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How to get my ex back
My ex left me in the past and we got back together after 6 months things was perfect she has bipolar and stopped taking her meds and kind of flipped saying she can't give me what I need and want in a relationship she says she cares about me and said out of respect shed tell me if she hooked up with someone outa respect but isn't thinkin or wantin to do thank love her to death and don't get it what is going on and how can I get her back
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Help her, apparently she's not in her state of mind rite now. She's probably going through something that is making her refuse her pills and she is probably angry and taking it out on you. She needs someone to help her. If you love her tell her she needs to take her meds again and keep taking them and tell her that your always going to be there to support and bring her back to normal. She needs someone whose going to be there through it all. All you can do is be there when ever she's in trouble and talk to her she will realize that you are trying to help her and you can help her back to her normal self with her meds. :) I hope i helped let me know :)
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It's super dangerous when someone stops taking their meds in bipolar. That's probably the reason why she let you down. I know a case where someone had a great relationship with her bipolar boyfriend, and then he decided he was doing well, and stopped taking his meds. He started harassing her and being really really mean to her. She didn't know what the hell to do with him. One day she decided she'd had enough, and told him if he didn't take his medication, they were through. He started taking it, and he was a new person. I'm bipolar and I know for a fact that if I ever stopped my medication, no matter how much I love my boyfriend I'd probably do such hurtful things to him that we'd break up. It's not because I choose to. It's just the way a bipolar brain works. If you're not sedated by medication, you have zero control over what you do, and yes, in a lot of cases you break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend or you're so freaking rude that they can't live with you anymore. You can't think clearly, the bipolar makes all the decisions.
I can't stress enough how crucial it is that you try to convince her to start taking her medication again. If she doesn't listen, tell her family to try convincing her. Before you know it, things can get out of control, and the person that will suffer the most will be her. As you say, you love her to death, so do the nicest thing you can, and get her to take her medication one way or another. If she has to be strapped to a chair, and have the pill shoved down her throat, so be it, but she needs to take it.
Once she can think clearly again, speak her own words, and think her own thoughts, she'll probably realize her mistake, and get back together with you.
Don't feel hurt by what she's done, because she doesn't mean to hurt you or anyone else. She just has no control over what she does or says.
I wish you all the best. Good luck :)
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