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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen. (us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)
You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?
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Hey ppl! Jus wonderin if u cud tel me sum good teen films i cud watch :) Fnx xxx
Teen films is alot to cover but, hey, that's why I'm here.
John Tucker Must Die
Freedom Writers
Stomp The Yard
Or watch rerun movies like
Meaangirls
Bring it on
Sugar and Spice
Jawbreaker
Have fun!!!
these 2 girls got in a fight..k and e. k is the one that they are mad at for no reason. e got one of her friends and then she got involved. at lunch , and friend that got involved pour a whole container of milk of k 's head and her friends' head. i was friends with all of them. now, the involved friend with e called and asked if i was mad and if i still wanted to be their friends. i said i was mad so now they are mad at me!!! wat do i do.
im friends with k... not e
First getting involved in somethingso serious puts more beef in the situation. Let them all know that you over it, and that its the past be like "you all still mad about that, hey, I got over it a while ago. Don't worry about its the past, and walk to where you need to go slowly". But watch the tone as you say this. I hope this catfight works out. Good Luck :):):):)
is it possible that if i excercise a lot my shoe size can get smaller? im a size 8.5 or 9 (please dont say that my shoe size is right or normal, i want a smaller foot) and i would like to get to a size 6 or 7 if its possible. but if not, are there any other ways to get a smaller foot besides surgery? thanks!
besides surgery there is no other way to make your foot smaller. The size you are born with is the size you willhvae that's just the way it is. All I know is that many models, like Tyra Banks for example, wear size 10 and have to feet their feet in a shoe 3 SIZES SMALLER. Consider yourself lucky. Wearing a smaller shoe than your own size is painful.
I'm still in highschool, but I plan on applying for NYU for music business.
I was on their website, and seeing what was needed to apply, and they mentioned atleast 5 needs of singing?
Anyone currently in NYU majoring in music business, must you really sing to apply?
Does anyone know if you must be good at singing to be accepted in music business, because I have no musical talents, and can't quite grasp the need of singing well to be in music business?
Please tell me what you do know.
It could be abotu any college that has music business, but primarily NYU.
Thankyou!!
Then you don't absolutely need to have a great voice. If you know your math, psycology, and great financial skills you will do just fine. Most people in the music industry under management can't sing to save a life honestly. Think about Barry Gordy, Beyonce's father, L.A. Reid, they all cannot sing. Sorry about the mixup, and I hope you make it
i love frankie b. jeans, their back pocket designs, their fit everything, except their way too low cut is there any other DESIGNER jean taht has like the same style as frankie b except not being super low cut. Thanks (ps i'd appreciate it if you didn't tell me 7s or rock and republic)
sorry if this sounds weird
Apollo or Arostotle jeans are low cut but not so low when you bend down they go low showing the junk in the trunk. They curve slightly to the womens body and fit perfectly. You should try them
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My dad died in october and stuf... and this guy i really liked and once went out with, his name is zach, went to his funeral. at the time i was dating his brother trace , haha. and trace told me that zach only went to my dad's funeral to get out of school for the day.
this made me angry and hurt me really badly. i didnt show it at the time and idk why but i still like him. any ways now several months later hes saying stuf like he thinks he likes me and hes shown some jelouse moments and yeah. one day i asked him if he went to my dads funeral just to get out of school and he said kinda
so hes on and off liked me and i dont know what to do!!! if he ever asks me out again should i saay yes or no???
would it be disrespectful to my dad ???
idk wat to do!!!!!
This is all about your heart. You have your dad inyour heart you confused if there is room for zach. your dad more than anything would want you to be happy. If you feel like its the right time to orgive him for that. Than do that. If you feel that that can neve change him,t hat's his disrespectful to the core. no ones needs to tell yya when ya should say no. Good luck, sory about yo dad, and did he really say that?
i have at least a hundred teen vogue and Seventeen magazine issues and i need a way to organize them. i've attempted to go through and clear out the ones i dont like but that only eliminated about four magazines. my house is tiny and my room is extremely tall and i need a way to organize them without making it look like clutter. i often use them for inspiration for my paintings so i really would like not to get rid of them. any help?
