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omg.. i cry over the smallest things.. but then they turn into big things... its not cool.. like i get all mad at something then i take it out on someone... then they hate me and wont talk to me... then all i do is cry.... what do i do to not do this....?????????

Lots of girls cry its a normal thing to do emotions go up and down all the time and its nothing you can stop, when you feel like your going to cry take a deep breath and carm down.

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ok, at school last week, this guy i used to like (i dont like him anymore) was in my class, and i went over to talk to him, because we're friends, but he gave me this weird look, and then kinda ignored me. Then, i found out he had blocked me on aim, but unblocked me when i asked him to. he said it was becasue my icon was messing up his aim thing, which actually might be true, because my aim has been doing that, but i dont know if i should believe him. do you think he just found out about me liking him and wanted to ignore me? if so, what should i do?

Im not sure on this one i think hes a bit taken back buy the fact you like him, thats his problem not yours dont no anything he has to sort it out.

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for my b-day i got thes iron-on rhinestones, where you can put them on denim, and they come in shapes and words, like stars and circles, and words like 'hot', 'sweet' and 'sexy', or you can make your own designs. i have two questions. 1. would they look better on a jean jacket, or jeans, and 2. what other designs would be a good idea?

Both i think it would look good more on jeans you could have them on the side of ur jeans or the back! Have patterns and loads of different words something that your drawn to.

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i have asthma and i wanna start smoking cigarettes *kinda depressed* but yah.. i don't wanna die from it lol.. but you'd think i'd be getting used to it bc my sister smokes everyday on the way to and from school.. soo ya.. would it be that big of a harm to me? if ur gonna lecture on how bad smoking is.. then dont answer

Just throw all you cigarettes away! dont be around your sister when shes smoking, Take it day buy day thats all you can do when you feel you need a cig stop and think what its doing to your health.

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Ok i went out with this boii lets call him Mike fer about a year on and off...and at one time i loved him soOOoooo much he was the love of my life....but like things went down hill i cheated on him but we remained relle tight as friends...best friends actuallie....and then he asked me back out and i was like ok...i broke up with him a week later cuz i knew it wasnt workin...but while we went out i talked to his friend hooked him up with my best friend...and he liked her alot...then she broke up wit him...he was upset i think he is alomst over her...but i think i like him but i dont wanna hurt my ex but i like him alot should i tell him how i feel....iym afraid to see how he reacts...thanks XxOxX -Boy Problemz

No i would leave it because alot has happened to you and messing it up again and its not a very nice situation, find some one else just be friends with him and then you see that you dont need him to be a boy friend, because you have him as a great mate.

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I've known this guy since like 2nd grade. He and I have been boyfriend and girlfriend off and on for about 2 years. He and i usually hook up most during the summer and not much during the school year. My friends say that we sould either stay friends or boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't really know which one i should choose. i really like him saome days and don't really talk to him others. should we be boyfriend and girlfriend or stayt friends? thanx

I think you should just stay friends because its going to get confusing if you keep going out on and off! mabe you could find a real boyfriend who you wont go out with on and of!

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girls...what is a good idea of type of outfit to wear for first date. but i wanna know specifics like brands,colors, etc. (DONT SAY ABERCROMBIE/HOLLISTER i dont wear it) i like to wear polo shirts and button down shirts. i look good in them (in my opinion). my eyes are bluish green so do i wear something to bring out my eyes? i have spikeable hair but its also long enough to look good kinda messy and down.

also... any good ideas for 2nd and 3rd dates?

Just wear something confortable dont wear something really fancey because it wont look right wear a nice top and mabe a skirt and jaket!

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Okay theres this kid at my school. And we like "talk" on and off all year. Usually when we do talk its like ya know, we should hook up type of thing. And right now we're talking...how can i get him to really like me so we can finally hook up??

Just be you, invite him out to the cinema or to the beach and just talk about stuff hes bound to like you for you.

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Ok. One of my guy friends has a girlfriend, but he hangs out with me and my other friend more. So now his girlfriend is mad at him and now he can't hang out with us exept at school. It's really making me sad and neither of us wants this. What should I do?

