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I'm just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I took the midnight train going anywhere. XD Sorry, I like that song. Anywho ^^ Hey! I'm Vera, I love lots of things, like art! I'm a pretty blunt person, so I hope I don't hurt your feelings when I give you my advice. ^^ I hope I will be able to help you guys!

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if ever i am talking to a guy, my friend always butts into teh conversation and will start to talk. even if the conversation has absolutly nothing to do with her. and sometimes these guys she isn't even freinds with! or i will talk to a guy then she will be like Bobbbbb!!!!! Bobbbb!!!! And it gets so annoying. How can I get her to stop?

the best way is to talk to her about it, but be really nice about it...and you know what else the prblem can be is that she is jealous of you that you talk to more guys and she doesn't, and since your there she can talk to them! honestly, the best way to handle this is to talk to her! Hoped I helped, and I wish you luck!

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I have this friend.She is a really great person to be around but sometimes she hits me for no reason.She pulls my hair and i yell at her and tell her to stop but she keeps on doing it anyways.What should i do?I already talked to her about it.

have you told your mom or dad? Tell them...NOW! If you told her to stop, and she doesn't, that's kinda bullying. Tell your parents(as I said) and tell your principal at your school, Your friend will get in trouble, but atleast you won't have to suffer getting hit and getting your hair pulled. If your friend gets mad, tell her you told her to stop and she didn't, and you didn't want to get hurt anymore. Hoped I helped, and good luck!

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ok i've been trying to cut back for the past 2 weeks. i wouldn't really say it was an actual DIET per say, but i guess it is. for breakfast i've been having a bowl of special k & for lunch i've been having a mix of things. usually gram crackers carrots dole peaches apple/apple sauce & yoplay yogurt. i mix those things up each day. i have a bottle of water with it also. for dinner, i try cutting back. i eat whatever my parents make, because i don't want to waste food. so lets say they make steak & potatos. i'll have a small piece of steak and 1 sweet potato. stuff like that. even if they have bbq and fries. ill take the bbq without the roll and a few fries. i've cut out my snacks & have not aten past 7 pm. also, i'm on an ankle injury so i can't play sports. i've been running/walking/jogging about 30 minutes 5 days a week. will this do it!? or will i have to work harder. also, how do i avoid talking about it at lunch. we sit at 1 big table & they always make comments like "oh yeah shes dieting again". it really bothers me because i don't want anyone to talk about it. also-i am a female [obviously] im 5'9 & i weigh around 140. am i being ridiculous?? i just want to lose stomach weight. any help is appreciated.

thanks!!

Ok, it looks like you really wanna lose some stomache weight, if you want it just do sit-ups or something like that. It should help tons, also, if you do wanna lose weight try doing yoga(can't tell you how many people I tell that too) it really helps, it'll tone your muscles and help you lose weight too. ^^ Hoped I helped, and if you need more advice about it message me!

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Okay... Well there's this girl at school named Rachel. She's such a pretty, outgoing, and smart girl. We use to be friends but then when I shouted for her to come with me to our next class or else we'll get detention if were late. But what she said she heard me say that I called her a hoar. I didn't I tried apologizing to her and everything but she won't even look at me anymore. Or even talk to me anymore. Now their's this guy named Phillip became friends with her and with her other girl friends like their one big popular group. But today She actually looked happy to see me well at least I thought... I actually got to tell one of my jokes and she actually laughed and we had a blast for 5 minutes then it was over. Do you think she wants to be friends again or no??? What should I do???????????????????

Ok, if you want to be friends with her, or even try to get your friendship to a better level, apologize. It is the WORST thing in the world for a guy to call a girl a Whore, and maybe she does want to get your friendship back. You should go on with what your doing, but try to talk to her more, but don't seem like 'We've GOT to be friends' You lost the friendship, so it'll take awhile to get it back. I hoped I helped, if you need more advice from me message me, I'll be happy to help you out.

