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hey.. i have been talking to this guy who lives kind of far awaay like 45 minutes away and i am starting to mike himn alot and he told me he liked me he is so cute ytoo but i had a boyfriend when i told him this and now he has a girlfriend and i broke up with my boyfriend cause i liked him and i dont know what to do! help =/

Okay..let me get this straight...So..you broke up with your boyfriend because you like that guy who lives kind of far away, right??And now your boyfriend has a girlfriend, am I right??Well, if I'm right..Do you still love your boyfriend?Who do love more?that guy or your boyfriend?If you like that guy more, just let your boyfriend happy by having a new girlfriend, but, if you like your boyfriend more, tell him that you still love him more that you love that guy..Maybe he'll understand it..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid

OMG!!I have the same problem..But don't worry..I'm shy too..LoL..Well, one day before the presentation, I practiced my speech infront of the mirror..And don't forget to pretend that no one's watching you, so you won't be so afraid of it..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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theres tis girl who is totally obbsessed with me, shes attractive looking but i dont really think that it would work, and besides i already have a girlfriend. i wanna tell her that i dont like her but she cried cuz i wouldnt tell her if i liked her so i dont want to totally crush her heart so is there a way that i can tell her i dont like her without her getting crushed into amillion tiny peices

The most polite way to tell her that..is to ask her if she wants to be your friends..I meant your best friend..Than if she wants to be your best friend, tell her that you already have a girlfriend..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!


Which do you like more?Jon or Bob?If you like bob more..then tell jon that you can't go out with him anymore..But, after i read this sentence (i have always wanted to go out with bob)I think you better go out with bob..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Ok I have this friend who has to be exact all the time and when I say something and it isnt exact she always corrects me.I know its not a big deal and its probably really mean for me to say this but it just bugs the crap out of me!! Please help!!

Well, tell her about it..Maybe she'll understand it..coz nobody's perfect..except God..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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when is harry potter and the goblet of fire's nyc premeire? where can i find details on this?
plz help i rate high

jami

I found this website..

http://harrypotter.warnerbros.com/gobletoffire/index.html

Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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I really like this guy and well I try to tell myself that I don't. I have been going out with him on and off for a few years and well everytime we go out after a while he likes another girl and he goes out with her (he's done this twice to me) and so he breaks up with me.. we are still friends and talk but it kills me and I try to tell myself I don't like him because he's sorta a "player" but I don't know what to do...??

Wow..I kinda have the same problem like you..I like a boy..he's a player..LoL..what i did is..just try to forget him..and get to know new guys..Hope I helped! Good Luck!

-ViTaChaN-

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13/f he is 14/m
Theres this guy that i've been talking to online for about a year. We eventually exchanged cell phone numbers and have talked on the phone. He is really nice and I find myself feeling in love with him. I know people probably think internet love is a bust but that's how I feel when I talk to him. He isn't one of the guys that wants to have cyber sex either, just to talk. He's always there when I need him and he's very sweet and he is always looking out for my best interests as well. I want to meet him but I don't know if I should. He lives about an hour away from me and he was planning on taking a train to visit me. I know there are some freaks out there, but I don't think he comes off as one of them and I also know to be careful and if I were to meet him I would bring a friend, of course. I don't know what to do, the train station is public but the town is small so not a whole bunch of people would be there. Please give me advice.

I aggred with fcelcia..I think you should meet him!!So, you're not gonna be questioned for along time about him..And don't forget to bring your friend..LoL..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my x boyfriend are broke up but we still act like were together. we still say i love you and everything. but he is moving to georgia and if he wants to get back together i dont know what to do cause i really love him but i dont know if any one has advice plz help i rate high!!

If you still like him, just go back to him..Hope i helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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ok...heres the story...
boys starts liking girl, girl doesnt like boy, boy and girl hang out for some time, girl starts liking boy but doesnt know what to do!!
*by the way, the boy is shy and the girl is far from it...please help!!!!!!

