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Ok.. Well, I like this girl see... She used to like me, but I'm not sure if she still does or not... Anyway. How do I know if she still likes me, WITHOUT asking her? I mean, I think I MIGHT be inlove with her but... I don't want to love her and her not love me back... (link)
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just flirt.. she's interested if she flirts back. Or she if maybe she wants to ahng out sometime.. good luck!
-Bess
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The girl across the hall in my dorm does not have her own printer. She asks if she can use mine whenever she needs to print something. At first it was fine, but it's becoming a very frequent thing and it is starting to bug me. Ink is expensive and mine is getting used up pretty fast (I think she has used it more times then I have). What should I say to her to get her to stop? I don't want to be mean, but I can't constantly be letting her use up my ink and my paper. (link)
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just tell her the truth.. tell her ink doesn't come cheap and she would like to the print then she should buy you new ink for your printer. it's only fair!
-Bess
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Anyone know how to get a flat stomach adn can you please tell me what i should be eating to get a flat stomach links would be helpful. (link)
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just workout and do crunches.
try jellybean.com!
good luck!
-Bess
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hes my best friends brother.
and hes 21 and im 17.
my friend says shes ok with it but do you think shes just saying that?
we both like each other, should we go for it? (link)
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a 4 year difference is a pretty big deal.. but thats another story. well how is your friend acting..? is she open to that or is she kind of in that mood where she doesn't want to say "no" to you? i would wait and see how things go.. just let everything happen.. and if its meant to be its meant to be. good luck!
-Bess
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look theres this guy Peter who used to go to my school and he does again but he asked me out over msn i said yes and now hes back. He hasn't talked to me I've emailed him no reply Should I send him my note I wrote him or wait? I mean school just went in on the 4th!!! but he used to be on msn everyday!!! shouldn't he get his messages??? Some friends found out and are now harassing me about it!! Should I just break up with him now and live with not knowing? I mean 2 guys in his class I've dated and hate me!! They think I'm a s***!!
I need help
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honestly.. i don't even think youu should take peter seriously he sounds like a little boy that is just acting like a total jerk. don't even bother... just ignore him.. he's not worth any of your time.
-Bess
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What are some good ideas for an article for a school newspaper? (link)
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maybe come up with some interesting questions for the teachers.. or maybe interview a "student of the month"... or even come up with a section so that the readers could participate in the newspaper too.
-Bess
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what is a word for "easy to talk to" (link)
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i would say "understanding".
-Bess
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20/f
i was talking to this really sweet guy and hes like
"im glad i could make you laugh"
"it makes my day"
and i said
"how does that make your day"
and hes like
"because i enjoy makin ppl laugh....and you :-D ;-)"
what did he mean by that, "and you" ? (link)
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it means he likes you and your laugh! Awww...
-Bess
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i have a ex boyfriend and he dumped me and he still loves me and ive been sad forever and i want to go back out with him and i dont know if he still wants to what should it do?? (link)
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take it from a person who has experienced getting back with an ex.. its NOT a good idea.. because you already have the past following you around. It can be really hard.. not to say it won't work but it might not. PLus why would you want to get with a guy who dumped you? I would say go look for someone much better that deserves! good luck!
-Bess
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13/f
When a guy asks me out, how can I say 'No'?
Can I have an example of what to say? (link)
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Just tell the truth: "I'm really flattered, but I only see you as a friend! I'm really sorry!"
hope i helped!
-Bess
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what does mamacita mean? (link)
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its another word for mommy.
-Bess
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I have these group of friends and two of them are really very irritating!!! I just can't seem to talk sense into them! I'm so frustrated! They can really argue with you over the simplest, stupidest, dumbest things in the world!
Like for instance, they were talking bout chocolate fondue and I told them that I liked fondue because I like the fact that when I put a marshmellow into the fondue, the chocolate will harden over the marshmellow.
