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My boyfriend is the nicest person I have ever met and he would never tell someone that he didn't want to see them any more or say something in a way which could be offensive or taken the wrong way. But his ex is sooooo overprotective of him and her family puts alot of pressure on him and gives him death stares and stuff coz he broke up with her and he's now going out with me. She tries everything she can to get between us and both their families do alot of things together so it isn't like he can't just stop seeing her. Sometimes we just want to be alone but she is ALWAYS at his place, every single day guarenteed. Their families are pretty close so he doesn't want to cause problems and even when we do want to be alone my bf is too nice to just ask her to go away or whatever. She's always hanging around him and is so jealous and tries so much stuff...my bf is so stressed out and I don't know what to do...
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well this is a difficult situation.. i mean she is his ex but she is also a family friend. You or your boyfriend could try talking to her and letting her know you need some space. You have to realize though that its hard for her.. i mean how long were they broken up before you came along? She is probably having a tough time seeing him with another girl.. it can be hard sometimes but she might still have feelings.. don't be afraid of it though.. just give her time or have someone talk to her about it and see what she says and feels. good luck!
-Bess
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Im always bloated, not with gas or anything just i always am. Im really skinny too ,and it makes me look pregnant, but i def. am not. Is there anything i can do to reduce the bloatation or get rid of it? (link)
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check your eating habits.. it might be what you eat. I'm the same way.. i need to start eating healthier. Try just eating vegetables and fruits, salads.. instead of chips and McDonald''s.
-Bess
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hey! i need a funny monologue for a 14 year old! thank yoU! =] (link)
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You could do the one from "A Cinderella Story"!
Sam: No, you listen. You turned out to be exactly who I thought you were. I never pretended to be somebody else. It's been me all along. And it was me who was hurt in front of everybody. Look, I didn't come here to yell at you, okay? I know what it feels like to be afraid to show who you are. I was. But not anymore. And the thing is, I don't care what people think about me... because I believe in myself. And I know that things are gonna be okay. But even though I have no family, and no job, and no money for college... it's you that I feel sorry for.
good luck!
-Bess
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I just got back together with my ex. He's the only guy I've ever loved & we have so many memories together. The problem is, he's not acting the way he did before when he was my boyfriend. Our relationship back then was the kind people are jealous of, but now it seems like he doesn't want it to be as serious. He barely calls and comes to see me, but I stand my ground and act like I don't care. He's the one that was begging for me back! I don't even know if I call this a relationship, but I want to confront him & ask what's going on. How should I go about doing this? (18/f) (link)
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Break up with him.. he isn't worth it! Your better off just finding a guy who is going to treat you right. My ex and I got back together for a second time and it didn't work out and we figured that we were much better as friends.
-Bess
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14/f
RAWR. my brother was on the phone with the kid i like.. & my brother goes "My sister likes you!"
I was like mortified..
I see him friday...& hes comin to my party..
What do i do!? Do I say something to him? (link)
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just act natural.. don't be weird about it. Pretend it never happened.. but of course if the guy brings it up its your choice whether you wanna tell him!! good luck!!
-Bess
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So I like this kid
and he's a complete jerk to me.
He's always saying rude things but then online sometimes hes nice.
I cant get over him , no matter how mean he is!
Whats wrong here? (link)
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its hard to remove ourselves from someone that we like soo much that is completely mean to us. You see I had the same problem but not anymore. See back in 6th grade I had this huge crush on a kid that sat next to me in class. The kid turned out to be a total jerk.. he treated me badly, made fun of me and yet he would be so nice to me online and he even invited me to a party of his. Sometimes boys maybe mean towards you because they have feelings for you and don't want to admit it. Sometimes its because they are bored with themselves and want to make someone else feel bad.
I would ignore him and wait until he grows up. You want a man not a boy. It will be hard to move on but find someone who is more caring and respectful towards your feelings and not someone who wants to hurt them. good luck!
-Bess
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ive been with my boyfriend for a pretty long time now but what i dont get is why the heck he STILL hasnt called me. i mean seriously... i call him almost every night and he never answers his cell phone. he says its "broken" but when i called using my friends cell he answered. i want to talk to him about it but i never get the chance because we are barely ever alone together. and sometimes when we are walking down the hall after school i tell him to call me and hes like ok... but no. still no call..
i would reallllly apreciate it if someone could help me out, thannx!!!!
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no offense.. but GET RID OF HIM!! honestly now if he really cared he would call you every chance he got.. you need to find someone thats gonna do that and this pathetic excuse of a boyfriend has had so many chances to prove himself as your boyfriend and be good to you and treat you right.. and honestly from the sounds of it he isn't going to change and he'll keep making up lame excuses. I think you should get rid of him and say: "NEXT.."
-Bess
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i had a crush on a guy thats treated me like shit for a year & a half now. im guessing it's best to get him out of my life, but he thinks telling me to kill myself is a funny joke & i should learn to lighten up. "/ i started ignoring him, which is working, but im wondering if i did the right thing. cause right now i feel miserable & like i will never find a guy that treats me with some kind of respect.
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no guy should ever say that he is joking about that kind of stuff.. that isn't right to joke about stuff like that. You did the right thing you don't need that kind of nonsense in your life.. your to good for that and if you were to keep him in your life then he would just be bringing you down with him!! you did the RIGHT thing!! You will find the right guy you just need to wait, you probably just feel hurt because of this jerk!!
