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17/m Last weekend a very close friend of mine told me that she liked me. I said that I liked her too and that we should go out sometime. The reason that I said that I liked her is because everything deserves a chance. Well we have been on two dates and it is clear to me that she likes me way more than I like her. How do I let her know that I want to be just friends with out ruining a good friendship? I rate high.

Be honest with her tell her that the dating thing is not working and that you just want to be friends. Dont lie about it because if you do and she finds out she wont want a friendship with you.

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Ok well....Me and my boyfriend started going out a couple days ago but the thing is my sister likes him and everytime she sees him and me together at school she gets this look on her face.He is in her grade but he failed last yr. so he would of been in my grade.Well I've been knowing him and now that they him and my sister are in the same grade in some classes I really don't care that they talk or hang out but the way she makes me feel and tells me things that she "loves him" and all this bullshit I know she wouldn't do anything to hurt me but it does hurt me the things she says to make me seem like I don't deserve him.Plz help I don't know what to do!

Tell your sister that its got nothing to do with her, hes your boyfriend and she need to get out more and find her own tell her that your relationship cant move on because your constantly watching over your shoulder and you just wished she wouls stay out of your life and get her own.

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I have a friend that most of the time underestimtes me and pouts me down when I'm in a positive mood. For instance, when I put a different answer on my social studies quiz that wasn't the correct word, but is nother meaning of it, She was like "I don't think that's right, and I don't think she'll accept it" when my other firned said it was right. Also, when my teacher said she was going to round my B+ to an A or A-, and she got an A-, she said to me "I think that it will just show up as a B on your report card". I feel like she tries to put me down just so she can make me believe that she's smarter than I am, which is definitely not true. Most of the time she getson my nerves because she always thinks she the smartest...even my other friends think she gets on their nerves. I haven't confronted her about her being a problem to me because she might just get upset and play childish games like not speaking to me and ignoring me, or she might get an attidtude. I don't know, what do you think is right and that I should do because somebody has got to set her straight!

P.S.: Whenever I ask her a question that I don't get, she says to me "That's so easy" in a voice that she thinks she get everything...I hate it!!!!!

Tell her that shes putting you down and you wish she would stop it because its hurting your feelings, tell her that you can do stuff for your self and that you dont always need her.
Next time she says something ignore her or turn away from her because there is no need to be saying all that to you.

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Hi, I'm 15 years old and I'm a female and there's this guy (Tom) in my class who I was dating for about 3 months but then I figured out that he was going out with OTHER girls, so I dumped him secretly. Now I'm falling for this other guy (Christopher) and I think he's falling for me, but then Tom said he appolagized and HE GAVE ME ROSES and it's SO hard to not love him but on the otherhand there's Christopher. I don't know who to chose! PLEASE HELP ME!~!~!~!~

Christopher, i think that if tom cheated on you he doesnt deserve you go for it and just tell tom that he cheated on you and that wont happen again because your breaking up with him.

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out almost a month. During that time I have became really good friends with 2 of his best friends and I'm starting to like them. I liked the one before I started going out with my current boyfriend though. What should I do?

Mabe you should try something new. take a break from your older boyfriend and go for it. If not dont see his 2 best friends that often because it just make you more confused.

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Does anybody have any rhyming websites? I have to make up a song for science.. using vocabulary words. Well, some need to rhyme. But it isn't too easy thinking of words that rhyme with science vocabulary words. I figured maybe there were some people who wrote poetry that might have a good rhyming website (where you type in the word and search for a rhyming word). Thank so much in advance!

www.smilepop.com they have some
search on google to find what your looking for.

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Are standers of old gone like the dust in the wind or do people still hold true to virtue, honor, & love? From one traveler to another I ask. Do people still believe in being honest trustworthy, loyal, virtuous, and other forms of chivalry?

NOPE they wont die there something special, but some people take advandage of them and need to realise that this is whats good in the world.

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hi, i'm a 19/f and i'm in a little bit of a predicament. i've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now which is great, but i think that as time passes us by, we're slowly getting into a rut.

like you know when you first date someone you get butterflies and those mushy feelings when you're around them? i know those feelings are temporary, but i feel as if our relationship resembles more of a friendship rather than an intimate bond.

what i'd like advice on is if there is anything i can do to put the spark back into our relationship?

