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My name`s Amy, you probably know me as naimee. I`m sixteen years young, I`m a junior, & I live in San Antonio, Texas. =]
I hate thirteen year olds who think they`re in love & ready to have sex. I hate people who steal my advice and think they`re cool, you`re not.
I know a lot about myspace/xanga. [HTML] I know tons about weight loss and computer stuff.
If you ask for my advice, I`ll try my best to help you, and if I can`t give you the best advice ever, I`ll give you someone awesome to askkk!
I`m never on AIM, but when I am, my SN is: naInErZzZ.
Thanks yall!
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Member Since: December 24, 2006
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I know this is a stupid question, but HOW exactly are abortions performed..
Does it hurt the woman or do they give the woman amnethsia?? (link)
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Depending on which abortion a woman decides to take is really different.
There`s the abortion pill, which usually works 92% of the time. Where the woman takes it in the hospital room and the next time she has a period she bleeds EXCESSIVELY.
The other abortion which works 100% of the time, is where the vagina is maimed, so the tube is able to fit into the vagina. It`s very different also depending on what week the abortion is held on. If it`s dealt with early on, it won`t be AS BAD as it would be like 6 months into the pregnancy.
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when you cherry is popped, how much does it hurt, what does it feel like..
got any examples??
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Can`t really say I have any examples.
It doesn`t hurt THAT bad, when it happens, it`s just kinda like, "Woah, what was that?" Like, it`s kind of a shock thing. You`re usually in the moment and it`s not really on your mind. But then when it happens, it`s just like a shock feeling. It`s kinda like getting your eyebrows plucked. =] Not like the constant having a hair rip out of your face, but like just one pluck, it`s just like, "Woah, okay. That was fast." Haha. Type thing. It`s hard to describe if you can`t already tell.
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This is a really odd question, but my nipples get really itchy sometimes and if i scatch around there they tend to kind of open up and not exactly bleed, but like an open wound. So i covered them with bandaids.
Can anyone explain this?
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Don`t be embarassed about this at all. It`s just dry skin. Moisturize your nipples after you shower and before you go to bed. It`ll help, because they won`t be getting dry and they won`t itch.
This will help instantly.
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i've been on the pill for almost a year.. and i got my period when im not supposed to. what does this mean? could it mean im pregnant?? (link)
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No.
Periods vary. You`re not pregnant, because if you were you WOULDN`T get your period!!
That`s what happens when you start the pill, sometimes periods can become regular & sometimes it can become irregular.
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Are there ways that you can get rid of a double chin? (ie, any excercise) (link)
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You can`t just choose to lose weight from a specific part of your body. You have to work it all & then you`ll see results EVERYWHERE. =[
Your face will get skinnier though as you lose weight & stuff.
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How young is too young to have sex. Im 16/f and i just had sex for the first time a couple of days ago. (link)
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I think younger then 16 is bad.
It really depends on maturity. =]
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rite wel im 16 i was due to start taking my pill on wednsday and my doctor said that i would have to wait til thursday to get it so i would have to miss it well my bf cme round btw were im on ma period bt we started getin to into fings and it ended up sex stupidly we dint use a condom n he pulled out n im worried that i cud b pregnaunt? ive carried on takin ma pill evryday round the same time so could i plz help me! x (link)
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There is a chance you could be pregnant. Skipping one day of the pill can really screw up your cycle. I`m sure that the chances of you being pregnant are very slim. But there`s always still a chance even if you`re on the pill or not. =] I wouldn`t worry about it too much right now. When it comes closer to your period, keep a watch & wait until you get it. If you don`t, well then you need to go back to the doctors.
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Okay, so I havent been on vacation in awhile and last night at a family christmas party, my Uncle told everyone he's inviting all of us to go to MEXICO for his 50th birthday :] I got really excited, but we'd be going March 12-18 which is during school. My spring break isnt until the end of April so my Mom said no. But I really, reallly want to go! How do I convince her we should go? She seems set in her decision. (link)
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First talk to your counselor. I know that some schools have educational vacations, like when you miss school, you can say your going for educational purposes. Then, those days won`t count against you. I know that`s what happened whenever I went to England for two weeks. They knew I was going there on a vacation, but they gave me an educational thing, I just had to fill out what landmarks I`m going to be seeing, and how it would educate me. =]
Explain that you`ll only miss five days of school & you`ll go straight back on March 19th. Say you`ll go to school everyday & you won`t have any more absences. Tell her it`ll mean the world to you if you could go, and help around the house a bit. Take some weight off of your moms shoulders and just help her out, suck up. :D
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Okay, does anyone know the site where they have the offical laws for the colorado state? Especially a section on people drinking/smoking/doing drugs who are under 18? Thanks =] (link)
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Hey!
