Ever since I was little, I always loved talking to my family about their problems. I love being able to help people. I maybe young but I am very good at giving advice on Love life. I am very mature for my 14 years of age and I want to help people with their questions and problems. SO if you have a question, don't hesitate to ask because of my age
I am also a huge Band Geek/Color Guard person, and I love music and writing. So if you also have questions on those I could help you out!
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22, female, UK living in a flat.
I cannot sleep in the same bed as my partner and he isn't happy about it. He doesn't want us to sleep separately and I have been using ear plugs for a long time but the noise manages to sneak through. I fear that if I do not find something that makes me practically deaf during the night my relationship is over. Any advice? (link)
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You could always look into this, he could have surgery on his sinuses. My dad had a really BAD case of snoring and he got surgery for it, worked. You and your partner could talk about with his doctor. Good luck!
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I am 12 almost 13 in a few months. I'm in 7th grade and I have brown hair and glasses. My crush has blonde hair and blue eyes. He's in my gym class. When I see him even the tiniest glimpse my whole day is complete. I just feel happy around him. Even though I've never talked to him before I am really shy. I'm from the U.S. He friended me on instagram but I was too shy to accept or decline and 3 days later he took the request back. I am really sad about that. Then weeks later I send him a request he accepts but doesn't follow back. A day later I send his friend a request too and he follows back the next day... He only follows some people why me? I'm crushing hard and don't know what to do. He is so nice and super athletic and cute. Also always has a smile on his face. He stares at me sometimes. When we have to run in gym class he slows down when I'm behind him. He speeds up when I'm in front of him. Not sure why but I think it's a good thing. He's always with his friends. He is popular and I'm not I'm afraid he likes a popular person or someone else. I'm falling hard for someone I've never spoken to. He passes by my locker in the hallways but I never know what to say. When we were doing curl up test he watched me the whole time. I'm crushing hard but what do I do? I really like him when he's not there my heart hurts. I don't know what to do I'm so shy. Any advice? (link)
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I've been there :)
My advice to you would be to be friendly and talk to him! Try getting to know him better. About the whole instagram thing. He might think you're not interested when you didn't accept the request he sent, so when you sent a request he just accepted and maybe didn't want to seem to eager.
I would just tlak to him and see where it goes :)
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Im 14, 15 in september and my Boyfriend is 19, nearly 20. We both really like each other and he hasnt tried to do anything I dont want to do. But our parents dont know we are dating and im not sure how to, or if I should tell them, what do you think i should do? (link)
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I agree with ""Solidadvice4teens" I'm your age (15 in August) and I personally wouldn't feel comfortable with someone that much older than myself. It doesn't matter about how you feel, in the eyes of the law, you are a minor, he an adult. You should tell your parents and put and end to it. I know it might be hard, but it's for the best. I wish you the best of luck :/
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hi I'm 19 and my boyfriend said he wanted to try anal sex... The thing is that I never tried it before and I think it will hurt like reallllllly bad. I want to make him happy but at the same time I think that it could be painful :/ I don't know what to do because I love him so much and don't want to disappoint him. We have been dating for a year now. If you know what I could say to him, or any advice in general I would love it! By the way I love your column!
Thank you :) (link)
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I would just tell him that you think i would feel painful and aren't comfortable doing it. IF he loves you he will understand. Stay firm on your decision. Hope this helped :)
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I don't mind if my boyfriend watches porn. But I honest to god accidentally got into his history and saw chaturbate. To me that's an entirely different thing. Him watching a live girl and chatting with them just bugs me so much. I will admit I have self esteem issues and it makes me feel less desirable. But to me that's like cheating? I really don't know how to put it. What should I do? (link)
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I would honestly just sit down with and talk about it. Express how it makes you feel insecure. Just be honest. I hope this helped to some extent. Good Luck :)
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I am struggling with the concept with iambic pantameter and it would be so wonderful if you could help me out?
Welcome to our “fun and homey” college
The place to further your currently miniscule intelligence
Get ready for time of self-defining independence!
