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A long time ago in august i flirted alot with this girl on facebook and i was 100% sure she liked me, i wanted to ask her out the following day at school face-to-face but another boy was faster than me. She went out with him but eventually broke up because he said too many lies. Meanwhile i got friendzoned(or so i think). she hugs me alot we dont really go to the movies together or do anything outside of school but im pretty sure im friendzoned. Do girls get over guys that quickly? Its hard for me to move on.. and if i ask her out then it will be too awkward for me if she says no! please help! (link)
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Stop settling for \"it\'s better than nothing\".
The only one with a problem is you. For her, things are great. Attention from guys, and she has you for hugs. The only one that is going to move this anywhere is you.
Did she get over you \"that quickly\"? Dude - she was never that far *into* you. School is loaded with guys who like her, and you are just one of them. There\'s a dozen more where you came from.
You have got to move out of the friend zone. That means no more facebook, no more hugs. No more attention and validation. If she complains, tell her you want her for your g/f. You will probably get the \"I care too much about our friendship\" speech, or maybe even shot down worse. Hey - maybe not. But probably. But so what? You\'re at school, you have a few years yet.
Stop being in this girl\'s fan club.
Oh, other advice: lift weights.
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I've been talking to this guy. I met him one time then out of the blue, I found him on twitter and followed him, he followed me back and we've been direct messaging for a while on twitter before I finally got the nerve to send him my number. He texted me and we have been talking non-stop since. We are the kinds of texters that text all day and when one of us falls asleep, we just wake up and answer the text and continue talking to whole rest of the day. We met through a mutual friend and since she found out we started talking, she's been upset and yelling at him a lot for it saying that I'm replacing her and that she hates us talking and he just puts up with her yelling at him all the time and fighting with her. He asks me to hang out quite a bit and when I can't, he always asks for a time when I am free so we can. We've talked for about eight days and this past Tuesday was his friend's 21st, so he took him to the bar and he texted me before they left and asked if I could pick them up so I said most definitely, he texted me when they were ready to leave and I went to get them. He asked me if he could spend the night at my place in my dorm with me that night so I let him do that. We cuddled and talked all night. The next night, he asked if I wanted to hang out and when I told him I was free, he asked if I would like to spend the night at his place to which I happily agreed. He picked me up and we went to his place, we got in his bed and I laid on his chest and it was a nice silence for a little before he started asking me deep questions like my plans for the future and my biggest fears, biggest accomplishments. We fell asleep and when we woke up that morning, he had to go take an exam so he let me stay there until he came back so I fell back asleep. He came back after his exam and stripped down to his boxers and got back into bed with me and we talked. He had class at 11 but he skipped it so the friend that yelled at him about us, texted him to get lunch and he told me she thinks he's in class so he won't text her back for a little and as soon as he said that, he grabbed my face and started to kiss me. We hooked up but he didn't have a condom so we didn't have sex. After that, we had to head to the book store to go return our books because it was the last day of class. We walked there, did it, he finished before me so he waited even though he made plans to have lunch with that friend.
Now, you're probably wondering where the issue falls.. he's been weird since it happened. We still text all the time, he isn't ignoring me or anything but he's just been different. Before, he used to be super flirty and send me a lot of emojis but now he doesn't. Like I said, we still talk but his texts aren't as flirty and he doesn't laugh in his texts as much anymore. So, he said something stupid that I called him out on and it opened a whole can of worms so I called him out on being weird too. He said he didn't mean to be weird and that he definitely still wants to keep talking because he likes talking to me. He said if all he wanted was a hook up then he wouldn't have slept at my place and hung out with me all that next day, he wouldn't have invited me to his place to hang out and he wouldn't have skipped his class just to be with me.
However, it still seems weird to me. Why do you think his texts aren't the same? We're both home for the summer and we live kinda far from each other. However, I can tell that his texts are weird. Our conversations used to flow so easily but now I have to think before i text him back because conversation isn't so easy. (link)
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There is only one question: has he dumped your mutual friend? Because he is being unfaithful to her if he hasn\'t.
You already know everything you need to know. But he\'s attractive and you want to find an excuse.
It\'s an old story.
