Talk to him. If you dont then its not going to work. If you or him get hurt.. you'll get over it soon. Talk to him and c how he feels then tell him how you feel about him. Thats the only way it is gonna work. I was shy and i lost my baby. Now i regret being shy around him. I miss him alot. I dont want to see that happen to you.


Christine

Dont listen to your parents about school. I did and im in the gayest classes. They dont ahve to take them, you do. If you want to take music take it. Your parents have nothing to do with your school work. Good luck
Christine

ok listen.. cool down a minute. I was and still am in love with my ex boyfriend. Im going through the same thing. I love him so much but he has another girlfriend. Yeah im pissed and im gonna beat the piss out of her but anyways.. thats besides the point.
About your situation... i cried all the time too. i sleep him dream him breathe him and so many other things. I cant live without him but yet i am. Im doing fine. but i miss him so much. A few weekends b4 we broke up i slept in his room and we had so much fun. we didnt do anthing like that but i was alot of fun. He didnt love me back and we kept kissin each other. Couldnt help it. i talked to him about everything then he began to love me back. Like he did from the start but then quit and began again. Its all bout you and him talking. You 2 have to talk to him about it. Figure things out. Kiss him infront of others. Dont be embarrassed about that. I was but then i got the nerves to. And he loved it. I used to be so shy bgut now i go about things that i think would be good. Until we broke up we dont talk n e more because his new girlfriend and i started to fight after being friends. They stabbed me in the back. So we dont talk. But yeah u need to talk to him. Kiss him and he'll get used to the fact that you want to be with him.

If you need anymore help my inox is always open. Im galdto help you. We're alot alike and im 15. i go through the same things youre going through now.

Christine

i might be able to help you out. I was in the same situation and i still am. I cant get my ex. back. What i do is try thinking about something else. Think about how happy you two were and think how much more fun you can have with someone else. You'd be able to do things with another person and not make the same mistakes as you did with your old boyfriend. Its simple really.. you can still be inlove with him but try liking someone else. Its not that bad once you get used to it. I havent been with a guy in 1 wek tomorrow. It kinda feels good but then again i get sick to my stomach thinking about Chris.
(my ex) That just tells me i cant live without him. Once you get used to it.. You wont be able to like that guy again.'

Good luck.... Christine

I think it would be a good idea to have a murder mystery. I had one at my halloween party a few years ago and it was a blast. We had things hung from trees and lost corn mazes. Also we had some of our friends dress spooky and get chainsaws running... That night was fun.. all except.. since i didnt invite this one girl.. she had one and invited everyone i invited so no one came to mine. She did the same to me last year for my New Years party. BUt anyways.. we played suck and blow (not the perverted way) its a game where you sit boy girl in a circle.. and get a little piece of ( plastic chip bag, paper, anything that bends)
someone starts by suckin it in their lips and blows it to the other person beside them while they suck in. Its a great game to play. Also if there is a couple sitten beside eachother.. you can pull it away and they'll end up kissin. lol
Spin the bottle is another popular game. also 7 minutes in heaven.. make them get scared in the closet. Like dress it up and put spooky things inside. Have things like ghosts and spiders ahnging from the ceiling.

Hope you have fun and if you need any other tips let me know.. i got tons of them.. itd take too long to type right now.

Christine

you cant get someone to make out with you if they dont like you. The best way to get someone to make out with you is if theyre drunk. Thats the only way. But since you wont be drunk..then you may not get what you want.
But since you both like eachother.. maybe you will make out.. Things will happen when it happens.. you never know

Christine

All girls and guys have this problem. For instance i do too. What im gonna do is forget that these ppl are doin it. Dont let them c that it pisses you off. Go with the flow. WHEN you c her going it.. laugh and smile. It'll piss her off more and she'll stop becuase all shes goin is tryin to piss you off. She'll stop everything once she cs that it doesnt bug you n e more.


Let me no if you need n e thing else

Christine

Yes there are guys right for everyone. I never knew it before until I met my match. We broke up but we'll most likely get back together once someone knocks some sence into him.

But if you need help on gettin a guy let me know and i'll give you some advice.

Christine

No one can get a guy to notice them until the guy loooks at you without laughing at you. Just be yourslef and go with the flow.

Christine

ok i told someone else this and it worked for them...
1. Get your hair wet and scrunch it with a
towl..
2. get lots of gel and scrunch with that
3. dry it a little bit with the hair dryer
4. scrunch it more and dry it more
5. use a lot of hair spray and while spraying
it.. scrunch with your handa and go from
there. It will still look like its wet but its not. It shouldnt get poofy after that. I scrunch mine all the time and i do that.

If you need n e thing else.. just let me know.