Your future within stone’s throw; unyielding to damage
School, work, friends, family, a million deeds to manage
Prepared to succumb, yet striving for excellence
Once exhilarant; now left with dissipating ebullience
Corroding and hopeless, our spirits we need to ravish
With the weight of the world upon us, the stakes are high
“What career are you choosing? Quick! Decide!”
Sovereign pressures from everyone, everywhere oozing
Infinitely engrossed in outright stress
To an impenetrably distant beyond is where I’d fly
My life, I procure the obligation to repossess
Thank you! (link)
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Iambic Pentameter uses 10 syllables per line. Shakespeare uses iambic pentameter.
"Welcome to our "fun and homey" college" is right, 10.
"The place to further your currently minuscule intelligence" This line has around 16 syllables.
"Get ready for time of self-defining independence" has around 14.
"Your future within stone's throw: unyielding to damage" has around 12
"School, work, friends, family, a million deeds to manage" has 10
"Prepared to succumb, yet striving for excellence" has 11, VERY CLOSE!
"Once exhilarant; now left with dissipating ebullience" has more than 10
"Corroding and hopeless, our spirits we need to ravish" more than 10
"With the weight of the world upon us, the stakes are high" more than 10
"What career are you choosing? Quick! Decide!" good
"Sovereign pressures from everyone, everywhere oozing" More than 10
"Infinitely engrossed on outright stress" good
"To an impenetrably distant beyond is where I'd fly." More than 10
"My life, I procure the obligation to repossess" More.
I hope this helped? Just remember Iambic Pentameter is 10 syllables, follows specific rhythm. etc. Good Luck :) just ask your teacher
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School, piles upon piles of homework, practice my instrument, practice for play, try on shoes to see if they fit, make my bed, clean my room, brush my teeth. Once it seems like I'm FINALLY free, for some me time,I gotta write some discussion questions for book club that my teacher FORCED everybody to do. Then comes stupid extra math that my teacher claims I gotta do because she has to “enrich my advanced mind" I'm not a genius, but apparently I have superior intelligence. I somehow end up with the “good parts" in stuff like plays. Most people think I'm lucky, but it seems like with all my work I can never just sit down. Being more than average isn't all what it's cracked up to be, you just gotta do extra work, and when you're good at stuff like music and theatre, you get good parts. But when you get good parts and things like that, you have to work and practice and push yourself. I love acting, and dancing, and singing, and art and music, and even reading, science, social studies, but I just wish I could lay down and not think about anything sometime. And I hate math, but because I'm starting to be good at it,I have to do more than required. There is no way out of it for me because if I quit, you know,I don't like to quit. I wanna live up to everyone's expectations, but sometimes I feel like everyone's expectations are too much. A perfect,pretty,talented,smart,amazing,remarkable… where does it end? (link)
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You sound A LOT like me. I love playing music (more than one) music for the play, so much homework, school. GOSH! SO MUCH TO DO! My advice is to just organize time for you to kind of get away and leave everything behind. Take a breather!
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So my bestfriend and i were so close we did like everything together..then she met her boyfriend and ever since then we never hangout..we didnt really before but now..we dont even see each other outside of school..shes always with her boyfriend if they arent hanging out..theyre texting each other none stop. She takes him everywhere ( skiing, niagra falls, resturants, etc)..theyve had more sleepovers than her and i and when i ask if she can hangout all she replies with is " idk"..we were suppose to hang this march break..bascially 2 weeks off and shes always made up an excuse to not hangout.. and then she says she cant hangout this march break..like she cant do anything for me..she never tells me anything and im really sick of it. She treats me like shit. The rest of my close friends all agree with me that its not right that she hasent fixed anything..because i tell her. all the time about how i feel and she just makes it about her ..she doesnt listen to what im saying. I just really dont know what to do anymore (link)
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Sounds like she's not being a good friend at all. I always make sure i balance my friends and my boyfriend. Sit her down and Tell her how you and your friends feel, that you do not appreciate her actions at all and want it to stop. Just be straight forward and honest.. I hope things work out. Good luck
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My bf and I are both in 6th grade and have been dating 4months. We both want to kiss and he keeps asking me what kind of kiss I want it to be and I say traditional with a little French and when I ask him he always replays with French for our FIRST kiss!!!!! Im not sure if I should just please him or try to keep him out of my mouth?!?!!? Also I REALLY want to kiss him because I've had my first kiss already and hasn't and we both want to but I'm waiting on him to make the first move but he is waiting on me. Who should make the first move. I've tried to give him hints that I'm ready and he just doesn't pick them up. Also we hold hands a lot now and he has put his arm around me a few times. We also tell eachother that we love eachother is that too soon? Anything helps thanks:).
