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a boy asked me out
i dont like the boy and how can i say no?
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Tell him you're flattered that he sees you that way, but you don't see him in the same light.
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You just say no. You don't have to be mean or anything, just tell him that you don't feel the same way as he does.
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Just tell him sorry but you don't feel the same way. When iw a first asked out, it was by a good guy friend, and i was honest and just said "I don't want to lose you as a friend" and "I'm not ready to date" Just be honest and nice about it. Be firm about your answer.
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Don't feel like you have to say yes just because you've been asked out. It's perfectly ok to not want to go out with someone. Just be polite and tell him that you don't want to go out with him.
Good luck!
--Jack
(22/m)
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It takes courage to ask someone out because of the fear of being turned down so you have to be nice about it. Just say something along the lines of "I'm sorry but I don't have feelings like that for you, I like you as a friend and I hope we can continue being friends"
This way yes, he will be disappointed that you don't like him in that way, but at least you didn't hurt his feelings by being rude about it.
Hope this helps you!
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