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My b/f spends more time with his friend then me...
my b/f and his friend are ALWAYS togethr I mean his friend spends the night over, there always hanging out and wut not, I call him and he's busy with his friend so he cant talk to me, we go out he brings his friend along......It has come to the point were i dont want to go out with him when his friend is with him because he usually ignores me or doesnt really talk to me liek he does when his friend is not around....i tell him well cant we just go out just teh 2 of us and he tells me what for......ITS DRIVENING ME CRAZY.......AND ITS KILLING ME INSIDE....I GET SOO SAD...I dont know if it sthat im jelous of his friend...Thast wut my b/f tells me...he tells me Im jelous cuz he spends more time with his friend then he does with me..... but ill tell ohh lets go do something tomorrow...and his respond is what for.....I dont know wut to do ive been feeling soo down lately because teh fact that I feel liek he rather be with his friend then me... I mean I undrsatnd that he has friends and hangs out but i mean doe sit have to be 24-7, Does he have to bring him when we go on our dates??? I need soem Advice please help me....
*Giovanna*
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I'd be pretty down if my boyfriend was always with his friends too and he had no time for me. Yeah, it's great to be able to hangout with your friends, but you do need time to hangout with your girlfriend/boyfriend, too. I understand where you are coming from. I think you really need to talk to him about this. If you don't talk about it, you'll never be able to solve this problem.
Explain to him that it's alright that he's close with his friends and you understand it when he needs some 'guy time' with his buddies. Tell him that it shouldn't always be about them and there should be some days where it's JUST you; not his friends. Tell him that it annoys you when you want to have a day for you and him and he wants to bring his friends along. A date is with you and your girlfriend/boyfriend, not with his friends and you. You both DO need alone time with one another. Try to make him understand that. Talk to him about whatever is on your mind, explain it all. ♥
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