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I'm just a few years older than you (9th grade) and here's my advice. When I started going out with my first boyfriend (my current one) I was terrified about the idea of kissing him cause i hadn't had my first yet. In the end i ended up making the first move and kissing him first. You don't always have to wait on the guy for the first move. On what type of kiss, i agree you should probably do traditional for the first one at least. My boyfriend new for the first few weeks i wasn't comfortable with french kissing and waited till I was ready. I've actually been in my relationship as long as you have and I honestly love my boyfriend but i don't know about your situation. It depend son how mature both people are. You guys might be a little young. I'm not sure. But if he tries to frnech kiss you and you aren't ready stop and tell him so. Just make sure your boundaries are firm. I wish you luck on your first kiss with him :)
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I am 21 years old,i have a 2 year old daughter
I was on the injection then i just decided to stop cause it was messing up my body. i got my period on the 6th of Jan the same date that i was due for my injection. my husband and i used a condom when we had sexual intercourse, it slipped off but it was still attached, it was not laying on the floor.
I am 2 months late with my period. Please help?? (link)
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It is possible, I would get a pregnancy test to silence your question. I'm also aware that stress can delay your period. So just get a test. :)
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Okay, so I have started to talk to someone I meet @ a birthday party. He gave me his number and everything, so we started to talk and it has gotten kind of serous. But the (one) problem is that he lives a hour away. I only see him like 3 times a year. So we have decide to wait to date for a couple years. until I am 18 and can see him whenever i want. But the thing is that one day he acts like he really likes me. and says he loves me which I think is way to soon. but then he says he is talking to some one girl but its nothing serous. which i don't understand? I feel like he is maybe lying to me or leading me on...I guess what i am asking is should I just stop talking to him. To not waste my time or should i keep talking to him. I really need some advice. Please help I am starting to fall for him.. (link)
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Well... I would sit down and talk with him (or call him on the phone)and talk about it/ Ask if he is seeing another girl or leading you on. You're right saying "I love you" is kind of soon. If he feels it, great. My advice to you is not to be afraid to ask some questions. If you are ready to let yourself fall for him, you have a right to know this sort of stuff. If he is giving any negative signs then i would say stop, but if he hasn't done anything really bad yet there shouldn't be a reason to stop now. I hope this helped, Good Luck :)
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i m from a middle class family..I had an elder brother..my mom always hurts me for each and every unnecessary things..this is from my childhood.my dad never took us as a responsibility.he nodes his head for whatever my mom says.whatever happens in our home my parents scolds me even i dnt have anyhting to do with what had happened.
My mother has a friend who is a pastor..he is such a cunning guy..i hate him.he misbehaves with me in front of my mom.but my mom doesn't say anything about this..even i complained to her she said that i am thinking in wrong way.one day even my friends saw the behavior of that uncle and warned me about him.since my mom didn't care about me i complained to my brother.even he didn't took any action on this.i was really shattered of this situation.slowly my mom changed my dads mind against me and now they are harassing and hurting every day..every hour..i am not able to bear all this...i don't have anyone to help me out even. None believes me...because my mom has done like that.i started to hate myself.i am losing hope on everyone and even on myself..
