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Im not sure if im a lesbian
I have a problem, I get feeelings for girls more then i do guys. No body knows because i've never told anyone. I just need to know am i a lesbian?
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you might. or you could be bi.
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Well, everyone questions their sexuallity at some point. If you find yourself mor attracted to girls, but you still are attracted to boys, you might be bisexual. I would reccomend getting soem advice in Bi Curious chats and forums. Ask how they knew and what made it apparent to them that they were les/bi/gay.
Good luck. =)
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Just because you get those feelings for girls doesn't make you a lesbian yet. Take my advice and try to talk to boys more than you do girls. That might help
Gook Luck!
Crush Hottie
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maybe your bisexual...
but it kinda sounds like your gay.. unless you dont want to be, of course..my best advice would be to think about who you would rather "do"..
some really hot girl or some really hot guy..
if you picked the girl... you is a lesbo.
if you picked the guy.... you is a straight.
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you could be a lesbian but you can also be bisexual. dont be asshamed if you get feelings for women more than you do guys. i can totally understand if you would rather keep it to yourself but maybe try talking to your mom about it. think about when it started happening. if it started when you were younger than you are most likely a lesbian.
hope i help
be sure to talk to some one and come to me with any other problems/concerns that you may have.
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Well, I think you should take the time to REALLY ask yourself a few questions. Do you have a feeling a lust more towards girls? Like, is it physical attraction? Or do you conncet with them more emotionally? If you like girls physically, then you probably are one. But if you like girls AND guys, you could just be bi-sexual. Hope that helped a little!
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Okay, you just can't ask someone "Am I a lesbian?" Okay, I'm a lesbian, and no one can really tell you if you are or not. If you are then you will know soon enough. And if you arent then well you arent. It's not a thing that anyone can tell you, only you can tell yourself if you are or not. Just because you have an attraction towards girls doesnt mean you are a lesbian. It could mean you're bisexual, or that you're straight and you just think girls are pretty. And just because you think girls are pretty and judge girls doesnt mean youre bi or a lesbian. So you cant just automatically think youre a lesbian. You have to experiment also. Have you been with a guy? Have you done anything with that guy? Have you been with a girl? Have you done anything with that girl? Did you like being with that guy/girl? Which would you rather prefer after that? Have you always been attracted to girls/guys?
Can you answer any of those questions..?
I'm not saying that your answer will tell you your sexuality, it will just help a little. Like I said before, you will know what you are at the right time and everything. But you should experiment...
Hope this helped.
~Zoe~
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Nobody can tell you if you are a lesbian. It could be just hormones. Sometimes people aren't certain of their sexuality until they are older. So if YOU think you are a lesbian then you are. Don't have others tell you.
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It doesn't mean you are gay, it could just mean that you are still sexually immature and you aren't ready for boys. I know a guy who found himself looking at guys more, when he was in middle school but he realized it wasn't really in a sexual way, it was more in a "Wow he's good looking, he must get lots of girls" type of way, and when he matured sexually (Finished puberty) he realized that he was into girls, and he looked at guys in a respective way, not sexual.
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To me it really sounds like it's your hormones and all. Specially if you're younger and you have alot of close friends who are girls and you dont really have a lot of friends who are guys then yeah, you'll probably get those feelings. Just dont let them bother you. Alot of people, especially girls, go through that for awhile. So don't stress about it and i'm sure you'll be fine. Hope i helped!!!
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no, its your hormones, its perfectly normal, i am pretty sure that everyone gets that. a lot of people go through that, its because your body is changing and your hormones are flowing!
anything else? please ask! I'm in Child Development I.
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