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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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if you shave down there is there gonna be little pricks of hair sticking up, or will it be all gone. i know it will grow back fast,
but will it leave little pricks or what?

It won't leave little 'pricks' if you shave in the way that your hair grows. When you don't, you hair grows in thicker and more of it. So when you shave ALWAYS shave the way your hair grows. Also, always use shaving cream and put hand cream on after you're done (it'll help with the redness and any bumps you may have.)

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For facebook can you make a picture that someone else tagged you in your default picture? if so, how? thanks.

Yes, there is a way. You just right click on the picture you want as your default, save it and then upload it.

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ok well i ended my period on june 14 and i had sex near the end of june i had unprotected sex and well i had signs of being pregnant 2 weeks after wards but thinking it was just nerves and well i had my period july 1 and that is only like 17 days since my last period the weird thing was though is my period would stop for one day and then come again the next it was weird and light at times it came really short and didn't last very long at all and i read on the internet is that after you have sex if you get pregnant then you will bleed about 10-14 days after wards because that is the egg atacting to the uterious or whatever and it was 11 days after wards that i had my period but it said also that it could seem like a period but isn't and well now i feel sick and my stomach feels weird and im really sleepy
could any of this mean that i am pregnant i need advice fast

I HIGHLY suggest buying a pregnancy test as soon as you can. I am now 2 months pregnant and I had the same symptoms as you did. (I'm not trying to scare you, just giving you some information.) I had morning sickness really bad for the first two weeks, then I started spotting. It felt like my real period, but it would stop and start or I'd just go a little. And as of right now, I am always tired 24/7 and I have been getting major headaches. I suggest buying a test, that way you'll be 100% sure about it.

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Ok, I asked the question down there about the boyfriend... well what if your boyfriend has already had sex, and you're a virgin, then if he ate you out, do you think you could get a disease that way? thanks!!!!

The only way your boyfriend could give you a disease by eatting you out would be, if he got a disease from the last sexual relationship he had.

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Okay I asked the question down there about if your 13 and your boyfriend is 17, is it illegal for us to date. Well, my parents are totally cool with the age you know, but like his parents aren't..and they don't want him dating a younger girl like me. Well, do you think they could get my mom in trouble in any way? Even tho she says it's okay for us to date? Sorry for this being so long...

Since your boyfriend is considered an adult in a year, nothing could happen even if his Mom did try to get your Mom into trouble. It wouldn't go through because you boyfriend would be considered an adult, therefore his Mom wouldn't have any say in who he is allowed to date.

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Do you think getting eaten out "down there" would be....bad? Like can anything bad happen? I want to go further with my boyfriend, but I want to make sure that you can't get a disease or anything? This might be dumb, but I just want to know..

This isn't a dumb question at all. It's great that you're asking questions before you go further with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend eatting you out will not harm you nor will he give you a disease. The only why that could happen if he had a disease that he passed on to you. Other than that, you're safe.

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OK, do you think i'm in love? My boyfriend makes me smile everytime I talk to him, and always makes me happy when i'm sad. He gives me butterflies, and it's amazing, especially when I look in his eyes! Ah gosh it's amazing. And when i'm with him, I just feel so..ah it's amazing. Do you think this is love?

I do believe that is love. If you're feeling like you can't explain how you feel when you're with him, then that means you're in love. Isn't it a wonderful feeling? Congratulations!! :)

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What if your 13 and your boyfriend is 17, is that illegal for us to date???

It's legal as of right now, but as soon as your boyfriend turns 18 it'll be illegal for you and him to date. The only way it wouldn't be illegal is if your parent(s) are fine with it and you aren't having a sexual relationship.

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i havent had my period in like 2 months. i havent had sex. i am only seventeen .i dont know what is wrong ,i did some dry humping naked but he always had pants on and he never came.
what is worng with me?
please help me

Obviously you aren't pregnant from everything you told me. If no cum what-so-ever entered you then you're 100% NOT pregnant. You period could be late for many reasons, you could be stressing too much about this that it's causing your period to be late. Try calming down and relaxing, I'm sure you'll get your period.

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Me and my boyfriend have sex all the time but we usually play around first. Sometimes we start having sex without a condom, but he doesnt Cum inside of me. We have been fine for 8 months now and all of a sudden i am 3 days late on my period. 2 days before my period was suppose to start i had pinkish discharge in my underwear and one time there was blood, but then it stopped. I havent been moody or had cravings. I have had an on/off headache for a while too. I Also Havent had any cramps. Am i pregnant?

I think you should just wait it out for a couple of more weeks. If you STILL don't get your period, then I suggest going to the store or hospital to get tested.

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months..and when i say "what are you doing?" he usually responds "not you." ...What do you think he means by this? Or is he just playing around. And he brings up i'm a good girl and not "bad" and he says he's "bad" and stuff. What do you think he means? I mean, i can be bad i guess.. but i don't know what kinda bad he means...what do you think? And i'm 14 years old.


Thanks alot

He just means that he's not having sex with you. Example: When you said "what are you doing?" his reply was "not you." Meaning, he isn't having sex with you, and would probably like to.

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What's your favorite song at the moment? I like some of the bands you listen to, so I was wondering what you recommend. I'm kinda getting sick of the music I've got.

By the way, your picture is really amazing! I try to get pictures like that all the time with my camera but mine end up sucking - I don't know why. And I added you as a favorite [I'm TiNA_DUH].

