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AY YOO!! my name is sara & i can give some pretty sweet advice =]. i guess i'm supposed to talk about me here .. soo yeah here ya gooo =]

my room's always messy & i hate capitalizing my i's. I'm a picky eater but i eat lots of food (mainly junkfood =D). i am very unorganized and i usually forget my homework, but i'm working on it. i don't like concentrating because i'm not good at it. i'm obviously not perfect, but then again who in their right mind would say so. i like using big words, and yes i do know what they mean. i'm a pretty good speller and i like acting literate when i'm actually not at all. i don't bother with people who don't like me. if you have anything against me, i'm simply not going to waste my time trying to get you to favor me.. in my opinion, its your loss. i type really fast and i use the backspace button alot even though i don't like to. i wish my eyes weren't blue, but i would never get colored contacts. i eat too many famous amos cookies and i love kettlecorn .. mmmm =] i know that i do not have all the answers to life, but i will try my best to help you people out. i'm pretty good at giving advice on friendship related things, because i think i'm pretty good at being a friend; considering i have no enemies. i'm not so good on school work related questions, but ask me them anyway & i'll give you a website where you can try to find what you're looking for =) i hate writing english papers because i suck immensely at organizing my thoughts. i am very gullable & easily influenced. i judge people way too much even though i'm not that confident. i need to stop that. actually, there's several things i need to change about myself, but you're not perfect either. i talk alot and sometimes i mumble because, i don't know why but i just do. i think i do it when i get nervous and i talk real quiet and it's annoying and i hate it. i also talk fast which is another thing i need to stop. i always have something to say, and i won't hesitate to say it. alright i'm done, bye.

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ok well when im around this guy i get really nervous and cant like think right lol.but not all guys just him what do think is wrong with him or me?

kthnxbye.

nothing's wrong with either of you lol. you probably like him! =)

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who sings that song that goes,
take me away take me far away from here i will run with you dont be afraid call my name and we will stare into the sun we will run

i'm pretty sure it's fefe dobson take my away

are the lyrics?:

Take Me Away Lyrics

I..was waiting all my life to know you
(all about you)
And now..I'm staring in your eyes ocean blue
(I'm all about you)

And in our minds, it comes so easily
But theres a feeling comin over me
I want to show you,
But theres nowhere we can really be free
Everybody's watchin'

Wouldn't it be good if we could be together

Take me away,
Take me far away from here
I will run with you
Don't be afraid
Navigate and I will steer
Into the sun, we will run

I try...to remember when I was just a child
(In my roo-oom)
And my...imagination used to run wild
(I never knee-ew)

Then nothing ever as it seems to be
When a dream collides with our reality
It should be easy when two people love each other truly
Everybody's talkin'

Wouldn't it be good if they would understand us...

Take me away,
Take me far away from here
I will run with you
Don't be afraid (afraid)
Navigate and I will steer
Into the sun, we will run...

We, will run.
Whoooaaa whoa whoa whoa
We, will run.
Oh yeah yeah yeaah

Wouldn't it be good if they would understand us
Wouldn't it be good if we could be together...
TAKE ME AWAY!

Take me away, (take me away)
Take me far away from here
I will run with you
Don't be afraid (Don't..Be..Afraid)
Navigate and I will steer
Into the sun, we will run...

Run, whoa whoa whooaa
I will run with you wherever you go
Don't be afraid
Let's runaway and I will steer
Into the sun, we will run.

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oookay.. my family isn't exactly poor (like.. we have everything we need) but we definately aren't rich. we have a really small house, (1 floor.. 6 total rooms in the whole house) and so we are trying to save up money for that. my parents don't have the greatest paying jobs, but they like what they do and don't want to switch to a boring job even if they get paid a lot. the problem is, is that for christmas, i really want a digital camera. my mom has a good one, but i want my own. i don't know how to ask, because thats the last thing they would want to have to pay for. i REALLY love taking pictures, editing them on computers, and am really interested in graphic designing. it is also the last grade of the school im at so i want lots of pictures or the rest of the year. thanks for your help!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

hmm, well digital cameras aren't like a zillion dollars, but they can be PRETTY expensive. (as much as 600 dollars at the very most, but you CAN get them for like 100 dollars) first, i would make sure that you DEFFINITELY want one, because it can be quite an investment. just tell your parents, say something like "how about instead of getting me the usual amout of presents for christmas, how about just a digital camera" before hand, like for a week or a few days before you ask, whenever you see them be like "man how cool would it be to have my own camera" haha just dumb little things like that .. that way, when you ask, you can say "you guys know how i've been wanting one" or maybe say something like "i'll pay for part of it" only say that if you actually can though. good luck!

