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Q: my boyfriend's birthday is coming up really soon, as in a few days soon. i've been a slacker and haven't gotten him anything yet. =/
he doesn't play any sports, and the whole music/CD thing's already been ruled out since he downloads his music. we've been dating since september if that helps any.
i have no idea what to get him. any suggestions?
thanks in advance. (:
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well you could always get him clothes or a type of cologne...
clothes:
*shirt
*pants
*hats
*shoes
*dogtag
etc..
Cologne:
*unforgivable for man
*ralph lauren
*tommy hilfigure
*tag body spray
etc...
hope i helped!
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Q: I'm 15 and just recently got my period
(Yes, I know I got it pretty late.)
I've only had it about 3 times now, but I HATE it.
I can't stand it. It makes me feel like I can't do anything with it.
Since I don't like pads, I wear tampons, but they're always popping halfway out.
(Which is weird because I'm not using a big size or anything.)
I constantly have to go "adjust" myself and I never
feel like going anywhere because I'm afraid I will leak.
Does anyone have any advice?
Any kind words would be appreciated right now.
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well if u cant stand it at all talk to your mom about letting you get the birth control shot.
that stops your period for 3 months and you get it done every 3 months.
if she says no to that a good way to know that you wont leak is while wearing a tampon also where a pantie liner underneath...
those are easy to move around it and it will also protect you from leaking...
dont worry you'll get used to having your period.
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Q: i am a 30 year old white male. and i have not seen my girlfriend in 2days, and we live together, and i think she is seeing her ex boyfriend. how do i handle things when i see her again ?
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well dont jump to conclusions...
when she come back ask her:
"why havent you been around for the past to days?
where have you been"
and if she say she was somewhere then say:
"are you sure you werent seeing your ex?"
and then if she really wasnt then you will be abel to tell...
just look for the sincerity in her eyes
good luck!
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Q: 16/M
I just met this girl the other night when i was out with my friend. I have been IMing her for like 3 days now and have talked on the phone w/ her twice. I neverrrr choke when i talk to girls, i usually always have something to say. Her friends told me she likes me and she told me.. i like her too for the amnt of time i have known her. I CANT THINK OF ANYTHING TO TALK ABOUT!! like i know ppl will say." start off with small talk get to know what shes interested in" or something along the lines of that, however its odd talking to her on the phone just asking a random question. usually i wld ask someone something becasue they hinted at it or w.e... all im trying to say is i need help talking to her, something new and exciting.. and nothing that will loose interest after a minute of talking abt it.
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there are many things you can talk about...
~MUSIC
*favorite singer/bands
*type of music
*fav song
~WHAT GUYS SHES INTERESTED IN...
that always is somthing fun to talk about and it goes on...
~HOW FAR SHES GONE..
thats also really fun to talk about
~whats her future plans...
basic stuff like that...
good luck!!!
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Q: What do i do if my friend uploaded a video on youtube and many people called her a chink with many other racist comments? Is making racists comments about their nationality a good idea?
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no racists comments are not a good idea...
its hurtful
but sadily the only thing you can really do is ask them to stop.
i hope i helped!
=]
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Q: heyy ok i really like this boy and he likes me but wants to keep it a secret for now...also he says it might become something more but he doesnt know what he wants yet. since new years is coming up should i give him until then to make up his mind and start frsh or just keep waiting. it hurts soo much to wait but i really really like this boy. please help!
thank you
jess
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i was put into almost the same situation
but if he truely does like you then he would want to tell the world...
and he wouldnt make you wait a long time...
it took me 6 months to relize that and i feel in love but then i got my heart broken and it still hasnt been repaired after all this time...
soo what im saying is that if your willing to deal with all the pain in the end then wait for him but if you know you to wont have a future together and you know you can find someone else then tell him that its now or never...
i know its hard to decide but its a decision you have to make
i wish you the best
good luck !
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Q: so, i was just wonderig, if it is possible to be in love at age 13? i know it sounds like a stupid question. but is that possible? since 13 is such a young age.
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yes you can fall in love at any age...
it doesnt matter how old you are
just as long as you know what love is then you can fall in love
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Q: So I just started watching the Hills, I know the basics, but why was Lauren so mad at Heidi and in the flashback its like "I want to forgive you and to forget you" what happened between them?
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she was mad at heidi because heidi and spencer spread a rumor about jason and lauren having a sex tape.
when lauren confronted heidi she compleatily denined it.
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Q: So you know how everyone says sex usually sucks for the girl since it hurts her but feels good for the boy? How do you know when to stop? Does the girl orgasm or just the boy? Do you stop when the boy orgasms?
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if its the fisrt time it will probley hurt depending on how big the guy is and how tight the girl is. you will both have orgasms but probley the girl more. There isnt really a time you stop its basically when you hit the climax..
which is the highest peak...
but ya when you hit it you'll know.
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Q: I'm 15 and I usually don't wear any makeup but when I do I only wear some eyeliner and mascara. I wanna get more though. What kinds of stuff should I buy? i was in sephora yesterday and there's so much nice stuff but I don't know what to get. I would like it if I could get some advice from girls about my age b/c I want to wear what's in style and nothing too crazy. I have dark brown hair, blue eyes, and a light complexion. If you could just give me some tips and tell me what you do and what brands to get, that would be great! Pictures would be nice too.
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cover up is always a good thing to have.
try: L'oreal true match
and you can never go wrong with a little blush.
L'oreal has really good brands of it.
you might also concerdering getting some eye shadow to match your eye color or even the color of some of your clothing.
and of course you can never forget lip gloss...
it has to be very shiney so try:::
N.Y.C KISS GLOSS
they have many different colors and they even just have clear shine which is my favorite
!!!!
good luck
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Q: my boyfriend of 2years and i had sex recently and i found out i'm pregnant. we didn't plan on this, and it was a horrible accident, i don't know how to tell him, because i'm worried that he will just leave me, i'm considering abortion, but i need to tell him first, and i want to tell him before i start to show.