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Hi, I am 17 years old and I am the youngest person in ny university. I am absolutely in love with the SU president in my university. We talk sometimes and we have also kissed a couple of time on a college night out but it acts like he doesn't even notice me, he is always cold to me when people are around ue but once we are alone together he opens up to me and just be an absolute sweetheart. I do catch him staring at me sometimes and we also flirt alot when we are left alone. The problem is I don't know if he likes me, he is a completely shy guy but I just think he feels like I won't be able to fit into his life maybe because of my age or even my race.i don't know what to do anymore it's been 9 months and there have been no improvement at all. (link)
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\"I am absolutely in love with the SU president in my university\"
Girl, ask yourself one simple question: how many other girls just like you are \"in love\" with the SU president?
\"he is a completely shy guy\"
HAHAHAHA! Seriously? The Student Union *president* is shy? The guy who got *elected* by the students at your university? Shy?
This is a fantasy happening all in your head, and no where else. There is zero chance that the SU president is \"shy\". He\'s a politician, and there is no such thing as a shy politician.
Do yourself a favour, and google \"hypergamy\". You can fritter away your youth bouncing like a ping-pong ball between high ranking guys who swap their harems like trading cards, or you can \"settle\" and maybe find a little happiness.
PS: also google \"Monica Lewinsky\".
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Last Tuesday, I had an Intercept Oral Drug Test done. I've read pretty much everywhere THC metabolites can be in saliva anywhere between 12-24 hours. I had not smoked exactly 24 hours prior to taking my test, the day before (Sunday) I smoked a bowl, and the day before that (Saturday) I had a few bongs and a couple hits off a j. Those four days I brushed my teeth and rinsed with mouthwash about 3-4 times a day. Including up to 5 minutes before me taking my test in the parking lot, that's where I messed up. When I went in I was instructed to leave the swab between my gums and cheek for 2.5 minutes, when I took it out there was a little blood (maybe a drop) on it from brushing my teeth so vigorously. I'm looking for opinions in whether or not it will matter or if you guys think I'll pass. I should find out tomorrow, just would like some support.
It was also sent off to a laboratory. 😔 (link)
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Dude, best way to pass a dug test is to not smoke bongs two days before.
Just sayin\'.
No, I don\'t think the blood will make any difference. I think they will detect THC because - well, dude - because you are a smoker. If they *dont* detect it, then their tests simply don\'t work.
Now if you\'ll excuse me, I have to reply to another dude who is deliberately mashing his thumb with a hammer and he\'s complaining that it\'s all black and swollen and he\'s not sure why.
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So i am friendzoned by this girl and i am leaving to another school forever but i would like to talk to her on facebook not only at school. When i start a conversation its usually about homework or something like i was just at her parents restaurant. But after a while the convo just dies and i dont know what to say to her anymore! Talking to her just makes me happy! Also i fear i am annoying her but im not sure i am..please help! (link)
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\"So i am friendzoned by this girl\"
Stop. Stop right now. Just stop it, dude - it\'s bad for you. Stop messaging her. Stop going to her parent\'s restaurant. Stop it and move on.
Seriously, man. Unless she is going to hook you up with one of her friends, there is *absolutely* *nothing* in this for you.
Oh: hit the gym. Lift weights.
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I'm a 15 year old female and I'm a Christian. I grew up in a Baptist church, though my family isn't baptist nor are we nearly as strict and legalistic as some Christians.
I am homeschooled and my workbooks/PACE'S(ACE Curriculum) sometimes have stories and/or comics of kids in different situations and teach Christian morality and thinking.
But as I was reading one of these stories, it was about a girl who became Christian and it was talking about how she was changing her life. One of the things it mentioned was: "She began to find new joy as she replaced her former friends and ways with new Christian friends and activity's that helped her grow spiritually."
I understand having new Christian friends and distancing herself from bad things like drugs and alcohol. But why would she need to remove her old friends from her life? Didn't Jesus sit and eat with the non-Christians and sinners?
Wouldn't we WANT to be friends with them so we could possibly influence them in a good way instead of cutting them off?
I guess I just don't understand why you would do that...
