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 "There's no other love like the love for a brother.  There's no other love like the love from a brother."  A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
"There's no other love like the love for a brother.  There's no other love like the love from a brother."  A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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on myspace to get the page to be private do you have to set your age to 14 or younger or is there another way to get it completely private?
The only way your profile can be set to private is changing your age to 15, or younger. ♥
My name is Kimberly Araya, age 18
I like this girl at work, but she's straight, and my boyfriend and I don't have sex anymore, because I never feel like it. Should I tell my boyfriend? I can't tell anyone I know, and it's bringing me down. He know's that I'm Bi, he's asked for three sums but I have said no because I am easily jelous. We broke up for six months, I dated this stupid idoit guy. My boyfriend is really attached to me. I love him more then anything, but sexually I'm not there anymore. My friends say I need space, but I rarely get it. My boyfriend is everything to me, but with my friend at work I feel alive and excited. I don't know what to do. I've never liked a girl before, I am always just attracted to them. Should I be honest with him or keep it to myself?
I think you should be honest with your boyfriend and tell him how you're feeling. If you don't talk to him about this, you're only hurting yourself and him. So, just explain to him how you're feeling about this relationship and what you want to do about it. But be honest. It's the best way. ♥
does anyone know the name and artist of the song that goes like, "I stand with you on a mountain" and "I wanna lay with you forever" or something? I can't remember much of it.
The song is called 'Truly, Madly, Deeply' and it's by Savage Garden; GREAT song. ♥
what brings out green eyes?
Any color, really. Brown, silver, purple, green or gold would be great. Also, you could apply eyeliner; that will make your eyes pop. Purple, blue, or black eyeliner would be beautiful. ♥
kay i cant figure it out! i even googled it
but it goes like this
im rosemarys grandaughter. The spitting image of my father and by the end of the day my momma still my biggest fan??
The song is called 'Who I Am' and it's by Jessica Andrews. ♥
if a guy older than you who you like is pressuring you to have sex or oral sex and you are not going out and are only friends is he only in it for sex? btw im 13 hes 16
Of course. It sounds like he's using you for one thing and that would be, sex. ♥
my b/f and his friend are ALWAYS togethr I mean his friend spends the night over, there always hanging out and wut not, I call him and he's busy with his friend so he cant talk to me, we go out he brings his friend along......It has come to the point were i dont want to go out with him when his friend is with him because he usually ignores me or doesnt really talk to me liek he does when his friend is not around....i tell him well cant we just go out just teh 2 of us and he tells me what for......ITS DRIVENING ME CRAZY.......AND ITS KILLING ME INSIDE....I GET SOO SAD...I dont know if it sthat im jelous of his friend...Thast wut my b/f tells me...he tells me Im jelous cuz he spends more time with his friend then he does with me..... but ill tell ohh lets go do something tomorrow...and his respond is what for.....I dont know wut to do ive been feeling soo down lately because teh fact that I feel liek he rather be with his friend then me... I mean I undrsatnd that he has friends and hangs out but i mean doe sit have to be 24-7, Does he have to bring him when we go on our dates??? I need soem Advice please help me....
                        *Giovanna*
                   Douthinkicare28@aol.com
I'd be pretty down if my boyfriend was always with his friends too and he had no time for me. Yeah, it's great to be able to hangout with your friends, but you do need time to hangout with your girlfriend/boyfriend, too. I understand where you are coming from. I think you really need to talk to him about this. If you don't talk about it, you'll never be able to solve this problem.
Explain to him that it's alright that he's close with his friends and you understand it when he needs some 'guy time' with his buddies. Tell him that it shouldn't always be about them and there should be some days where it's JUST you; not his friends. Tell him that it annoys you when you want to have a day for you and him and he wants to bring his friends along. A date is with you and your girlfriend/boyfriend, not with his friends and you. You both DO need alone time with one another. Try to make him understand that. Talk to him about whatever is on your mind, explain it all. ♥
Does anybody know what the song is called that goes something like "cuz its hard out here for a pimp"? I don't know the rest.
The song is called 'It's Hard Out Here For A Pimp' and it is by 3-6 Mafia. ♥
Why do they ask you if your pregnant when you get x rays? What happens if you are pregnant and you get x rays done?
It's because the x-ray's can harm the baby, that's why they ask you if you're pregnant before they do the x-ray. If you are, all the do is put a padded thing over your belly, so it'll protect the baby. ♥
How do u give a love bight coz my b/f has asked 4 1 but i dont know how! plz help
You just kind of nibble on him, wherever you want to. Don't bite (but you can't if you want, just not too hard), just kind of nibble softly. ♥
Alright I am a really big fan of music i listen to ANYTHING except Country and Gospel and i really am looking for some good new music to listen to. Hear are just some of the people i listen to :Chamillionaire, Hinder, Panic At the Disco, 50 Cent Eminem, DKM, Nickelback,Bone Thugs, Trillville, Metallica, Papa Poach basicaly anything rap rock pop punk i just need some good new songs to download or good old songs that you can never forget you know what i mean? just answer with a few of you fav titles thanks all i'll rate you well if you gimme some good songs old or new.
Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart. 
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better. 
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle. 
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight. 
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song. 
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer. 
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights. 
The Vanished - Favorite Scar. 
Unwritten Law - Save Me. 