Try finding a special shelve, place, or part of your room to set your inspiraion. Try going online looking for book organizers that you can use for your magazines. If you feel you should only get rid of 4, then, get rid of its really up to you. If some aren't as inspiring as before you know what to do. Good Luck :) :) :) :)
for the past 5 days my stomach has been upset. but over those 5 days ive started throwing up alot using the bathroom alot and getting dizzy also. everytime i stand up to go to the bathroom i feel like im about to fall because i feel so dizzy. my dad says to just drink lots of fluids but that doesnt seem to be helping haha ive been taking pepto-bismol and dayquil and nightquil. any advice on what i can take for my dizzyness (its the dizzyness like when you first get up in the morning and everythings off track)
thanks in advance
If water, peptol-bismol, and even NYQUIL didn't work you'll have to check in with a doctor. If you had had unprotected sex god forbid nothing bad has gone wrong. Try going online and browse for dizziness symtoms. They are specialists that can also help maybe even better than I can. I hope you feel better:):):):):):)
Okay, long story short. This girl Jenny, I hate we have a horrible history of friendship. Well we were pretty clsoe at the end of 7th grade. Before that a girl named Kelly and I were really good friends since 6th grade. At the beginning of the 7th grade I was really bithcy and told her to lets break the friendship and Kelly was really hurt by that and I still regret it. Mainly it was because of our stupidity and my rashg actions. Also Jenny made it hard for me to be friends with Kelly knowing that she always talked bad about her saying she was a poser an annoying and etc. So now we're in 9th grade and Kelly and I are still friends but not good ones. Well Jenny has no one to sit with at lunch and picked KElly to be her "friend" But I know from experience and from knowing others who were her friends that Kelly is just gonna get all the stress and hurt at the end because Jenny's just like that. Every friend she had dislikes her now because of her cruel, selfish, and rude actions and such stuff. Kelly doesn't realize it yet but she will soon and I don't want Kelly to get hurt. I never told Kelly that Jenny talked bad about her like woah for a year and how Jenny urged me every second I saw her to get away from KElly. I know that it was my fault that I broke it off and I was stupid enough to let a person that I wasn't that close with back then to come between a good friendship. I want to tell Kelly that she shouldn't get too close with Jenny and what Jenny said and did about Kelly. But I don't know how without villfying Jenny and seeming like I'm jealous of their friendship and blah blah..
At anytime when she brings her up, and jenny is not around explain to her what you had witnessed about Jenny, and make sure you have many others to defend along with this. Tell her how Jenny feels about her. It seems like she is using kelly cause she has nobody to hang out with. Use a slow and easy tone, and a solem face as if its really nothing to you. So the truth won't be messed up
My parents want to give me a credit card for my 16th bday. How can they give me one that goes to their account?
If they give you want that goes to their account that would be more like a debit card then credit. Girl you are turning sixteen:):). You need freedom.
To do that they would have to contact the credit card company they are applied to, and access an "automatic charge" or something like that, that takes the money out of their account right when you use it.
Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?
Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)
I understand your position. He may think that if you are mature enough to date him, then you are mature to have sex. That isn't true. Not feeling right is a good dign. It is letting you know if you step out you are pushing yourself away from HIV or even sudden pregnancy.
I would just let him know how you feel about all this. Its up to you. Just remember that the power you have over your man is your voice. TRUST ME he'll understand.
Oh yea, I'd use a condom instead, because he doesn't sound like a virgin to me. HIV is like so dangerous. I mean it used to be from ages 18-25, now its like 12-18. You're not the only one :) :)
I have recently started working for a WONDERFUL company and within weeks, I have been offered a position as ICM (inventory conrol manager) i would get salary and would have to work more hours, however My family and b/f are promting me to go back to school. since i'm only 19 and i have my entire career life ahead of me. i'm not so sure what school has to offer me since i see alot of my family members College grads without jobs and I live in MICHIGAN and unemployment is up 7%!!!! wouldn't it be a waist of my money to go back to school or a wise investment in my life?the compay i work for is well known for promoting withing the company and career advancement. and i dont know what i would major in if i went back to school.