Could someone explain this to me? Or tell me if I'm right and their wrong? Or the other way around? (link)
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\"Didn\'t Jesus sit and eat with the non-Christians and sinners?\"
Yes, but not with people who he used to hang out with as a non-christian. Habits are hard to break.
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i did sex wid my g.f i just rubbed outside but i dono whetehr sperm gone in or not..i dnt want her to b peragenent ...yestrday she got he period i did xxx on 5th may now also chances is their to get peragnent???
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If she got her period, she\'s not likely to be pregnant, then.
So your problem isn\'t whether she\'s pregnant now, its whether you are going to get her pregnant next time.
Simple solution - wear a condom. A franger. A rubber. To put it another way, either have sex or don\'t have sex. This sort of \"oh, we were just rubbing and oops I came\" - I\'m guessing you are pretty young, but if you two are old enough to be doing that sort of stuff, then you are old enough to stop trying to fool yourselves about what you are doing.
Wear a franger, stick to handjobs and oral, or just plain quit what you are doing. But most of all: get serious and stop messing about with your (and her) future.
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I had a couple of demon dreams:
Demon dream 1: my mom bought a demon possessed bike and wouldn't get rid of it and it kept appearing everywhere, and my mom insisted on “saving it" for my brother.
Demon (I think) dream 2: a kid was beating the shit out of me, nobody would help me and my punches were defensless. I woke up hurting, and seeing a black vorce.
This last one was more of a evil voice talking to me: it was trying to convince me to worship Satan, saying my dreams would come true and I'd get everything I desired. I kept telling myself: No,No,No, NO, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Then I did the saint Michael's prayer, wich I find myself doing a lot these days. What's happening? (link)
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What\'s happening is that you have a head full of silly nonsense from hundreds of years ago.
There\'s plenty of places to start. Here\'s a link: http://www.positiveatheism.org/
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16/ female hi okay so a couple of weeks ago I wasn't even sleepy and I was on the phone with my boyfriend at about 11 pm laying in my bed and all of a sudden I blacked out and has this really weird overwhelming feeling in my body that I can't explain and then my heart and chest was heavy it was hard to breathe and then I could finally see but I couldn't talk or move, at first I thought someone broke in and i was being beat up or I was shot or just plain dying I didn't know, and then when I finally came too I was crying my eyes out and my boyfriend thought it could be sleep paralysis because he's had that before and yes there was a lot of the symptoms correct to it being sleep paralysis but they weren't all there and I wasn't even asleep. It kept happening about every other night for about a week and then stopped not being as bad but again last night I was sitting on my couch about 10 pm and it happened but all that happened was I opened my eyes and I had that weird overwhelming feeling through my body, I could barely breathe I couldn't talk or move even tho it felt like my muscles were moving. I was seriously convinced I was dying and I kept thinking over and over if I'm dying ease hurry and let me die because it was a horrible experience! I really need help someone ease help me with this! I give stars thank you ! (link)
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See a doctor.
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Today I got a random noise in my ear. All my life, I've had this 'high pitch noise' in my ears/head but assumed everyone had it. Well anyways, my mind kept focusing on the noise and now it won't go away. I don't know if it's ringing because nothing would've caused the ringing. But I also don't know if it's just something in my mind. What could this be? Also, how can I sleep with this? It's kind of loud.
Also, I have to keep tapping on my ear so my mind focuses on that sound and not the high pitch sound. Help asap. (link)
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You\'ll get the same answer from me that I give to everyone who has a medical complaint: see a doctor.
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Last year, I fell and had a concussion. After I was released from the hospital, my best friend offered for my girlfriend and I to crash with him for a while, until I was 100% again. Due to the stress of my injury, he told my girlfriend and I to just sit back and relax for some time. He has cooked large and delicious meals for us since Day 1 and he encouraged us to "get lazy".
Well now its been about a year. I have recovered and we are still staying with him. My girlfriend and I have been sitting watching TV everyday while he has cooked on demand. We have both gained about 60 lbs and started wearing stretch pants and slippers around his house, which he thinks looks bad.
