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I'm Selena. I love the song S.E.X. by Lyfe Jennings.
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Do girls masturbate, because it seems like1 out of every 15 do. So if I was wondering if girls get grossed out by guys and or girls masturbating. I feel like asking my gf if she ever has [out of curiosity] but idk how...or is that too personal?
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Most girls probably would feel uncomfortable sharing that information with the opposite gender. But since you are her boyfriend, she may tell you. If she tries to switch the subject or try to hint to you that she doesn't want to say, then you should just drop it so she won't feel to pressured.


Where can I find shoes that have heels, (no more then two inches.. three at the most) and tie up your ankle. I am a size 7 1/2 in womens. (link)
-Bakers
-Macy's
-Sears
-Hecht's
-Dilliard's
-Kohl's
-Boscov's


this girl i like, i found out she had a boyfriend recently. should i just give up? should i wait maybe they will break up? or should i make a move, maybe she will go for me instead 8*). or should i just be friends and juss in the future maybe it happens it happens. thanks (link)
Just be friends. Although you like hey you shouldn't jsut waste your time waiting on her.

Move on. You may meet someone new.


you know, sometimes i would hold back on goin out with a person because i want my frist relationship to be perfect. i know nothing can be perfect but still you know waht i mean? is this bad? i'm i juss bein too picky. i dont feel anyone around me is right for me (link)
I think that is a good thing. You aren't settling for anything less than the best. It may take a while but he will come around. And when he does it will probably be worth the wait.


okayy, y'all know the song girl next door - by saving jane. Yeah, when I hear it I think of my crush's ex. I really really like him, and I have been doing everything to impress him, and I felt I was doing a pretty good job, until I saw his ex! She's cool, smart and BEAUTIFUL, seriously..angelina jolie, britney spears, jennifer lopez..no one compares to this girl. And the worst thing is that her personlaity is awesome, so I can't even comfort myself with the "the inside matters more" talk. I dont know what to do, ALL THE PLASTIC SURGERY IN THE WORLD wouldnt make me as perfect as her. So I was just wondering..what can I do so I'll atleast be in the game? It's kind of hard to think he'd date me after dating her...you know? So what can I do to prove to him that I'm worth it. And please dont say "be yourself" because you havent met this girl, "myself" is NOTHING compared to her. Oh and did I forget to mention? They dated for over 2 years!! So that makes it hard enough..

What can I do? Can anyone suggest one of those "Get the guy-books" that you've read, and that WORKS, or atleast worked for you? Or any tips on how to seduce a guy?

THANK YOU ALOT ♥


Thank youu! (link)
Nobody is flawless. We all have something that we could improve.

Since you don't want to here the "be yourself" answer eventhough that IS the answer. I will go into a bit more detail.

Show him that you are worth it with your personality. You don't have to be a beauty queen to get a guy to notice you. When you are around him be comfortable. The more you loosen up, most likely the more he will to. Impress him with your style. Meaning show him that you are like no other girl. Whatever that may be.
But whatever you do don't change yourself because he ex is "Ms.America".


i always find the wrong guy!my last boyfriend was totally abusive!he would hurt me a lot..now im with this guy Zach and he FLIPS out over every little thing. like we went to the mall and we were holding hands and that, then i saw my friend Joe and i gave him a hug and after zach was like "your such a f**king hoe if you ever cheat on me again ill break up with you"..i guess i deserved that.then i went to go get some big cookies and he wanted a medium and they were outta medium so i got him large and he flipped out..what should i do!? (link)
You should dump him.

He had no right to call you a hoe just because you hugged another guy. I'm not saying hugging another guy in front of your boyfriend is okay but you certainly didn't deserve his reaction.
He flipped out over a cookie? Its not like you could control them running out of medium cookies.

I think you are much better off without him.


im m 17 and im going out with a girl who is 15 we have been going out 5 months 18 days now and we use to spend every minute we could together and we both say we love eachother alot (which i am sure i do) but recently shes been wanting more time with her friends but thats not wat bothers me, wat bothers me is that now even when i make plans with her, l8r on if her friends make plans with her shell jsut skip mine and her plans and jsut go off with her friends, ive talked to her about it last night and i believed everything was alright again she said she wanted to c me i said i wanted to c her so i told her not to make plans for sunday cause wed do something she said ok then she had to go so she said shed call me today(saturday), but it seems she didnt call me and she has gone off with her friends again, and she has plans with her friends tomorrow aswell totally making me feel insignificant compared to her friends like she has mostly this week. earlier on in the week i was talking to her and she could come up with anything to say all she said was "then y dont u just dump me, i dont want break up but if its really that bad then....?, i need to know is she leading me on?, is this a test?, she says she loves me still but how do i know shes telling the truth?, wat do i do? i love her so much but i dont know how much of this i can take, wat should i do? (link)
Since I don't know her I will give you some options and you make the decision.
a)She's testing you.
b)She's immature.
c)She wants to break up.

