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I'm a 19 year old girl who lives in Arizona...nothing really more to say about that. I am engaged and will be married in October of 2006. Uh...I'm pretty much a nerd at heart. I like to play video games, tabletop RPG's, and cosplay. People always say I don't look like I'd be a nerd, so I guess that's a good thing? I think I give decent advice, however I do like to joke around so sometimes I will post witty/sarcastic advice, especially if the question is stupid.
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Ok so I'm gettin ready to go to the mall and go to the MAC makeup stand..but when you wear mac makeup how much do you have to wear? just the powder? or foundation too? HELP! (link)
MAC makeup is VERY expensive. If you can afford to buy it, then I'd suggest getting everything you can. Foundation, Powder, Gloss...the works. But I don't think you NEED it all.


ok someone connected with me on AIM & told me it was a virus but i didnt mean to connect & it was juss a picture of..something random. is that even possible?

thanks! (link)
It is possible now to send a virus through an image, but it's very rare. I doubt someone send you a virus. Try running a virus scan to make sure.


you told me to go to gurl.com. they didnt really have any techniques unless i buy a book, and i cant buy it right now. if you have th ebook or do you have any ideas? (link)
http://messageboards.gurl.com/gl-yrbody/messages/?topfolder=8


Did you try that part?


Is it normal for a 13-year-old girl to masterbate, or is it just really sick-o for my age? Omg, I'm sooooo embarassed and I think I'm the only one in my grade who does. I feel like such a perv., but I can't help it. I have to cuz it feels so good. So I want to know is, is this unusual for a girl my age? Or something to feel guilty about? (link)
I started masturbating when I was in 6th grade. So don't feel unnatural. Everybody masturbates, and at 13 it is totally normal. I promise you that 90% of your other female friends do it too but wouldn't admit it.


why do guys care if you spit or swallow? (link)
No idea, but I always spit. Well actually, I just let him do it on me, like my chest or my back. They like that too.


okay what i do to masturbate i dont figure myself i just put my finger at the top of down there and wiggle it back and forth really fast. what are other ways i can masturabate to feel really good? im not really comfortable with putting anything inside of me but anything to make my breasts feel good or my vagina? i will rate 5s!!! (link)
I'd suggest going to www.gurl.com

The girls there give great masturbation information for someone who's new to it.


I have applied for at least 50 jobs, I have got refused or no response at all. I need advice, what am i doing wrong? (link)
Try posting your resume' on www.monster.com

I got a ton of job offers that way.

Oh also, taking jobs from hook ups is a great way. My dad helped me get my first job at Best Buy because he used to be a manager there, and my friend helped me get my second job at Circuit City because he was already an employee. It's always easier when you have someone to put in a good word for you.


Well..i am dating this Guy and i really like him and he really likes me and we have kissed a couple of times.. just today he asked me when we would move up and freanch kiss! But the truth is i dont know how..what do i do? sense he already knows i dont know how. he still wants to freanch me..do i go along with him and let him freanch me and dont freach back? or what? plz help..
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All kissing advice aside...here is some moral advice. If you don't want to do it, you shouldn't let him pressure you into something.


is the rejection hotline free or does it cost money ? (link)
http://www.rejectionhotline.com/numbers_and_cities.php

It is, this should help.


i heard about people called card counters and how its an actual job where people go to casinos and count cards? i dont get what they do. count cards for what? and how do they count them? (link)
They count the cards for the probabilities and to find out how many cards are left in the deck of a certian suit. They do it in games like blackjack so they know what the next card is going to be.


Girls only!!


I have had started to get pubic hair in like 4th grade and it's been getting bad. I don't know what to do because it like sticks out a little in bathing suits. What should I do??

I'll give 5's for good answers (link)
The best thing to do is to trim the pubic hair with scissors and then use a razor to shave it very carefully. (Yes use shaving cream). Depending on how thick it is, shave moving against the hair. Since pubic hair is so thick you have to rinse out your razorblade about every stroke. It takes a while but it's worth it.


hi im vegetarian for past 9 months.nowdays im getting tired very fast because im not getting the proper meals.would anyone suggest a goog vegetarian meal or "do it yourself recepices" im a student (link)
I don't know where you live but there is a supermarket called "Sunflower Market" that you should look up on the internet. They have tons of vegi and healthy alternatives for everyday meals.


