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break up
so my boyfriend was a acting like a really big jerk. He took me out of his profile and replaced it with another girl saying wow i love ___. he was lso being really really rude. I got so frsihtrated and hurt and mad that i dumped him. After i did it i was like what did i jsut do . We went out a few times before and he dumped me. After that he got really mad at me and started to say stuff like i hope you die and i hate you. We made up but still not going out. We were gonna stop probllay before summer casye we weould never say see each other. But i just feel like everytihng is filled up inside of me and i jsut need to let it all out. Im kidna getting really sad cuase he keeps say well u blew it i relaly did love you. But i just am really sad and i feel like i jsut need to start crying to make it feel better.
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you might get mad at what im ay but im here to keep it real. and i think you should be happy your not 2gether cause he sound like an asshole to me. he 's playing games yo dont need him cry if you need to but honey you will get over it and thats just real talk
Jazzy**
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Wow, no offence, but he sounds like an idiot. You deserve better! By the way he was acting, you had every right to question him. Cry a little if you like, but don't worry too much about it! Go enjoy life!
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I'd try to forget about him.. hes probably trying to make you jealous... heh you could get revenge by hanging with a group of guys. Being with other guys might make him jealous. Try to move on and find a new guy.
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Wow, what a complete jerk. It's not you that blew it, it's HIM. If he "really did love you" he wouldn't have treated you like that. It was completely unacceptable replacing your name with another girls name when you were still together. He's trying to make you feel guilty for dumping him even though you were completely justified in doing it. No-one would, or should have to put up with a guy like that.
Now breakups are difficult no matter what. I know that you're probably upset right now, but don't think getting back together with him is your solution. Quite frankly you don't need someone like that in your life. You can do much better than him, and I think he realizes that. Your best bet is getting over him and turning your attention to someone else. Try and avoid him for as long as you need. If you continue speaking to him, you'll never get over him. And try not to think "what if?" He showed his true colours, and he's not someone you want as a boyfriend.
It's hard but within weeks you probably would've forgotten all about him. There are plenty more guys out there who will treat a girl better than he did. Good luck.
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Guys are fags like that..they say mean things and expect you to forgive them then we do.You need to get over him..I know its hard but you really do.When a guy says you need to die or anything like that he isn`t worth your time.Just try to find someone new..listen to music and if he has a screen name block him and block his calls.Sooner or later you will be over him..,and trust me it will all be better.But if at times you feel like just spilling it all out scream into a pillow =]..You seem nice and I think you can be missing on someone who is better than this asshole. ♥
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You've got one thing right in your question. Your boyfriend is a big jerk. He's not acting like one, he is a big jerk.
You may feel really upset that things are changed between the two of you, but if anything, it's for the best for you. It doesn't matter how mad he got at you, there is no good excuse that he can give you for replacing your name with another girl's name in his profile. And whether it was your fault or not the reason you two broke up, he should never tell you that you blew it and guilt trip you. If I were you, I wouldn't waste a second of my life talking to that guy after the crap he did.
And there is definetly no excuse for him to tell you that he hates you and wishes you were dead. Do you know how low he is on level compared to you? He is way in the ground while you deserve way better.
What I'm trying to say is that you may feel really down right now because you may have really liked this guy and that's ok. But what isn't ok to convince yourself that it's all your fault and that you don't deserve someone else. You need to tell that guy that you could care less whose fault it is because you aren't thinking in the past. You are in the present and moving to the future and it doesn't include him.
-TheTeenGirl
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Hey there! This guy is certainly not worth your time. Although he keeps saying that you personally caused the problem and that he really loved you, he disrespects you, and takes advantage of the fact that you will forgive him, and so continues to say and do hurtful things. Also, a relationship between two persons is a team-effort, where each contributes positively and accepts whatever actions are responsible for affecting the relationship in a negative way. This boyfriend saying that you blew it is a clear example of how immature he is of having a relationship, because he can't take responsibility for himself. The next time he happens to win you over again by saying that, be smart and don't accept it, because it will just result in more pain, you know? Although it is hard to get over this at first, the best thing is to go out, spend some time with friends, have fun and meet new people. Doing what you like to do best will help you get your mind off things.
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