I think the best thing to do is to ask her yourself.


ok here's the deal.......me and my boyfriend have bin going out for 5 months now and it would have bin 6 if we hadn't we hadnt bin waiting to make sure thats what we wanted and going out with the same guy for that long is a recorde for me lol anyways i know i'm totally and completly in love.....my question is......am i stupid to think this guy is the one......some people say i am because i'm only seventeen but my mom described to me when she met my dad she just knew and thats how i feel like i just know he's the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with......what do you think?

thanks in advance (link)
Think what you want to think. Who cares what others think about it? If you feel like he is "the one" then don't worry about other people thinking that is stupid.


4 some reason everyone thinks I'm a baby. I don't really get it. I'm in high school, I drive, I have my own responsibilities. But today this lady actually came up to me while I was doing my nails to tell me that I was an itty bitty baby. Is it just me or is something going on here? I wouldn't be asking if it happened more than once. But is there a reason that everyone is telling me this? Its just really really weird. Thanks. (link)
Do you have a baby face?
Are you really short?

If you answered yes then that could be why.


do one peice bathing suits make over weight people look bigger or smaller? (link)
Neither. Its doesn't magically do anything to their bodies.


Last night I found out a bunch of my best guy friends smoke, drink, and do weed. I broke down cause you never really think it'll happen to you. Me and some of my other friends want them to get help, before its too late. What could we do; ( Annonymously if possible ) ? (link)
When they ask you for help then you should give it to them. Until then mind your own business.


heyy. i need advice. i liked this cute boy for a year but nothing has happened. i know 99.9 percent sure that he doesn't like me. we are sorta good friends. i've told him once before but he said that he'd rather just be friends so i lied and said that i didn't like him anymore because he was acting weird when i told him. & i know i'm in love with the boy but i never think that he'll like me. any ideas for me to try to get him to notice me for more than a friend? i rate high. thankkkssss. (link)
He doesn't like you so move on.


K. lets start by sayin that i abselutly heart my bf. Its just he cheats on me constantly. I dill w/ it because OMG he is like drop dead gorgeous. And i guess thats why he cheats on me so much because girls just cant resist him. So hes coming over my house tonight to eat me out. So im hoping he will realise that he needs to be with me. You and ur brother assauger really get on my nerves with those stupid answers so dont be mean please. (link)
If you have to open your legs just to get him to realize that he needs to be with you and only you then he isn't worth it.

Assuager isn't my brother, careless-fun is.

edit: I don't care if you believe me or not, he isn't my brother. You're making yourself look like a complete a**hole by saying that he is when you know he isn't.


My boyfriend and I had a really big fight because I'm in band & he doesn't support me singing. He sayz I don't spend enough time with him when I'm always with the band and we only meet on weekendz anywayz. I broke up with him because he was being an ass about my dream & wouldn't understand how much I loved singing. So now I'm feeling really stupid cuz he loved me and I miss him. I'm starting to think he's more important than the band, but the band has alwayz been my dream for life! What should I do?
xoxo ~Sabrina~ xoxo (link)
I think you were right because he should've supported you with your dream. Since he didn't then you had to move on.
Break ups are always hard but with time it will get better.


Okay so this guy who lives next door to me asked me to give him head. Should he wear a condom idk, i'm really new at this (link)
If someone asked you to jump in a pool with no water in it would you do it?


The books Gossip Girls.
Do you need to read the first one? or can you skip around and read the 2nd one first? does it matter? (link)
I have never read those series of books but COMMON SENSE would tell me that its only logical to read the first one FIRST!

edit: Yeah right, give me an example.


*13 years old
*5'2
*100 pounds

dont really mind the weight, just that i look fat. also advice for flatter abs...besides the basic crunches? please help. it would be muchly appreciated. (link)
According to the site below you are underweight.

http://www1.wfubmc.edu/weightmanagement/Am+I+Morbidly+Obese.htm

So stop worrying.


can you send me all the paris hilton quotes you got.
thanks i rate high (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=395281

Look at the questions that were already asked before asking another one!


what are the wordz to i write sins not tragies from panic! at the disco thanx (link)
Normally I would give some smarta** answer to a question that OBVIOUSLY wasn't googled before it was asked, BUT because I LOVE THAT SONG SO MUCH I will just give you the google box.

only search advicenators.com


edit: Okay I tried to hold it in because of my love for that song, but you are so idiotic I'm forced to say it.

If you could have thought of that then why didn't you??? RETARD. Get a f**king life and stop wasting my d*mn time. A**whipe.


is it normal to feel like you don't belong in your family cauze thatz how i feel but is it normal (link)
Yeah but eventually you should feel like you fit in.

Both my bother and my sister are really good at something. At one time I hadn't yet found my gift and what I enjoyed doing, so I used to feel out of place sometimes. With time I found out what my gift was and what I enjoyed doing. Through those experiences I learned that once you find yourself you won't feel like you have to fit in. Because you will know who you are and where you belong.




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