Tell him that you miss spending time with him because his girlfriend wont let you spend anytime with him, tell him that why is she so upset about it because you are his friends.


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umm i almost have a 100$ and i wanna buy a pet my mom doesnt like reptiles or any thing that smells and my nana dont like anything that makes alot of noise that will make the dogs bark and my friend is guna make her chinchillas have babies but that might take awhile so should i wait to get a chinchilla or i might be able to get a guinea pig but i dunno please help!!!
ill rate high :)

get a fish lol the dont smell and they dont make a noise i had a gunieapig but he died he made a noise and was smelly! as well.

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I haven't gotten my period since the end of January. I'm not sexually active, and haven't been for the past year and a half. However I had lost about 7-10 pounds since the last time I've gotten my period. Is there something wrong? Or do you think that I haven't gotten my period because of my weight loss and diet change? Thanks!

I think you should go see a female doctor, and get it sorted out some girls miss there period but thats not for long but its a bit worrying if your lossing weight aswell.

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my friend is going out with a guy. she is like my BEST FRIEND EVER, and this guy is 16 and shes 12. im worried because we both know this is an illegal relationship. what should i do?

Talk to her tell her that if people find it they probely wont like it because its a bit age difference tell her that she shouldnt be having sex or doing anything with him just be there for her.

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hey, ok, well my room always seems to get EXTREMELY messy. i straigten it up, but then it just gets dirty right away. there's always clothes on the floor, desk cluttered, dishes everywhere, the works. so, this is a pretty general quesiton, so anything constructive i will rate 5's! so, plz give me some tips on how you keep your room decent!

Gets some draws or some boxes to put all the mess in them shove then away in the bottom of your wardrobe or mabe under your bed.
When you have finished with some clothes have a wash basket and put them all in there and then you'll be a lot cleaner.

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hi..i need a backround for my site..any kind...i'm not picky...what are some good sites to get backrounds at? thanks!

Bright colours will look good
there is theses sites:
www.Nuthinbutnet.com
www.starlightmks.com
www.carrielynnesworld.com
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K so I have a friend that is here(where i live) on weekends and I also have another friend that is here 24-7 and of coure there is me! So my friend that lives here all the time is really mean to my other friend! None of us go to the same school so it's also really hard to have a talk with all of us together. We fight A LOT and talk behind eachothers backs! It's HORRIBLE!!! I think befoe we know it none of us will be friends at all! What am I supposed to do to make this friendship work?

Why dont you get them all together and sort it out ask them why they hate each other so much and try and stop them fight so much.

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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.

Is this a good outfit:

White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels

OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.

Wear a had band and curl your hair it will look great use really bright colours and go wild with the costume.

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Im on my period right now and i am so angry for some reason and i get pissed off so easily right now and i dont know why? and today this girl told me something and i ended up cussing her out and every one thought i was gonna hit her in the face so please tell me how i can be nicer why im pmsing

Most girls have weird emotions when there on there period they some times are sad mad and loads then get stressed out easly take a deep breath when you think your going to explode its not your fault, Just keep care thats all you can do.

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i can talk to guys fine in person i just sound so stupid on the phone i need some pointers on how to like start in depht conversations oh im 13 female

Just talk about what he likes doing and school and what your doing at the weekend, just go with it.

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I have a friend and she bosses me around. Sometimes she talks to me in a mean way. Once she asked my why I was talking in a negative voice. I hate that because she acts like she is my mom. I not sure if I even want to be her friend any more. Right now she is one of my best friends. I need a wasy to tell her with out actualy hurting her feeling or making her mad at me. How should I tell her?
Signed,
Angry but sad

Tell her that shes upsetting you because she acts like she doesnt care sometimes,if you have to get mad get mad she shouldnt be like that to you if shes your friend. Go find some other friend to hang out with! and spend more time with them she'll see that she needs you as well as you need her.

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When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it?

When ever your ready to tell him anytime you think its getting to serious and you just want to slow things down.

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