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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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my pet cat is in heat can somebody help me...
The best thing for you to do to your cat is get it fixed if it is fixed then you wont ever have to worry about it. They put the cat to sleep for a little while so the cat wont feel anything. Getting them fixed is the best way to go.
ok well i shave down there and i was wondering if it is normal and how do guys like it to be
1) hairy 2) a lil hair or 3) shaved
Alot of women shave down there. Especially when they are around 18 or older. All my friends have done it because they like to wear bikinis and dont want any hair showing. Every guy is different. If the guy likes you for who you are then he wont care what you have done. Its your body you should do what you feel you are comfortable with.
ok i jus went to the bathroom and i whiped and there was very little blood and like 4 days before it was very itchy down here so could that be just a cut and i have like 2 pimples on my face hat showed up about 2 days ago and some people say you break out before you start your period so i was wondering if i am starting plz help i rate 5s
You do breakout before you start your period and you usually have cramps or some sort of pain sometimes before your period. Its nothing to worry about. If you are itchy in that area then you probably srached and it started to bleed but you may be getting ready to start. Dont worry everything will be ok.
ok i sound like a complete fool but its true i have a crush on my teacher this is sick and i need it to stop. Its like everytime i have a lession with him i sit and glare at him its so not correct and i don't know what to do. I know that like other students like him aswell cus he is like hott but hes always picking on me all the time in class and ive seen him look at me but maybe its just to see if i understand and he always lets me off when i don't do the homework and he shouts at everyone else. I don't know what to do hes sooo much older than me. someone help thank you in advance.
I dont think that age matters to me. A teacher could get fired for what he is doing. Maybe it would help if you found someone that you liked in your grade or above or lower and ask him out. My band teacher just got arrested for having a sexual relationship with a student. We all figuared he was because he would let her do whatever she wanted but anyone else would have gotten into trouble. Trust me you dont want to get involved with a teacher. If you find someone that you really like then you will probably keep your mind on that person. Everyone has crushes on their teachers or at least thinks they are hott so you dont have to feel like yur the only one.
My English teacher once told me, 'Don't marry someone you love, marry someone who completes you.'
Does anyone have any idea what that could mean, in a way? Like, how can someone complete you?
Some people feel like they are missing something inside them. When you love someone thats just love. When you find someone that completes the piece that is missing in your heart you know that yu have found your soul mate. I havent found that person yet but i hae found those tha i loved but it is not as good as having the piece comleted in my heart.
So, I'm going out with this girl and everything is going well and everything. Yesterday we are talking on the phone, and she tells me that she is attracted to heavy guys, which I don't mind. I wouldn't consider myself obese, but she says she usually dates heavier set guys. Although she didnt come out and say it, she seemed to hint that she would like me heavier. Now, I'm willing to do anything for her, but I just spent last summer trying to lose weight! I'd rather not gain back that 25 I lost... Is there anything I can do that will satisfy both of us? For your information, I am 15 and male.
I think that you shoudnt necessarily become fatter maybe you ould work out and become muscular? She may want you to be something that your not but there is always someting that a girl needs out of a guy. I think tha if you want to gain weight it shuld be what you want not about what someone else wants. If you dont want to become heavier again then you shouldnt. This is about how you feel and what you want. If she truly liked you for you then she woudnt have you change yourself. I think you should talk to her about it and if she wants you to cange your appearance then she is not worth being your g/f you should be with smeone who likes you and how you look.
ok...i have a serious boy problem...lets call my jus broke off boyfriend(tyler)and my ex before him (lee) ok tyler and i went out alil over 2 months and i fell so hard for him but lee kept coming in the way...i went out wit lee for about a year and now i just want to be friends with him nothing more but tyler cant understand that.tyler heard that i was with lee the other week and just broke up with me without wanting to talk it out but it wasnt true and i tried to tell him that but he wont listen...he told my bestfriend that we was gonna get back 2gether but he needs time 2 think...should i wait or move on?
This is about you and your feelings. If you want to be just friends with lee then thats what you should be. If you really care about someone and you really want to be with him then he is worth the wait no matter how long it is. But if you have to wait for like 1 month or 2 then i suggest moving on away from both of them.
well their this kid that i been dateing for like a year and cheated on me like 4 time i dont no if i wamms be with him or not but their this really nice kid that likes me and i dont no i need help
If he is cheating on you then you shouldnt be with him. If this guy really liked you he wouldnt do that. Nice guys think about other peoples feelings before they even think about that. This other guy you should give him a chance. He sounds like he would be better off with you then this other one who cheats on you.
Okay, so I'm in a bit of a weird situation. I haven't been in this situation since ninth grade, and I'm in college.
So my friend likes this guy...and this guy likes me...
Where I am is, I'm TRYING actively not to like this guy because I don't want my friend to get hurt, but he's talking to me and hanging out with me more and more, and I feel like I'm losing my battle.
