is it true drinking a lot of milk will help your boobs grow?
im not sure; somebody started spreading a rumor about it in my school, thats all.
maybe, i drink a lot of milk and my boobs are already bigger than my moms! i am a C. =]
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Okay, I know you get a lot of questions about 14 year-olds and jobs. But, I need to know some places you can work at 14. You have to know FOR SURE. Because some said McDonalds when that is 16, and others too.
Like I'll try baby-sitting, like I have babysat before, but I don't think that people will leave there kids with a complete stranger and such. Especially since I don't know CPR ect.
I want to get a decent salary and no volunteer work. But, please list jobs that you know FOR SURE.
Sorry, if I come off as rude.
I'll rate 5's no matter what.
well, my friend is 14 and she works as the Quiznos mascot/sign holder at the corner of a 4 way intersection. Sometimes she is a quiznos cup, and sometimes she just holds the quiznos sign. =]
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This is gonna sound disgusting but during the past week my feet have been smelling really badly. They never used to be like that, its just happened recently.
What can i do to stop them smelling?
If it helps, im 13/f
Thanks in advance, xxx
What I used to do when the only socks I had were tall socks and they were geeky, I just didnt wear them; so when I took a shower, I filled it like a bath only 3 or 4 inches high. Then I'd take my shower while standing in the shallow bath. It worked too =]
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Im looking for a females perspective. I like this girl alot. I want to ask her on a date. I want to say things that will melt her heart. What things could I say to do that. What body language should I use. Im from England/Greater Manchester. I rate 5's.
awwww. That's so sweet! Some things that every girl loves to hear are
"You're so beautiful."
"I love it when you ________" (in the blank put something cute that she does like, twirls her hair around her finger or anything else that is girly.)
When you go up to her to ask her on a date, make sure it is just you 2 around; dont let her/your friends be there. Don't stutter and take your time getting to the point (describe her good qualities that you love) as in be like "You are the sweetest girl I've ever met and all I ever want to do is be around you- so I was wondering if you would like to go to the movies with me this saterday?". So the 'must haves' for 'asking a girl out lines' are
-good qualities description.
-for a first date with her, make sure its NOT a double date.
-make sure you have a plan for when and where BEFORE you ask her. She would like to hear "want to go to the movies this saterday with me?" rather than "want to go on a date sometime?".
-if she can't make it on the day you asked her out for, make sure you have a back-up date prepared.
-be confident- but not too cocky.
-when you're asking her out, don't ask her quickly; talk slower than when you normaly talk, and take some breaks in between scentences (like, 1 or 2 seconds).
-eye contact is very important! NEVER stare at a girls boobs.
Let me know how it goes or if you need any more help.
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Okay so im going out w/ this guy and my dad says i have to break up with him! and i like completley LOVE him and i dont want to...
but i dont want to get in even more trouble with him then i already am...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PLEASE help
Confused.
ok, just want to apoligize in advance because this is an un-moral plan.
tell your dad you broke up with him and pretend to be all sad about it for the next few days. let him know that you still want to be friends with him though. Let your b/f know that you told your dad that yall broke up so he won't say any bf/gf things infront of him. Whenever you go somewhere with him, try to avoid telling your dad its with him. You'll have the best chance getting away with it if your in a group date/ double date. That way you can say "hey dad, I'm meeting my friends at the mall." If he asks "who?" then you can say "Susan, Billy, and I might see some other people there that we might end up hanging out with." (by the way, don't use those names, i was just using those as examples for your friend's names). If your dad snoops around your stuff like your cellphone, make sure you dont have any texts or voicemails saying stuff like "I love you" from him.
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brittany
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what are some good products for getting rid of acne quickly can be wash cream toner ive got a trip in a few days and want to get rid of these pimples on my forehead before i go
i used to use clearisil ultra- the cream. That helped a lot temporarly, but now I'm on a percribed cream, retinea. It takes a few weeks to start working, but in the long run it helps a lot more than clearisil.
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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice
unless you were actually resisting him, it wouldnt be considered rape. Sorry that it was such a horrible situation, but you (as many people) are sort of diferent people when they are drunk. he was drunk to, so in my point of view, it was ALMOST as much your fault as his. Sorry my answer didn't comfort you, but I told it like it was. Hope things get better.
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brittany
1? wtf? u gave all the people that gave you an honest answer u didnt like a low rating? FINE! YOU can go to court and YOU can lose your case but in the end, remember that you dissed someone who WAS trying to help you out.
