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What should I do? Who do I go for?
I am really confused what to do. Long time ago when I was 13, I met a guy who had a crush on me. It developed until I felt the same way. that guy was 3 years older than me and he felt I was too young so he decided not to pursue anything beyond friends.
Now I am 19. I've moved on with the other though it really hurt because i love him so much until now. I have accepted the facts that we are not meant to be. I met this awesome guy. He really loves me more than anything else in the world. Because of this love from him, I want to be with him because i know he will make me happy. So, I am with him right now. Not long ago, the guy I met 6 years ago and I started chatting online. then, he told me that he loves me and he is willing to wait for me. I am in overseas studying so we only communicate through email/chatting. I know i love him more than the guy I am with right now. But I know for sure that the guy I am with right now loves me more than the guy i met 6 years ago. What should I do? Should I stay with the guy I am with right now? or should I go with the guy I've been waiting for all my teenage years? I'm not even sure if the guy i met 6 years ago is serious or just playing around. I dont want to get hurt from him anymore because it's so hard to move on. I have never loved anyone as much as I love him. please help.
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ok personally, i would stick with the guy you have now because how do you know this other guy isnt just saying that? if you know tht the guy youre with now is serious about you and loves you, then why leave? you may never find another person like him again and if you try to go back to him after you leave him and the other relationship didnt work out, he might reject you because hes afraid of getting hurt again. So yes it is a sticky situation, but listen to your heart and do whatever feels right.
♥ danielle
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hey now i understand that you lovvee him soo much but you have to look at it when yall was younger he led you on than drop you so how you know he wont do it again. and you may love the guy you use to know he might not be that same person you grew to love people change over the years.
So if i was you I would play it safe and stay with the man that i know loves me and is going to treat you right. he think he can leave you and then come back NO it dosent work like that. and you dont want to hurt the guy your with. becasue you will be doing the same thing that the guy did to you and you didnt like how that felt
Jazzy** the choice is up o you but make the right one.
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I say you continue your relationship with your Current guy.
Why?
First, I believe that long distance relationships rarely work.
Second, you and the guy you met 6 years ago don't REALLY know each other--the two of you have of course changed a lot through the years. And to be able to make a long distance realtionship work, you need to have a lot of knowledge about each other, full Trust, and the willingness to make the relationship work. If one of these is lacking, then the relationship is not worth it.
Third, you need to use your mind instead of your heart from time to time.
Don't be so selfish.
Because there's this other guy who loves you, too--the one you are with right now.
Now, who would you choose-- the guy you're pretty much sure of Or the guy you don't even know that much?
Be wise in your decision.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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This is a sticky situation. I say go with your heart not your head.
If you really love this guy you met 6 years ago then stay in contact, get to know him again, find out how much you have in common. You may find yourself just wanting to be friends.
As for the guy you are with now, he loves you so don't hurt him, be fair to him. If you find yourself wanting to be with the other guy don't pull this guy along. It will only make things worse in the long run and you will hurt him.
You are still only 19 years old, your young and have your whole life ahead of you.
Work out what you want, what you think feels right, make yourself happy.
Good luck...hope i helped. :)
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I honestly think you should stay with the guy you are with now. If he's hurt you in the past, what makes you think he wont stop? I highly suggest, in my opinion, you dont get with him.
Stay with your current boyfriend, but it sounds like the way you are writing this is that you want us to tell you to go with the other guy.
With you saying "I have never loved anyone as much as I love him" your implying you want people to say, go for him!
But I think its unfair to your current boyfriend, its kind of cheating, the fact the this other guy confesed he likes you, he cantjust suddenly do that, and expect you to leave your relationship for him you know?
Thats the way I see it.
The choice is still only yours to make.
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