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okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?

Right, its good for you to tell someone because first of all your helping you and second is because your giving her the help she needs to over come bulimia, with a little support she should get over it and be back to normal in no time.

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Usually my periods are very, very regular (right down to the minute), but this month I got my period two weeks early. Not to mention that I usually have a pretty heavy flow and horrible cramps, but this is just spotting and I have no cramps at all.

Is there something wrong with me? Am I mistaking some kind of nasty disease for my period? (I'm a virgin in every way possible, unless someone raped me in my sleep.)

No dont worry periods are irregular and regulaer all the time, everyone has downs and up. I have really bad cramps they hurt like hell.You havent got a disease go see a woman doctor and ask her if there is anything that can help. Its just one of those things girls have to put up with.

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my friends always make fun of me and call me a ditz i dont like it but i kinda have to deal. One of my best friends said she thinks shes only friends with me because it makes her feel smart. Should i take that personaly? How can i change i dont liek to be ditsy.

Yes you should take it personally you dont need them to make you fell so down. get some new friends and ditch them thats just mean what they have done and said.

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Any advice on how to get a guy, cuz I'm not terribly ugly, I'm really nice, and everything i do just doesn't seem to work. What the heck am i doing wrong?

You need to be a bit more ou going, grab a bunch of your friends and hit the pool or the cinema then you'll find your self a man, it doesnt just happen over night it might take a while go for it.

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My best friend and I are both girls and I'm 14 and she's 13. We have experimented 3 times and we've liked it each time(nothing below the belt). On one day she says she wants a boyfriend really bad,then other days she says that she wishes she could be with me and life would be so much easier and i'm the only one who listens to her seriously and cares and truly understands.I feels she very insecure about her liking for me because she feels God won't love us becuase she's sinning and that her parents will not except her anymore. Her parents barely except her now and they really don't take her seriously and they really don't trust her with the simpliest things. I wonder if she really wants to be with me because she would believe that our love for each other can't stop God from loving us and our love can conquer over her parents. Also on some days she made a strong statement that she wants to find her partner in life thats a man. She would only go for woman if they were the last human species on earth. I thought that was harsh and cold blooded because every time we experimented we never thought about any males while we were being affectionate to each other. I know for sure i'm bisexual and i'm comfortable with that, but the way my best friend talks it seems like she's confused big time about herself. I'm wondering if i should talk to her about it or she just needs to figure it out on her own. I'm ready to talk to her about it, but i want a second option on what I should do.

Give her some space and time she will come round and find that she needs you as much as you need her. If her parents are like that then they should be able to understand but i guess they might find it a bit hard to because of the way they are. God loves everyone no matter if you sin or who you fall for its not your fault you have these feelings.

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Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out!

Tell her i dont think she will mind, because she is your bestfriend and she should be able to understand if not then shes not a good enough mate. She might be shaken up about it but she will help you and you never no she might feel the say.

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

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Thanx

thats sad to her but i think that its a bit hard to bein a relationship when hes so far away, i no you love him but mabe its time you find someone else to go for.

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there are 2 guys that like me and one is very outgoing but he can be rude sometimes but he loves me and then the other guy is very sweet but he is quiet. which one should i go for???

the second one, he sounds nices but you just have to put in some work with him if hes shy. You dont need a guy who is rude and annoying. It will be fun finding out about the other guy and what hes like.

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I wax brazilian waxes myself at home and i always finish with these really unattractive looking red bumps. What are they and what can i do to prevent them? Any tips??

They are bumps from waxing you cant really prevent them because ther bound to happen just wait and they should go. Becareful when waxing its a very tricky job.

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theres a girl i like but she dont like me how i do. shes so perfect 4 me and we have so much in common. im real good friends with her friends too, but im afraid to go out with her because if i get into a fued with her friends it will tear us apart and im known to be a "sh*t disturber" when it comes to my friends. also, im sort of a sucker for per-preasure and have been involved with drugs and i know she doesnt approve too much in that area, so what should i do??

Dont fall for her move on because it will just ruin your friendship, you dont need drugs you need to find new friends.