13 - Female
Me and My mom fight constantly. Wether its about the clothes I want to buy ( like their price ), the friends I hang out with,my cell phone, driving the golf cart around the neighborhood, how clean my room is, my grades, even what razor/shaving cream I want to use. We fight over everything. I`m not a bad kid, I don`t smoke or do drugs or get bad grades, but she treats my like I`m 5! What should I do, I hate that we fight all the time, she purposly says stuff to start a fight. ( Like she does things that she knows annoys me ! ) I`ll rate. (link)
You're 13 years old! To me it sounds like you are living a pretty awesome life right now. Maybe you're a little spoiled.


What do you guys think of the idea of having sex with your ex boyfriend that you are thinking about getting back together with?

I just want to know if y'all think its a good idea or not and why.

Background info:
It was a nutural break up
We broke up becasue we kind of just got sick of each other
It was getting too serious for me (not him)
He was my first
I wasn't his first
We've been broken up for almost 2 months.
And we do entend on getting back together...eventually


i'm 17/f and he's 19/m (link)
Having sex with someone you aren't in a relationship in is wrong, it doesn't matter if you might get together later, or if you love eachother.


Hiya I was wondering if anyone knows how to get that smokey eye effect with make up, also If you have any make up ideas that would look good but is not over the top for school that would be great. I am 15 I have dark green eyes, dark brown hair and fair skin.

Thank you will rate high for good answers. (link)
I found this on a website, hopefully it will help you.


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Prep eye so that makeup won't melt during the evening. There are lots of products on the market that you won't be able to live without. Ask at your favorite cosmetic counter if you need help choosing.

The crease is very important to the smokey eye and it needs special attention. With a taupe colored shadow, or a mixture of gray and brown, pick up a small amount (to begin), and work it into the crease area. Continue until the area is well defined, with lots of attention to the blending process. Remember, the look we are after is smokey.

Using the same color, sweep it around the corner and beneath the lashes to bring attention to this part of the eye. Taper off as you move closer to the inside corner of the eye.

Liner is next on the agenda and you will want to smudge it deeply into the lashes.


Placement of the liner depends on your eyeshape, but you can try completely surrounding your eyes with liner. If you find that suddenly you seem to have tiny eyes, pull back from completely encircling the area. The outer corners of top and bottom might be all you need.

With your favorite mascara, coat lashes so that they play up the darkness of the eye area. Several coats might be necessary.


what are some good songs by sugarcult?

besides pretty girl, memory, and crying?
thankyou (link)
That's been my favourite band for 6 years. I suggest buying the cd.


what is the difference between being a couple and just dating? (link)
Just dating is when you see other people. A couple is exclusive.


OK there is this guy(lets say his name is X) who is going to ask me out. I like him a little bit but theres this other guy(name:O) I like love. I dont kno if the guy I love likes me but we are best friends...Should I say yes to X or wait for O...b/c if O doesnt like me I dont want to be alone b/c I said no to X...What should I do? (link)
You should line them up and try to play a game of tic-tac-toe.


im gay and i want to tell my perants that im gay i know my dad would accept it but my mom would beat my @SS so what can i do to get my mom to accept me?? (link)
I'd suggest waiting until you are 18 years old, or not under her control.


I have a problem, I get feeelings for girls more then i do guys. No body knows because i've never told anyone. I just need to know am i a lesbian?
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It doesn't mean you are gay, it could just mean that you are still sexually immature and you aren't ready for boys. I know a guy who found himself looking at guys more, when he was in middle school but he realized it wasn't really in a sexual way, it was more in a "Wow he's good looking, he must get lots of girls" type of way, and when he matured sexually (Finished puberty) he realized that he was into girls, and he looked at guys in a respective way, not sexual.




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