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did i do the right thing?
i had a crush on a guy thats treated me like shit for a year & a half now. im guessing it's best to get him out of my life, but he thinks telling me to kill myself is a funny joke & i should learn to lighten up. "/ i started ignoring him, which is working, but im wondering if i did the right thing. cause right now i feel miserable & like i will never find a guy that treats me with some kind of respect.
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no guy should ever say that he is joking about that kind of stuff.. that isn't right to joke about stuff like that. You did the right thing you don't need that kind of nonsense in your life.. your to good for that and if you were to keep him in your life then he would just be bringing you down with him!! you did the RIGHT thing!! You will find the right guy you just need to wait, you probably just feel hurt because of this jerk!!
-Bess
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You made a very mature decision when you decided to ignore him. Focusing on a reflection of another person's insecurities ( aka - his desire to say negative things towards you or just plain treat you like crap ) will not get you anywhere. It's very easy to feel like you won't find the right guy after being dissapointed this way. Us girls can be a little to dramatic and emotional sometimes - especially during boy trouble. You will find a guy that treats you with respect as long as you respect yourself first.
God bless,
Megan
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Well, it is kind of funny to tell people to kill themselves, but that is beside the point. You may not realize it, but girls have this genetic coding that only allows them to like assholes. Girls sit around with their girlfriends and say dumb shit like, "OMG I RLY WANT A NICE GUY!" but for some reason, when it comes down to it, they date guys that beat them and tell them to kill themselves. It's ok though, you're young and naive. By the time you're 30 or 40 you'll realize you need to find a nice guy, but by that time the nice guy will be making millions and dating a supermodel.
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When it comes down to it, you really did do the right thing, anybody that makes you feel bad about yourself is nobody worth your time. You will find someone that will treat you with respect and you'll make a great partner for someone because you'll appreciate the way they respect you. I know that since I started dating, I went from the worst guy, up the scale, and now I think my boyfriend's the best in the world for me. So don't be down on yourself because of what this guy said to you, you will be so happy one day that you wont even remember what a creep that guy was. And you did the right thing. -Angel
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