If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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im going to b a freshman in high school and i was wonderin if anyone could tell me what homecoming is like. do u have to get all fancy or wut? i have never heard about it b4 so im kinda nervous. also r there like sadie hawkins dances?(where the girl asks the boy) im just wonderin. thanx! (link)
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No,it's not that fancy. It's not like prom. Dress as you would normally dress for church. If you don't go to church,wear a nice dress. There was no Sadie Hawkins dance at my school. There was Homecoming and Prom and that was it. They both suck anyway,don't go to either one.
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ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do... (link)
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Because for the most part guys are just kidding. Most of the time when a guy checks out another girl while he's out with his girl,he's just speaking his mind but has no intention of actually banging the other girl. Girls don't joke about that kind of shit though,they really mean it. Plus our egos are a lot bigger,so when we see our girl doing this,we get really hurt and pissed off. No excuse,but there's why.
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ok this guy i liked mite have tickets to a concert of this band i just found out about that i like a lot...ne ways i wanna try to get him to like me so maybe we can go to the concert together....help please this means a lot to me! (link)
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Really kiss his ass. I mean good,too. Do pretty much anything he wants and beg him to give you a ticket. That's a shame you have to do it,but you do.
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what is first base second base and third base..? not baseball eather! lol like kissing and that stuff
thanx!
xoxo-aSh (link)
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I knew you weren't talking baseball. First is making out. Second is hand jobs or fingering. Third is oral. And you know what a homerun is.
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Theres a lot of things wrong with me when I have sex. To most guys my problems sound like a dream come true, but in the long run they are a huge problem. When I have sex, sometimes I can't get all the way up for a while. I'm not even 20, so I doubt I need viagra. A lot of my friends pop a boner the second a girl starts cuddling with them and they hate it, but I save myself the embarrassment and just can't have sex when the time comes. Also, a lot of my friends ejaculate too early (after 3 or 4 minutes) but I personally last for an hour maybe two one end. I know this also sounds like a dream come true, but in the end I usually end up getting tired, bored, and I rarely even finish. I know it's good for the girl, but what about if I ever want to have kids?
I thought about whether I was gay, but I have absolutely no attraction to guys and I really do like girls, just more emotionally than physically. I enjoy the cuddling and long evening walks in the park to getting drunk and fucking in a back room kind of thing. Is there any thing I can do without seeking medical help? (link)
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You may be under some stress right now in your life and just aren't thinking about the sex. There's a chance something could be wrong with you,but you seem ok otherwise. I'd still see a doctor anyway to get some professional advice. You may be a guy who just doesn't get sexually excited as easily as some others do.
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all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ?? (link)
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Nothing. It's really none of your business wheter hes gay or not. Why do you care anyway? I mean if hes a nice guy,so what?
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I am 4'9" and I weigh 93 pounds... I have very muscular legs and arms,(i dont mean to brag but i am telling the truth so i will get good advice) but my stomach is a little poochy. I haven't gone through "puberty" yet, and i know that I will get taller and thin out a little bit, but for now, what are some ideas to lose the pooch? (plus inner thighs, and lateral obliques) Thanks! (link)
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Yeah. You're short and you'll go through puberty soon and you'll be perfect.
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ok u had answrered my questoin before and stuff bu tthe thing is i have been goin through tough times and i have found myself now bu ti ned to find a guy so i have a shoulder to lean on adn a guys support to understand that my frends or family cant give
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I wouldn't use the guy just to lean on,but what exactly do you want me to respond to? I mean,if you have a problem,yeah I'll listen and try to help you.
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hey u answered my questoin before and i get ur point that im only 13 but i have been getting over soem really difficult emotional situations that are not goo dat all and my family isnt there adn if i tlak they dont listen so it doens tmatter but i need support from a guy that noes how to handle me and understands thats all i want adn all i need please respond if so u can email me at yellow03436@netscape.net (link)
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Alright,I wouldn't say I'm a guy that knows how to handle you,as you put it,but I'll listen to your problems. That's what I'm here for.