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I really like this guy and dont know if he likes me back but it seems as if he is giving me all the signs what do I do. I LOVE him real LOVE. HELP ME PLEASE

Umm..may I say one thing please? Us teenagers (or preteens) Don't know much about TRUE love...we know TONS about Teen love alright? Anyway, if he is giving you signs, go for it! Flirt with him back and if he flirts with you back, it says something! or it means the guy is a flirt! Anyway, maybe ask your friend to ask his friend to find out if he likes you! Hoped I helped

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okay im 14 years old and i weight 120 pounds. oh yeha im like 5"4 i want to loose weight because i feel so fat. yeah i know watch what i eat. i dont eat junk food or fast food. i know that i could do sit ups push ups cruntches running jogging but do you guys have any other tips i could do cause i want to loose 15 pounds. please help me!!! thankyouu so much

Well, I can tell you stuff that helped me cause I did weigh that much and I'm your age. I didn't drink soda or antying after 6 pm, and drank lots of water and ate alot of fruit. And , I didn't do this but I'm about too, maybe do yoga, you can get a DVD and do it at home or go to a class. Doing yoga will tone your muscles and help you lose some weight.

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im 14 im from england
i have been with my girl freind for quite some time now and normally when im with her we talk for hours upon end. now either im getting realy parranoid but for some reason now i just cant talk to her for hours upon end and i have no idea why. i no its weird but could some one please help me out.

Wow...this is kinda a hard thing to answer. Well, usually if that happens..you've run out of things to talk about, but seeing as you said that you can talk for hours I don't really think that is the case...but it could be. Maybe talk to your girl friend about it, ask her what she thinks. BUt if you don't want to do that, just sit down and really think about why your parranoid and why you can't talk to her. I hoped I helped

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about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?



f/13

Well, yes he can tell you that...and you can't sure him unless he did something against his medical practices or something against the law. BUT if he told you right when you saw him...I don't think he should've said ANYTHING. Talk to him with you parents around and see if there is anything that you can do and all that...and if you want something that has worked with me with alot of things (I don't have leaukemia or anything, but I do have a Chronic Lyme disease)If you can, pick up the book "The power of your subconious mind" It tells you stuff that can help you get better, but if you don't want to read it, do this. Tell yourself every night before you go to bed a couple times "My body is fighting leaukemia and my body is winning" And things about how your going to live and everything. Cause your suconious mind will do anything that you tell it to do, but you have to believe what your telling yourself or it won't work! I wish you the best of luck!

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ok so on friday i dumped my boy freind it was our 3 week i told him i was sorryy and i dont want to hurt him and all that corny stuff that just has to be said in a 13 yr old breakup [hehehe] he ended up dateing someone that SAMEDAY this made me very mad i dont know why it just did.how could he be over me that quick?so anyway that night i went to this dance with my friends kaycee and and chandra and jessica my ex was there aswell as his cousin who is my friend well since my friends are there friends aswell we were all hanging out it was great fun and i was feeling better untill his stupid newgirlfriend came then i got really mad and freaking out and every time they danced i left i couldnt satnd to watch them and then my friend kaycee saw his cousin makeing out with some random chick and since she like his him we all freaked out i went crazy on him even though i wasnt mad at him i was mad at my ex now my ex and his cousin are both mad at me and i have no clue what to do or why this thing with braedon[my ex] is bothering me help!!

I guess since your feeling mad and everything, maybe you still care about him. And since he moved on THAT quick...Too me, it seems like he is trying to get you jealous or something. If you want to get back together or something, talk to him. If you don't, enjoy the single life and you and you girlfriends go out and boy scout and party and stuff.I hoped I helped

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Okay well my bf is 17 and I am 14..
We were thinking about having sex but we had 2nd thoughts because of diseases and pregnancy.
I don't know if he doesn't have any diseases and I'm not sure if I do.
But he really wants to do a lot of sexual things.
He wants to have anal with me and I don't really want to because I hear from a lot of my friends that it hurts.
But this may seem weird but we sometimes have phone sex and masturbate to each other while talking on the phone..
When we're together we're always making out and trying new things together but we haven't gotten to sex.
I'm not sure if I should have anal or sex with him.

