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IM A GANGSTER.. STRAIGHT UP G. HAHA OKAY UHM WELL MY NAME IS DZANA IM 13 BUT IVE EXPERIENCE ALOT IN THOSE 13 YEARS SO YOU CAN ASK ME ANYTHING AND ILL TRY TO HELP xO

P.S- THERE IS SUCHA THING AS A STUPID QUESTION OKAY LOL SO IF YOUR GONNA BE A LIL SMART ASS THATS GONNA ASK GAY QUESTIONS F.Y.I THEY WILL BE DELTED

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my friend thinks i dress slutty, but i dont really think so because she's a slut and her clothes are a lot smaller and tighter than mine are. i like to wear tank tops and i have some miniskirts, but i havent worn miniskirts in months, and now i wear low rise jeans. do you think i'm slutty?

umm not at all ... everyone loves tank tops & wearinga mini skirt every once in a while doesnt make you slutty.... you should realli worry about what your firend tells you ... let her dress like a hooker but you dont have to ... hope it helped x0x0 Dzana

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UM..WELL MY X-BF N` i GOT BAC 2GETHER N` i LYKE HiM N` ALL BUT iT DOESNT FEEL LiKE iT DiD BFOR..WUTS WRONG WiTH ME..i LOVE TALKiN 2 HiM BUT i WANT 2 FLiRT WiTH OTHER GUYS 2 !! BUT i DONT WANNA HURT HiM i LiKE HiM BUT iT DONT FEEL LiKE iT DiD THE TiMES BFOR..i DONT KNOW iF i MAKE SENCE BUT i HOPE i DO..ALSO THiS iS THE 3RD TiME WE HAVE WEN OUT !! PLEASE HELP ME !!

awee okay if you guys went out 3 times before then you're doin something rite!! i mean i kno u wanna flirt with other guys and stuff but which is more important tp you love or lust ? ... seems like you two love each other you dont wanna ruin that by flirting with other guys ... hope i can help if you need anything else just ask away x0x0 Dzana

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UM OK..WELL i MiSSED MY X-BF ND` WEN WE GOT BAC 2GETHUR i WAS HAPPiE BUT NOW i DUNNO HOW i FEEL i WANT A NEW BF BUT i STiLL LiKE HiM i DUNO WUT 2 DO..SULD i STAi WiT HiM OR LET HiM GO ?? i MEAN i LiKE HiM ALOT BUT iTZ NOT LiKE iT WAS BFOR..

aweee okay in mi opinion if you dont feel like you did before then i think that you should let him go .... like if you love him then stay together think about if its worth breaking up over & then think about how you would feel if you two break up ... would you miss him or not .. it alll depends on your feelings for him ... hope it helped if you need anything else x0x0 Dzana

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hey im 13 male. I really like girls but wen i like wunna ask them out im pumped up and ready and stuff but wen im about to ask i get all afraid and stuff. so yah im a really big chicken. I just dont know how to ask them out. Im afraid theyll sai no. im not meen or ugly or ne thing. Wut kind of persnalty do girls like?

hey awee!! dont be afraid okay just be your self... dont worrii about waht kind of personalities we like most girls are bitches anyways..... be yourself and dont be afraid to get rejected .... it happens to everyone sooner or later .. thats just how it works if your not mean or uglii then what have you got to lose! i want you to ask out the next girl taht you like & let me know how it went ... hope i helped x0x0 Dzana

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Sometimes in the day I feel like water or pee is leaking out of my vagina
Is this normal? and even sometimes I get stains in my underwear.

awe dont worrii about it its just discharge... you mite get your period soon but if the problem starts getting out of hand i suggest seeing a doctor ... hope it helped x0x0 Dzana

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20/f what are the best sex positions.my b/f likes variety so we like to try new things

i've just recently heard of 69 what is it besides a sex position?

okay 69 is giving oral sex at the same time .... umm you mite want to check out this website www.sexuality.org/l/sex/cb.html it has some positions .... hope it helped x0x0 Dzana

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there is this kid "matt" who i really liked and still do...i was obsessed and me and him are kind of friends...we used to hang out every now and then and go to friendly's and carnival like things but then i went to colorado and my cousin asked him out for me...he said no and that he wanted to be single...scince that we haven't really been exactly "friends" at all anymore and im not nessaserilly ready to be b/f and g/f but i really want to be something like not just friends but best friends....i really like him and im desprate to get to be better friends but not a couple....rate 5s for good answers!!
-messed up in love

awe you should talk to him and tell him exactly what you wrote! xept the desprate part hehe and hope fulli you two will become better firends you kno.. you just have to take risks or it'll get you no where ... well i hope i could help x0x0 Dzana