Please anyone could help from this situation..day by day my situation is becoming worse..what can i do?????!!!! (link)
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You need help, talk to an adult you trust, a school teacher/counsler, a neighbor, ANYONE you trust. If it's getting worse, call CPS (Child Protection Services). I wish the best for you and I hope you get the help you need, :/
-Hardcore Band Geek
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15F.. Hii! So I'm crazy inlove with this guy. And he told one of "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ friends he like me to but he has a gf.. Their dating almost about 2-3 weeks! I don't know what to do? (link)
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I think we have all been there at one point, my advice to you is to NOT get into the middle of their relationship. Try and be friends for now, chasing guys who are taken will not make you look good. Just be patient
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Do you ever have problems you need to talk about? Most people that like to hear other peoples problems ignore there own. (link)
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Yes I do, i see a therapist regularly, I love giving advice but i do make sure to talk about my problems too :) it's a healthy habit to do.
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i dont like the boy and how can i say no? (link)
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Just tell him sorry but you don't feel the same way. When iw a first asked out, it was by a good guy friend, and i was honest and just said "I don't want to lose you as a friend" and "I'm not ready to date" Just be honest and nice about it. Be firm about your answer.
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When do you stick your pinky out when you're drinking? (link)
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You stick your pinky out when you drink because its suppose to be proper, I don't believe there is a time for it specifically. It just shows good manners
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I'll try to keep this short. I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years. I'm 22, he's 36. Sometimes I wonder if I should break things off so I can meet other people and gain new experiences. I love him SOOOOO much. A lot of me wants to keep things, but obviously if I'm writing this there is a problem. Normally I'm very happy, but sometimes I get very scared at commitment. Sometimes I don't feel like it's fair for either of us to continue, but it'd also be very unfair for me to break things off, miss him and things terribly, and try to get back together.
I know that in the end, it's all up to me and has to be MY decision, but I guess I just want to know what you guys think.
Any ideas would be much appreciated, thanks! (link)
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So the real issue is commitment? Well... There's no need to rush the commitment thing. Take things at your own pace. The most important question is, Does he make you happy? If you love him he must. I would think things through and don't make any rash decisions. Think of what could happen if you stay or if you break things off. I hope this helped to some degree. Good luck :)
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Please my girlfriend is a virgin and is 19 years old.I wanted to have sex with her but she keep on telling me that she will not do it until we got married.How should I convince her to have sex with me (link)
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I'm sorry but you can't "convince" your girlfriend to have sex with you if she isn't ready. When she is ready she will consent. Don't push her, that will make her less willing to do so before marriage. You'll have to be patient.
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I am in grade 9 and I'm one of those quiet kids with a couple friends. So, one day two of my really close friends just couldn't stop bickering with one another and just couldn't control it. I tried to stay out of if. Now they are constantly getting in little arguments and I'm stuck In the middle. I don't know what to do because I can't pick sides, but everyone else in the class hates me or I can't talk to them because I'm too shy to even nod when they talk to me. Both my friends vent to me and I agree a little with what they say about the other. I can't pick sides, but I also don't want to be alone still stuck in the middle. What do I do? (link)
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I have had similar situations (besides the everyone in class hating me part) but i have had two sets of really close friends argue constantly. One set this year (my freshman year) and one set in my 4th grade year. I was horribly stuck in the middle, my friends (just using one set as an example)we're always fighting and yelling at me to pick a side. But you just have to be firm, and just be direct that your not going to pick sides. If they don't let up or it gets worse, talk to an adult you trust. You could always try talking it out to them. I hope this helped :)
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I sometimes get chest pain. Like a dagger in my ribs. Also a wicked pain in my breast. I'm 17 and a female. My nose is also always bleeding. I have fluctuating weights and find it hard to loose weight. Im also alqays thirsty. I dont know if this could be my imagination but the pains are real and I was wondering if they are symptoms of something (link)
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I don't know about the bloody nose (it could be chronic)i had something similar to the chest pain recently. Like you said it felt like i had a dagger in my ribs. IF its what i had its just a muscle pain, You'll be fine :) if any of these continue i suggest going to see a doctor.
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