Anyway today, my girlfriend and I were sitting on the couch with our feet up, each holding a bucket of chili. He comes home, sees us, pushes my GF's slippers off the end table, tells us both we cant eat chili on the couch, and screams at us to get up. Then comes the abuse. He asks if the TV remote is under my belly. When we get up, he points out the impression left by my girlfriend's butt on the couch. He then kicks us out saying we've become a couple of gluttons that overstayed our welcome. (link)
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This is trolling, right?
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So, I'm a 14 year old girl and I honestly can't cope with the way my parents tell me to live, I feel like I am trapped in my home and I can't do anything!
They have these rules that I cannot go on my iPad/phone until 8pm every night, even at weekends I'm not aloud to use them. They say I'm to antisocial and I need to get out more, I go almost everywhere with them! I do go to town with friends aswell. They won't let me out of my town, I live in Barnstaple, devon and I'm not even aloud to Exeter or Bristol to go on a shopping trip with friends which is only about 2 hours away. Also I'm not aloud to be friends with a few people I know, one of them because there is a rumour going around that her mum is a prostitute and the other one who is my best friend and I still hang out with her secretly because she said something rude on Facebook like 2 years ago! It annoys me how I can't be friends with who I want to be friends with. My parents won't let me go out after school and I always have to be back home at 4pm if I go anywhere, which means I can't go out in the evening or at night and have a laugh :(
They also won't let me use social networks other than Facebook and Twitter, I want to be able to use snapchat, Instagram and tumblr but I'm not aloud to have it on my phone, another thing is that my dad still reads my texts and my messages with friends online!!! I'm 14 and I literally have no privacy! It's really annoying I want to just tell him "no, I won't give you my phone" or just not tell him the lock to my phone but he always makes me! :(
This is really annoying me now how I feel like I am stuck with nothing to do and no privacy at all :(
Anyone know what I could do? (link)
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Easy peasy!
Wait four years, then move out, get a job, and support yourself
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Hello everyone, I'm 18/F and my bf and I have been dating for two years now. When we began dating, he had told me about girls who also likes him. There are quite a few and I just can't stop thinking about this particular girl he told me. She liked him and I think she still does but he didn't like her. My bf and I live in the same state while she live in another state. I completely have no idea what's about her that I can't stop thinking about her one day ending up with my bf. of all the girls he told me that like him, why her? What can I do to stop thinking about her ending up with my bf? (link)
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I assume the two of you are having sex.
The solution to your problem is to sex your b/f harder than he\'s ever been sexed before. Just drive all those other girls out of his life by working him until he\'s exhausted. And not just once, either.
It\'s guaranteed to work, absolutely. Go for it.
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So, I am about to have a baby and someone mentioned that there are a bunch of places that will send you baby stuff in your mailbox if you just ask for it? How do you do this? Is there a list of companies that do this, or do you just have to write everyone and hope they send you something? LOL! (link)
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Google \'TANSTAAFL\'.
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I met the guy through some friends, let's call him A. We began talking for a year, but we never met privately. We would always bump in to each other and talk that way, but never meet personally on our own. Through the year of speaking, we stopped for almost 3 months, and in that 3 months, I got myself in to a relationship with a guy who I were close with. A came back in to my life and I decided to give it another go, then we stopped talking again, and I met a guy who I was interested In. Again, A came back and I decided to give it another go. Whilst I was on these dates and in another relationship, I still really cared for A, he was still my first thought of every morning. Anyway, when he came back, we decided to give it a go in to an official relationship, our first 2 months of our relationship was amazing, pure love everywhere, we were great together and then the arguments started again, I began ending us every time we argued, now we have been together for 6 months and this past month has been stressful, we argue over the stupid of things and we haven't been together for almost one month now, but we do text sometimes. I feel like I've pushed him away because of the fact we kept arguing and I kept ending us. He knows he has me wrapped around his finger and I'm guilty of that, no matter how long he goes without calling or texting me, he knows I'll always be there. I want to re kindle our relationship, I want it to be like it was at the start, but I don't know how to. He called last night after 1 week of not talking and he was being cold, he was asking if I'd met anyone yet. I told him I want to move on and I'd appreciate it if he didn't text me, take care and whatever else and all he said was ok, and that was it. Does anyone have any suggestions or personal experience they'd like to share? (link)
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"I told him I want to move on and I'd appreciate it if he didn't text me, take care and whatever else and all he said was ok, and that was it."