Even if you have a job, its up to you to decide whether or not you need something to fall back on. What if 4 to 5 years from now we have a 2nd George Bush(not to offend you if you're on his side). If taxes are raised or company in debt they'll have to cut employees, and we allknow what that means. You have family who have so much confidence in you. You need to find what you want for yourself, not them.
A major in college you should take as a hobby something you love to do, and very comfortable with. I wish you grat and wonderful luck no matter what choice you make
My friend, she grew up havin a hard life... and so did her boyfriend, but his was really bad with an abusive father who was really bad. and know her boyfriend is like pshyco. I love my friend to death, and her and this boy have been going out for 8 months or more now and shes so in love with him. The other night she came over and she told us a story. He beat her up, threatened to kill her, and told her to get in a cage and she said no so he started beating her up. shes only 14, same with him. Im scared to death for her, but i know she loves him. He's been sent away to soo many places to try and fix him, but none work. Does anybody know any advice to try and help him.. Iknow when hes not in one of his pshyco stages his a really big sweat heart.. but what if someday something more happens, and he really hurts her/ or worse.
OMG She needs to find help for him from authority right away. we both know we don't want the worst to happen. You need to calmly speak to your friend and let her know that you are there for her and ask her if she can contact an anger managment program. He's not psycho he's had a hard past. When all those emotions are kept inside, when there is no room to fill, everything he may have wanted his father to feel is coming right out. You have heart thinking about someone ya call psycho be proud and do the right thing. you know what you need to do. I know your friend will be alright. No matter what do not call DR.Phil. Keep this personal and on a low profile type of level.
i really want to loose 15-20 pounds by beginning of march. it's hard around the holidays & everything but i really dont like the way my clothes look on me and i just feel so fat and i want to feel hot and feel good aout myself so can someone please give me tips to aide me in eating & exercise? PLEASE PLEASEEEEEEEE im desperate
before you do check out your BMI (body mass index) here
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
See if you are at normal weight and make sure what you are doing is for you and not for others and the way they feel about you. I am not going totell you people who have died from struggled weight, and committed suicide from it.
But I will say this. In stead of eating the normal 2,000 calories a day, eat 1,500 calories a day mark off everything you eat, and their calories at the end of the day, everyday, before you go to bed.
ctrl+ paste the following to microsoft word and print:
10 Ultimate No, No's When Dieting
1. Stay away from carbs
2. Stay away from anything fried,or injected with chemicals
3. No bread that has been enriched, and if you really want to lose weight no bread at all.
4. No sweets, candy, or the tasty sugar. you'll look good if you do this
5. No juice such as minute maid, or tropicana, try fresh orange juice with pulp, yes I know pulp
5. Make sure you are always moving. Go to the mall every wekkend and stay away from food court sections, but if you are hungry there get subway.
6. Stay away from the scale. Do not even peak at that scale until 5 weeks later. It kills you on how much you have not lost. people say its good to track with a scale its not it takes you have track and takes away great confidence
7. buy lots of fruit, do not by products that had fat in it and the suddenly switched to fat free. eat the original no fat stuff
8. eat nothing 3 hours before bedtime except a plate full of green grapes
9. check the mirror, not the scale, every morning. most weight is burnt off over knight, so take a nice shower before bed.
10. Be happy for yourself and not for others, stand strong and stay focused.
I wish you goood luck.
I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.
The like the old saying age ain't nothing but a number. You don't know if a 14 year old has been through all of the "forbidden for young" things in life such as drugs, abuse, threats, bullying, manipulative mean girls, and eracism. Anybody of any age over 3 can experience it. That's why those who have lved to tell the tale have that same strength, that same confidence to make it through, and lead many others through that path.
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14 years old and I give one of the best advice out there, by "opinion", of course
Oh yea, let's see you relate to many out there who need personal help
Here's my question for you
How do you say you love someone and love someone, and you really don't?
