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Lose of family!!


Question Posted Monday June 26 2006, 9:14 pm

Well i have this friend that i love dearly and would do anything for but she was on vaction with her family and some really good friends of the family that were like my friends second parents to her... well while they were on vaction there friends got into a crash with a drunk driver and that family lost there parents and they a little girl adn now my friend is really hurt cause she is hanging with the little girl who lost her mom and dad...this is really killing her tho cause she lost her second parents and some friends...any ideas to help out her the family and the little girl? And please anyone who reads this please keep them in your prayers thanks!!!

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DEARABBY89 answered Tuesday June 27 2006, 1:12 pm:
hi!
This is really heartbreaking, i know how it feels. Escspecially its a friend who is hurting and you dont know exactly what to say. Honestly be there for her. I mean dont be clinggy (sp!?) but make sure you make yourself advailiable for when she needs to talk. (also keep in mind to maybe let things go by if she out of no where yells at you or someone..because she's not being herself) Even though it will never go away, try to maybe take her to a movie, or the mall..or just hang out and make her cookies..simple things can make such an overwhelming experience become a little easier.
They will be in my prayers.

YOURS&TRUELY
AR

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lalagurly answered Monday June 26 2006, 11:08 pm:
prayer you need to make it clear to them they arent truly gone they are in a peaceful place with everything they love they are looking down and protecting them. they will be reunited when that time comes it will be great but untill them make them proud be the best u can be.make sure your freind truely knows you care be there always lagh if it seem apropriate laughter will help i gaurentee but dont trie to relate you dont no what she is going through so dont make it seem like you do

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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Monday June 26 2006, 9:38 pm:
i will keep them in my prayers because i know how it feels to lose someone close to you. all i can say you can do is be there for your freind and the little girl. It isnt much you can do because you cant bring them back.

Sorry for the lost and i hope your friend and the little girl get through this. It will take a while for this wound to heal so be there for her.

I will pray for all of you

Jazzy**

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