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Hi..I'm going on a retreat for C.C.D. this Sunday. I was wondering if you're supposed to dress up or w/e. Don't tell me to ask my C.C.D. teacher, I've already asked but she didn't exactly make it clear & there's no way of getting a hold of her now. lol. So...help anyone?!?! PLEASE!!!!!
Please, No Rude Answers. THANKS IN ADVANCE (link)
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Hmm if you are not too heavy in packing, I would advice you to take something formal JUST IN CASE. I mean not go all out on it as in full out formal, but something nice ya know?
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15/f.
This only started this year...is it normal to get a sudden attraction to EVERY guy that passes by? (He has to be Okay looking though :P lol)......and getting a sudden urge to talk to that person or communicate to him? :O (link)
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Wow...!!! I am glad you asked the question, because I am EXACTLY!!! the same way!!! No worries, lol its just called boy-craziness XD At least to know you are not the only one right ??
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if my boyfriend tries to put his arm around me at the movies, how do i react? do i put my arm around his shoulder or do i just sit there or do i look at him? ahhh, im so scared. (link)
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Hmm... That one just usually comes naturally but you can kind of lean towards him, kinda like cuddling way, or you can put your arm around his waist.
and don't be scared. I was the same way but you will get used to it and enjoy the moments you have :D
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ok ive had a crush on this guy and i didnt even know i was that obvious but obviously he found out, and he told one of my good friends whos practically neighbors with him that he didnt like me and only liked blonde girls. now im confused.. because i didnt even tell that many people, and the people i told, like more than half of them didnt even know the kid (they were in different teams) and the others i know wouldnt tell. otherwise.. how would he have known? also how would i act tomorrow? my mom said to act like myself but its kinda awkward since now i know. should i just act like nothing happened? im new at this, lol. like last year the same thing happened too, only i knew i was being really obvious, so it ended up with the guy knowing i liked him too. this is kinda a.. um flexible answer so just give me the best advice you got for my situation. (link)
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Same exact thing happened. Except my case was bit worse because the guy who found out I liked him happened to be one of my good friend. No clue on how he found out but he told this friend of mine that he didn't like me like that. So next day I was all worried and already feeling awkward but best advice is just ignore the situation as best as you can. Remember, I said ignore the SITUATION, not the guy. That might make it more obvious and might make you seem childish. So just go through a day like normal, even though we both know that inside you might be very nervous because that's how the case is with most girls, including me. But give some time and let things settle down and it might even help to keep you occupied with other things like having friends around you to distract you or read a book or something. Hope this helped!
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ok well im 15 n its so sad n embarassing but ive never had a boyfriend or done any thing with a guy. in grade 8 i used 2 hang out with other ppl but we kinda grew apart n now i have new friends. so last year (grade 9) my new friends asked how many boyfriends i had and i came clean and said none. i no that u dont like fakes but i lied and i said i had 1 before but we only went out for a week and i dont really count that as having a boyfriend. well my friends arent geeks or anything and 2 make it more embarassing for me they always have a boyfriend and theyve all had sex before. outside of skool i dont have a lot of friends and i dont go to parties because my mom is wierd like that so i cant meet guys that way. also my confidence is really bad since i think im so ugly and im not really fat but i have a bit of fat on my stomach. also i dont like attention drawn to myself so i dont dress like i want to so that people will pay attention to me. my eyebrows arent really bad but i dont get them waxed so they are a little on the bushy side. i always think that if i fix those things that guys would like me but i never do.well srry this is so long of a problem but i would really appreciate help and thanks in advance (link)
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I had the similar problem so don't worry about it all. I can relate to you. Maybe I have it worse because I am not even allow to date until I graduate high school but like that has stopped me :D
Well first of all, about that boyfriend thing, don't worry about it. You are seriously going to find a guy when you least expect it. As to me it has always happened like that. I had never ever dated when I was in middle school. I started the whole "dating scene" when I got into high school. Nothing wrong with that. So you have to let that one come in its own way. Unless you make your self go out of your way to befriend with guys. I didn't before because I was shy and self esteem was down to bottom (i still have pretty low self esteem) but now I introduce myself to guys and whatever because I have found out that guys aren't any different than girls when it comes to making them your new friend. Also more importantly, they are less gossipy and more trustworthy than girls. Now I have more guy friends than girls which I am glad. Also they can help you to be more comfortable around new guys.
Lastly, you don't have to meet guys at parties. I don't get out much neither (in parties because i am not allow to go due to strict parent) but now I don't really care because I have met so many awesome dudes pretty much everywhere.
Such as mall (that's one of the best place)
Wal mart
Events going on in your town or something
If you have more question let me know and hope this helped :D
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what's the maxium number of hours you can leave a tampon in? Because I'll wear one right before I go to school and I'll leave it on for..6 and a half hours and change when I get home? Because the school washrooms are dirty and I don't go home for lunch (link)
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Yeah its usually between 4-8 hours. As long as you don't use it while you are sleeping because I read that one article from magazine how this girl left her tampon in her while she went to bed. She was diagnosed with TSS because of that.
