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Bbobs too big?
13/female
Hi my boobs are already a size 36 D and all the boys in my skwl <3 to touch them and I find them always staring at my boobs x
I've been out with loads of these guys but I never like really loved them x
I don't know if its cos my boobs are like massive or not x
Please tell me whether my bbobs will stop growing or not cos I don't want them to get any bigger x
Thanx x
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Guys are very visually driven and the ones you have around you also don't really have much, if any, concrete experience with women.
In addition, you have to keep in mind that the willful ignorance of sexuality and the abhorrence of the naked human body pushed by Christianity as well as the fifth grade level of sexual interactions on television lends the more salient parts of a girl's anatomy the air of forbidden fruit and sex itself is never talked about in a frank, adult way, but rather hemmed and hawed around, the tension broken by schoolyard level jokes.
The only answer I can tell you to give the boys is, "yes, girls have boobs. And that's a news bulletin to you?"
As for your breast size, they'll stop growing soon. Some girls just develop sooner than others and the same is true of boys. You're just in that early developing group. There is nothing wrong with your breasts unless their size causes you back pain, as it does for some women due to the weight of them.
Finally, as another poster emphasized, many women agonize over having A or B cups because they see the more buxom ladies getting more male attention or they perceive them as being able to fill their clothes out in a more attractive way. So there are perceived virtues for larger breasted women.
The main things you need to concern yourself with then, isn't the size of your breasts (human variation, isn't it wonderful?), but staying in ownership of your body while not allowing anyone else to affect how you feel about it or what you do with it. It is yours and yous alone. There is a breed of human being who can't mind their own business (you meet these types a lot at church) and it's just one of those things we all deal with. So relax, like yourself because you are indeed a good person and see people's infatuation with your boobs as THEIR PROBLEM (because it is) and not your's.
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Let me give you some grandfatherly advice since I am of that age group.
First: Not even your doctor can tell you if your Breasts will get any larger before you finish with puberty. They can make an educated guess but that is about the size of things. Pun unintended.
Second: Until you are at least 18 there is not much you can do about the size of you breasts should you decide they are too big. This would require breast reduction surgery and that must wait until you finish growing.
Third: Teenage boys are rude and crude. They don't like it when girls walk down the halls at school pointing and giggling when a certain part of their body is pointing. They have no more control over that problem than you do over the size of your breasts; yet they will ogle you, try to touch you and more.
Fourth: There is not much you can do about the ogling. When it comes to touching and making sexually unwanted comments there is a lot you can do.
You tell them to stop. That simple. When they don't anything else becomes sexual harassment punishable by school authorities and under the law. They may be teenagers but they are subject to the laws of the land just like anyone else. All you need do is tell a teacher, principal or a parent that these boys are harassing and touching you. The police and school authorities will take it from there. You have rights. Among those rights is not to be harassed sexually or in any other way.
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I was in the same situation when I was thirteen, and they haven't grown much since. Let me give you a piece of advice: these boys are using you up for their personal pleasure, and taking advantage of you. Don't let them do it anymore, and don't go out with these guys. They don't want you, they want your boobs.
I've been sexually harassed a lot because of my boobs, and each time, I made sure the boy who did it wouldn't forget what he did for the rest of his life. They're really afraid of me. As opposed to when I was younger, everyone would make fun of me, and I let them get away with it.
Your boobs can only get that big, I don't think they'll grow much anymore.
Good luck and be tough ;)
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Its just a feeling you get at that age cause trust i use to feel the same way when i was your age. when you get older u'll get over it an thank god you have at least sum boobs, there are many women out there takin plastic surgeries cause they want their boobs to look big. Its just a normal teenage girl thin we go through.
no needs to worry, it will be ok :)
And for your benefit dont let any guy touch your boobs its disrespectful and their just taking advantage of you. PLEASE dont let anymore guys do that to you! If you catch them staring 4 long just tell them back off!! and wear appropriate clothing that wouldn't attract them to your boobs
hope i helped
Good luck!
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Hey. Your similar to alot of my friends they always had big breast. It's just because that's whats in your genes. It just means that your mom and women in your family has big breasts. Since your that age and there that big most likely they will stop growing by now. Your boobs can really only grow but so big. As for the boys in school if there looking at your boobs then good bet they want you because of those. Just love what you have because believe it or not its a gift. Big boobs come in handy for babies there cushions for them. So when you get older and have kids trust me you are going to be so proud to have big boobs. Lols. My aunt sure was when she had my cousin.
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