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I found these websites, hopefully it helps you in some way!
Smoking:
http://blog.laborlawtalk.com/2006/12/20/colorado-smoking-laws-2/
Drinking:
http://www.webtender.com/iforum/message.cgi?id=69589
I couldn`t find one on doing drugs though`sorry. =[
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what does fingering yourself feel like? how do you do it? (link)
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http://choosehealthnow.info/finger-yourself.html
Try it, everyone feels something different.
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Two quick questions here. My boyfriend and i (of 1 year 1 month today) are spending new years together. Ill be spending the night at his house. we have done everything BUT sex so far...but i think were ready to move a step forward (im not positive yet...im sleeping on it for a few nights). Anyways....on to the questions
1.) Sooo my bf got a condom from a reliable friend id say....5 months ago...and its an individual one..and it doesnt have a expiration date on it. i was wondering if like condoms go bad after that amount of time or if its more along the lines of a year or something. I know people are supposed to pay close attention to the exp. date...and it sucks that it doesnt have it on it.
2) Is it more likely to not get pregnant if you are having your period (i think i may have mine tomorrow) ? I know he wont care if its bloody/yucky...but i was wondering if it wood be a good thing to be having sex during it (or vice versa...a bad thing). We will, of course, be using that condom.
Soooorrry its so long but i really hope i can have some help with this!! thanks!!! (link)
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- I definitely think you should get a new condom. The condom can get fucked up from being in different temperature areas. You honestly don`t know where that condom has been so unless you want to risk it you can. But, that`s probably not the best thing to do! The expiration date is usually a year or something.
- Having sex whenever you have your period you won`t get pregnant. It`s something about your egg dropping, and what not. I don`t really know the explanation. I learned it in Health class. But, it`s probably the best time to have sex when you don`t want to get pregnant.
HAVE FUN. :]]
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okay, i really like this guy named Richie that i've known for awhile but one of my friends also likes him. i think that he is going to ask me out soon and i want to say yes but i dont want to hurt my friends feelings because they really like him too. i dont know what to do. plz help! (link)
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I`m sure you don`t want to hurt your friends feelings. But, if you turn this guy down, he could potentially go to this other chick & her ask out, then she could say yes.
You should totally date this guy if he asks you out. She`ll be mad for a few days, but then she`ll realize how dumb she`s being, & then everything will be OK again. Just be sure not to like kiss him or anything in front of her. You won`t know it, of course. Just try not to make her jealous, y'know?
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okay so... first of all, me && my bf are only 13 years old okay and we'd been together for about 1 month and 6days. its winter break for both of us and we'd been txt messaging eachother talking about being horny and like what would we do to eachother when we have sex when we get older. so were not planning on having sex until we get older and ready. here are my questions...
questions:
1.me && my bf make out and use tongue and i was wondering... since me and him are comfertable with being all horny or whatever.. whats the next step??.. cuz i know he wants me to do something to him.
2.when we do the whole touching eachother into out private parts... how do we get it started?
3.uhmm.. i was wondering how big is the normal average size of a guys dick[penis or whatever you want to call it]? (link)
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Well I applaud you for being mature and not rushing into sex. I think that`s awesome.
Usually the next step is just feeling each other up. Like, not fingering/handjobstuff. Just like touching each other. Like him touching your boobs or just something like that.
It really depends how YOU want it to get started. It comes naturally most of the time. You`ll be making out, then feeling each other up, and then before you know it you`ll be touching each other sexually. [:
The average size of a penis is 5-6 inches.
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okay,i love my boyfriend to death and would do anything for him.but he drinks,dips,and smokes and i hate it.what i hate the most is that he tries to lie about it to me and it pisses me off. he wont do anything when im around him so im not worried about him pressuring me into doing it.but im worried about him getting caught,hurt,or in any kind of trouble.so my question is what can i say to make him stop? (link)
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My boyfriend does the same stuff. & It annoys the hell out of me. Luckily, he doesn`t lie to me about it, which is good. The only thing you CAN do is sit him down, and tell him your feelings. You may have mentioned it before, but you need to go into depth. Explain to him how much it`s hurting you, and you`ll do whatever you can to hell him stop the things he does. Tell him you care for his well-being, and you`ll help him no matter what!!