-Bess
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ok. so I like this 7th grader...now me and her have been chattin online for a while. I see her at skool all the time...I like,like her. she is a cute,funny, and get along type of girl. Please I need advice. if there are any 7th grade gals then please help me out...plz. SUP4321 (link)
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well ask her out on a date, take her out to dinner or maybe a movie. You could even chill at your house and rent a movie and get pizza or something. Just be yourself.. don't change yourself for her just to impress her. good luck!
-Bess
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I really want to be a singer. It's my dream. But I need work and I know that, it's just I dont know where to turn for help! I feel completely lost! I'm torn between going to college and not going to college...I'm torn between doing American Idol next season or not..should I talk to my school couselor? I dont know what to do!! (link)
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i would try and find a music school to help your pursue your singing career.. i don't think american idol is the best bet for someone who wants to be serious about singing and i think you should talk to your school counselor and see whaat schools he/she suggests for music. good luck!
-Bess
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What is the best way to flert with a guy. I am pretty sure that he likes me, but not 100%
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The best way to flirt with someone is just be very playful.. laugh and just have fun. the most important thing is be yourself! good luck!
-Bess
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is it possible that i like a guy a lot if i've only met him once, but talk to him online?
i might kiss him, it will be my first time.
i want to know what to expect if i'm going to be kissing someone, is your first time the best or the worst? or is it a personal opinion? please share stories of your first time hooking up and tips and how to go about it so it won't be akward.
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well in terms of kissing if its your first time.. then it is more of your opinion.. you might feel weird because your not use to it. my first time was weird because i was watching a movie with my at the time boyfriend and we were bored so he just went in and kissed me.. and i wasn't use to it.. so that night i was kinda freaked out.. but its ok! just don't think about it to much. good luck with this guy!
-Bess
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is it wrong for a 15 year old and 18 year old to be together? he's still in school yet and he just turned 18 in august? is that still bad? (link)
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if you guys feel the same way about each other.. age shouldn't stop you!
-Bess
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So there's this kid named David. And this girl [ME!] named Lauren thinks hes lovely and wants to date him. Following? kay.
We're both 14. I've asked him out before, we've been friends a while. He says no, I don't have a chance. Yet he flirts with me ALL the time, and I catch him staring at me sometimes. So could he be too shy to want to give it a try with me? What should I do?
Signed,
Lauren in love. :] (link)
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Lauren in Love,
It might be that he only sees you as a friend.. maybe he is afraid that your friendship will be indanger if you two were to date. I think you should take it easy and don't worry about it. Some people are just flirtacious and they can't help but flirt.
-Bess
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one of my bestfriends is a girl that looks exactly like a guy, i have known her for about 2 years and never had this problem sicne this past month but when i am talking to my other friends about her i mess up and say He or Him, i feel stupid when i say it and i dont know whats is going on but i cant help but to say it when i am talking fast, but i always correct myself right after i say it (link)
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maybe take her out for a girls' night outt.. and treat her to a makeover.
-Bess
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haha well i need help well my x boyfriend and i broke up in may.. well we went out for only a week.. and i found out that it was just a bet.. and then after that he went to a-school and he came back and now he's in my history class.. and he writes me notes now and i write him notes.. and im not sure if he likes me and im not sure if he's going to homecoming he said he didn't want to but yeah (link)
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he likes you.. but not in a good way it seems to me he is playing the field. bascially he is seeing if can "control" you. just be careful.. guys can play games with you sometimes. and as for homecoming.. just wait and see if he asks.. if he does then.. he most deffinitely still has feelings.
-Bess
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I have a friend who likes this girl as more than a friend. And she knows it, but she just would rather prefer being friends.Now he is deciding to totally ignore her. Why can't guys just be friends even if they have feeling. I mean if he really liked her he would want her to be happy right? (link)
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they feel that things may get weird.. see whenever they hangout with that girl they will always remember its the girl they can't have. believe i know a lot of my guy friends who had crushes on me.. its tough.. but in the end it works out. sometimes.. boys will be friends after a long period time so they can get overr them.. just give him time!
-Bess
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17/F
I'm dating a guy but we're not bf/gf... just dating open ended so we're pretty much allowed to date other people too. The thing is that I don't want to go out with anyone else; just him. So far he hasn't been seeing any other girls, but if/when he does I know that I'm going to feel completely crushed. How do I get him to like me enough to consider only me in a relationship? Lately he's been kinda cold to me, too. I feel like I'm losing his interest, any ideas on how I can spark up our relationship up?
Sex is not an option (link)
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personally i would dump him right away. tell him your not a side thing.. be honest with him i guess.. just say what you feel and if he can't accept that tell him he can't have you! and go look for a guy who is gonna treat you right.
-Bess
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How do I get I guy to like me? (link)
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just be yourself.. he'll like you for you!
-Bess
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13/f
i really want to be a photographer when i get older. how can i like practice to be one? (link)
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i went to an arts high school and i had a lot of friends that were Visual Artists who were very interested in being photographers. Anywho.. bascially you want to build a portfolio of you work and just take pictures of what you think is art to you.
good luck!
-Bess
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