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His girlfriend won't let me see him...
Ok. One of my guy friends has a girlfriend, but he hangs out with me and my other friend more. So now his girlfriend is mad at him and now he can't hang out with us exept at school. It's really making me sad and neither of us wants this. What should I do?
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i think your friend should break up with his girlfriend because no one should control any body and who are their friends.
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Tell him that you miss spending time with him because his girlfriend wont let you spend anytime with him, tell him that why is she so upset about it because you are his friends.
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Talk to him about it. Some girls get very jealous. He can either accept her wishes, or tell her to relax and that he still wants to hang out with you. It is his choice. If he is worried about losing her then either he can try talking to her and asking her along a few times so she feels more comfortable with you all just being friends, or he can start thinking whether he really wants a gf to choose his friends for him. Personally, if I were him, I would run a mile from her but in the end it is his choice.
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Well, there's not much YOU can really do besides talking to him, telling HIM that this is unfair...or going straight to the problem (the girlfriend) and show her that there is nothing to be jealous about. If he is going to stop hanging out with you, then he's not a very good friend, In my opinion. Just do everything possible to let the girlfriend know that there is nothing to be jealous about. Sorry about your problem! Hope this helps. <3
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I have one question for you: Why is your guy-friend letting his girlfriend control his life? Does she really get to decide who - and when - he hangs out with his friends? She should know that he isn't interested in anyone but her that way.. and if he's letting her control him that way, you need to talk to your friend. A girl like that will cause problems. Talk to your friend about talking to his girlfriend. The girlfriend needs to understand that it's not ok to rule her boyfriends life.. and that he likes her, not his FRIENDS - previous friends. If she doesn't listen, he should end the relationship. It's only going to get worse.. if he can't hang out with people other than her, isn't that trouble? Talk to your friend, and get your friend to talk to his girlfried. Try and get her to understand and be less overbearing. Get her to understand that y'all are friends, nothing more, but absolutely nothing less. He shouldn't be a slave to his girlfriend.
-FunnyCide
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For now i'd just sit tight.I really doubt that he will put up with the controlling behavior of the girlfriend for long. It's gonna get old REAL quick. I can understand her being a little jealous, sure you can too, but, if she can't trust him enough to let him hang with his friends sometimes.....she will soon be history.
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