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how do you loose the fat on your face? take a look at this guy's miracle, no surgery (and it's not a scam because he's famous):
http://img73.imageshack.us/img73/3875/jungkyungho6ll.jpg (link)
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XD holy crap he's Korean!!! haha well I know that it is true because I've noticed when i was looking at my old middle school yearbook, there was a guy who had the face size like that guy but now he looks all skinny. It's not losing fat on your face only. When you lose lot of weight, it just sheds off from everywhere. I've noticed lot of guys from my highschool used to be like that but now they are all skinny and toned and cute XD
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Ok i'm skinney but I want to loose fat on my belly.
Can I do ab excercises to burn it? I don't want abs, they look gross to me. I just want a flat somache like those girls form the Pussy Cat Dolls for example lol (link)
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I would suggest sit ups... I know lot of people think that they will get that ripped six pack abs but no. For one thing, you are a girl, (not trying to sound offensive because im a girl too) but it is so much harder for a girl to get six pack abs.
two. You would have to do mega work out to actually get six pack abs so do sit ups. That really toned my abs in less than a week no kidding.
Also yoga and Pilate(thats how you spell it XD i read what was answered) is very good as well as mentioned below
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there's this boy. i think he is gorgous and he goes to my school, but im not sure how to get him to notice me. i see him a lota but he never sees me, he seems like a cool kid and he was in one of my classes before like a year or so but we never really talked. then one day i talked to him on myspace but i kinda played dumb. what should i do to get to know this guy, or even just have him notice me at school? (link)
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I used to have same problem all the time but now I know EXACTLY how to play that card right ;)
Although some people say this is bit crazy and risky, this works for me all the time.
First of all, find out what he is into. Not like stalking him and digging through his email or whatever, but just general idea you know? Music he listens to, sports he's into, and etc. (just surf through his myspace like getting to know a person better)
Then have those related things on you. (if that made any sense)
Here's an example
Say if that guy liked this one band, then ask him in person, or through myspace if he has been to their concert or something.
If you rather have HIM notice you first, then try wearing that band T-shirt or play their music on your mp3 loud enough for him to hear and walk by him bit slow and kind of seducive way ;)(if you have mp3 and are able to obtain the song, and if are sneaky enough for not to get caught in the hallway)
Hope this helped and let me know if you need any ideas
:D
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Is it alright to become what you realized who you really were? like for example, before i didnt know i was a gothic/emo type person. i dont often show emotions,i dont smile,i hav a dark personality,and i always wear dark clothing so when i studied about my habits i realized i was a gothic type person so i decided to express who i really was but the problem is i didnt realize that before and now that i know and became who i really am im just wondering if it's ok. i dont want to be like a poser or a wannabe i just realized it. so is it ok? (link)
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I am glad you finally figured out who you are. I've gone through so many changes over middle school and my freshmen year of high school to find out who I am. I guess it's all different on how your school "social system" is. Also on how you were like before you find out what you are now. Say if you were one of those people who shop at Aero, AE, and Hollister then it might be a bit dramatic change, but not that there's anything wrong with that though :D. And If majority of people are accepting then no problem. But I am telling you from experience, that there will be some people who might think you are fake for changing who you are because I have this one person who pretty much thinks im a fake for changing who I am. But that's just one person you know?
I have no regrets what so ever for changing to who I am now, because I've made so many new friends whom I can relate to and my old friends still like me for who I am. So it's definetly okay and if some people can't accept you for that? why bother being their friend
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i really want to make more guy friends. i dont know how to though. sometimes i feel shy around them but mostly i'm ok. i just feel kind of self-concious i guess. i dont know how to branch out and make more guy friends. help? (link)
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I used to have the same problem... Well I guess it would kind of help to know your age, but it's not that important I suppose :D Well when I was in middle school, I had few guy friends, but when I started high school, I started talking to them about the subject that we both had in common like Music. It might be little hard because I was bit shy around them and self concious but you will eventually forget about it because they will like you for personality.
Joke around, don't get shy to be goofy and laugh with them. Talk about things they might like. I guess it didnt hurt for me to have guy hobbies like skateboarding but that only goes so far. So just talk like how you would normally talk, and make jokes. That would make it lot easier.