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Hi-
I am a 30 yr old professional female, looking for advice. I slept with my friend's ex-crush several months ago. I am single, as is he. She is now married (for over 2 years) to a wonderful man and pregnant with their first child. She NEVER had a relationship with this man, but had a massive crush on him through high school and college. She is very happy in her marriage. She and I are not as close friends as we once were, but live in the same area and see each other here and there. This man's name comes up in conversation and I feel dishonest by not telling her the truth about what happened between us. It was just a one-night thing and I don't want to be selfish and tell her just to make myself feel better. However, she and I were such close friends and I feel like I am omitting something huge from mention by not telling her I slept with this guy. Plus if she finds out from someone else in the future (not me) it would be even worse (though this is not a likely scenario). Please help!! Thanks. (link)
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You still shouldn`t tell her, I don`t even understand why you would even consider that.
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I think you telling her wouldn`t be such a good idea. Sure, she probably couldn`t care less because she's now married to a wonderful man & she`s pregnant with his child. I`m sure that the last person she would ever think about is this crush guy that she used to like a long time ago.
But I`m sure if you brought it up in conversation she`d think it was random just because she probably hasn`t thought about him in a long time.
I wouldn`t tell her if I were you, just because she`s married and won`t care. If she finds out in the future, just tell her that you didn`t think it seemed like that big of an issue at the time.
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I was wondering if anyone on here has
gotten their haircut at a JCPenny's hair salon?
I haven't had a decent haircut in years (all of mine have been at those "fast-food" type places like Fantastic Sams and the outcome was horrible)
so I want to know if your expierence
there was any good. Thanks! (link)
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Well I`ve been to a Fantastic Sams and JcPennys hair salon, & I can easily tell you that JcPennys beats Sams by a long shot! My hair cut cost $28. Plus tip, I gave them $5. :) & You don`t need an appointment. The one`s I have been to, they`re just walk-ins. & I`m sure that the price will vary wherever you go.
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So my boyfriend just left yesterday to go on a triop with his friends (guys and girls) for a week..and he called tnite saying he was at a bar..i am worried he's gonna meet some girls and cheat..is there anyway to make myself not so worried? (link)
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To help you calm down, you should definitely call him instead of waiting for him. Hearing his voice will help. I always get scared that my boyfriend [who`s 24 & i`m 16] will meet girls at bars, because I`m not there and like flirt with them & what not.
It`s just a matter of trust. You have got to trust him, otherwise you`ll always be scared when he goes out, and that`s not right. When he gets back explain how you feel to him, and get his input. He`ll probably laugh & tell you that he loves you, & only you. Then you won`t worry again, hopefully!
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ok so i rlly like this grl and i was @ her house when we started making out, meanwhile i asked her out christmas eve, so then we started going out. but then later that day she ims me and says "i thought our relationship could work but im not ready 4 a relationship and its not you its me" that kind of deal so what do i do? cause she said she likes me and wants to go out w/ me? plz hlp (link)
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I think it`s totally rude that yall kissed & she broke up with you the next day! I can totally understand that she was your first kiss, so it means something special. As for now, just continue to be friends. Don`t be pushy about the relationship. [I`m a girl & I can tell you -- girls HATE that!!]
She basically told you how she feels, she`s not ready for a relationship. So you have to RESPECT that. If you like her as much as you say you do, I`m sure you can wait, and just continue to be on a friends level. Show her how much she means to you, and eventually she`ll come RUNNING back! If she continues to lead you on, because I`m sorry to say that`s what she`s doing, you should just call it off. Although it will be hard, you don`t need a girl to run your life. Haha girls suck sometimes.
[Just give it time!]
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ive had 2 periods in one month, about 17 days apart. i NEVER EVER EVER get them that soon. im regular between 28 and 33 days. ok so is this pregnancy, stress, or something else??
thanks to all who can help! (link)
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Not pregnancy. If it were you wouldn`t have periods. It could be caused by stress. You have absolutely nothing. This could be called "bleeding between periods" which many girls go through at some point in their lives.
This website will tell you more about your problem:
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/breastcance1/a/bleedingbetween.htm
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i'm 14/f
LAtely i've been thinking about my life and things i think i want to become or do for myself. The thing is i've been getting really scared because the person i wanna be is the exact kind of person my friends don't like. I want to move on in my life, but i don't wanna loose somthing really special. I love my friends but the more i spen time with them the more i realize we have pretty much nothing in commen and it seems i don't fit in, and somtimes it really seems like they see it. So what do I do ? Do i stay with them pretending to be somthin im don't want to anymore or do i change and risk loosing my friends? (link)
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If you friends don`t like who you truly are, they just aren`t friends - it`s as simple as that. Change & see what happens. They may surprise you. But, honestly if you change and they hate you because of that. They aren`t worth anything, and they shouldn`t mean anything in your book. =]
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