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Now.. don't think I'm a slut or anything but me and my best friend share a boyfriend... and I am attrated to her too... is that a bad thing.. I mean we have done stuff in the past but I don't know if she likes me. should I make a move on her or not. or should i just talk to her and tell her my feelings I mean she is always looking at me in that sexy way and it turns me on everytime.. am I a bi-sexual and should I go for her... please don't be mean because I really need help

Its alright to have feelings for your bestfriend sometimes girls do. Not yet mabe you could tell her how you feel about her and that mabe there is a chance you could start a relationship, but beware it can ruin your friendship.

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I was watching a movie and I was thinking.. There has got to be more than this..? I have had a pretty rough life I guess you could say.. but.. What can I do to make myself feel better?

Go out with your friends, go to the cinema a day trip the beach or swimming get out and do something fun! mabe you could change your bedroom to make you feel more at home and move your bed around. Just have a good time

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my sis just got her first boyfriend & she likes himbut im worried he doesn't like her. He kissed her a few times but he never calls her & i read in a mag that that means he's not really into her!!! can u help.plese do
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Why dont you ask him about it, and see what he says see if he is interested in her, if he seems a bit put of tell her. Because there isnt really a relationship if he doesnt call or talk to her that often he could be using her.

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ok umm im going to this kids house i just met and hes cool and i have bin talking too himALOT and his friends and everything and he wants me too go too his house after easter and sleep over but hes not sure if i can bring a friend and people are saying thats not a good idea cause they think i dont no him thaat well but like he is really nice and he would never ever do that and his mom is one of my teachers and i dont no she wont find out cause we are gong too his dads house and i dont no he are going to smoke and drink and i dont no what too do?

If you trust him that much then go, Nothings holding you back if you feel like your not ready to sleepover and scared something might happen say no.

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im about 5'3 and i weigh 110 pounds everyone tells me im skinny but idn

what kind of bathing suit would look good on my frame

Its a bi hard because we dont no what you look like try a few on and see which one seems to fit you the most and go with that.

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okay.. well theres this one guy names tony and me and him were makin out and all, and i gave him a handjob. but i didnt have sex with him and i had my period. sO , he went and blew his load and it went on my hole. so i was wondering if u have ur period, and that happened, could i possibly be pregnant??? ill rate high, just please help ..

Yes you could be pregnant go to the doctors i surgest!

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i just became friends with a girl again and she used to be mean and when we gave her a second chance she started to be mean again.im worried she will be like that again what should i believe?

Just wait to see what she is like, If she goes back to her normal way dump her you dont have to waste your time with someone whos like that.

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About since September, whenever I get my period the first and second day it comes down REALLY bad. So bad it's to the point I have to change my tampon (the super one) every half an hour so it doesn't go through my pants. I've been getting really horrible cramps and extreamly moody and emotional. My mom always tells me that I have to try to deal with it but it's getting out of hand. I can't take this anymore! I might see a doctor soon about but I need to know if there is anything that my doctor might prescribe me so that my period isn't so much of a hassle, or if anyone is like me and how they've dealt with it. Thanks so much if you can help me out!

My periods are really painful i no what it feels likes but mine arnt heavy. There is a pill they can put you on if you really want to, and it should stop the blood an awful lot and it will only be a bit not as much as you have now and you wont have to change ur tampon every half an hour!. But sometimes there are side affects people can become moody and they can put on weight with them pills, but it affects different people in different ways.

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Hi
I have really heavy periods and am considering asking my doctor if I can go on the pill to control them. However, I HATE taking pills (have a real phobia of it) so what can I do about that?
Plus, do you honestly think that a doctor would put a 15 year old girl on the pill? Especially seen as I've only had 4 periods (they started when I was 13 but are VERY irregular - I skip like 6 at a time)? Has anyone had any personal experience with doctors and the pill? How did it go?

My friends on the pill and it makes her periods slow right down and there hardly any blood hers used to be so heavy it would come through the pad. But its made her feel better, Side affects when my mum had it it made her feel sick and put on weight, which can make you depressed but it doesnt happen to everyone because your all different.

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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz?

Carm down. Just be there with him its got to be hell for his parents to they must be worried, Just stay with him in the days not all but kepp your self busy dont spend all your time there you will just ware yourself down and you'll be tired,stressed and depressed, talk to your friends they will help you get through it or your parents.

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im sorry to hear about everything

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