And you want to rekindle this relationship? It's over. Over with a capital O.
You say that he has you wrapped around his finger, but that's not what I'm reading. What I'm reading is that you go from one relationship to another, and in between times this guy is your fallback guy. He's not 'A', he's your plan 'B'. Maybe what's going on is that he's worked it out.
But it doesn't matter. You don't come back from stress and stupid arguments unless something external is keeping you together.
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I have dreams and then they happen a couple of days or weeks later. what does this mean? How does it happen? (link)
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http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Cherry-picking
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I think my boyfriend is starting to like my best friend, but hes going to ask me to marry him. What should i do? (link)
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Anything but say 'yes'. You could say 'no'. you could say 'wait a bit'. Or you could confront your b/f now and clear the air.
Anything but just full speed ahead to disaster.
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OK! I am a 14 year old girl and a Freshman. There is this guy I am close friends with that I finally admitted to myself that i like him he is a 17 year old M/Junior(I have known him for a year and I like him for his personality/ he just happens tp be cute ;D) In your answers please DON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT AGE! I am VERY mature for my age, and we both have A LOT in common. But so i ran into him at a music store we both know about and HE broke the touch barrier TWICE by hugging me for the first time. I haven't seen him since then (that was middle july) but we text everyday which is very nice. I will see him soon however (We have a Band fundraiser and Band Camp coming up. BTW both of us have never been in a relationship before) and here's the problem. I really really want him to kiss me, Or at least hug me. It's kind of freaking me out because i have never had this 'wanting' like this before. (I know it is suspected that Older guys go for younger girls for easy sex but i know he wouldn't. He is one of those shy guys that haven't dated yet) SO THE QUESTION: How can I hint for a kiss from a shy guy?? I can do hugs easily. Thank you any advice is appreciated :) (link)
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You can say "don't say anything about my age" if you want, but that doesn't change the fact that it matters.
Next year, he will be 18 and you will be 15. That means he will be up for statutory rape if you two do anything. You can "oh, but I'm mature for my age!" all you want: the law doesn't care.
If you like him, you should leave him alone. Your attentions could ruin his life.
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i am unable to maintain an errection and at times getting one
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See a doctor.
All these people on advicenators looking for medical advice! The best advice is always the same - go see someone who has studied and practised medicine for a few years.
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hi,i really want to knw how to get myself die fast cos i dont want to live anymore.i m married 3yrs ago n i have 10 mnts angle daughter and also we have planned for another which is due for nov-13.i am 30 yrs of age n got maried to 23 yrs.and its a love marriage.now the problem is her family they interfence alot in our things cos my wife(sahiba)keeps on telling everything to her mom each n everyday.now we always got a fight because of their calls.we r a family of 3 me my mom and sahiba.she always creates a scene with baseless reasons.and her family supports her even 2 in the night if she creates any fight her family knows n they call me and started threatning that they will call a police.and one day she (sahiba)called a police to arrest me n my mom.but immideatly her family n my family came to the spot and handle the situation n forced police to go as this is our family matter we will sout out ourself.what happened NOTHING after 10 days sahiba again stared messing in the home.with pity matters,she always started threatning me that i will teach u a lesson in a minute.THIS IS WRONG AND NOT AT ALL ACCEPTABLE.a wife threatning her husband.this is tooooo much,u knw its a bad law in INDIA they support girls even though they r wrong.i have given her everything more than my capability,but still she is not satisfied.i dont knw what to say but m tooo much depressed.now the new story is she keeps on telling her family that i hit her.how can i hit as i made a love marriage n loved her more than my life even she does.she is claming because one day she injured my mom by scratching all her hands from shoulder till hands.than we called her parents about her behaviour still they supported her by telling she have not done intentionally.Just right after that she started telling her family i hit her.pls tell me the way to get away from this HELL. (link)
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The marriage laws in India are very bad for men, and there's not much you can do. People will not admit that these laws are one of the reasons for the high rate of male suicides in India.
You are not mad, you are not a bad guy, you have not done anything wrong. What is happenning to you is happening to thousands of men just like you all over your country.
Go to
http://avoiceformen.com
http://mgtowforums.com
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