Their comments? Well, they like to roll their eyes(always! And its so darn friggin irritating ok!) and they'll have that you-are-so-stupid look and they'll start explaining and say "No! The chocolate doesn't harden over the marshmellow! That's dumb! It should stay liquid"
If someone else in the group says "it's actually possible for the choc to harden over the marshmellow", they'll just say " OH well, your choc fondue was probably lousy choc because quality choc doesn't harden"
And I'll be like thinking " OK fine ! Will you all just shut the fuck up?" I've told myself to ignore them when this happens and I don't want things to turn ugly by scolding them because they are my friends and we do share good times together too. The thing is, how should I handle such things? Should I ignore them? Don't continue to argue with them? Or wat? (link)
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i have a friend that is in the same situation, trying to mediate the situation which is good/ bad at the same time. Good: if you know both sides of the story you can judge on what they can do to fix things. Bad: because it really has nothing to you, yes you are in the arguement but when you think about it, the tension is built up between them.
Maybe you should suggest a day for the both of them to hang out and figure things out.. maybe they need a break from each other. Talk to them about it and ask them what's going on & and figure out a way to fix things that works out for everyone. Also friends sometimes get into fights its normal but if it continues there is something wrong & it needs to be fixed. good luck!
-Bess
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hey y'all, im a freshman and i thinm reality just hit me harder than anything today. we go this letter home in the mail today with the high honor roll+the honor roll students listed, and my name wasnt on it. and im really scared about my life, because i dont do any extra cirricular activites. and im afraid im not gonna get into colege. if i start joining clubs next year do u think ill have somewhat of a chance? i really dont wanna do anysports becuase most of the people who are on anyof the sports i like look down apon me and it would just be really awkward for me. thank y'all so much! (link)
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don't worry about it, you've got sometime.. afterall you are a freshmen. it's good that your thinking about your future though. the extra activites at your school you should join some on them get involved.. a college loves to see that on your application. they love to see good grades & that your social! Oh & don't rush your high school years.. they're the best years of your life. good luck!
-Bess
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im 13/f ..
i would like to lose weight before january to march.. or even christmas. waht do i do so that i can lose some fat in my stomach [i have a flabby stomach =( ] and also my thighs [whenever i walk theyre always touching.. that is not sexy] please help me. i`ve been looking for this [lose weight fast] for a long time. i dont wanna take those medicines or other drugs, i just wanna do something like.. i dont know. lol please help!! i want a nice body.
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excercise & go on a diet! try & saty away from the junk food, just eat the vegetables & fruits! stay away from chips, ice cream, candy, & etc.,
good luck!
-Bess
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me and this guy usually hang out in a group of friends and i really like him...k so i asked him one day if he liked me and he said yeah and that we should go out this weekend...k so friday i asked if he still wanted to do something and he said yes and got my phone #....we're supposed to do something tonight but he hasn't called me all day and it's making me feel all unsure.....am i getting worked up over nothing? plz tell me! oh and it sux bcause i forgot to ask him for his #.... (link)
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i think you should calm down.. it'll be fine.. you have to wait for him to call you.. & when he does just be calm. good luck & have fun tonight!
-Bess
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13/f
ok so i have this friend. we kind of have had an on again off again friendship.
we used to be best friends but then we got into a bunch of fites that basicly tore apart our friendship (she ended up just telling me she didnt want to be that close)
naturally, after that we were kind of in one mean fight after the other. we hated each other at points. eventually we settled into just "ok" friends (i.e. we almost never called each other and we hung out but only in groups never by ourselves). recently, we got into a really bad b**** fight. it lasted like two weeks. it would take way too long to explain what it was about, so i wont, but basicly she got annoyed with me and i got pissed at her at around the same time so we both started to hate each other.