Ok, i have this BEST FRIEND (maybe i should say i USED to have this best friend) that tells me everything, and she is just great. But then all of a sudden she started hanging out with this other girl and now they are like best friends. I dont care if she makes some other friends, but its like i'm being replaced! Her "new" best friend thinks i'm weird, and she thinks that i'm mean to her. Well of COURSE i'm mean to her, shes taking my bff away!! newayz, lateley i've been thinkin about telling my best friend i dont wanna be friends anymore, but i dont know if thats the right thing to do!! HELP ME....should i try to hang on or ditch her?
Hang out to her. Let her know what true friend is like you're not being completely replced, you're just ingnored for a little. Who you need to talk to is the new friend of your best friend explain to her aout your fellings. And let her know that you don't care if she think you weird but make it clear to her that you can't be pushing me out of the picutre with my friend and try calling your friend over the weekend and push your plans in like she has been pushing your plans out. Tellthe new girl by action you know exactly what she is trying to do, but at the same time allow your beast friend to make new friends you will always be her friend she just wants to get to know the other a lot more
What is everyone's favorite songs?
I need to add more songs to my ipod, since it was stolen. List about 5 of your favorite songs, with teh artist. please? Thanks!
Top new songs by polls are:(drumrolls)
Justin Timberlake- goes around,comes around
Paula Deena- Walk away
Rihanna- break it off
Diddy f/ Christina Aguliera- Tell Me
Webter f/ Young B- chicken noodle soup
I got my period for the first time in May. Since then I've only gotten it 3 times, and I'm still irregular. But whenever I get my period, I become sort of...disgusted with myself. The thought of blood coming out of my body disgusts me, and sometimes I see the little things of blood and I actually throw up. What should I do to become more comfortable with my body during this time?
I know this is is going to sound so gay, but just pretend that you are 3 again using a teen diaper, and that you just peeing, in your diaper(or tampon). If you don't think about it in the wrong way trust me it won't come out the wrong way. You should just think like you think while you are on top of the toilet. You never think about what you are doing when you are on top of the toillet you just go. I know this sounds stupid, but believe it or not. periods come and go. stupid comes stupid goes. and relax now you can be called a woooo-man sing your song with prde, gurl. Good luck, and I hope I have helped
ok so i have a housekeeper, but i always feel so sorry for her..well one because she is a housekeeper, a single mother with 2 kids whose husband left her, and she has a lot of different jobs. and because we are a really annoying family..like i feel bad for her because i'm always having her take me for a smoothie or something after school (but i always pay her back) and i'm picky about dinnner,etc... but i'm really nice to her. she's really nice and i dont know i just feel so bad for her..and she can't speak english that well either so we sometimes have communication problems. but my mom is sometimes sooo mean to her like she would start like yelling at her being like "why didnt you spend 4 hours this week cleaning the bathrooms?! this is our promise when you started working for us!? how are you going to make this up!" and omggg its horrible and the housekeepers like on the verge of tears and says that she'll work an extra day next week,but my moms like "nooo that wont make up for this week waht are you going to do!?" and she just keeps pushing it ! you don't even understand how mean my mom is she was like yelling at her .. ughh idk i wish my mom would stop being so mean i was like "mom ill clean the bathrooms!" because i couldnt stand it anymore and my mom got mad at me. i seriously hate my mom i don't understand why she has to be so mean and pushy to everyone..yeah i know she pays the housekeeper but htat doens't give her a right to be so rude? helppp..?
You did the right thing telling off your mother but I guess to her the tone was wrong. You have heart caring for the housekeeper. Your mother on the otherhand... I don't know. To be kind everytime the housekeeper comes to your house, and mom's not around you should offer to do some work with her, just to prove to her that she is appreciated. Then apologize(if your mother won't) for your mother's rudeness towards her. We have a housekeeper, too. But my mom never spends time yelling at her. She just simply tell her that we're getting a new one. Offering to clean the bathrooms and toilets is a start. I wish you good luck
should i wait for my boyfriend to come and talk to me or should i go make the first move and talk to him.
If its about a break up. If you don't want it to end you should end that conversation before it starts. But if you and your boyfriend just got into an argument. if he did wrong wait for him, if you did wrong wait for.... yourself hahaha. Good luck