We started hanging out because he and I have one HECK of a lot in common - like, it's scary. We all went out once and we ordered the same thing...in unison. Lol...
Yeeeeeeah.
So, um. I guess my question is, what do I do? My friend likes him, and he likes me, and I hate to admit it, but I'm starting to kind of like him, too.
I won't tell her I like him because, for one thing, I teased her ENDLESSLY about liking him, and I'd never hear the end of it. For another thing, that would cause such awkward friendship crap...I have, however, kind of half admitted to him that I'm starting to kinda like him...
So help me out, guys!
I know that you want to protect your friend and yourself for liking him. You cant help who you like. I know that you dont want to go out with this guy because your friend likes him. The truth is this is not about her this is about you. If you like him to and he likes you to then you should hook up. Best friends support you know matter what decision you make well they are suppose to. She may like him but there will be others for her. Maybeif you get her interested into someone else maybe that will give you a chance with the guy you like.
hello, i need help. guys just dont like me anymore. and im depressed, my best friend tells me things will be ok but i feel so alone. all i do is cry. its not looks, because guys hit on me and stuff, just like once they get to know me then run, if you have any advice please help..
The truth is your never alone. And you sound like such a nice person that if they run away its because they are not good enough for you. Your friend is right you will be ok. Concentrate on other things than boyfriends if you do that then you will find the right person alot faster. If you act like you dont care then boys will notice that you have high self-esteem and thats a very attractive quality. Its someting that you have to take one step at a time and one day at a time.
ok so theres this dude in my school lets call him phf wel phf and i hooked up a million times and he was like a jerk like hook up as just fool around and tell no one well he kept blockin me for odd reasons and this time he had blocked me and then we hooked up and he didnt unblock me and i sent him an email and he was like ur dumb why would i say something that neva happened or something coz for some reason the whole highschool knew bout it and i was like fine blablabla and i got a boyfriend and i havent talked to him in like ages but i wasnt quite sure if i over phf and today he asked if i wanted to hook up and i was like where are you? and then i was like who do you think you are? and he was like im so sorry okay first of all i blocked you coz i thought you were gonna freak out afta we hooked up and i was like no and then there was this thing going around that he asked 3 girls for head the same day we hooked up and well its actually that a girl offered him head and shit and i was like i cant do it sorry and we walked away and like now im textin him and i dno i dont think im quite over him and i have a boyfriend !!!!!and my boyfriend is sorta wierd but i still i dont kno but i think i still like my boyfriend !!!!!!!what can i do? i havent ever gotten over Phf and its been now like 8 months of hooking up and me gettin hurt and its been a month that we didnt even talk and i was doing great but then at the football game i saw him and he was lookin straight at me and i was like dude and i got feelings for him again !!!so lets say that 1 of those 8 months is the only time i didnt hook up with him and now the one month is increasing but im scared ill want to again! well help me please i will rate high! just help me with anything! any smart things! theres soo much in there youve got the choice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think that you really do have feelings for him. But if he truly liked you he wouldnt do that to you. I really think that you can do better and you dont deserve someone that is always just going to hurt you one day after another. If you hook up with him again the same thing is going to happen. The only problem you have with your current boyfriend is that he is weird. Well there is not one person that is normal everyone has something in them that is a little weird. You sound like you were happier when you werent with him so i would hold onto that happiness.
My boyfriend just told me that he would rather be friends. I was so hurt today. And To Make it Worse he Likes Someone Else!!!! We still talk. But it feels weird. What can I do to pick up our friendship again? Thanks. And smart remarks will be reported!
I know that feeling. You cant really pick up where you left off b/c every time you see him you it will remind you of what happened. What you can do is when you see him just talk to hm like you normally would and eventually you will feel comfortable enough to just be friends. It is hard to see him with another person but maybe if you got involved in something that could keep your mind off of him.
Ok. Sp there is this guy I ave liked for four years. When we went to camp together for church. Me, my friend, and him all hung out together. We flirted and had the best time. When I asked him if he liked he said yes and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with me. Time passed and nothing happended except us becoming really good friends. I didnt want to say anything about it but i just let it go. We went to homecoming and prom twice together we had a blast. He always talks to me when he sees me and he will sit on my lap and pretend and like say hey baby or say how you doing in a way that is hilarious. Does he like me and is to afradi to date. I think about him all the time. By the way i am 18 and he is 17. We have never had a fight before either.