she randomly imed me two nights ago and we worked it out. while we were talking i mentioned that one of our friends was supposed to sleepover on saturday but then she couldnt. so my friend kind of like invited herself (although my bringing the whole thing up was my invitation sort of). we hadnt done anything just the two of us in like six months, so i was pretty excited, i thought maybe this time it could actually work. well now it turns out she cant (she had a legitimete excuse). should i bring up with her that it would be cool if we could spend some more time together like we used to? its so complicated! please help! thanks all! (link)
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i'm going throught the same situation now with one of my close friends. its not the same as it use to be.. she is a different person & we never hang out as much as we use to. you should sit her down & tell her how you feel.. if she doesn't want to talk about i suggest you give her some space. let her know that you'll always be there for her no matter what & that you love her to death as a friend.
the other thing is, is that you & your friend are moving in different directions and sometimes.. the old friends you had before can't be as close as they were before. you get more friends, they get more friends & you realize that maybe you weren't as friendly or as close as you were before. good luck!
-Bess
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okay well theres this guy we were together i heard he was gonna you know for money he told me hea wants to be with me and eh loves me i find out he has a chick and another chik is calling him i find otu he kisses this girl adn says it meant nothing at all umm i find out my bro saw him kissing om some girl at the b-b game what do i do ???now he says hes starting not to like me he broke my heart into a trillion tiny bitty itty pices i gave him everything i tried to make him happy plz w/b (link)
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he isn't worth it.. he's in it to play around with you.. and guys like that don't deserve girls like me and you. We're better then that.. get rid of him he isn't worth it your better off finding another guy because no matter how hard you try he isn't going to change for you. I'm sorry to say it but its the truth and you know that you can do better. Get rid of this loser and find a real man! Good luck!
-Bess
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I used to hang out with these people.The used to gang up and bug me.I fought with the leader.Big mistake.They ganged up agaist me and fought.I miss being in their group.When I hear them having yelling and fun from my house i feel left out.I try to make excuses and pass by them but I rarely have any.I want to be a part of their group again but I do not want to look to desperate.I get really bored at home alone.What should I do.
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my question to you is why would you want to hang out with people who make you feel bad? Wouldn't you want to hang out with people who make you feel good? These people sound more like punks to me then friends and they sound like their wasting your precious time. Why don't you go meet new people.. maybe at school. Find people who have the same qualities as you. Maybe you could join a team or something and then go from there. If I was you I wouldn't go back with them.. the reason they gang up on people is because they want to make themselves look better.. but instead it makes them look like 5 year olds (not good!). My advice... find a new group of people to hang out with. Good Luck!
-Bess
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here lately i have gotten into cutting myself. bad. i mean i dont go deep or anything. i just pretty much break the skin. but its gotten bad. like its all i think about. i started saturday and i was like i wont do it anymore. well i did it again last night and then 3 times today. how can i stop? ive told 2 of my friends and they tell me i need to stop, which i know. but its hard. help me? please dont tell me to get counseling, cuz i cant tell my dad and i cant go. (link)
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well at least your attempting to fix the problem. the truth is though that you need to tell an adult so you can seek professional help. its not just gonna go away over night thats why you need to speak to someone. or if you really don't want to.. find a way to keep yourself distracted.. maybe phone a friend or even listen to music. find another outlet that is gonna keep you from cutting yourself. If you need anything else.. feel free to IM me: i tend 2 rawk
-Bess
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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating. (link)
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hey man.. we've all been through it, some of us have been so depressed and so down that we feel the only way out is to take our life. When you think of it though.. look at the positives of life. Yeah maybe this period in your life seems rough and no one understands you but don't think about taking you life away. Go meet new people & involve yourself in fun activites take your mind off things.. maybe suggest a vaction to your parents but don't think taking your life is going to fix things because it honestly doesn't fix anything. Don't run away from the problem you have to face it! As for love, sex, and girls you haev your whole life ahead of you, just be patience. I know its sounds a little cliche but the right one will come.. but until then you gotta keep your head up and stay strong. Don't put yourself down.. keep yourself up! If you need anything else don't hesitate to throw me a message in my inbox or to even IM me sometime at: i tend 2 rawk
i wish you the best of luck and i hope all goes well!! keep your head up!!
-Bess
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