Do something you both would like to do together it seems like your relationship is getting stail and that it might be a reason to brake it of. There is plenty of things to do why not start from scrach with your boyfriend and start of like friends and take it from there do stuff you used to do when you first got butterflies.

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I have to make a toy for a school project. It can be anything, and made from anything. Now I'm not too good with making something that involves electronics, so please nothing with wires. Does anybody have ANY good ideas that I could use? This project is due on monday! I also have to advertise it (but i can do that myself). It also has to be something original. OK I rate 5's for people who help in the least bit!

A parachute all you need is some material some string and a basket.

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if not search google easy ways to make something useful

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this is kinda gross but does anyone know a good way to keep your armpits dry? i have even tried mens deoderant...i need something stronger HELP

There is a way of helping it, dont wear tight tops because its stoping the air getting to you underarms before you do anything sportive or active you some perfume under your arms and give them a wipe with tissue paper.

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i want to re dedicate my self to the lord but i need helping makeing my way up becoming a better christian...i have tried to read the bible but i need an easier way to understand...can anyone help me

Be nicer to people and when someone is sat on there own go talk to them and share stuff be there for your friends when they need you. Just regular stuff to do dont do anything hurtful and dont pick on anyone because thats not what been a christian is about. You could go to mass more often and do things to help the church give money to charity, just odd little things help your parents wash up and clean the house.

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I really need advice rite now. I have been going out with This guy for about 8 months (on and off) and I really love him. But all that I end up getting out pf this relationship is MORE drama and Hurt. I really like him but sometimes it seems like it wasnt meant to be. Ever since I met him and His buddies ITs all been He** and drama and HatE. I haven't cried sooo much in the last 5 years than I have these several months with him. He already cheated on me twice...and there is also this girl that likes him and He has Liked her Forever and I'm scared that he will go out wit her....she is such a bit** too...is it because I'm jelous of her...of what she can have or do?? i really dont know..MY LIFE IS jUST ALL Drama and I want it all to go away. please help me..

I think you should end it now because there is no point in been with someone who makes you cry and who are always having arguements as for that other girl, ignore her shes a idiot. you dont deserve to be cheated on! that guy your dating is a jerk and you need to get rid of him now do it in frount of all his mates then he wont feels so good! i hate him already

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there's this guy i like but i don't know if he likes me and at first i hated him because he kept mentioning what his friend said about me( like saying i was ugly) but he said sorry and said he wouldn't say it anymore and now hes flirting with me. it seems like he does it to the 2 most popular girls in the school( me and Claire.) but i ddon't know if it means he likes me or not. because first he put his arm around me then touched my butt!! but he does that to my friend too sooo help please

I think that hes just messing around you dont deserve to be with him hes a jerk and neather does your name keep clear of him, if he comes onto you walk away. You dont need some one like that in your life.

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i'm 13 and a girl.i really need help.in 7 grade i went out with this boy named russ we liked each other since 6 grade but in 7 he asked me out. we fell in love with each other after 5 months we went out for 6 months. when summer vacation came we broke up. we did't talk for the whole summer untill in august he called. then when we went back to school we went back to talking like the best friends we were.then we both went out with different people. and he would come to my house to hang out but on day we kissed(we both were with somone).then he broke up with his girlfrined and i broke up with my man.then we went back out we promised each other that nothing was going to happen and we would be the best couple.so then i felt like i did't want to be in a nother relationship with him so i broke up with him. he never saw it comming and he felt soooo bad. then couple months later he went out with this other girl and he said he loved her after 2 months but i know he did't because the way he acted. i think he said that because he was missing me.then he cheated on her with me . he said he would do anything for me.and he still see me in his life for ever.now him and his girlfriend are not together. this boy named jay is talking to me now we have been talking for 3 weeks now and he wants us to go out. but i'm scared he might hurt me just like russ did.and jay and i are really close and i think i might fell in love with him.jay and i are going though changing . he gonna stop being a player. he just got of a relationship 3 months ago and he loved the girl. so i need your help please.

