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Hey guys! My name is Nicole... I am 18 and I've lived in lovely california for almost all of my life! I am a part-time student(medical field) and model... and a full-time mommy! My daughter, Melissa Nevaeh Maneli, will be a year old May 14th to be exact. :) She is my everything! I have a wonderful boyfriend who has been an AMAZING part of my daughters and my own life. I have been put through many different problems and many life changing events...so I decided to help everyone else out! Feel free to ask questions about anything... and I'll be sure to answer them in the best way I can!

I will be making a picturetrail account so you all can see my pretty little girl and hot boyfriend! =P

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I'm going to a banquet later this week and I got my outfit today, but the thing is, I have no idea what to do for my hair or make-up. Just something simple, but cute Any ideas?

(My hair is about shoulder-length and I'm wearing a white tanktop with a cute yellow sweater over it.)

Well, you could do an up-do with curly pieces hanging down. Or half up half down with curly pieces hanging down. (curling iron) For make-up..a cool thing you can do is...go to a department store in your mall, then go to a make-up counter..and they will actually do your makeup for free!! Yep...they want you to buy something after...but you don't have to! I swear! lol.

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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!

Well, getting pregnant after being raped is a huge thing. Abortion is probably the answer that everyone will give for rape. Why? It's scary memory, you aren't ready, it wasn't planned, and future problems...like when the baby grows up and asks about the father. Now the other friend.. people would say that it's not okay to have an abortion...is because she willingly had sex, knew the risks...and all of that. But it really doesn't matter what people think is right or wrong, the only this that DOES matter is...is what the mother feels is right. =) Only she can decide what is best for her, and the baby.

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Hey guys! Well, I just got a dog and he's about a couple weeks old. I want to start training him now, but I can't do that without a name. Got any ideas? He's brown, black, and white. Thanks a million! =D

Aww what kind of dog? Mine is brown black and white too!! Hm.. I like Peanut...lol...but let me know what kind of dog and I can come up with the perfect name. =)

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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.

Is this a good outfit:

White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels

OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.

That's a good outfit, but I would probably wear a shirt with color. Maybe a bright pink? Love the choice of heels! For hair...I like the half up half down with curls hanging down. Easily done with a curling iron. Or Straight hair...with random curls...I love that!!

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My husband seems to always have another female in his life..if its just a friend or an ex. he has a cell phone that he talks to her on alot.. they use to call the house..but it bothered me..so i said somethng bout it..now they call his cell. I mentioned to him that i noticed he always seemed to have to have another woman in his life..he tells me that i dont want him to have friends..but i told him i didnt care if he had "friends" just this girl thing is disrespectful i think. he told me that she was his best friend and there is nothing i can do about it..she disappears bout 2yrs ago ..all of a sudden she is in a bad relationship and pops back in..am i wrong for having a problem with this..is it right for him to have the hidden conversations..please let me know..relationship in jeopardy..

Hmm, I would say that it's not okay. But I don't know his story. The only thing I can come up with is to try to get involved with their friendship. If my boyfriend has friends.. they are my friends too. You see? That way you can be more comfortable with the situation. If he doesnt want you talking to this woman, then post me back. Goodluck!!

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hey, ok, well my room always seems to get EXTREMELY messy. i straigten it up, but then it just gets dirty right away. there's always clothes on the floor, desk cluttered, dishes everywhere, the works. so, this is a pretty general quesiton, so anything constructive i will rate 5's! so, plz give me some tips on how you keep your room decent!

AH, I SO have your problem! Lol.. my boyfriend actually had to give me advice on this. Every night clean your bedroom. Make it routine. Right before you go to bed...just straighten it up! It helped so much.. My room has been happily clean for 2 months.. lol! ;) Hope this helps.

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hey! okay, today i went tanning for the frist time. i went in a medium ed for 10 minutes, and used the special lotion they give you. i came home tonight, more than 6 hours later, and took a shower. just one certain spot on me is red, actually 2. it's normally where i get sunburn. could i have possibly gotten sunburn , or is it like an allergic reaction to the lotion? i don't think it's the lotion, since wouldn't i have gotten taht all over my body? just wondering if it is sunburn how can i prevent it next time and put anything on it to make it go away? thanks!

Tanning for the first time will sometimes give you an allergic reaction. So that could def. be it. Try again and see what happens. Did you possibly have a birth mark, or lighter skin on that part? Try putting aloe, or cocoa butter on it!! =) That helped me...I just had an awful experience when tanning! lol. Hope this helps!!

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Ok. One of my guy friends has a girlfriend, but he hangs out with me and my other friend more. So now his girlfriend is mad at him and now he can't hang out with us exept at school. It's really making me sad and neither of us wants this. What should I do?

Well, there's not much YOU can really do besides talking to him, telling HIM that this is unfair...or going straight to the problem (the girlfriend) and show her that there is nothing to be jealous about. If he is going to stop hanging out with you, then he's not a very good friend, In my opinion. Just do everything possible to let the girlfriend know that there is nothing to be jealous about. Sorry about your problem! Hope this helps.

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To Hard to belive i went to paris and in the 4 days i was there 3 amazing things happened i got my 1st boyfriend (he asked me out in Versailles in the hall of mirrors) The next day I turned 14 and then on the 12 hour plane ride back I got my first kiss. Is that to hard to belive? Or am i just thinking it is and over reacting. I just dont no what to do and i am new at this but how can i make a move??

So what i am asking is:
Is this to much and to overwhealming?
How can i make a move

14f and he is also 14 almost 15

Aww.. that's so cute!! What an amazing time you had! Paris is so pretty isn't it? Ok ok... I don't think its too much, unless YOU think it is. If you can handle it...then great! On making a move... that will be a piece of cake. You've got the guy already! What kind of move do you want to make? Like.. kissing him? Post back!! :)

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