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Question Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 8:24 pm

I really like this guy and well I try to tell myself that I don't. I have been going out with him on and off for a few years and well everytime we go out after a while he likes another girl and he goes out with her (he's done this twice to me) and so he breaks up with me.. we are still friends and talk but it kills me and I try to tell myself I don't like him because he's sorta a "player" but I don't know what to do...??

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confusedbabii answered Saturday August 6 2005, 10:03 pm:
this guy is no good. i suggest you keep it on a just friends basis. i had a boyfriend like this and he is just going to screw you over time after time again. guys like this are no good and if you stay away from him, he'll have no one to turn to once he breaks up with these other girls, and then he'll have screwed himself over. i'm sorry this guy had to happen to you...i know the feeling. hope i helped!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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*BraNdi* answered Saturday August 6 2005, 10:02 pm:
if you tell yourself you dont like him..then you probably really dont. and even if you do..you say hes done it to you twice..well he'll probably do it again..so why not find someone who you know that you like that wont do that to you.

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Alpha345 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:47 pm:
He obviously doesn't like you like you like him. You deserve a better guy than that. He is just going to keep doing the same thing to you if you let him. I say get rid of him, he is only going to hurt you more if you stay around him and he obviously doesn't care enough about you to stop himself from cheating with other girls. Let him go and try and find a better guy because you deserve it. Even though you probably will think you can't live without him, you can and you will find a way, but to do that you have to seperate yourself from him and find someone better.

I hope this helped and you get over this guy and find a better guy!

-Ryan

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0xjennaxheartx0 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:44 pm:
you may like him, and there is nothing wrong with that. i suggest that even though you really like him and that you want to go out with him, dont. if he has already broken your heart twice, he will surely do it again. you may go on liking him, and i know there is no way to persuade yourself not to. but if you feel that he is a player and that you dont think he would be a good boyfriend, only stay as friends.

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Courtney answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:31 pm:
First of all, stop lying to yourself because you aren't helping anyone . You're punishing yourself and that is absolutely...wrong. Have you ever really considered the fact that this guy isn't the right person for you and that you're wasting very complex emotions upon someone who likes to play games. And of course, if you're not the kind of person who likes to play games, then he definitely isn't the one for you. Haven't you ever thought that you just might deserve what's the word...better. I know that I might sound mean but I don't like to see girls all worked over guys and I've been that way too. It's about what you want, and if he does that to you, you need to know that it's emotional sort of abuse. So it's up to you if you want to be his doormat or not. Sorry but he views you as safe and really you sort of are. Let him know the contrary. Sorry if I was harsh. GOODLUCK.

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ESMEDINzBABE answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:08 pm:
uhnnn.. not to be rude but you deserve better!! That means hes just breaking up wth you for some one he likes better which is dumb!!I say dont stay with him!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~*

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ViTaChaN answered Saturday August 6 2005, 8:39 pm:
Wow..I kinda have the same problem like you..I like a boy..he's a player..LoL..what i did is..just try to forget him..and get to know new guys..Hope I helped! Good Luck!

-ViTaChaN-

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