1. how do i tell him?
2. about how far along in the pregnancy will i show?
thanks.
16/f
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sit him down and say "this is important, we need to talk"
that will get his attention.
then say "you know last week (or whenever you 2 had sex) when we had sex. well i took a pregnancy test and it was positive. im pregnant."
and wait for his reaction.
then talk about what you think you should do.
if he's going to leave you then he's not meant to be your boyfriend, that'll show his true colors.
i think you start showing after 3 months
good luck!!!
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Q: Okay. is a 7 1/2 penis size. Small, big or average?
and what is considered big?
and what is considered small?
and what is considered average?
because my boyfriend says hes 7 1/2 at FULL length (like hard) and will that give me pleasure?
i always wondered this.
if your not going to be nice with answering this question please don't answer it. =/
thanks in advance! =]
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7 1/2 is a really good size.
its concedered big!
less then 5= small
5-7= is average
and
7 and up= big
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Q: me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time...how do we know if her cherry has popped??
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well the only way you could know is if you ask her. she is really the only one who finds out because she'll bleed.
ask her if it did.
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Q: Ok I so do not know how to dance... and I was just wondering how do you grind with a guy? ugh i feel so dumb
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Grinding is really easy!
you have to feel it to make it work,
and to make it look sexy.
this might sound weird but its looks normal.
you basically bend your knees and move your butt around in circles, and side to said and pop it, and shake it, whatever goes with the beat of the music. once you get the hang of it then you wanna drop it.
take it all the way down to the ground using your hips and and legs.
i hope i helped
=]
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Q: I'm 18.. and a virgin..
I've been going out with a guy for a year now...we love eachother alot...
I want to have sex after marriage..
due to religious reasons and also because i think it will be of more value when you have sex for the first time on your first night...
But he wants to have sex before that....
the 1st time i explained my reasons to him he said he understood.. but now he seems to be changing..
a few days ago he bought that conversation up again
and when i explained it to him all over again he was pissed with me
"aren't you willing to have sex with me?" "dont you love me?" "why are you doing this to me?"
etc
why is he in such a hurry? doesnt he value me or respect me???
what can be wrong
I just dont know what to do now..
please help me:(
please dont tell me to dump him... I love him alot and i cant live without him...
is anything wrong with me??? if so please explain ...
Please help me...
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dont change your morals because of a guy.
if he keeps saying that then you should say
"if you truely love me then you'll wait"
dont let him force you into somthing your not ready for, because then you'll regreat it.
just hope that he understands and if he doesnt then he isnt the right guy for you...
i hope everything works out!!!
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Q: this might sound stupid, but what if you are about to have sex, and his penis is to large for your vagina and it doesnt go in, it wont fit. does that happen? and why does that happen? what are you supposed to do?
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dont worry it will go in.
vagina's are retractable and they can extract too..
but if he is really really big, he might tare you.
soo be careful
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Q: How do you give a hickey?
15/f
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well you just suck on the guys neck...
that's basically it but you gotta make it all sexy..
you know like make-out with his neck.
sounds funny but it works
=]
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Q: so i like this guy and one of his friends found out and told him, he told him that i was nice and he wanted to hang out with me more, when we hang out we'll be with a group of friends , so guys, what things do you like girls to do or act when you're with a group of friends? 14/f
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well im not a guy obviously
but guys get totally turned off if your fake.
dont be all shy.
just be yourself
and you'll be fine...
you dont want a guy likeing you for something your not!
good luck!!!
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Q: I asked my boyfriend on saturday if he wanted to go to the movies sunday. He doesn't have a lot of money, so i was going to pay, no problem, but when i asked, he told me he didn't want to go because he just "didn't feel like going." the only thing it would have cost him was time.
i've been trying a lot harder lately at being more open to him, and he's not returning the favor. it feels like my trying is just worthless.
for some reason unknown to me, i really like him, but i'm starting to have doubts about how he feels towards me. he hasn't told me that he loves me in days, and it's kind of worrisome. (sp?)
i really do love him, there's no doubt to it, but i'm not sure if this is going to work out. should i break up with him or give him one more chance or what?
thanks in advance. (:
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i think you should just wait a little bit.
only time will tell if hes right for you or not.
everything will work out they way its suppose to happen...
just be patient
:]
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Q: okay, i'm not sure what's wrong with my skin.. because it's itchy, and it starts out as looking like goose bumps. and starts itching.. then gets worse.. now i have something that looks like a scab that itches.. but it's not really a scab.. i showed it to my mom, and she was basically scrapping it with her finger, and says that it has water in it.. and that it had "bubbles" and water was coming out.. and she told me not to use soap because it'll make it itch more. it's starting to spread.. and i don't know what is it. my family has a dry skin problem.. and i just don't know.. help? what is it? what's wrong? and how can i cure it?
no, it's not scabbies, posion ivy or psirosis.. because if i did, i would've gave it to one of my family members, my boyfriend, and my friends.. but i'm with them all the time, and they don't have it. so it's not contagious..
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well try neosporin.
that seriously almost works for everything.
use that intill it starts to go away.
and if that doesnt work you should go to the doctors cuz u never know what it might be
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bio
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My name is sara
i put my opinion into things.
i love helping people with their problems.
ask me whatever you want, and i will try my best to answer it
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Info
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Gender: Female Age: 18 AIM: Member Since: December 20, 2007 Answers: 123 Last Update: December 28, 2009 Visitors: 7596
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