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talking to a new girl
16/M
I just met this girl the other night when i was out with my friend. I have been IMing her for like 3 days now and have talked on the phone w/ her twice. I neverrrr choke when i talk to girls, i usually always have something to say. Her friends told me she likes me and she told me.. i like her too for the amnt of time i have known her. I CANT THINK OF ANYTHING TO TALK ABOUT!! like i know ppl will say." start off with small talk get to know what shes interested in" or something along the lines of that, however its odd talking to her on the phone just asking a random question. usually i wld ask someone something becasue they hinted at it or w.e... all im trying to say is i need help talking to her, something new and exciting.. and nothing that will loose interest after a minute of talking abt it.
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honestly hun, we have all had this problem at one oint or another. even with just starting platonic friendships. the best thing that i have found to work is to play a game on the phone. what you do is go back and forth asking each other questions. they can eventually get fun and random. from what is your favorite color to your most embarassing memory and what are you allergic to. it will give you both an insight into each other lives and the ablity to learn about each other in a fun and exciting new way. give it a try, worse thing that could happen... you both share some embarassing stories about yourselves.
and i can assure you that she will like it. all of us girls do.
just ask her if she wants to play this game once the conversation starts lagging. SHE WILL SAY YES. you start by asking her a question. remember not to cut her off, and be honest. we appriciate honesty.
good luck hon.
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before talking to her, think of something to say, that could start a dconversation
for example, when you see her at shcool next or something, ask her about her winter break and what she did. what she got for christmas.
thats a good convo and it can lead to other stuff. just be like hey whats up. its casual. trust meee girls worry about guys too! and like ahh what do i say?! so you dont need to worry about it =] and since you barely know her, eventually youll get to know her better and conversation will just come more naturally. but a good way to have a good conversation is the winter break one. so say that, and then she'll remember this conversation, and she'll be like hes tight =]
good luck
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there are many things you can talk about...
~MUSIC
*favorite singer/bands
*type of music
*fav song
~WHAT GUYS SHES INTERESTED IN...
that always is somthing fun to talk about and it goes on...
~HOW FAR SHES GONE..
thats also really fun to talk about
~whats her future plans...
basic stuff like that...
good luck!!!
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If you have not difficulties in the past with talking to girls, then you must realize that every girl is different. This girl in particular may or may not be more intimidating than the other girls... Also, whenever you are in a situation where you are stuck, confused, don't know what to say or do, remember to always inform your partner of that. If you just say to her, (Whatever her name is), " I'm definitely use to talking with girls, but its something about you that makes me short for words." Trust me she will understand and take that into consideration instead of just thinking your boring or not interested. Always bear in mind to be as straight forward as possible. Remember to always practice before you speak with her. Rehearse what you're going to say, that way you should have it down packed! Good Luck!!!
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