I a 22 year female. I recently lied to my step father about being with my boyfriend who i have been on and off with for quite sometime. Well my boyfriend heard and got upset and now he thinks i am not ready for a committed relationship. When we were talking I couldnt look him in the face cause I hate seeing him hurt and I hate him seeing me cry! I dont know what else I can do to show/tell him that I only did it to not have any more conflict. Can you please help me?
Your 22 year old WOMAN if your step father don't like who your with he needs to tell you his concerns not stop you from seeing him. Your a woman who can do what she pleases. Your not a child and you have to stand up for what you believe in. Your bf has a right to get upset if you love him you will be honest with your step dad and yourself. Your scared to speak your mind because you dont want to be rude and have conflict but your a woman who needs to tell her step father the truth and be proud of it now or your going to get older and keep lieing because your scared. Do it now before you age more and it gets worse. If you love your man tell your step dad and talk to him bout it. Do a dinner at your house so he can get to know the boyfriend. Try this out and see how it goes. With LOVE you have to take risks and chances :)
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Hey, I am gay 16 year old guy and whenever a guy touches me I get a hard on, but when a grl touches me I don't. How do I keep that under control when we start kissing or holding hands or something small like that?? Cuz I do t wanna be out and kiss him then get a hard on all of a sudden! Help please!
It's hormones you really can't control it at this age. Tell the other person if you start getting hard. Maybe they will find that to be sexy and will help you pleasure that. There's nothing wrong with the hormones but if it happens with every guy then maybe you should try masterbateing to learn how to control it. Like i said it's normal its hormones acting up at this age that's what they do. If your really scared of what the guys will say try masterbateing or telling your boyfriend and see if he can help you out also. Tell me how it goes :)
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I am getting depressed because Im telling myself im lesbian, but i do not in any way want to be. i look at girls boobs and stuff and have sexual thoughts about them but I would never ever date one or kiss one. Is it normal to doubt your sexuality? im 14
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It is normal. Your at that age where your questioning things. It's very normal its just a stage. It's called bi-curious. Just think of it this way. Will you marry a girl will you have sex with one will you kiss one will you date one as a serious relationship? If there is a NO to any of those questions then it just may be a phase and something not to deep. If everything is a yes then try it. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. If that is what you like then try it out and see what happens. :) Let me know how things go
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My ex left me in the past and we got back together after 6 months things was perfect she has bipolar and stopped taking her meds and kind of flipped saying she can't give me what I need and want in a relationship she says she cares about me and said out of respect shed tell me if she hooked up with someone outa respect but isn't thinkin or wantin to do thank love her to death and don't get it what is going on and how can I get her back
Help her, apparently she's not in her state of mind rite now. She's probably going through something that is making her refuse her pills and she is probably angry and taking it out on you. She needs someone to help her. If you love her tell her she needs to take her meds again and keep taking them and tell her that your always going to be there to support and bring her back to normal. She needs someone whose going to be there through it all. All you can do is be there when ever she's in trouble and talk to her she will realize that you are trying to help her and you can help her back to her normal self with her meds. :) I hope i helped let me know :)
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when I talk to my supervisor at work and when he tells me something i don't seem to retain details.. also i go to see professor at his office and when he explains me, i look very slow to understand.. mostly at the office setting.... but at classroom, i am much much quicker. this is frustrating to me. I try looking at other person's eyes mostly when i talk, just my habit.. not to show them that i am not scared or anything.. i nod my head when they talk as if i have understood everything but in fact those voices don't even register in my brain.. my guess is i try to concentrate too much and lots of thoughts run at back of my head when other are speaking ...sometime i don't have confident but most of the time i feel like i am over confident.. i am great talker with friends and family though.. its just that at school and work i feel dumb.. anybody has similar issues or some advices for me... it would be great help to reduce my frustation... thank yalll for taking time to read this. :)
I say just relax your like my friend who over thinks an issue. Sometimes you have to go with the flow. If your professor or supervisor is trying to talk to you don't wander off somewhere else thinking that your going to remember or even know what they said. Just relax when they talk to you write the tips down that they give to you. Also don't just nod your head if you don't understand and walk away clueless. Put your pride away and open your mouth & ask questions you won't get in trouble if you do. It's always important to remember to not over think what's going to happen just live in the moment and try to stay focus on the task at hand. Don't be scared get out of your comfort zone which involves friends and family only and learn to not just physically be some where but emotionally too. Learn to believe that you are smart outside of your comfort zone and show your supervisor and professor that you can do any task they give you. :)
Hope i helped.
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I am a member of a shoe club and I LOVE the shoes on the site but, most of the shoes on the site (at least the ones that I like) are 5 inches or higher with a large incline. Sometimes the platform might be 1.5 inches so that makes the incline less steep but when it's a 5.5 in shoe, it can still be very straining on the ball of the foot. Yet, I see women wear these shoes out to the club, out to the mall, etc. I don't know what they are doing to be able to wear these shoes for so long without causing blisters. Is there like an insole or something that they are putting in there or are they just wearing the shoes until the bottom of their feet callous over and there is just no pain anymore? I would love to wear these shoes but I really don't want to sacrifice the health of my feet to do it.
Honestly i always wondered too how girls do it. Honestly you should wear what feels comfortable on you. A lot of girls model and dance and had to practice walking in shoes since they were little children. People get used to walking in long thin beautiful heels. Do there feet get tired I'm sure they do, but there used to it so it won't hurt them as much as it would someone like you who hasn't tried it before. I think even though a shoes may be beautiful you have to think of it this way. You never walked in shoes 24/7 like those other girls probably have and yes it pains to look beautiful, but how much pain are you willing to endure to have those shoes. Wear something comfortable and sexy until you get used to thin high heels like the others.
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is it normal for a woman to see her periods twice in a month?
That has happened to me alot of times. It depends if it has been in the beginning of the month then came at the very end then it's normal. It will go back to normal. Usually it's stress. For me my period will come sometimes in the beginning of the month then at the very end of the month. I was scared at first too thought something was wrong, but it's normal. I was stressed which caused my period to come a little bit early. That can be the same case with you. There could be something that is making you think way to hard and your becoming stress. Wait for the next month and see if it changes and if it don't go to a doctor and see what they say. :)
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I am only 12, and I have only been emotionally dead for about 3 years. I only told my mom today about it but she doesn't believe it. She doesn't believe that all the smiles, laughs, tears, pain, anger have been fake. I hate it. I hate that I can't do anything to stop this or cure this, but I've grown not to care. But I WANT to care. I do. I just can't.
If your 12 and feeling this way this early even from an earlier stage then you should go talk to someone. Usually something happens for people to feel like this. If a traumatic event happened that made you feel this way you should talk to your mother about this. Go to your mom and tell her you guys need to have a serious girl talk and start from where it all began. Hopefully you guys talking will help ease you, but if it don't and you still feel this way after the talk go to a counselor and they will be able to help you for sure. :) Good luck be brave and strong.
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13/female
Hi my boobs are already a size 36 D and all the boys in my skwl
Hey. Your similar to alot of my friends they always had big breast. It's just because that's whats in your genes. It just means that your mom and women in your family has big breasts. Since your that age and there that big most likely they will stop growing by now. Your boobs can really only grow but so big. As for the boys in school if there looking at your boobs then good bet they want you because of those. Just love what you have because believe it or not its a gift. Big boobs come in handy for babies there cushions for them. So when you get older and have kids trust me you are going to be so proud to have big boobs. Lols. My aunt sure was when she had my cousin.
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