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Ok,beafore u close this , this is a REAL question n im REALLY freaked,ok.i need to know if can u finger a chick too hard?i ask beacuse i was with my g/f and she kept sayng harder so i did and i looked at my hand and it had blood,shes not suppose to start till next week so i wana know is it possible something tore or did she jus start?
some girls tend to bleed when doing sexual things... including finguring. Dont worry, she most likly didnt feel it bleed, and shes not going to die or anything like that. some girls feel the pain after the sexual activity though. next time if she tell you to go harder, i would let her know if she is bleeding and if she still wants you to go harder, then do it.
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Hi!
I am "graduating" 8th grade on the 20th of june
on the 28th i am flying to california, long beach, for a present from my mom.
i have a bikini, tankini, and whatever it is when you have the triangle top and bathing suit shorts thing
anyway, i have a lil belly flab and leg stuff, so is there any workouts that will help quick?
i wasnt plannin on beach till august, and im taking a fitness class for a month in july...
HELP!
i live in cali! =] i luv it here! anewaiz, side crunches help, but only if you do a lot of them. also to get rid of fat on the side of your legs, stand and hold onto a chair for blance. Then lift your left leg straight to the left of you- keep your leg straight. try to raise it as high as you can, I usually do a 90 degree angle. Then after you do a set of that, go onto the next leg.
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Whats the fascination girls have over 6-packs? When my gf starts talking about celebrities, athletes, or other guys that have them, she drools over them and I feel miserable about myself and left out, I mean what am I supposed to say to that? I don't know if thats her way of telling me I should have one or what. It kind of bothers me, but I don't know if telling my gf that would do any good. All her other friends think the same thing, I just don't see whats so great about it...so what is it and what do you think I should do?
When you look in a magazine most of the guy celebrities have 6packs... but that percentage is over exagerated for regular people. Most people in society do not have 6packs- so its really not a big deal that you dont have one. She would love if you had one though. Dont tell her to not talk about them- shes not trying to tell you anything.
I dont know exactly whats so great about it. I like it too, but not exactly sure why.
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so my dance is on friday i want to go with this guy and we have gone out like twice this year already but i really want to go with him but i am tired of waiting! so i was wondering, do guys think its creepy if a girl asks them out??
thanks
i'll rate high
My 8th grade dance was a few weeks ago1 =] it was fun. usually guys like it when girls ask them. Only ask him if your sure he likes you though.
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I hate myself. I look at myself in the mirror and just want to fricken cut myself, but I won't cut, thats just how I feel. I hate how I look. People are like your perfect weight, but I feel like I won't ever be pretty unless I have a completely flat stomach and muscular theighs. I just can't seam to accept myself. I've been told I'm pretty and stuff. It's just I see all these other girls with perfect hair and skin and I feel ugly! Then, I see these girls w/ all these hot guys, and it makes me feel like I'll never have that. I'm really sad. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I don't wanna talk to my parents. I only have one friend who I would talk to but he just tells me to go see a therapist or get antidepressants. I just can't seam to feel happy. So my question is, has any girls or guys gone through this and tell me tips on how to feel better. thanks..
I currently am going through that same thing. I tried to resist cutting, but I did it anyway. I felt like I had no control over my life and whatever I wanted I wouldn't be able to get no matter how hard I tried (for example, my crush and certain friends getting mad at me for stupid reasons). These were things I couldn't talk to my friends about because I have MAJOR trust issues.
The first time it helped ALOT... but then all the times after that it didn't help; especially when my friends saw the cuts and they told everyone. When they did that I cut more until I realized soon that the reason I became even more depressed was BECAUSE of cutting, so I stopped 2 weeks ago.
Now I don't feel depressed because I have no control- now it's worse. I just feel depressed continuously and I think that is the side effect of cutting; once you stop, your happiness drowns.
Here is a metaforical phase of what cutting does to depression: Depression is a sickness in your blood. When you cut all of the sickness leaves you, but then when the bleeding stops, the sickness grows back even quicker inside of you.
Now that I once again have no outlet as I did before cutting, I think I am starting to lead to anorexia. Last week my friend had to practically force feed me a fry. Today I had a small yogurt, and thats all I plan eating.
SO MY ADVICE FOR YOU: Don't cut. No matter how good it feels the first time, that happiness only lasts for a few days- then it's gone. Try to always be around your friends and avoid being alone- cus then you have time to think about how screwed your life is and stuff.