Mallamun is right! Your not sure on what to do, it mean YOU AREN"T READY TO HAVE SEX! To me, your to young to have sex, and if your boy-friend is like, saying stuff about having sex, I don't think you should be with him, though it isn't up to me. And since your having 2nd thoughts, that means, you shouldn't have sex! I'm not trying to sound like a girl who is saying "NO SEX!" But it is true! 2nd thoughts, or un sure about it means you shouldn't do it!

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I'm really scared for my friend, she's going out with a guy who is like WAY older than her! SERIOUSLY OLDER by like, EIGHT or NINE years! well at least that's what she told me she might not REALLY be going out with him, she does lie a lot to get attention, but please i need advice to give 2 her

Ok now...8 or 9 years? Sounds like it's a lie! But...I know what your going through...trust me at that. A girl at my school does the same things as your friend. Tell your friend that she shouldn't be going out with an 8 or 9 year old guy! Cause she doesn't know what will happen! If she keeps saying she is seeing him, tell your mom. No...tell your mom now and then tell her. I wish you the best of luck!

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I just created a myspace group and I do not know how to put a layout on there. So if you guys could tell me that, that would be great. And If you guys know anything else that could be helpful, i would really appreciate it.

By the way, the website is http://groups.myspace.com/againstconformities
if you want to join!

A layout? Well, first you need to go to a layout place for myspace like www.codemylayout.com. Choose one you like and then copy the code and put it in your about me section in the edit profile and then click save changes and then there you go! Oh, and if it didn't work, look at your profile but going under you picture and choose "View profile" ^^ Hoped I helped

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ok so my sister moved it was really sad because my dad sat there begging her to stay she is 16 so we couldnt do anything about it.my dad is really sad and really mad he is taking it out on me i dont want to leave because that would hurt him even more.he is great and he would never hurt me but he is being jerk what should ?i do i cant talk to my sis because hse refuses to tell us where she is grr she is makeing me mad!!!how can i keep my family from falling apart? i cant talk to my mom she isnt apart of our life that much i could talk to maria my dads gf but i can never get her alone and she is really cranky lately so i feel i shouldnt do that

You should really talk to your dad, i know he is upset but does he know how much he is upsetting you? and do talk to Maria if you can. If you feel like you really can't, talk to a friend that you trust or ask a teacher or something. And if you feel like you really need to talk to your sis, ask your dad and just say "Dad, I really need to talk to her, may I please know where she is?" If that doesn't work, you could always ask one of your sister's friends' and hope they know where she is, or call her cell phone if she has one. I hoped I helped

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Alright, to make this simple, I'm in love with two guys as weird as it sounds. One of them is my first love ever, and the other is my second. My first love started back in seventh grade, and I'm in 10th now. The second just started this year. My first love wants to be together again so badly, and says he loves me back, but sometimes I don't believe it. We've been on and off since seventh grade also. No one wants me with my second love, including my family, but he loves me so much and I can tell. I think that maybe my first love thinks we're together right now, but a couple of days ago I had sex with the second love =/ I'm not sure what to do right now, and advice would be great. Thank you!

Maybe to choose the guy you want to go out with and stuff, make a list of pros and cons of each one. and then write down how you feel about both of them, the more pros and more feelings should be the guy you like. If it turns into a tie, or you just can't choose, step back and think hard if eithe rone of the guys is right for you!

