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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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how can i get the static cling out of my hair?
What's static cling?
what can happen if you leave your tampons in for too long
You can get TSS. [ Toxic Shock Syndrom ]. If you need to know more about it just google it because it'll tell you a lot more important information. Just make sure you change your tampon every 2-3 hours.
Paint Shop Pro & Photoshop free? I'v always wanted to know. (happy really late brithday too)
They're not free but you can download a 30 day free trial. & thank you.
Hi, I was just wondering what kind of picture program you use to edit your pictures? I saw your pictures that you had on here before and they're really cool. THANKSSS
I use Paint Shop Pro & Photoshop.
do guys think girls pube hair is gross?
Some do but some guys don't. It all depends on them. Mostly, they prefer none or just a bit.
one of my breast is smaller than the other. Is that normal?
It's completley normal. They'll eventually grow out the same size but if not, it's defenetlly normal. No worries.
Ok i just want peoples own view on this. Is it regular for girls ages 14-16 to masturbate. Like is it regular like how guys do it. Even if they seem prude or somthing. Thanks i apprecaite all answers
It's completly normal. Everyone does it even if they don't admit it.
My ipod has been frozen all day now. I've had it since Christmas '04 and this has never happened to it before. It's stuck on a song, and I've tried EVERYTHING. I've tried resetting it, tried all thr buttons, tried plugging it in to my computer, tried charging. Yet its still stuck. Has this ever happened to anyone else before? What can I do?
BTW, it's an iPod mini if that helps. And I've never had problems with it prior to this.
Thanks for your help.
It happened to my iPod a few times. Don't charge it and don't keep pressing buttons. Let it go dead and then it will unfreeze. After, re-charge it and it'll be fine. Next time just be patient when you're clicking on stuff and songs.
considered a slut if she has sex on the first date?
I wouldn't consider her a slut if she did it on the first date, but if the girl always does it, then yes. A slut is someone who always sleeps around and if it was a one time thing, then she's not a slut. It's just a slutty behavior.
Ok...thanks for everything.
No problem.
I know that but yesterday at school she let him carry her backpack downstairs when it was time to go home.
I'm sorry. There's nothing I could say or do to change that.
Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥
Hooking up is fine. It's not always good to do these one time things because when you hook up with someone, you might actually start liking them a lot more.
so theres this guy, and i broke up with him once because i liked sumone else, but now i really see that he's the one i want to be with, and he means alot to me, and i realize that now. BUT see he was talking to one of my guy friends and he said that he doesnt like going out with girls more than once because he knows that theyre probably going to break up with him again. AND i really would not break up with him if i went out with him again because he means alot to me and i mean ive known him for four years and i pretty much love him. i mean ive never felt that way about a guy except him. and i cant just tell him that i like him again becuz i dont know him reaction. and me and him still talk and we're friends and stuff but i just want him back. and i dont know what to do. please help..
thanx
You can't expect to get him back if you don't tell him that you still have feelings for him. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. I know that it might be akward and uncomftrable, but you need to let him know that you made a mistake once, and you learned from it. He needs to earn your trust again and he can't do that if you don't talk to him.
i told her that i liked him a lot and she is still flirting...she even made up a handshake with him. Help?
Sorry that it took me a while to answer your question. I know I'm a little late. Anyways, you can't stop her from flirting with him. It's rude of her to be doing that on purpose but maybe she can't help it. Just because they made up a handshake together.. doesn't mean anything. They're just friends.
Hi i am 5"2" and weigh 102. Im not fat and pretty fit but there this little stumach fat that bugs me how should i get it off? im not good with self discipline.
Crunches. People usually give up on them because they don't see results RIGHT away and they assume that it doesn't work. If you do it regularly, it will go away. & besides, everyone has a pooch so it's normal.
why do people put x's in there screennames does it mean something? i used to do it but i dont know why.. im just asking because theyres like TOO many x's insome girls sn like hxxcLOVER
LOVEXXXXXXME55 BUT WHY?!
X's don't stand for anything. I have an x in my screen name just because I thought it made it look better. People usually use them instead of space and just because it makes the screename better. It's weird though lol.
Okay so I was looking at some sites and i don't want my mom to see what I have been looking at. When I start to type a letter in the link bar it drops down the sites that start with that letter, and I'm scared that she will see what I have been looking at and that would be extremely awkward. How do you delete different links?
Go to your internet browser and click on Tools, Internet Options, & then clear history. Make sure you also delete your cookies because your mom can still find out the websites you've visited. To do that you go to Start, search, type in cookies, open the folder, high light, delete. =] & remember to delete them out of the trashcan.
I am 13/f and lately my mom has told me that i am acting weird. I dont like mushy stuff anymore (like...i think you are so lovely- example.) I dont like when people touch me and i dont like my grandam (well she gets on my nerves. ) I know this sounds mean but i dont know why i am doing it, it just happening. i get mad easier and sad and deppressed and i just dont know what to do so please, please tell me whats going on and how i can be better.
Don't worry too much about it. You're just hitting puberty and some of us girls can act even worse. I know I did. I had the worst attitude problem. You're going to go through a lot of changes and things are going to make you mad easily. You can't really stop doing what you're doing because chances are, you don't even realize how mean you're being. It's normal. Apologize to whoever you hurt. You shouldn't treat anyone bad just because you're going through puberty. You're growing up and you will have mood swings but it's not an excuse to treat anyone badly. Your parents and grandmother understand what you're going through and I'm sure they won't take it to heart.
I like this boy at school, lets say 8 or 9 out of 10. I told my friend that i liked him a little but i really like him a lot. She dosent think its a big deal so she flirts with him and talks to him and the rumor is that he likes her. I dont want them to get to close but i dont want to tell her that i like him a lot either. any suggestions?
You can't blame her for flirting with him. You told her that you liked him a little so of course she doesn't think it's a big deal. Friends shouldn't do that, but somtimes when people flirt they don't even notice. You need to tell her that you really like him because then she will know not to do it. Don't lie to your friend about this because it's going to hurt your feelings.
I've had dry sex many tiems and I've never thought about it but if a guy only has his boxers on and a girl on has her underwear on could the sperm seep through a girl's underwear?
Of that happening is really rare. It most likey did not "seep" through the undies but you should always be careful because sometimes, you won't be so lucky.