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A few weeks ago my brother and his girlfriend were over at our house and he had left the room to go to the bathroom. While he was gone my brother's girlfriend started leaning on me and saying things to me that she shouldn't have been saying to her boyfriend's younger brother. My brother eventually came back into the room and it didn't happen again. The next week she came over again and did the same thing while my brother was out of the room. But this time she tried to reach her hand down my pants. I stopped her and asked what she was doing. She told me to just relax but I still didn't let her, eventually my brother came back in the room and ended it. She didn't come over the next week and I hand't talked to her since so I thought it was finally over. But last week she IMed me online and started saying the same things she was saying to me in person like she wanted to have sex with me and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I would love to get physical with this girl...she is really hot and she has a great personality. The problem is as clear as day though...she's dating my older brother. The other thing is though, my brother and I have never been close even before he left for college. We have also been getting into tons of fights in recent weeks. However my brother really loves this girl and I even overheard him telling my mother that he thinks she is the one. Should I hook up with her? Please help me out... (link)
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Wow,I think you should tell your mother and have her break it to him. Tell her everything that you remember her saying,because it may be the same way she talks to your brother. If you can give exact details that always helps. Tell your mom you have no interest in this girl in case your brother is wondering. She is not the one for anybody right now. She is pure trash. Your brother deserves to know and I want to commend you for resisting her charms.
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hello. all my life i have been made fun of because of my muslim faith. people always say, there is bin laden, get him.they think i support the 9/11 attacks. my parents support them but i don't. please help me get through this before i go crazy. (link)
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Tell them that it really bothers you that they do that. Remind them that a lot of people died that day and it annoys you that they would even joke that you support that. You have a right to practice whatever religion you want. If they still don't get the picture,they're not really your friends and hang around somebody else. It's not your fault Osama hates us. And it's not your fault 9/11 happened.
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ok i dont think i am a picky person when i go out with soembody cuz before i go out i wanna be friends with them for a while so i noe how there like and i noe there personality and who they are all around but i wanna make sure he will treat me rite adn hes funny and sweet adn i want him to have space from em as i want space to him and i dotn want us to be alone all the tiem u noe cuz hanging out with ur bf and freidsn is cool to becoem comftorable then i will work my way up but i dotn go to fast and i will go pretty far if i like the guy but am i jsut waiting for a perfect guy thats not gonna cvome or shood i go for otehr guys even if there not all that i want? (i am 13) (link)
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No,you're not picky at all. You know what you want and there's nothing wrong with that. No guy will be perfect,but I think you know that,and just go your own pace. You're only 13.
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Hi I am a 16 year old female I have a boyfriend but in a way I think he might be cheating on me because one of his best friends will either call me or talk to me on the internet and tell me all kinds of stuff about my boyfriend and when I talk to my boyfriend about it he denies it all. And his friend is even telling my best friend about it all. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I'm not sure what to do. Should I break up with him or talk to him some more about what his friend is telling me? (link)
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He probably is because long distance sucks. I men how can you have a girlfriend when you can't see her. His friend may just be trying to get you away from him so he can have you though. Tell him what the friend said. Ask him if it's true. But regardless,break it off. Long distance blows worse than the Saints.
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im moving from houston tx to boston MA and i really like this girl. i dont know wat to do, and i know we cant get to together but i really like her. help?!?! (link)
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You think about her every now and then,but then you look at the hott Boston girls. Long distance NEVER works,so yeah you'll just have to end it. Sorry dude.
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i have this friend who i only like as a friend, but he likes me more than a friend. how can i tell him that i only want to be friends without making him mad?
confused wierdo (link)
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You just say that it isn't going to work out between us and that you'd love to stay friends. It's called the Let's Be Friends Speech. I get it alot. He won't get mad. He'll be sad but he'll get over it.
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I REALLY REALLY like this guy, but he only sees me as just a friend, is there anything i can do that might change his mind??
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No. You can't make anybody like you.
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this might be kinda stupid, but is there anyway to practice making out, or having sex, besides masturbating? (link)
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No way to practice sex. I mean,that's pretty tough. But you can kiss your arm to simulate making out.
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I dont know who to believe but some girl keeps telling me things aaron does ((bad things)) like cheating or.. brekaing up with ppl after a week but its been longer than a weekk.. and i duno who to believe i didnt tell aaron about ti he doesnt seem like that kind of person THOO what do I DOOO!!!!!!????
Signed- confused by love (link)
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Believe Aaron until you have a reason not to. But don't be suprised if he pulls that shit on you.
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please give me a list of ways to lose weight FAST! i need to lose alot by august 30th. and keep in mind i am 14 and i WILL NOT get lypo. i will rate! (link)
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Running,biking,swimming,cutting out the bad foods. If you need to lose a lot in a short time don't get desperate and not eat. But just be active and the weight should come off.
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k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him. (link)
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How can you after that one? That's the worst fuck up in the history of fuck ups. Calling the wrong name. And then,on top of that(no pun intended),he tells you he was using you for pussy. He is definitely THE definition of an asshole. If you look under asshole,you'll see him. If you still love him after he used you for free pussy,then you have no self respect. When you hear his name,you should feel angry,betrayed,and want to cut his balls off. Let him have his other bitch and try not to fall for this bullshit again.
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