Here's my all time favorites, as of right now:

Ozzy Osbourne - My Little Man.
A Perfect Circle - Pet.
Thornley - Falling To Pieces.
Chevelle - Still Running.
Megadeth - Skin O' My Teeth.
Megadeth - Symphony Of Destruction.
Poison - Pour Some Sugar On Me.
Poison - Unskinny Pop.
Iron Maiden - 22 Acacia Avenue.
Iron Maiden - Running Free.


Thanks!! I love the picture aswell. I have so many amazing pictures like that. It helps when you live in a beautiful place. And I added you as a favorite aswell :).

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hi there....um my name is nicole and i have a blog...i wanted to find the song criss angel-die for you to put on my blog so when people come and see it it automatically plays(thats how i came across your page...)...so that's the first thing....the second is i love your taste in music!!! i was looking and the songs you suggested to one of your people and at least a third of the songs you suggested i love!!! so if you could just help me with the first problem i'd be very happy1!!=)) thank you
love,
nicole xox
p.s. do you have any new songs you like???

I'm sorry, but I don't know where you would be able to get Criss Angel songs off the net to put on your blogs. (I had a hard enough time finding them to download.) However, I do have a ton of songs worth downloading. Here are some:


Foo Fighters - DOA.
Seether - Fine Again.
Seether - Neddles.
Seether - Fuck It.
Seether - Love Her.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - On Mercury.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - I Could Die For You.
Stone Sour - Come What(Ever) May.
Stone Sour - Sillyworld.
Stone Sour - Made Of Scars.
Stone Sour - Zzyxz Rd.
Rob Zombie - Foxy Foxy.
Rob Zombie - Demon Speeding.
Rob Zombie - Living Dead Girl.
System Of A Down - Holy Mountains.
System Of A Down - Old School Hollywood.
System Of A Down - Revenga.
System Of A Down - Radio/Video.
Saliva - Bait and Switch.
Saliva - Razor's Edge.
Saliva - Survival Of The Sickets.
Saliva - Sex, Drugs, and Rock 'N Roll.
Saliva - Always.
Saliva - Click, Click, Boom.
The Offspring - Come Out Swining.
The Offspring - Have You Ever.
The Offspring - The Kids Aren't Alright.
The Offspring - Damnit, I Changed Again.
Three Days Grace - Get Out Alive.
Three Days Grace - Gone Forever.
Tool - The Pot.
Tool - Right In Two.
Tool - Jerkoff.
A Perfect Circle - Three Libras.
A Perfect Circle - Blue.
A Perfect Circle - Pet.
Billy Talent - Red Flag.
Billy Talent - This Surffering.
Billy Talent - Perfect World.
Disturbed - Land of Confusion.


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My best friend is moving away soon, so i'm making her a huge scrapbook full of pictures and stuff. i was looking for some good quotes and poems about going away, adventure, trying new things, etc. (she actually moved here for a year, and is moving back to where she came from) suggestions? help? preferably quotes/poems by well-known people. thanks a ton!

A great site for quotes would be the following: http://www.holliesquotes.com

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How much is it at a local vet to declaw a kittens front paws roughly.


Yeah yeah I know its painful and I dont want opinions. Its not my choice because if it was they would have all their claws.

It depends on where you live and where you'll be going, since every place is different it's going to have different prices.


When I went to get my kitty done, I got her declawed and spayed for $130; it's more for a female. I'm guessing it would be around $10-$30 for a declawing, roughly.

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if you have dry sex, are you still considered a virgin?

Yes, you're still considered a virgin do to the fact that there was no intercourse; penis entering the vagina.

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WEll i just started fingering my girlfriend, but its not going very well. she says that its not enjoyable and it hurts every time i do it. so my question is why does it hurt her when i do this. i have tryed evrything and it doesnt work. please tell me what to do. thanks!

It's probably hurting her because you're either going to hard/fast or she's not wet enough. I suggest fingering her slowly and not so rough, then as she feels more comfortable you can increase the speed and whatnot. Just take your time at first and don't rush.

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how common is it for a 20 year old girl not to have kissed/been kissed by a guy? Am I weird?

Lots of people your age haven't had their first first kiss, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first kiss when they're 12; others when they're 13 and some even only have their first kiss when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss yet. I promise you in time, you'll have that first special kiss. That's the thing, it has to be special and with the right guy. Don't let your first kiss be with someone you have no feelings for, make it special and worth it. But for now, just live your life and have fun, you have all the time in the world for your first kiss.

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okay my guy friend fingered his girlfriend for the first time ever. ME and my friends know it wil happen to us sooner or later so we have questions.

Are you suppose to lay down or sit up? Are you suppose to pull down your pants or just unzip them? Does the guy wash his hand afterwards? What us the girl suppose to do during the act, moan??I'm confusesd!i know this might be an awkward question but we dont know who else to ask.

It depends on the girl. Some girls moan, some girls don't. If you want to lay down, lay down. if you want to sit up, sit up. It really doesn't matter how you're laying, just make sure you're comfortable. Usually it's easier if your pants are off, but you can get fingered just by unzipping them. So it's just whatever you're most comfortable with.

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my friend and i are confused, if you have gotten fingered technically are you stil a virgin?

People have different thoughts on this. But I believe you're still a virgin.

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