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okay i didn't really know what to put this under.. but o well lol-- okayy this is kind of weird asking this question.. but are g-strings and thongs the same thing? b/c people say they're different and use them kind of differently.. but i just want to know without asking them. also, are the any other _-strings? lol yeah again.. this is weird asking this but thanks for the help!!!

they're all thongs just different styles. so a g-string is just a thong. there's also v-strings which again is just a thong, they're just different styles. ♥

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Okay so my dads a major alcoholic and Im trying to get him in trouble and arrested or somehow away from my mother and i cause he is a danger and a jerk. I mean its horrible. He wont physically abuse us to the point of marks cause he dont want to go to jail. However we suspect he may be back on drugs (hes been on them in the past) cause he seems all down dissapears and come back really perky. How can I see if he is? How can I prove it? What should I do? PLEASE HELP!

when no one else is home look through his stuff. if you ANY suspection of him doing drugs you can act on it. the police have the right to look through your house if you think he may be on drugs. if you have a reason to think so, you can do anything. you can also call social services and tell them about the abuse.

i hope things get better! =\ ♥!

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what is a good way to get lower abs/ a flat tummy. what are some exercising techniques or healthier eatin habbits, anything anyone will recommened thank you sooo much! =)

i've been doing abdominal exercises for years and here's what you can do:

- doing cardio (anything that makes your heart pump such as running, jumping jacks, things that make you sweat and make you breath heavy) will burn off fat all over your body including your stomach.
- do crunches. not sit-ups, crunches. sit-ups don't do much for you AT ALL except make your neck sore. for a crunch, you can cross your arms over your chest or put them out in front of you (if you put them out in front of you make sure you don't like whip yourself up haha) so to do a crunch, you do a sit up very slowly and at the point when you feel of pain (strengthening pain like muscles working) that's when you go back down. make sure you go back down slowly, otherwise it will be too easy and if it's easy, you won't get any results.
- whenever you're doing an exercise (suchas crunches) it's important to do them in sets. start out with 2 sets of 10 everyday (that will add up to 20) to do 2 sets of 10, you do 10 crunches, get up and get a drink or something .. just wait until your stomach feels back to normal .. (probably about 5 minutes at the most) then do the other 10. do the warm up (the cardio .. running or whatever .. the heart pumping thing) then the crunches, then do a cool down .. take a little walk or something. if you can't take a walk, just lay down and try to get your breath count even (4 counts inhaling, 4 counts exhaling .. i don't know if that makes sense but i tried =P)

okayy, well i'm sorry this is so long, but i just wanted to give the best advice possible =)

♥ hope i helped!

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okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else?

it's not weird at all .. it's your body so you can maintain it however you want and whatever makes you comfortable. like i said it's your body.

some girls do, and some don't it's entirely your opinion =)

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i want a new screen name ! it can have georgious, glamourous and stuff like that in it thnx i will rate !!

hm, here's somee

G0RGE0USx0O
ohso GLAM x - i like thatt oneee =)
simplyGLAM0UR0US - just enough letters (16)
G0RGE0USxGLAM

that's all i can think of rightt noww ♥

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So a girl i really like(im a boy 14 year she is 14 too) has her birthday in 2 weeks and i don't know what to give her...PLEASE VERY PLEASE HELP!ALL 5


she likes rock music the most guitar and stuff...also she likes pets like dogs and cats.

omg i think it would be adorable if you find a guitar and serenade her (sing her a song) =) if she doesn't already know that you like her, tell her and if she does talk about how much you like her. & maybe burn a cd of music she likes. =) ♥

EDiiiiiT ;;

go to www.alloy.com then go to where it says 'SHOP' and then go to 'apparel' and they have really cute punky clothes & such. i know it'd be weird buying her clothes, but it would be really cute if you get her a hoodie with her favorite band on it or just a cute punky one that you think she'd like. or a T-shirt .. they have the cutest T-shirts .. just hurry cuz you'll have to order it! =) ♥

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does anyone know where to get etnies that are less then $40?
will rate 5s for anythingg

i dont know if they're less than 40$ but pacsun has themm.

