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Hey im an high school graduate and live in New Jersey where i give advice to all my friends and other people. I give great advice and i wiling to hlp all of you in your time of need. so if you need help remeber: Jazzy Got Da Answer

Jazzy**

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I am really confused what to do. Long time ago when I was 13, I met a guy who had a crush on me. It developed until I felt the same way. that guy was 3 years older than me and he felt I was too young so he decided not to pursue anything beyond friends.

Now I am 19. I've moved on with the other though it really hurt because i love him so much until now. I have accepted the facts that we are not meant to be. I met this awesome guy. He really loves me more than anything else in the world. Because of this love from him, I want to be with him because i know he will make me happy. So, I am with him right now. Not long ago, the guy I met 6 years ago and I started chatting online. then, he told me that he loves me and he is willing to wait for me. I am in overseas studying so we only communicate through email/chatting. I know i love him more than the guy I am with right now. But I know for sure that the guy I am with right now loves me more than the guy i met 6 years ago. What should I do? Should I stay with the guy I am with right now? or should I go with the guy I've been waiting for all my teenage years? I'm not even sure if the guy i met 6 years ago is serious or just playing around. I dont want to get hurt from him anymore because it's so hard to move on. I have never loved anyone as much as I love him. please help.

hey now i understand that you lovvee him soo much but you have to look at it when yall was younger he led you on than drop you so how you know he wont do it again. and you may love the guy you use to know he might not be that same person you grew to love people change over the years.
So if i was you I would play it safe and stay with the man that i know loves me and is going to treat you right. he think he can leave you and then come back NO it dosent work like that. and you dont want to hurt the guy your with. becasue you will be doing the same thing that the guy did to you and you didnt like how that felt

Jazzy** the choice is up o you but make the right one.

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I'm 13/f and women always tell me about how beautiful I am. I also get this from my friends. So if it's true, why don't any guys seem to think so?

your 13 and boys at 13 dont even know how to tell a gurl they like better yet she's beatiful. dont sweat it they may not tell you but there thinking it and telling there friends

JAzzy**

im 18 and guys my age still cant tell a gurl she pretty.

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ive got a boyfriend that i have been with for about 3 nd a half months. he has the oppurtunity to move to italy and europe and i live in new zealand. i love him and is my first love and am so cut up about it. i really need help on how to deal with it. i dont want any1 else and we will have to break up becoz long distance relationships are just to hard. hes going for his racing and may have to go for years. help please. i am almost 15. please dont say im to young for having a bf coz ive already heard it from other people.

you may not likt this but honey 15 and 3 months youll be alright it would take so time but trust you will get over it.and if it's meant to be you two would be together even with the long distance

Jazzy**

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Sorry if this is soo long but its pretty serious.

my Male Cousin recently got marriedlike 4 months ago. And his wife is pregnant. Well not even a week ago her grandfather & grandmother & two half brothers came over from oklahoma to florida. yea perfect right. not. while there her grandfather was driving around with my male cousin and said his driving was horrible. Saturday Morning the grandfather insisted on leaving but my male cousin didnt want him to drive with the grandmother and the 2 kids while his drving was bad. But the grandfather insisted and left. not even 30 min onto the highway he got in a serious car accident. He drove right into one of those huge trucks & flipped the van a few times. It was horrible. the grandmother and the younger of the two kids passed right away. The older kid and the grandfather were on life support. They finally got released out of the hospital a few days ago. Now my cousin && his wife are going to oklahoma for the funeral.

Next part.
His wifes mother & stepdad live with her grandparents. The youngerof the kids was the stepdads only kids with her and she can't have anymore. No one wants anything to do with the grandfather at all.

Now my mom wants advice and i have no idea what to say to her. The grand father has really no reason to be hated in my view. He lost his family also.

What is your guys view & what would you say in this situation?

thank you.

Your so right it's no reason to be mad at the grandfather because he has his owb guilt to deal with. just as they lost there family so did he so everyone need to be there for eachother around this time. Because from experinece losing a loved one can make you wanna die. so try to let everyone know they all need to be there for each othe in this time of need. and as you can see life is to short to holding grudges.'