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Okay I've been with this guy for about six months and we just recently broke up. When we broke up I asked him if it was over completely and he said no. Now I am wondering what I should do? Should I wait on him or should I choose to move on? I still like him a whole lot and he still likes me but I'm not sure if I should wait and see what happens. This is the second time we've broke up. What do I do? I live in California and there is so many guys that are hot here.

awe! i deffinantly[sp] think you should wait for him i mean you guys can talk about whi and see what happens then if you two realli love each other then whi move on? .... hope i helped xoxo Dzana

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well im 14 yr old female but ill be 15 in october and i painfully lost my virginty 3 days ago with a boi that i thought was 17 or 18 but turned out to be 20 or 21!! i have two problems now....

1) er'body in town keep askin me about it and sayin im bad and he really dont look like the type that would go around tellin er'body but im wonderin should i start denyin it or...what?

2)after i lost ma virginity i bleed(alot kinda) it was all on the toliet paper and dripped in the toliet but ma friend who don it twice didn't bleed like that but ma first time bleed worst them hers and it even bleeded today...and this happen 2 or 3 days ago....is sumthing wrong wit me?!? :( (and i kno its not ma period 4 sho)!! :(

1) i think you should ignore the people in town... who cares what they say they dont kno waht happened and they werent there so f*ck em

2) wow if its not your period for sure then there mite be something wrong i dont kno ive never heard some one with a problem like that! if the problem continues you should reallii see a doctor and you should tell your mom or an adult that you trust what happend because that is illegal if he is older than 18 ... what happend to the guy.... do you two still talk or what??? if you need anything else just ask xoxo Dzana

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i just got my period and i was wondering what kind of tampons are best

wow okay since you just got your period i would say that you should just use a pad for a while & then switch to tampons .... tampax pear works well!! so when you decide your readii i think you should use tampax pear hope it helped xoxo Dzana

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How do you get your skin to look really healthy? I want mine to look like it's glowing and no acne and stuff. Is there anything I can eat or do?

hey you could try to eat a variaty[sp]of fruits and vegetables and you can use a acne face wash to help controll redness and what not hope it helped xoxo Dzana

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whats the best coverup.. like the coverup to cover your pimples..?

awe you shouldnt ever put make up on just to *cover up* you should get On-the-Spot Vanishing Formula its from neutrogena ... i've heard it works liek a charm ... but for foundation mi favorite and personal best would be maybelline dream matte mousse! there are many shades to match your skin tone hope it helped xoxo Dzana

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I was wondering what makeup colors would go well with my skin and eyes and hair.
I have blue-green eyes, dark blonde hair, and fair but tan right now skin. Thanks!

well since your eyes are blue-green you should NEVER wear blue eye shadow you should try something dark for contrast it would make your eyes realli stand out and use black eyeliner & for mascara dont apply on the lower lashes onlii the top it will look cute... for foundation i use maybelline dream matte mousse -sandy beige... mi skin is fair so i think it should work out for you hope it helped xoxo Dzana

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me and this guy were really good friends. i really liked him a lot and in a way him lead me on a little bit. so it really hurt me when he flirted with other girls. and i felt like he didnt care about me. well my best friend liked him too and he liked her, but he hardlyu ever talked to her because he was talking to me. at the end of the school he asked her out and itreally hurt me. so me and her friendship was over because she choose him over me. they broke up like a few days ago, and now i dont like him as more then a friend, and i told him that, and hes getting like upset and mad that i dont ike him anymore. he got mad becasue i called somone hott, and he was like im hotter then them come one, and he said he was goint o ask me out. but i wasnt going to be the rebound girl, but i dont no what to think or, what i should tell him. so he doesnt get so mad at me, because me and him are still good friends. thanks

awee well im gonna be dead honest... it was kinda wrong to lead him on but oh well i think you liked him because you friend did ... i dont think you had real feelings for him.. he probablii likes you ... otherwise whi would he get mad if you said someone else is hawt... but then again he could be just saying that... you should tell him that you dont want to go out with him because you dont want to ruin your guys' friend ship and i think it would be better off if you two just remaind friends... hope it helped xoxo Dzana

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i'm not sure if you can help....but for cheerleading try outs i need to make up a cheer.i got a cheer but i need help with the moves!can you help?

well to be honest im realli not into cheerleading but if you think about your cheer you should try and fit pieces together if you need more help just i/m me @ llbebiibooll ill try mi best to help xoxo Dzana

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i rate high!!!!!!!