Christine

your welcome... If you ever need anything.. just let me know.. Ill help you. I havr to try and work things out with Chris too. We just broke up Saturday night. He said he doesnt want to be with me n e more and he doesnt love or like me. I havbe no clue what i did. So idk

Good luck with your boyfriend.. Again im here for you if you need me..

Christine

they might be having sex or your dad/ mom might be hitting one another at night. Most likely theyre having sex. Just listen to them at night and see. Maybe even try talking to them once in a while about sex. Bring those sorts of things up.

Christine

OMG i have the same thing happening to me!!!
You know what i do... i just ignore the fact that he doesnt want to be with me and i dont talk to him hardly n e more. But i think you need to talk to him or do something with him just to show how much you love him. Thats what im doing this weekend. All my boyfriend says is that hes going with his buddies and has to do homework. All he ever did b4 was invite me places i didnt want to go to but i went n e ways. And took me ridingn on the quads and shit like that. I did it with him just to show him how much i loved him and wanted to be with him. (im not talkin about sex in that sentence) lol My boyfriend is breaking my heart too. He keeps saying how hes going to dump me just because i dont talk to his friends. And he never talk to mine so why in the world should i talk to his. Which i do to some of them. Anyways.. not to keep rambling on and on but i think you need to talk to him about your relationship and tell him how you really feel. Speak your ming girl!!! dont let him put you down. No girl in their right mind diserves to be put down by a guy.

Christine

Well the only way you can really find out is if you talk to him. I cant tell you how to find out from anything but talk to him. Most guys show that they love you back differently. Like.. My boyfriend.. i know he loves me back from the way he treats me. Trust me.. you will feel it in your heart if he loves you back or not. You may feelnormal around him and you may not. Just try to act yourself. Talk to him about lots of things. But im sry that i cant tell you how you can know if he loves you or now. I feel it in my heart and maybe you can too. I'll try and figure things out and let you know. Ummm... its mostly just the way he acts and talks to you. Its really pretty simple. Like i said earlier... just try and talk to him. The only thing that will scare him off is if you say " I LOVE YOU" to him way too early. I've been with Chris for almost 2 months and i never said that to him to his face b4. Dont go too fast either. That'll def. scare him off. He'll understand if you ask him. Just say your not sure about the relationship and talk to him about it.

Let me know if you have n e more questions or need help with n e thing.
Christine

ok i can definately help you on this one... i know how it feels to think you're in love with someone. Do you kinda get love sick Like... your stomach gets bubbly and you feel nervous like something is going to happen? Thats what i get when i go around my boyfriend. I feel like i cant live without him and i'd seriously die if i lost him(which almost happened). But youll feel really weird around him/her sometimes and it feels great just being around them.

let me know what happens if you want and ill help you out more. Good luck Christine

Heres how i c it. Y in the world would you want to pierce your own belly button? It hurts like hell that way. Get it professionally done. It doesnt hurt if you get it done that way. I never pierced my own. The professionals knumb it. Seriously if you want your belly button done... dont peirce it your self. I have known many girl that did that and had to get operated on because they did something wrong. ill tell you this... my belly button hurt much less than my tongue did. I mean i had my tongue done 2 times and the 1st time it hurt worse. Just think about what youre gettin yourself into.

Good luck
Christine

ok heres how i see it... All this means is.. is that theyre growing... Nothing is wrong.. The same thing happends to me all the time..

Good luck
Christine

No you shouldnt have punched her back... if you have to.. turn her in. that shouldnt happen. Do you know y she punched you? find out y she hit you and atlk to her about it.


If you need n e more help im here for you.
Christine

I NEVER LIKED TO TALK TO MY MOM EITHER.. IT IS NORMAL NOT TO HAVE YOUR PD. I GOT MINE EARLY.. IN 5TH GRADE... YOULL GET IT WHEN YOU GET IT...

THIS IS WHAT YOU DO... TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND THAT YOU WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIM ON WEEKENDS. dO YOU SEE HIM IN SCHOOL? iF NOT THEN ASK YOUR PARENTS IF YOU CAN STAY AT EACHOTHERS HOUES... THATS WHAT I DO.. AND I ALREADY GOT TO SLEEP IN HIS ROOM WITH HIM... BUT WE DIDNT DO N E THING... ASK AND SEE IF THAT HELPS... JUST TALK TO HIM.. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. ASK HIM IF HE FEELS N E THING TOO OR SOMETHING DIFFERENT.

-Im 15 years old (September 25th, 1989)
-I have brown hair
-Bluish Green Eyes
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-I love to be with my friends and hang out
-I go to Mt. Pleasant Sr High School
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-I work at McDonalds in Donegal

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