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I think I may have mono. Some girl at school has it and me and her drank from the same drink and I haven't felt so great since. I'm really tired. What are the symptoms? Should I tell my mom? (She'd really flip) What do I do to get rid of it?
I'll rate.

aw i had mono over the summerr .. you'll feel reallyy tired and cold. i'd be in sweatpants and a sweatshirt, socks and under like a million blankets and still be freezing my ass off. stick out your tongue reallyyy far in the mirror .. there's gona be white bumps all over your tongue (mostly near the back) you'll feel really weak and i think i had a fever? i can't remember though. i had it for sixteen days .. people usually get it for like a month more or less, so i guess you could say i got lucky? haha. but yeah. go to the doctor b/c you might just have strep. oh yeah and your tonsils will be madd swollen and you can see them when you open your mouth. uh yeah tell your mom b/c you need medecinee& stufff. look up more symptoms on the internett b/c i don't remember everythingg. ♥

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okay i have very curly hair and i dont know what to do about it straightening it takes forever and doesnt come out really good. my hair is very frezzy its about shoulder lenth what can i put it my hair that doesnt make it frezzy and doesnt look greasy but not dry either.i rate high

i would use gel. (your hair can be dry or wet but dry works better usually) just take the gel (the spray gel from LAlooks works really well) and put it on your hands and get it on your hair and scrunch it. you just take and kinda squeeze it and push it up against your head to bring out the curls .. lol i can't really explain it but yeah. you just tilt your head, grab the hair and close your hand around the hair and push it againt your head. the gel will eventually dry and get kinda hard but it washes right out ♥

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I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.

This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.

I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions?

i think you should. try to babysit the kids as much as you can to keep them out of her way or whoever's abusing her. you should definitely do something in case the children are in danger. ♥

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Hi,. Does anyone know of a web site that can help you obtain passwords of a family member that uses the same computer.? I thought there was one called big brother or something close to that, please help. need to bust him, the wife.

what you can do is try to log onto his screen name (or whatever it is that you need the password for) and somewhere it should say forgot password? and it will email it to you. you have to get into his email account though. but i'm not posetive that will work though because he might have made one up. ♥

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ok im 15, 4 11, 80 lbs, and i dont even fit into an A yet. i wear a AA 30 -32. and it SUKS! my bodys done growing, does that mean my boobs are too? thanks =)

your boobs don't stop growing until you're 18 (at the youngest) they can keep growing until you're in your twenties .. don't worry about it =) ♥

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I've been having some trouble with things. Okay, so I like this guy, and he's telling my friends he likes me too. But, he doesn't want to ask me out, so i'm acting the way I usually do, because i'm single. He keeps getting mad and it kills me to know i'm the one that made him mad and that it's my fault he won't talk to me. I don't know what to do.

well if he likes you, he could have been just being stupid lol. if you know what you're doing to make him mad, then don't do it .. haha sorry if that sounds mean, but it's not meant to be =P just talk to him. say "if you supposedly like me, then why do you keep acting all mad at me?" or something like that. he's probably not asking you out maybe because he just doesn't want a girlfriend? i dont know though

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ok well last month i was gonna out with this guy and we were dating for about a week and well i keep condoms in my purse for just in case (im 12) well me and my boyfriend were at this party and we went upstairs and forgot my purse and we just starting striping and well you know.. well i missed my period and im pregant.. i dont know what to do should i get an abortion?! and how will i tell my boyfriend and parents please help

signed,
pregant preteen

=O you should tell your parents .. there's no easy way to tell them, just get it out. when you tell your boyfriend just be like remember that party .. and just go from there. idk what you should do about the baby. getting an abortion is such an ify subject. you wouldn't be able to keep the baby .. like have you as his/her mother, so i say have the baby and give him/her up for adoption, unless you know a trusted family member who could take the baby.

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I heard that they stopped making ipod mini's is that true?? If not where can you get them i looked at best buy, wal*mart and radio shack.

yeah they stopped making them. they replaced the mini with the iPod nano. the nano is really cool & if i had a choice, i'd pick the nano but i already have a pink mini. the nano is about 1 and 1/2 inches to 2 inches wide. it's also in color, probably holds more songs (not posetive but the mini holds 1500 so i'm sure it will be enough lol) it only comes in black and white though but you can get cover things.

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