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I have been having issues with a friend and shes bene doing the same stuff to me for a long time since I met her. Everytime she gets ticked off for no reason, she blames it on a friend and I and we havent done anything to tick her off, etc. She doenst seem to realize though that all she cares is about herself and not us and how we feel, etc. She will not give up that her boyfriend is not good for her. He controls her, etc and she doenst realize he isnt good for her since hes making her uncorforable, etc nad wont give up on him and date other guys sicne hes not really a good boyfriend for her and that she wont get over her ex friend as she keeps sending her unwanted emails, etc and her ex friends has basically told her to leave her alone and stop contacting her. all we kept giving was this friend advice and she doest seem to want to leave her ex friend alone and she dont think that her exfriend will call the cops, etc because she is harassing her ex friend with the unwanted emails, etc and her exfriend doesnt wnat her to email her or have any kind of contact with her anymore for the things she done to her ex friend like tell people to prank call her ex friend, give out her number online for people to prank call her. I was one of the people she told to prank call her ex, but thank good that I didnt plus I cant make long distance phone cals and I dislike talking on the phone and I would never prank call anyone as thats just lame and stupid and her ex best friend has bascially has moved on and she wants nothing to do with my friend but she wont move on! so when ever we give her advice or if we arent doing a thing wrong, she will take her anger out on us which we done nothign wrong to upset her as she has these monthly tantrums where she thinks she can get her own way but she cant and I am really tried of it. I ma begi nning to think I shouldnt be friends with her and want nothign to do with her either like her ex friend becuase I am tired of her and her excuses and she doesnt really care how I feel, etc. So She will stay mad at me for a day or tow then the next day she comes back saying "I miss talking to you, etc" excuse and I am tired of it. I have known her for almost two years and I am sick and tired of her lame excuses, etc. So what should I do? I have tried time and time to try and tell her how I feel but she wont bother to listen to me or a friend or care but only for herself and all she ever talks about is her ex best friend and her boyfriend, etc and she dont bother or care what we say, etc. I know she will come crawling back to me begging for me to talk to her, etc. But I have told her numerous times how I felt along with a good friend of mine and she dont bother to care about us and how we feel, etc but only herself. Thanks. :) anyone ever been in a simular sitsuation or delt with this before? Thanks. :)

I guess the only thing you can do is really just stop hanging out with the girl. I know it sounds harsh and everything but something kinda like this happened to me but just say a friendly hello every now and then and if she truely needs you be there for her. If your friend doesn't care about you or your good friend...is she really a friend? And if your worried about her with the bad boy-friend...try to tell her and if she doesn't listen ask your mom! Really...asking your mom could help, if your mom can't think of anything...let the girl go and learn her own lessons. And the girl's ex-friend, tell her to block her e-mails. I hoped I helped

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i wanna be a barbie for halloween but i dont know what to do.. i have dark hair and dark eyes..... any ideas?

Well, if you want to be a blonde hair and blue eyes barbie I do have some ideas...Well, first you can go to a store and get a blonde wig! Then, go to your eye doctor and ask him for contacts that can make your eyes look blue! And then for your outfit, You can work on that! Hope I helped!

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17 female

I use to babysit my cousin who has autism but then his mom my other cousin fired me becouse I lost him well i thought i did anyway.I looked all over the house for him and when I couldn't find him I got scared so i called my cousin and we got the whole family on a search for him all over the neighborhood when he was in the bathroom the whole time.
How can I make it up to them?

Well, you could always say that your really sorry and that when you couldn't find him that you got scared and called everyone.

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hi guys, where do you get your msn emoticons from?

thanksss.

Well, you can get them from going to http://www.deviantart.com and then look for DA smiles, and if you find someone who makes smiles, all you do is save them and then go to your MSN smile page and browse and get them...it is really simple

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im 13/f and 135 lbs. i want to lose a few inches in my stomach and thieghs. also i would like to lose about 10 lbs too. if anyone knows how to help me, plz tell me. also i amplaying basket ball this eason until febuary. ty!

Well, I know some stuff that has worked for me...really all you have to do is eat right and have like, no candy, and don't have any soft drinks after 6 and drink lots of water, and it is good that you are playing basketball cause it should help.

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OK, well, I really want to start losing weight, again. Now, when I did it before, I tried pills, fad diets & aerobics. The only thing that really takes the weight off of me are the strength training exersizes. You know, like the machines they have at curves. Not just aerobics alone. So, my problem is... I really can't afford to join a gym right now. So, I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what I could use at home to tone my muscles while I lose the weight? Thanks.

^^ Yoga can tone your muscles and if you can buy a video or DVD that shows you how to do everything and you can do it while your at home. It should really help, and what can also help is maybe just to run in the park for awhile! Hope I helped

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