I think that he does like you if he didnt he would have told you. I know what it is like to have someone like that. I think he is afraid of getting into a relationship. He obvipusly likes you as a friend but maybe he is also afraid of losing that friendship that you guys have.
okayy so me and this guy andrew have been dating for about 3 months and we've done a lot and have gotten really into eachother.. so i thought but it was all summer and once we got back to school he stopped calling and stopped comming over and to me that isn't hard to come over we only live 2 houses down! so in school my friend jack started likin me and i sort of starting like him a little bit to but i still had a lot of feelings for andy. Now tomorrow in school jack is asking me out so i've heard but i don't want to turn him down again cause it would be like the 20th time i have turned him down. But i still really like andy, however, i don't think andy really likes me anymore but it's really hard to get over him. So i need help.. should i go out wiht jack? or should i try and stay with andy?.. and im sorry i know its confusing
I think that you should give this guy a chance. If andy is ignoring you then you should be with him. He is not even worth the time. You have this guy that wants to go out with you so you should go out with him.If it doesnt work out or he is not your type then you should try and make things ok between you and andy. And if you go out ith jack for awile then you will start to like him more and gradually forgetting about andy. Its one of those things that you have to take just one day at a time.
this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!
1) I shower every morning because if i do it at night then i go to bed and by the morning i feel dirty again because of my bed so every night.
2)I shave before i shower. I use the shaving cream and have a wet towel with me or washcloth. When i am done shaving i use the washcloth and wipe it off then i dry it and then i take my shower.
3) i wash my skin first. I feel that if i wash my hair then it touches my skin because it is so long that it will still be dirty. i am weird and a neat freak sorry.
everytime i put makeup on it looks really powdery if thats how you spell it.. i use lotion before i put it on but it still looks dry and stuff.. what should i do or what brand of makeup should i try to use...?? i need major help haha
The best brand of cover up is Cover Girl. The thing looks blue and kinda reminds you of a toilet seat lol. But i use it and its not the powder or the liquid kidn its like both. It puts moister in your face so you dont look dry. You can buy it a walmart or even rite-aid.
I am 17/M. I have a girlfriend that I have almost dated for 4 months. We had a great realtionship to start out with. Once school began though I start to drift away from her. I am very active in school and after school. She is in love with me but I am not.(I told her I didn't after lying about it for awhile) She calls and I am not really inclined to call her back or even talk to her when she does call. It is like a chore for me. I wuldn't mind spending time with her but only if it was for awhile not some BS 15 mins. When we are together I feel really close and begin to like her a lot. Then after like 2 weeks I just dont care anymore. She is really serious in this relationship and I am not so much. I don't know what to do. I just want some direction or arrow telling me what I need to do. Plz give me that DIRECTION!
I think that if you are not happy with this girl then you shouldnt be with her. Mayeb you just see her as a friend than a girlfriend. If you were friends then you would talk in school and hang out somtimes on the weekends. If you dont feel like you like this girl then you need to be with someone that you do like. This is your happiness you do what you need to do to make yourself happy. It seems like you are just with her to make her happy but you need to make yourself happy to.
I have a younger sister, she is 23 and I'm 27. We've never gotten along and I really wish someday that will change.
Part of the problem is that she has always been jealous of me. She is obese, at least 50 pounds heavier then me and is shorter by 4 inches. She's never had a boyfriend or alot of female friends, and I have.
I try to phone her sometimes and have a nice conversation but It's hard for me to be nice to her, because she'll say things like '"what do you want", or "stop calling". She's even been as rude as to correct my grammer.
She has a university degree and all I have is a highschool diploma so she likes to rub this in my face.
The latest thing is that I was asked to be a bridesmaid in my cousins wedding and she wasn't asked. I've always been really close to my cousin and she wasnt, but I think this pissed her off even more and it wasnt my fault.
How can I ever have a relationship with her if she's going to keep treating me this way? I've really been trying. Does anyone have any ideas?
Your sister is just unhappy and the way to make herself feel bettter is to throw what she has accomplished in your face. I dont think she means to do it at all i think she is just haveing a rought time. She may just need sometime to think about things. It is a competition to her. She feels that she has to do things to make it seem like she has the better life. The best way you can do is try not to be competive like her. A way to solve this is to call but dont talk about you or her just talk about how you guys are. If you avoid conversations that will lead to a fight then you will have a better chance of having a normal conversation with her.
I have a little crush on Adam Brody from the OC. Is it normal to get a crush on an actor as long as you don't go nutso (which I don't)?
Alot of people have crushes on actors. It is ok to have crushes on them. I do. I like Johanny Depp because i think he is hott. So it is perfectly normal to have them. You dont have to worry.
i met a cute guy this weekend, at a rebel paintball cuarse - he works there - my house is jus a few blocks away from it - we started chattin right away - well - long story short - i was playin with his phone, and he told me 2 put my number on - i asked him why, and he told me its so he can call me when hes there again - i dont know if he likes me - but it sure looks that way - i jus wanna know - does he like me - or doesnt he - cause i sure-as-hell like him.
He definiately likes you if he wants your number. He is attrcted to you and likes talking to you. And thats a sign that he likes hanging out with you to. If you give him your number then he will probbably ask you out and you guys will hook up.