Hey every one I'm Megan and I'm 16.I like to just hang, relax, and of course go shopping! Like any other teenager I have to put up with alot of drama and what not so I can relate to just about every one. I figured I'd start an advice column i guess because I like giving out advice!
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oK..I'm 13 5'4 and about 98 pounds..I used to be skinny and stuff but now I'm starting to get a big belly. I run and do situps and drink water and try to eat healthy and everything, but I starting to get larger than I should be. Any ideas on how to keep a flat stomache and stop gaining to much more because I used to see myself good now Im huge. sorry if thats kinda long.
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Keep eating healthy and working out. You can also drink things with green tea in it because that speeds up your mutabilisism. You can also try things like the Adkins Diet and the South Beach diet. Go buy some books on it or search the internet for some good diets that will let you loose weight in a healthy way.
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ok. the other day my one friend went and sent me a link that said xanga and a couple other links that said buddy4uprofile and all so i thought they were all her info stuff. so i clicked on them alll and it came up that they were a bunch of porno sites and 3 of em i think were lesbian sites. I clicked outta them as soon as i realized wut they were and yelled at her for it. Well, today my mom woke up and yelled at me for them becuz she gets emails telling her what i go on. Well, now she thinks i am a lesbian even tho she says she believe me i kno neither of my parents do becuz my dad always. and i mean always says he loves me when he leaves to take her to work and he didnt until i said i love you too. I know they think im a lesbian and that they hate me even tho im not. i hate this and i dont want them thinking this. I told them a hundred times what happened and theyre like, "wut did the advicenato people tell u to say that." what do i do to make them believe me? (link)
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Tell them what really happened and tell them that they have no reason not to believe you. Im sure after a while they'll realize that thinking there daughter was a lesbian was just stupid. Plus a couple things you could do to make them change there minds are by putting up guy posters all over your walls, getting a boyfriend, or just go hang out wth a bunch of guys. But hey parents will be parents you can't change what they think right away.
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I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please (link)
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Talk to your parens about how its unfair to you that you cant be around him, and ask them if he can come over for dinner and hang out with your family and see what they think of him. You have to understand where your parents are coming from though, if there's a age difference then that might be one of there biggest concerns. But talk to your parents about letting him come over to see waht they think of him
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ok i have a boyfriend that i am in love with but when he is around his friends he acts like we are not even going out. i love him and i know he feels the same way and i dont want to break up so what can i do? (link)
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Oh my i have the same problem. Talk to him about it and see what he has to say, he might just be doing it for attention from his friends. And if you can try to avoid hanging out with him and his friends at the same time.
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In school, I always feel like people are judging me. Only the popular ones though (because I'm not popular, I'm just average). I always watch what I do, to make sure it's something the popular kids would "agree" with (I guess?). It's not that I want to be popular (because, believe me, I really don't), but I just want to feel comfortable around them. It's kind of a weird topic, but I want to get it off my mind. I hate not being myself and I want to stop, but it's hard. I want to know your opinion on this. Thank you so much (link)
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Don't worry about what other poeple think of you. Do you really think theyll make a difference in your life? And do you think it'll matter what they think of you in the next 5 years or so? Be your self maybe the "popular" kids will like that about you and maybe you'll find something new and interesting about yourself
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Okay I am crying as I write this but I am a Advicenator and I need advice...
My Ex Boyfriend Sam and I went out for 9 months and the relationship went fine and the break up was mutual but lately all we seem to do is fight and the fights are usuaally his doing...weather he talks about his new intrest (I know she is not his girlfriend because I have friends that know more than Sam does) or talk about things that he KNOWS that will upset me and provoke me to hang up on him or cry. Please help me to get to have a better friendship with him and I still like him like I did when we went out.
Age: 21
Gender: Female (link)
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Well from personal experiences I think you should keep trying. Try not to dwell on the things he does, he might be doing htem just to make you mad. Plus maybe he still has feelings for you. Maybe you and some of your friends should just go out and have a good time to get your mind off of things. You should also sit down and have a face to face talk with him, and if by chance you start crying in front of him don't sweat it b/c then he'll know how much you really care.
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I told a guy I would go to the fall homecomming with him but a week before I got caught sneeking out and got grounded. I told him I couldn't go with him anymore, then a couple days later my parents said I could go with him still. So I call him and and I asked him if he still wanted to go I could go with him, if not it was cool. But by that time he had another date. I really feel bad b/c I couldn't go with him and yes, I know it was really immature of my to sneak out. One of my friends said he thought it was rude of me to tell him I could still go with him...I don't get it, but should I appologize to him about not bieng able to go with him? I havn't talked to him in 2 months...thanks
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Tell him your really sorry about not being able to go with hima nd then ending up being able to go. Try to find another date and if you can't go with your friends there the best kind of date you can have and he did have a right to be upset because he probably got his hopes up to go with you and u knew you probably couldnt go and didnt tell him that
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Im 14 and about a year ago i started noticing wierd bumps on my thighs and the backs of my arms. The bumps are kinda like pimples they have white dots in them. Even if i dont shave they dont go away. Please Help Me!
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Try not to stress about it! Go to a dermatoligist and see what they have to say about it. Chances are that its just a skin rash and a cream will be able to clear it.
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Okay heres the thing i like this guy A LOT and were close friends and the other night he told me that he likes me too..which made me happy but the thing is right now we cant date because 3 of his best friends ( theyre girls ) like him and it would hurt them and start A LOT of drama...but he told me " i need u right here now i need u right now more than ever" and he told me i make him happy but its real hard ...and i dont know if he wants me to wait until everything cools down with his friends or should i try moving on n puttin interest in someone else....because i mean we both like eachother and we have chemistry....so what should i do!? (link)
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OK well Dear "what does he want me to do"
Let things go for a little while and see how everything goes chances are you's will get together when everything cools down. But dont loose interest and make sure u keep in touch with him or he'll think that he scared you away.
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