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My boy friend is 5 year's older than me
Im 14, 15 in september and my Boyfriend is 19, nearly 20. We both really like each other and he hasnt tried to do anything I dont want to do. But our parents dont know we are dating and im not sure how to, or if I should tell them, what do you think i should do?
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Relationships with more than one year age gap are best left until you are of legal age for sex in whatever country or state you live in.
As for your parents, at this moment in time they would be very concerned to hear of your relationship and probably try and put a stop to it.
My own mother would not accept it when I was in a relationship with someone six years older than me when I was in my late teens, she didn't take it very well at all and accused me of having intercourse when I had not.
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I agree with ""Solidadvice4teens" I'm your age (15 in August) and I personally wouldn't feel comfortable with someone that much older than myself. It doesn't matter about how you feel, in the eyes of the law, you are a minor, he an adult. You should tell your parents and put and end to it. I know it might be hard, but it's for the best. I wish you the best of luck :/
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The law and society sees you correctly as a child because you are under 18 and are 14. They also view him as an adult which he is at 20-years-old.
It doesn't matter if anything happened that shouldn't it's not legal nor right morally or otherwise for him to pursue a relationship with you. He should find someone his own age and you most certainly should tell your parents about this. They need to know as it's not right as much as you may like him--it's quite wrong. You need to tell someone as his interest is unnatural and potentially much more harmful than you know.
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