Now I can honestly say I have more guy friends than girls. Which doesn't hurt at all because guys are more trust worthy, because they dont gossip as much and aren't catty, and they are fun to flirt with ;)
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When you went to High school, did you meet a lot of new friends? Or did you tend to stay around the same people you hung around with in middle school?
thanks =] (link)
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When I started high school, I was dead scared because my best friend went to different school and I guess I was kind of cling on to her for support but since she left, I made new friends and now I'm in 10th grade, I have never been more social as now. I definetly made new friends even out side of school, just random cool people I meet outside XD
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im 13,about 5'5, and i weight 184 pounds.i know i am much over weight.im not exactly sure how much i should weight.
before i go back to school, i want to have lost a good amount of weight(i go back to school around the end of august).what are some workout plans, without using any machines, that will help me?i want something high intensity, something that will deffinetly give me good results.
also, does anyone have experiance with the Cross Crunch Abdominal Exerciser, or the Zone Pilates?do these really work?i am interested in buying either one or both of these, but i was wondering if they really do work.would they help me loose weight?what other things help like that, but dont cost too much?my friend reccommended a yoga or workout ball.dothose help?
i really need help, and i am tierd of always being "the fat girl".i want to look good and show everyone when i go back to school.it is also something that i want to do for me personally.i've struggled with this for a long time, and i want to put an end to it.
thank you to anyone that can contribute!! (link)
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yeah I have cross crunch thing, but I am not sure about any result. I mean I've been losing weight and stuff, but I do other exercises too, so I am not sure. However, from what I've read online, it worked for people.
And I know what you mean, I was so sick and tired of my weight, I used to weigh like 178 lbs and i was 5'5'' when I was in 8th grade.
At the end of my 8th grade, I was so determined to lose weight.
So here's what I did. I cut down on ALL SNACKS. No soda, no chocolate, no junk food what so ever. And exercised for 30 minutes everyday. Which isn't hard at all once you get used to it.
I don't suggest you buying any of those machines because I have yet to find any results from mine, HOWEVER what I suggest you is to buy those workout dvd and videos they sell at wal mart. You know like Crunch Fat burning workout and stuff. They do work. That's how my mom and I lost weight during summer. And help my weight off.
So now I am going on to 10th grade, and I've been basically working out for like little over a year and I am now around 144 pounds and 5'7'' or so.
So just stick to your work out and healthy diet and you WILL see results! and let me tell you, it feel great and you will get lots of compliments and that will make you want to work for it more!
So if you want more information on specific exercises and right diet, just IM me.
Sk8RcH1cK1773
or email me just in case you are blocked from parental block...
my email is
Sk8RcH1cK1773@aol.com
just make sure to subject it as
from Advicenator because it might end up in my spam file as well. Darn those parental control
Hope I helped!!
Lastly, you should weight 125 lbs on average, because 5 foot counts as 100 pounds, and every inch counts as 5 pounds.
So since you are 5'5'' you should be 125 lbs, so its pretty accurate.
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okay.. so im 16/f... and i weigh like 160.. ick i know... so here is the questions part.. so next august is when i have to take my senior pictures.. and i want to lose weight before then. i want to lose about 50-55 pounds.. so my question is how long will it take to lose like 50 pounds.. and what are the best ways of doing it. thanks in advance. (link)
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Well its really hard to say how long, because it is different for everybody, however it took me about a year to lose 30 pounds.
However, it might be different for you.
Here's what I did and stuff, for preference.
I was about like 178 pounds when I was in 8th grade, and I started to exercise when 8th grade was over so I started when summer started. I worked out for about 30 minutes everyday during the summer, and lost 10 pounds or so. I did this mini-stepper with 3 pounds dumbell on each hand. then I stopped. I know, which i am suggesting you that you do NOT want to stop because it will make losing weight more harder once you stop and when you have to start again.
Then I stopped doing mini-stepper, and started doing video crunch exercise. Which was about 30 minutes or so.
Then when 9th grade started, I started exercising more and more. One point I exercised for like two hours or something.
But that gets tiring, so now I just exercise for 30 minutes or an hour. Instead, I go skateboarding or something.
And eat healthy. Don't ever skip breakfast because that's what get your metabolism to start so if you dont want lots of calorie, just eat 3/4 cup of cereal with 1/2 cup of milk. Which is the normal serving size. However I dont suggest you eating like s'mores cereal. Try honey bunches of oats, or something that is healthy like Special K.
Bascially, eat right and stay active. If you like shooting hoops, do that. It will be a good workout and fun.
Hope this helped!!!
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This is pathetic and i would appreciate advice. I am 17 and really bad with getting a girlfriend. I have had girlfriends in the past and i am really good at relationships. See i have more girl friends then i do guy friends, get what i am saying? I really don hang out with alot of dudes. I dont know why dont ask why its just me. My friends are fine and we get along great but i just cant get a girl friend. I have heard "You're like a brother to me" and "I dont go for your type." Girls Like bad guys and that not me. I am not that bad looking and a great listener. I AM A GREAT CATCH. I just cant act like a dide around girls, its like a forgot how to flirt. Help Me get a girlfriend...PLEASE!
