uncoincidental. Any opinions?? (link)
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I'd asked about that in like second grade after it had happened; as far as I know, they did plan it. I mean, I'm pretty sure the group who planned that knew enough about America's emergancy response systems, to kind of rub it in our faces that it's 9/11
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ok how come degrassi the next generation isn't coming on the N tonite? i thought there was a
new episode every night. (link)
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Nope, there's usually a new episode every Friday night, but they might need more ideas, so may take a little longer. If there was going to be a new episode, they would've advertised it during the week.
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I'm looking for some new books to read. I go through like a book a week, and I'm running out of books. I'm 15/F. I like fantasy/romance type books. Does anybody have any suggestion for any books/authors that are good? (link)
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Oh gosh, look for Twilight and New Moon by Stephanie Meyer. =)
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ok so i wuz wondering where do u go to get those scroll down things for music and that other other stuff on yur myspace? and also where can i get a scroll thing for my comments? any help please? (link)
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whateverlife.com is amazing. Go to myspave basics (one or two) and you should find the code there. Check out some of their other stuff, too!
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i got caught with a drug and now all i want to do is put it all behind me. i never want to do it again but its hard because some of my friends still do it. i need distractions or something. how do i keep myself away from drugs? (link)
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Aw, it's great that you wanna move away from all that.
Make sure you start making other friends. I'm not saying you should completly ditch your friends who do that (though I honestly probably would..) but make sure you're not near them when their using. If they are, just go hang out with some of your other friends.
If there's some reason you can't leave, just have a good time along with them, MINUS THE DRUGS. Eh, I guess you could always just ask them to be polite and wait till you leave, too. If their really your friends, they should just wait..
Hope this has helped at all.
Ksat
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Basically I just need some conversation ideas. What kind of things do girls like to talk about with boys. Also any tips for flirting with a girl. Thanks a lot. (link)
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Just talk about things she's interested in. Playfully make fun of her. Also, talk about really stupid ideas, just plain make her laugh! That always works. =). Smile at her if you see her in the halls, and don't ditch her when your friends come by, keep talking with her.
Also, if you really like this girl, make sure you're there for her. Talk to her when she's sad and cheer her up.
She'll think it's adorable. =)
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I have the sims 2 and I used the boolprop cheat code before but out of no where one of the toddlers could not be controlled. the parent kept trying to feed it and bathe it but the child would just lay there and sometimes the toddler would float. i tried everything and the social worker was not even able to take it away. i deleted the toddler and it keeps coming back everytime i play the family again how can i make the toddler work? your help would be much appreciated thanks (link)
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You could try to get the tombstone of life and death up. Then, right click the toddler and add it to the family. If this dosen't work, delete the toddler, and use the Tombstone of life and death and try to add the toddler again.
If that still dosen't work, try deleting the toddler, and make sure you save!
Maybe try turning boolprop off, too if that's possible?
I hope this helps at all!!
Kat
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i really really want to lose weight, particularly from my face. i want to have a skinny face where you can see your cheekbones and if you don't smile you still look pretty and not fat. but giving up food is not an option. trust me, i've tried everything. i cannot give up junk food. i cannot give up pigging out or eating when i'm bored. what can i do exercise-wise to combat this? i already play tennis every day after school but that's about all the exercise i get. would walking help? please help! i really want to be able to wear a small again. right now i'm a large. (link)
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I wouldn't really reccomend concentrating on muscle exercise if you're more concerned about your face. Try alot of cardio, it will help you burn calories, and though you can't target one area, the fat will slowly widdle off of all your fat sources. Walking should help. Walk in all your spare time, and maybe move it up to jogging, and distance running. It will really help. Biking would also be really good. Challenge yourself everyday to see how far you can go. Maybe even challenge yourself compared to a friend who also wants to lose weight. See how many miles you each can accomplish in a week. Then have some kind of reward at the end of the week, like you two can go somewhere to eat, and the loser pays or something. It will get your mind off snacking, and onto the challenge.
Just always remember, you're gorgeous the way you are. Don't size yourself up to make yourself more appealing to anyone else!!
Kat
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do not send me to the FAQ.
how many 5's does it take to go up by one point after
getting a 4?
eg. i had a 4.89 rating. i got one 4. it went down to
4.88. i got 3 fives & it went up to 4.89.
or does it all depend on how many ratings / points
you have?
thaaanksss (link)
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I'm pretty sure it depends on overall how many people have rated you. Then its' kind of like a ratio, that five compared to all of the other points you've gotten. For example, it's easier to get a full five if only five people have rated you.
I agree with the last user who posted. Just concern yourself with giving honest, and the best advice you can to your ability.
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hey everyone i have this huge pimple above my lips :( how do you pop a pimple?? please anwser as soon as possible ty ty ty !! (link)
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I really really, REALLY do not reccomend popping it. If it's ready to be popped, it will turn whitish, and then you're supposed to pop it. If you do it too soon, it will bleed and most likely scar. You can also spread acne this way. Believe me, I had HORRIBLE acne for years. I'd reccomend just putting some topical cream above your lip, and using coverup until it ends up going down.
It's definitely more worth it to just wait it out than to deal with more possible acne, and the possibility of scarring. Yuck!
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Okay, I have long naturally straight hair and I really want to curl it but nothing seems to come out right
I've tried using curling tongs, plaiting it for waviness, scrunching it with mousse when it's wet .. but none of it really looks good.
The best one was the curling tongs but it takes so long, it's bad for my hair and at the end of it to be honest, my hair looks a bit messy.
Has anyone got any tips on how to curl it? (link)
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I've got the same problem as this.
What I do, is either take my shower at night, and put my hair up in a very sloppy bun while it's still wet. When I wake up, it's nice and curly.
Or, if you take your showers in the morning, you can put the bun in right after your shower, dry your hair (with the bun still in). Take the bun out, and dry the remaining we hair. It will most likely be less of a curl, but it's neater looking in my opinion. Less frizzy. =P
FYI-You can also vary how much of your hair is curled. The higher the bun, the higher the curl starts, and vice versa.
This really works for me. =)
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ok, so i have an 8th grade graduation coming up, and ive been looking for a really cute graduation dress. i have the perfect dress in my mind, i just cant seem to find a pretty dress anywhere. Im looking for a kind of baby doll dress, thats dressy. Maybe a short dress to the knee or something. Please help! (link)
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Wetseal has adorable dresses that fit this description. =)
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ON my upper right thing I get this pinched pain that really kills its so painful and when i touch my leg with my hand i cant even feel it what do you think is wrong? (link)
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From my personal experience, it sounds like you've probably sprained a muscle in your leg. If the pain dosen't go away in a few days, see a doctor, but as far as i know, it should all be fine.
Kat
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HI.
i really need ur help. im having a baby shower for my sister. what kind of games can i do. and also what gifts. I have no idea and its coming up. please help.
thak you (link)
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I'd go with really girly, teenage kind of things to do. It may sound stupid, but it's like going back to the 'old days'. Hahah.
Gifts, you may want to go with things your sister and the baby will really need first. If she's already got everything she absolutely needs, get the baby some toys, or maybe buy them a bunch of diapers, haha. It may sound stupid, but it will really come into use for once she actually has the baby.
Good luck, and congrats on the baby!
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umm i havent gotten my period for two months already. is that normal. i havent had any intercourse so i cant be pregnat. what wrong?
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Sometimes at a younger age, your period can be irregular. No worries, you may actually miss it for a couple more months, in a few years, it should even out. =)
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