Ill keep your family in my prayer
sorry for your lost

Jasmine**

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i recently (like a week ago)moved from reddeer to calgary i have lived in calgary before i didnt really like it but i moved to reddeer and i loved it i was popular and not afraid to show who i am (and i was afraid in calgary)i found great freinds and a good job so when i moved back it hurt me alot when i told my freind i felt unhappy she told me to get over myself and atleast try i got pissed off and told her she had no clue wat she was talking about but then one day i ran into this kid who used to bully me with my sister it really affected me to see him then my sister got mad and said i should get over myself and try to make freinds.
wat is ur opionion?are they right and wat do u think i should do?

i understand that your feeling some type of way but real talk it's to much going on in the world to be upset(i just gave advice to a young girl who friend lost her parents) basically im sayin live your life. Get over it
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Jazzy**

first of all you the one whose depressed for know damn reaon so i rate u a -0


first of all you just want me to tell you what you want to hear and i wont i dont know about other but i keep it real u crying for no damn
reason when people losing loved ones


honey i not mad because you gave me a bad rating becasue thats your opinion just like what i said to u is mine and plus everyone else gave me a 5 and i know i DAMN GOOD AT WHAT I DO. Now you have a nice day.

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My period is 2 weeks late. I have had it for 4 years now so it has kinda got normal, and i know they can come late but 2 weeks!? Is that okay? or is it bad?

it can be changing with the season or it can be stress. there's alot of this that can relay your period. if you wanna be completly sure go to the OBYGN asap.

Jazzy**

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My dog has been acting strange. She digs her nose in between her blanket inside of her cage, and has started licking herself 'down there' a lot. This behavior is the same as when she was pregnant when she was 8 months old. She is currently 3 years old. What's going on?

if the only time she act like this is when she was pregnant maybe she pregnant again. take her to the vet to be completly sure


Jazzy**

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Well i have this friend that i love dearly and would do anything for but she was on vaction with her family and some really good friends of the family that were like my friends second parents to her... well while they were on vaction there friends got into a crash with a drunk driver and that family lost there parents and they a little girl adn now my friend is really hurt cause she is hanging with the little girl who lost her mom and dad...this is really killing her tho cause she lost her second parents and some friends...any ideas to help out her the family and the little girl? And please anyone who reads this please keep them in your prayers thanks!!!

i will keep them in my prayers because i know how it feels to lose someone close to you. all i can say you can do is be there for your freind and the little girl. It isnt much you can do because you cant bring them back.

Sorry for the lost and i hope your friend and the little girl get through this. It will take a while for this wound to heal so be there for her.

I will pray for all of you

Jazzy**

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my birthday is coming up in the middle of july and i dont know what to get for a present.. does anyone have any ideas that a girl turning 16 should get for her birthday (besides a car.. my family can't afford to get me one of those)

if you dont have an ipod one of those or concert tickets to see your fsviorte artist. thats what im getting for my 18th birthday.

june 24

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Two weeks ago I got into a fight with a man that was a close friend of mine. The fight was over msn messanger. I told him I would never have an affair with a married man but that I still wanted to be his friend. Now he wants nothing to do with me and has even blocked me off his contact list. It hurts so bad because he had been a friend of mine for the last 4 years- I was beginning to think that he was hoping I would have an affair with him because he isnt happy in his marriage- I would only ever be intimate with him IF he left his wife. I can't believe what a jerk he is being- It's kind of stupid to end a four year friendship over that. Does anyone have any advice for how I can feel better? And don't you think he is being a jerk?

i know your hurting but i think you should be hapry that your not with him because if he's trying to hyave an affair with you why he's married imagine if yall was together would he do the same thing to you. just fall back he'll be back because he's gonna miss your friendship

Jazzy**

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Okay, my best guy friend likes me, I really fell for him, but when I found out he liked me back, I don`t know why but then it seemed so gross to me cause were such good friends. At times, I like him, but at other times I don`t want to take our friendship anywhere else. However, I get jealous when he talks about other girls. He`s not that attractive, and he can be annoying, and sometimes those things really get to me. I`m confusing the poor boy and myself, what should I do?

you need to sit down and decide do you really wnat to do this. sometimes you have to weigh the good and bad. and sometimes you have to take chance or do things that you would never thought you would those the things that work out the best

good luck on any choice you make

Jazzy**

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i am a very shy person, even when i am around people i know i always feel like anything i say they are judging me about it! or that they are talking about me! i suppose its more that i am paranoid, but is there anything i can do to stop this!? please help its really embarrasing!

it's time to stop caring what vpeople might think and live for you. stop caring so much and just chill. everythingwould go good.