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First of all, girls do NOT like bad guys, well some may do, but that's just probably the stage they are going through because in the end, good guys will always get the girls.
Second of all, you should never change the way you are because like you said, you sound like you are a great catch.
Third of all, maybe none of the girls you asked are right for you, since it sounds like they are looking for "bad-guy" type, and you know that's not you, so you shouldn't date a person who is looking for something you are not.
And with flirting, I am sure it's going to come natural once you know what girl you want. But complimenting a girl goes a long way.
Hopefully this helped and I know you have heard this numerous times probably, but you will know when you find a girl that's right for you, and who will ACTUALLY appreciate the REAL you!
SKATERCHICK!~
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recently I've noticed I have a small pimple-ish thing near/on my vagina. I'm positive it's not razorburn or anything of that sort. But none the less I'm still worried. im only 16 so i dont want to ask my parents about it. I've never been involved in any sexual activity so it couldnt be STDs. im worried still, any ideas/suggestions? (link)
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Ooh my friend had similar problem...She didnt do anything sexual, or anything..
But her's was different because she said there was pain while she walked, or whatever...
But I told her to dont worry about it because its not STD and a week later she told me that it was just a pimple and it was gone.
So I dont think you should worry about it so much. Just see if it goes away in week or two. If not, then you might want to tell your parent/friend/ or whoever you might want to confide in.
Although it can be very hard, because my friend was dying of embarassment when she told me. But she said she was glad she told me, because it's been bothering her for days, but she just couldn't tell anyone.
Hope this helped
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Okay, well. The boyfriend I have now, he picked me (as in, he asked me out) and well the first times a said no and maybe but then after a while a said yes.
I started liking him. But after a while, I realized he's not perfect. And sometimes I'm feeling great about being with him, and sometimes i'm not. I'm having my doubts.
And I think I want someone else, but i don't know. Cause what if there really isn't anyone better? and he doesn't get back with me. helpp? (link)
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Oh I know EXACTLY how you feel! Because that just happened to me very recently...
Well I can't decide for you but i can help you decide what works for you... before you do anything think about this...
There's always gonna be someone no matter what(as in, unless you know for SURE you found a right guy, there's gonna be a new guy)
And if you have doubts, even though they are temporary, you probably don't really like him that much. I mean I kept telling myself, he's a good guy, not perfect but he's good, and i like him. But one day i really thought about it...and Finally realized that I was only kidding myself and convincing myself that I like him so I won't hurt his feelings when I break up with him...
So think a lot about how you feel towards him.
1. Do you see yourself with him for next 6 months???
2. If you see a cute guy, do you see yourself comparing your current bf with a new found cute guy???
If you said No to question 1, and yes to question 2, then you probably are better off ending it, because as you drag on longer, it will be harder.
It is very normal to feel that way, because from what I've read, it might just mean that your are not ready for commitment of being in a relationship...when I first read that, I didnt really believe it, but now I spend time as single, I do think that's right...
So if you need anymore help message me anytime
and HOpe i helped you
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hey every one its my birthday and i want to have a party but i dont kno wat to do it's gonna be boruing because i diont kno wat to do plz help me =] (link)
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Since its summer definetly have Hawaiian theme party... The things you need are really easy to get such as decoration and food.
-Decoration-
*stuff like table cover, and flower necklaces are really easy to find anywhere and very cheap too.
*and if you have pool at home, make it a pool party also. so it'd be more fun and it would match your theme!
-Food/drinks-
*buy kool aid mix for fruit punch and there you go. you got your self a drink.
*chips and dips(classic and good for every theme)
*just something easy to make and good like chicken wings, or something like that
and if you need more help or anything, message me anytime!~
hope this helped~
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oh my gosh, you guys..I thought I was doing so great! 2 months ago, I measured my waist, and it was 77 cm all around, and since then I've counted every single calorie, worked out 30 minutes every day, both running and boxing and even some weight lifting, and also swimming, I made sure to keep it very variated, and today it's been exactly 2 months, and I looked to see my progress and it was 82 cm all arounf my waist! I've been crying for an hour now, how is that possible? How could I have GAINED weight, when I've done everything to LOSE weight?
I promise you I havn't cheated with what I've been eating, or my excersize..that's why I was so surprised, I thought I was doing so well!!
Help me please!! (link)
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Well since you said you haven't cheated on your eating and exercising, it might be just because you gained muscle... you know?
because I've been exercising to lose weight for one year and trust me, there are ups and downs because sometimes i gain weight but my abs looks whole lot better than when i weighed less...
And do you feel you have become more physically fit or looks that way??? because if you do, then number shouldn't really matter
and keep up the good work!! because when im exercising, i cheat sometimes... and that results to me in gaining pounds back on,so yeah...
so if you keep working at it, you will see results eventually!!
Hope you lose weight that you want~
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