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whats leading them on means? is that also means a player?
im from jamaica
leading someone on is when you do things that make them think they can have more than that. For example, if your friends with someone and you flirt with them just for fun, they may think that you like them.
Leading someone on is similiar to a player with a little diference. Players usually don't want a relationship- just sex/making out, or they only want it for the sex/making out (depends on how old they are). Leading someone on has the same reaction on the victim as a player's victim.
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Whats the best way to get over my shyness and ask this girl I like out? How can I make it easier on myself? She plays hard to get.
If she plays 'hard to get', play it right back. Ask yourself, "has her playing hard to get attrcted me to her?". If so, that means that playing 'hard to get' works.
After a while of you playing 'hard to get', she may start to like you back. You will know that she REALLY likes you when SHE stops playing 'hard to get'. Then when it's totally the right time, ask her out. Believe me, the only reason your shy is because she makes it seem like shes better than you because she plays 'hard to get'.
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brittany
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How do swimsuit models get their stomachs so flat, like is that like having tight abs or is it just that they dont have any fat in that area. is it because they workout by running or crunches?
thanks
they do work out, but i agree with the first advice. i also think many of them are anorexic. My stomach is pretty tight with barely any fat, but its not flat like theirs. I don't think running does THAT much to your stomache- but crunches do.
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brittany
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umm.. i dont know what this goes under but...
you know how girls dance at parties like they move their hips around a lot so it looks like they're a wave or something?
like im the only one that can't dance at my school. at my school dances like the girls are like all back to back w/ each other and moving their hips but i don't know how 2 do that.
like my body's too stiff and it's not loose or whatever. can you tell me how to do it or give me a website that has a video of girls dancing at a party like that or something? plzzz i rate high!!!
so ill take it tht you wanna freak dance? its really fun once you get into it. The only muscle you really need to use are your thighs, and maybe your calfs. ya, this is gunna sound kinda weird, but move your but in a U shape. To do this, you need to bend your knees and flow from side to side.
Start on one side with your knees bent- for this example, we'll start from the left side of the U.
Left side/stance: If your short then dont bend em too far, but if your tall bend them more.
Middle/lowest point in U: then as you start to go to the other side, bend you knee lower so your but is a little closer to the floor. That part is the lowest point in the U.
Right side: Then unbend your knees as you go up the right side of the U so you are at the same height as you were at the left side of the U.
Thats the hip movement. As far as where youre hands go, if your in back put them in the hips of the girl infront of you. (the guy should neva be infront of you, only behind you or you facing him.) If youre in front and the person's hands behind you are on your hips, either lay your hands on the sides of your thighs, or over their hands. If your facing another girl, lace fingers and hold them up about as high as your nose. If youre facing someone up close or your in back you usually need to bend youre knees more than when youre infront.
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brittany
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is it true guys think its hot when girls kiss/ make out?
ya, but don't plan on doing it infront of a guy that you would like to be your bf, he might think that you would ONLY be a great one night stand.
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brittany
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How can I fall asleep?
Lately I'm having nightmares and I can't sleep if it's past 11.. because I just.. stay awake for some reason.
And when i try to sleep.. i have sleep paralysis...so sometimes i refuse to sleep because i hate going through that.
i dont know what to do.
i'm only getting 3-4 hours of sleep every night.
try to get sleeping aids. My dad has them but they also have bad side effects if u use them too much. My dad tended to get frusterated easier during the day and more tired during the day after he used it for a few months.
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Who sings that new song "Temperature"? Its a rapper of some sort I think but I dont know who...
ya, sean paul. HA! when i read the question and saw someone put lyrics, i persuaded myself to learn the words to the song... so i sat here for an hour learning the words to the beat. =]
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brittany
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How do you get your hair so blonde that it's almost white? You know, like jessica simpson blonde?... I've tried bleaching it, but it just turns orange & then when I put a base on after the orange doesn't go away. Does any one know any good brands or tips on how to do this?
what a quincidence! (spl?) just an hour ago i bought this stuff that will make my blonde hair ligter. Its Pantene ProV shampoo and conditioner for blondes. If you buy it make sure you get the right kind because there are 2 diferent kinds- one makes your blonde darker and one makes it lighter. I'm not sure how well it works though cause as i said, i just bought it an hour ago. =]
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brittany
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