i'm 13 and my mom won't let me get pierced ears. the problem is....earrings are my favorite jewelry & i'm obsessed with looking at them & buying them (except i can't because i can't wear them!!). so i have to wear clip-ons and they don't have a big variety and they come off easily or break easily, etc... i really want pierced ears, i think i'm probably the only 13 year old girl i've ever met who has no pierced ears (except ones that didn't want them, and i've only met one girl like that). i know i shouldn't give in to peer pressure but ever since i was really little, i saw this woman wearing earrings & i wanted to wear those SO badly! my mom says i'm not responsible or w/e. we have a housekeeper & i did chores FOR her and proved i was responsible and i have contacts and hamster and i clean my room a lot and EVERYTHING but she still won't let me have one! sometimes i tend to be somewhat irresponsible like every normal girl but then she points it out AND IGNORES ALL THE RESPONSIBLE THINGS I DO! idk what to do, anyway i could convince my mom about pierced ears or somehow do it at home??? thanks i rate

wow i think you have been thur a lot just to get your ears pierced...tell your mom how much it means to you and what you did just so you could get your ears pierced .... just try talking to her about it & if she says no again then you could wait untill your birthday and then tell her thats the onli thing you want for your birthday! if you need anything else just ask xoxo Dzana

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Okay, for starters, I'm 30, male.
I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years, she's such a sweet person and I love her, but you know the excitement of the beginning has faded.

Now there's this girl, she's our common friend and she's amazingly beautiful, she's something special. What's amazing is that she never had a stable relationship although she certainly would like to.
Now I feel something changing inside me, my way of thinking about this other girl; can it be love? I don't really know, because we're pretty different and I don't think we could have a durable relationship, but somehow I feel an overwhelming attraction for her, and I DO know sex with her would be incredible.

Being such a sensitive person as I am, I am going through a horrible time, the only thing positive being my loss of appetite; my gf has noticed it and I and I have more or less dismissed it as a temporary situaton because of work, friends and all (it's been a hard year in those aspects), but she's probably thinking there may be a relationship problem behind this.

Now what to do? Shall I tell her? this could destroy our friendship, and I would really regret that (I guess it depends on how sympathetic and understanding a person you are), but I know I could give her some of the love and attention she deserves... I am also thinking about telling my girlfriend, she deserves sincerity, but who knows where this could bring us... At the moment I am thinking about telling the other girl, just to get it off my chest; she will probably reject me, but keeping it inside is hurting me. Telling my gf is in my mind too, but I'm not sure about it.

I can't help but feel this mixture of love and attraction/lust for her, and it's killing me. I don't believe denying it would rid me completely of her. I guess you can love two people at the same time, though I never thought I'd be in this situation myself. Damn, damn heart...

wow! okay first it sounds like you have a great relationship with your current girlfriend... you should not break up with her for the other girl... i mean you never know .. what if the other girl doesnt have feelings for you... that would be a waste and plus you realli love your girlfriend ..... & you say that you and the other girl are common friends... sometimes you find your self crushing on a friend but you just have to follow your heart not your head... if you think that she also has feelings for you then go for it... but you have to think about is she worth breaking up with your gf of whom you have beein going out with for 6 years... if you two have lasted that long then you must be doing something rite!..... well i hope that hellped xoxo Dzana

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I get an erection when I see a woman's pussy ... but I also get an erection when I see a dick.. am I bi-sexual if I enjoy seeing pussy and dick?

LMAO OKAY that doesnt have to mean that your bi .... if you have feeling for other guys or watver then you probablii are but i realli dont think youre bi if you get an erection when you see a dick you kno!? well hope it helped if ya need somethin else just ask xoxo Dzana

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Well I fucked this one girl like maybe 20 times already and havent used a condom once... she said that shes pregnant and i'm scared out of my mind .. plus there was rumor goin round the school she was HIV positive but I was horny and couldnt help it.. what should I do? I talked to her about it but she said she didnt have any STD's but was indeed pregnant.. wtf am i gona do?

okay first get tested for any STD'S & dont fuck anyone till you do and next time **dont be silly wrap your willy** hehe okay & take respondsibility [sp]? for your action and try to support her and the baby to the best of your ability dont deny the child or if you realli dont wanna have a kid you should think about abortion and talk to her about it i personalli am against it but if it was a mistake then i guess you should go with that well hope it helped and if ya need anything else just ask xoxo Dzana

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im 14 and my cock is 5inces is that good or bad or what???

LMAO! hm depends on the girl some girls dont care how small it is others care but watever in mi opinion thats like a lil below average hope it hellped xoxo Dzana

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