Okay..it's kinda stupid..lol..im just kidding..don't get mad at me, ok? If i were you, im gonna tell that boy that im starting to like him..And don't forget to ask him about his feeling to you!! Hope i helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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what do boys see or like most in girls
eyes
nose
hair
legs
arms
boobs
please i rate high

Well, if boys really like you..they'll like everything about you..Ok, btw, i think they'll see or like most is eyes..Coz, eyes show everything..when you're down, happy, or feeling lonely..it'll all show up in your eyes..And also smile!!Boys like when girls give them sweet smile..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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I have this really difficult problem... Ren, my bestfriend, likes me. We like each other since sixth grade. But neither one of us thought that we would go on dating. Then we have another problem: I live in different country. It's like no connection between us at all. I was really sad. I could not contact him or else. After eleven months I lived far away, then I come back for summer holiday. I told him that I like him since sixth grade and he actually feels the same thing. But the only problem that he has is that I'm leaving in two weeks. He says that he can't go out with me for that reason. For him, distance is a big problem. What should I say to him? Iwant him to be my boyfriend, but I'm afraid that I'll be hurt someday. He's right, distance is a big problem. If he finds somebody else, I'll be hurt badly. Should I tell him that I want him to be my boyfriend or just to be my bestfriend?

Okay..If I were you, I'll make like a promise..You know like lil kids like to make a promise..(ex:when im 16, im gonna marry you, or something.)Make that kind of promise..Just say like this: "when i come back here,do you want to be my boyfriend?" If he says yes, that means he promises you that he'll be your boyfriend someday..If he says no..just wait and see if he still likes you or not...Hope i helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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I have these friends of mine. They were my best friends. Even though we go to different schools, I still spend lots of time with them. I really loved them, no matter what happened between us. Some people said that I was so stupid that I trusted them so bad that I have never thought bad things about them.
Few days ago, one of my friends came to me and told me that all of my friends were talking bad things about me. I did not trust him, of course, cause I believed that my friends would not do such a thing to me.
Then, when I checked my e-mail, I found a message for me. It was all bad things about me. It was from my friends. I was so shock that I spend my time crying with my boyfriend. My boyfriend, which was my closest best friend too, told me that even though my friends hated me, he would stay with me. But actually, his words did not calm me down. I still worried about my friends. I did not hate them, and I would never do, but I could not forget what they said about me. Now, I'm avoided and hated by my friends. And they avoid my boyfriend in their school too!! I really don't know what to do... Please help me!!!

-brokenheart girl-

Ask them why they did that to you..Maybe they just think that you don't care about them anymore because you have new friends or sumthing..But then tell them about your condition..maybe they will understand you..Hope i helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i have a lot of guy friends and less girl freinds and its been like that for like my whole life and im like not the tomboy type and im like girly as everyone saya. i have girl freinds like a lot but i have more guys. what does taht mean? sometimes i think taht girls dont liek me cuz im like too boyish but everyone says im not? then wat does that mean?
13/f

Well..don't worry about that..coz i hav the same problem like u too..Maybe you're more comfortable with guyz than girlz..that's okay..hope i helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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what do you need to do to get attention from a guy that youve liked for like ever?
im 13/f and i like a 15 yr old guy
thankz

Try to talk to him..Well, first..be his friend..that's important..coz lot of guys don't want to talk to someone they don't know..Hope i helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Ok well ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years. We really love each other and we live with each other. Hes been telling me latley that i dont act like i care about him. I really do and i tried telling him this and he says i dont act it and i dont show him that i care and love him..What do i do to show him that i really do wanna be in a relationship an i do love and care about him..ive tried talkin to him..an it doesnt seem to work..is there certain stuff that needs to be said? what i dont wanna loose him an i wanna be with him..but i need to know he knows i love him

i rate 5's

Well..i think you should talk to him about how much you love him..or..if he doesn't want to listen to you..leave him a message..maybe that's the best way..hope i helped!!

-ViTaChaN-

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do anyone knows how to graph a piecewise function????? just asking..........hey wanna be friend???????????????

Hey..I don't know the answer,but I wanna be your friend..LOL..

-ViTaChaN-

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Can anybody (please!) explain to me the term(s) "equity singer" or "equity dancer" or "equity actor". I came across the term when I was looking through auditions/casting calls, and I'm really not sure what it means! Thanks in advance!

Well,I got this website..

http://www.answers.com/equity&r=67

Hope I helped!!

N.B:that website is about equity..

-ViTaChaN-

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i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!!

Just calm down first..Tell her slowly about it.. Don't get panic first.. Ok??You've shoulda told her before..Hope she won't get mad at you..
Hope I helped!!

-ViTaChaN-

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im not sad, but yet i dont feel like i should be living, the past few days i havent been myself and i really need help right now, maybe just words of encouragement to keep me going. please n thank you

Just don't feel bad about your self..Everybody need you..God loves you, and everyone does too..Just be yourself, and do the best you can.. Hope I helped!!

-ViTaChan-

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