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frienship blues :-(
Ok, i have this BEST FRIEND (maybe i should say i USED to have this best friend) that tells me everything, and she is just great. But then all of a sudden she started hanging out with this other girl and now they are like best friends. I dont care if she makes some other friends, but its like i'm being replaced! Her "new" best friend thinks i'm weird, and she thinks that i'm mean to her. Well of COURSE i'm mean to her, shes taking my bff away!! newayz, lateley i've been thinkin about telling my best friend i dont wanna be friends anymore, but i dont know if thats the right thing to do!! HELP ME....should i try to hang on or ditch her?
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Hang out to her. Let her know what true friend is like you're not being completely replced, you're just ingnored for a little. Who you need to talk to is the new friend of your best friend explain to her aout your fellings. And let her know that you don't care if she think you weird but make it clear to her that you can't be pushing me out of the picutre with my friend and try calling your friend over the weekend and push your plans in like she has been pushing your plans out. Tellthe new girl by action you know exactly what she is trying to do, but at the same time allow your beast friend to make new friends you will always be her friend she just wants to get to know the other a lot more
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omg i have like the same exact situation as you. i would just talk to your BFF about how you feel. it may not work but at least she will know & then she can make the choice. if she chooses the other girl, then shes not a good friend & she can screw herself. if she is a good friend she will understand how you feel & she will come back to you. good luck! drop one in my inbox & let me know how it goes.
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I would talk to her about it because you will regret losing your best friend- trust me. Talk to her and be like why are you replacing me, and then if she doesn't give any good answers just say "maybe we need to make new friends"... but say it nicely, don't just yell it out. If she's a good friend she'll stay with you.
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