Well i think you should go for it you dont need to be scared because everyone goes out at one point. If you want to wait awhile thats cool but dont leave it to long if you like him because he might not be there when you feel your ready to accept and have a boyfriend. and as for russ
you can continune to be friends and some day it might turn out better than that but for now you can handle one boy friend not more than one.

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hey guys i didnt know what to put this under but, i want to get a tan this spring break since im not going anywhere. the thing is m, my mom doesnt want me to go in a tanning bed. what are some ways i can convince her to let me go? thanks anyone that replies!

There isnt really tanning beds arnt good for your health why not get a some tanning wipes that would be good, so then you skin is alot safer. Using tanning beds can be really dangerous to your health you can develop skin cancer.

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i was just wondering if i would run or do crunch's whould that make ur boobs smaller? lol because i just want to loose my belly...but not my boobs..becuz i see gurls that r skinny that have medium size boobs..lol

thanx!!




No they dont get smaller they stay the same. Thats just a rumour that people say you will stilll have the same size boobs as you did before

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I have so much going on in my life right now and i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to and i found out all the people i thought were my friends are just using me or are just jerk and my family is always fighting and my parents are divorced and i had to live up to all these high standardands and i cant get over this guy ahhhh i dont want to go back to my bad habits...drinking...drugs...cutting...any of that can you please help me

Think about your self! for a moment and think what your life has been like, and that its going to get better you just have to be willing to put in the effort and make it your choice of a life. No bodys lifes perfect most peoples parents are divorced i think you should get out more find some new friend from your school mabe from a different class and join them go out with them and get to no them! when thats all done you may desided to find a boy friend just go with it and go boy hunting with your new friends.
Why dont you get some of your family members that have been fighting and try and work it out at yours get it all out in the open and see why everyone has been arguing. Tell your parents that your life is very unhappy at the moment and that you need them to be there for you even if they are divorced.

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cheer up hunni

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my friend just broke up with her bf after 3 months and shes been reallly sad.. and i`ve been there for her the whole time listening to her say the same things over and over... but i just listen and tell her how bad i feel for her. but i also like this guy and everyonce in a while i talk about how he doesnt even notice me and it makes me sad. and she started freaking out about how i have nothing to be complaining about and its rele stupid and she gets rele annoyed that i talk about him "all the time". this was the first time i found out it was annoying her, and i dont even talk about him that much.. i was thinking that after listening to her complain so much, maybe i had a little room to talk about me for a second... isnt that unfair that she wont even support my problems??? i`ll rate high! x3

I think thats is really unfair you was there when she had broken up with her boy friend and you stook through her with that now she needs to stick up for you and realise that you like this guy i think because she has no boyfriend shes feeling a bit jelious but thats perfectly normal. Tell her what ive just said about that you was there for her and everything and you just wish she'd stop getting annoyed when you talk to this guy you like she should be happy for you! but i guess because shes still upset shes taking it out on you because there is no one else to take it out on!

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Ok, I have this friend and she really lies a lot and like I have told her many times before to be honest and she's like yeah I'm honest! But like 2 other chicks have also been her friends and she's also lied to them. So like now we have formed a group and like we talk to her but we make sure that she never talks to us alone like one to one. But we don't know hwo to tell her that she's lieing to us and to just fucking stop it. Help me please.

Tell her that be straight up with her and be stern and tell her that if she doesnt stop lieing shes going to end up with no friend and that she will just end up on her own, say that friends dont lie to each other because it can turn out even worse that what you might have been going on about. Friends dont lie to each other she needs to realise that what she is doing is hurting yours and your other friends feelings because you want the truth and a normal chat which isnt filled with lies.


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My Boyfriend told me yesterday that if he doesnt have a girlfriend who loves him when he turns 16 he is inlisting into the army and i dont want that to happen. I dont want anything to tear us apart but if he does go i will miss him how do i talk him out of it!

Im 14 and He Is Almost 15!

Tell him that you have strong feelings for him and that you may love him but the fact is that you need to spend more time together until you and he is ready to become a proper relationship where he can say he loves you and you can say it back! Tell him that if he goes into the army you will miss him and that you wanted to carry on ur relationship so that it gets stronger and you would be able to say i love you it might be a hint that hes ready to say it to you but he wants you to say it first.

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