Shinedown - Burning Bright. 
Live - Lightning Crashes. 
Relient K - Be My Escape. 
Bowling For Soup - Always. 
The Spill Canvas - The Tide. 
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect. 
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar. 
Social Code - Beautiful. 
Sugarcult - Back To California. 
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down. 
311 - Amber. 
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You. 
Bowling For Soup - 1985. 
Fenix TX - All My Fault. 
The Used - Blue And Yellow. 
Social Code - Cats And Dogs. 
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart. 
Coldplay - Fix You. 
Ben Harper - Walk Away. 
Fuel - Falls On Me. 
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself. 
Akon - Mr Lonely. 
Everlast - So Long. 
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You. 
The Verve - Freshmen. 
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again. 
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January. 
Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned. 
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape. 
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing. 
Candle Box - Far Behind. 
Sweatshop Union - Try. 
Classified - No Mistakes. 
Nickelback - Far Away. 
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It. 
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One. 
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.
Mary J Blige - Be Without You.
Nick Connon - Are You A Dime Piece.
Ashley Parker Angel - Let You Go.
50 Cent - Best Friend.
Bif Naked - I Love Myself Today.
New Ridaz - Special Girl.
Damian Marley - Beautiful.
Panic! At The Disco - It's Time To Dance.
Bif Naked - Let Down.
Teddy Geiger - For You I Will.
Angels And Airwaves - The Adventure.
Mobile - Out Of My Head.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Dani Californa.
Panic! At The Disco - I Write Sins Not Tragedies.
The All American Rejects - Move Along.
Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Gold Lian.
Incubus, The Perfect Circle & Finger 11 - Falling Behind.
The Dandy Warhols - Sleep.
The Wallflowers & Counting Crows - Heartache.
The Spill Canvas - All Hail The Heartbreak.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
I hope this helps you out. ♥
i want to know how to make my bottom eyelashes look pretty.. like when i put mascara on but usually it doesnt look right and it gets all globby and stuff.. any tips?? i rate high
Simple, just wipe your mascara brush before you apply it to the bottom eyelash(s). This way, it won't get all globby because you'll be wiping off the globby stuff on your mascara brush. ♥
Okay so last night at this dance party I was dancing(more like grinding) with a whole bunch of different guys. Then i noticed that this one guy had a hard on so i really rode into it. Later on that night I danced with my crush and he didnt get a boner, should I feel wierd because I wasnt doing a good job or what? Any Input?
It really depends on the guy. Not every guy will get turned on because you were grinding with him. Don't feel bad because you weren't able to turn on your crush and you were able to turn on the other boys. That's the difference between boys. Different things, turn different boys on. So, don't feel bad. ♥
What's a blogring?
A blogring is a group of people, that join this group because they're all interested in the same thing. It could be a group for hockey, music, computer games, etc. ♥
ok i was recently band from here for asking too many stupide questions so first off i whated to say i appologize to any one who read them also my quetion is if you did reed them and were affended then will you please forgive me i am not gay and i have never felt that way i was drunk and thaght it would be funny so please forgive me if you do will you please also send me a response saying you did i will feel mech beeter thank you
That's okay. No worries. EVERYONE makes mistakes. ♥
What do you do when a friend of yours that you talk to every so often is hosting a party, and they dont invite you? but they invite every single one of your friends? should i say something to him or just leave it go?
Maybe your friend forgot to ask you? That could be a reason why he didn't get around to inviting you. I think you should say something to him. Just be like 'so, this party that you're having; looks like it's going to be great.' Then, just say 'I don't have anything planned that night, probably just watching movies by myself.' Hint at him that you aren't do anything and you really want to go. I'm sure he'll get the hint. Or, you could always get one of your friends to tell him, to invite you. ♥
ok i gave my boyfriend a hickey the otherday and it didnt come out big. it was like a small dot. and he did the same thing to me but it didnt come out big ear. it was the size of a pen ( the circular part of the pen. how can i make a hickey bigger?
You probably just had your mouth opened a little, that's why your hickey came out so small. If you want it bigger, just open your mouth more and suck a little harder for longer then you usually would. ♥
Does any one know any songs that like i could take a phrase and put it in my AIM profile. My dad died and i want to put a song like I WIll remember you- by sarahM. in it but i dont know anymore. Thanks
P.Diddy - I'll Be Missin' You.
Coolio - I'll See You When You Get There.
Alter Bridge - In Loving Memory.
Jimmy Eat World - Hear You Me.
Those are just a few REALLY good songs. If you need anymore, just let me know. ♥
well i downloaded limewire about a month ago, and today i ran a spyware/adware/virus scan on my computer. nd guess what? i found limewire being spyware on my computer, which is kinda like a virus, right? i blocked it, and will that get rid of it? thank you soo much.
You should just totally delete Limwire. A lot of people have problems with that downloader and always seem to get viruses from it. So, just delete it, all together. That way, you'll never have that problem, again.
If you want a new music downloader, I highly suggest 'Ares.' It's a great downloader and I haven't had any problems with it. Just go to http://www.downloads.com and search it up. I'm sure you'll be able to find it. ♥
Does anybody have any good tips for flirting with guys?
For flirting tips, just check out the following website. It'll give you lots of useful information. http://www.flirtzone.com/tips.htm ♥