Jazzy**

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If I wore a reg. size tampon and put it in at 12 and then woke up around 8 maybe nine will I be at a health risk?

to be on a the safe side i would wear a pad when you go to sleep and a tampon during the day


JAzzy**

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ok theres this guy that i have known for a little over a year. and lastnight my friend had a party. and i dont know what happend..i just like fell in love with that kid. i would ask him out, but i dont want other people to judge me for going out with him. hes really cute and really really nice. and i like that in a guy. we were flirting with eachother and one of my friends only knows and she said i should go for him. but i dont want other people to think im like weird for going out with him. i dont know what to do!! and my friend, who told me to ask him out, was like i think he likes you and all that stuff and im confused!! please help. ill rate high!!
x3

i dont understand why would people think your weird for going out woth him. another thing if you keep livin your life on how pwople think you would never get nothing or make it anwhere and thats real talk it's time to start living for you. and what makes you happy and not what people might say or what the might think of you

Jazzy**
hope i helped

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well i heard today that my ex cheated on his last girlfriend. that really worries me because i have beent here before. i asked him about it and said it wasnt true. i really want to trust him but i have had trust issues with boys since my first boyfriend cause he was abusive and cheated. i really dont wanna go through that pain again and dot know what to do about it! i need seruous help this time!

for a problem like this i would say it's time to turn into inspector gadget look into but dont EVER let him find out you second guessed him but you can never be sure so look into it

Dont get caught

Jazzy**

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whenever i cry like for a long period of time.. then next day my eyes are always swollen.. what can i do so my eyes dont get as swollen? any suggestions?

you can get some eyedrops by visine but you can also stop crying that may work better

Jazzy**

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Hello Everyone!
I am 14/f and the first time I got my period was in February of this year. I am a 32 A. My mom is a 38 C. However, I am short for my age (which I got from my aunts) Since I got my height from my aunts (who are A cups as well) will I probably have the same size breast as them or my mom?

thats kimd of hard to say. your only fourteen so you have some time to grow. so i cant really say. i would guess your mom but you can only wait and see.

Jazzy**

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im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.

mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.

This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.

what about breast enlargement?

are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?

is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?

i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!

Please HELP ME!

first of all if a guy only want you cause your breast than you dont need them. honey were all given what we can handle. there would come someone who would love you with the acups and all you just have to be patient. (by the way i have triple d's and i hate it) so watch what you wish for.

Jazzy**

a boyfriend would come

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Alright;;I`m lookin for a good song to put on my myspace..I would like it to be about missing somebody who died.My aunt passed away over a year ago && i`d like to have something on there for her..i listen to rap,r&b && rock..Or it can be a song about love i have a boyfriend i`ve been with for two years.thnaks in advance

for missing your aunt it could be

missing you bt AALIYAH or about your boyfriend it could be

dangersouly in love by beyonce
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so my boyfriend was a acting like a really big jerk. He took me out of his profile and replaced it with another girl saying wow i love ___. he was lso being really really rude. I got so frsihtrated and hurt and mad that i dumped him. After i did it i was like what did i jsut do . We went out a few times before and he dumped me. After that he got really mad at me and started to say stuff like i hope you die and i hate you. We made up but still not going out. We were gonna stop probllay before summer casye we weould never say see each other. But i just feel like everytihng is filled up inside of me and i jsut need to let it all out. Im kidna getting really sad cuase he keeps say well u blew it i relaly did love you. But i just am really sad and i feel like i jsut need to start crying to make it feel better.

you might get mad at what im ay but im here to keep it real. and i think you should be happy your not 2gether cause he sound like an asshole to me. he 's playing games yo dont need him cry if you need to but honey you will get over it and thats just real talk

Jazzy**

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