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whats that song that goes
"california here we come, right back where we started from...."

band/song name please!!

That's the theme song of the OC; I LOVE the OC!! The song is called 'California' and it is by Phantom Planet. ♥

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okay so limewire wont install on my computer. so.. what are otehr programs like it? thanks guys.

I think you should get Ares; it's a GREAT program for downloading stuff. It works awesome and I haven't had any problems with it; I had it for over a year. I highly suggest it. It's way better then Limewire, too. Just go to http://www.downloads.com and search up 'Ares' ♥

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on myspace i am trying to hide the bottom links [under the comments]. i tried using a code from www.myspacesupport.com but it won't hide the links. does anyone know a website that has a code that works?

You could try out the following sites (I'm not sure if it will have the code you want, though.)


-- http://www.chasebadkids.net
-- http://www.msbuddy.com
-- http://www.profiletweaks.com
-- http://www.profilejuice.com


Hopefully your code is on one of those sites. ♥

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are there any websites where you can listen to music without becoming a member or downloading anything. purevolume.com is verry limited.
thankss xo

http://cdzinc.com/cdzinc.html is a pretty awesome site. ♥

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hey im trying to find a really good song that deals with this: Well my ex boyfriends till means a realyl lot to me and i still love him with all my heart. I was wondering if there was any songs that any of you know off the top of your head this like like i still want you back and i love you. etc even though he was someone new. It can be country because i love country. Or hip hop R&b anything like that. THANKS A BUNCH! I'll rate 5's!!!

Rascal Flatts - What Hurts The Most.
Dierks Bently - I'd Settle For A Slow Down.
Keith Urban - You'll Think Of Me.
Hedley - A Song.
Default - All She Wrote.
Mary J. Blige - Be Without You.
3 Doors Down - Landing In London.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Shawn Desman - Butterflies.
Areosmith - Cryin'.
Nickelback - Far Away.


Hope you enjoy these songs. ♥

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okay well i like this guy he use to like me like a year ago and now we like started talking again and crap. well i had my bf ask him if he'd ever date me and he was like well i havent dated someone youger then me in awhile and well he doesnt like girls who dont have sex

soo what should i do move on??



Ill rate 5's for good advice!! =)

First of all, this guy you like is a total asshole. Mainly because he doesn't like girls who don't have sex. That's low and just because some girls aren't out having sex, doesn't mean they aren't a great catch. Some guys ALL they think about is sex and that's not the guy you should get caught up with. I think you need a relationship that is based on him liking you for you and not trying to get in your pants. Find yourself someone better. You deserve a good guy; one who respects you. ♥

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I have limewire and i've tried downloading an Eminem song about 20 times, seriously. And every single song that i've clicked on it would not download it, it wouldn't even start to download it. Everyone says "Need More Sources" Is there something i can do that will make it work??

Please help i reallllly would like this song by him.

It's not Limewire's fault. It's the person whom you're downloading from. Sometimes it does that to me, too. But not a lot. I highly suggest getting the downloader 'Ares'. It hardly ever does that and it works great! Limewire gives off a lot of viruses. So, I'd check out 'Ares'. Just go to http://www.downloads.com and search it up. ♥

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Are them rumours true... the one about the thing where apparently soon you will need to pay for msn? or is it just a silly tale?

No, that's not true, at all. It's just a silly tale. The only thing you need to pay for is Hotmail and that's only if you want more space for your e-mails and such. ♥

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Hey Im making a CD to go with my friends birthday presents with a song by each of her fave bands, I listen to most of them but not Nirvana, can someone tell me the best Nirvana song in thier opinion....thanks xx

I LOVE NIRVANA! Here are some great songs:


-- Smells Like Teen Spirit.
-- Drain You.
-- Something In The Way.
-- Heart-Shapped Box.
-- Come As You Are.
-- Dumb.
-- All Apologies.
-- About A Girl.
-- Where Did You Sleep Lastnight.
-- Love Buzz.
-- Paper Cuts.
-- Drowner.


Hope your friend enjoy's these ones. ♥

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can you break your vagina's hymen (sp..) by masturbating?

Yes, you can. You can even break it while riding a bike, or a horse. ♥

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Hey..umm...I'm 14 and I'm a girl okay? I had a friend of mine ask me out in November, but he got a bad report card and his parents grounded him. It's now April and he still can't talk on the phone or go anywhere. We haven't seen each other since the day after we started going out. He rides on the same bus as my friend Kyle so we pass notes through him. But he hasn't sent anything in a while. I'm starting to get worried. He's the nicest guy I ever met and now we can't see each other. What should I do?

I think the best thing to do would be to give this relationship a break, until he can actually hangout with you and such. I know it's going to be hard to let go, especially since you guys been together for awhile. But a relationship with no communication or not being able to see one another isn't a real relationship. So, just take a break, for now. And if it's meant to be, you and him will happen again. ♥

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if you could please help me with this i really need to kno ....... i only fel him go in n out and i have no idea y i couldint feel n e thing can you e mail me or im me its christalx@aol.com



thanks

I don't know why you couldn't feel anything. Maybe you weren't in the mood, or he just couldn't pleasure you the way you like. Next time (if there is a next time) just guide him along, tell him what you like best and what you would like him to do. ♥

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Wat are some songs that are "in" any kind im making a cd to burn while i go on vacation what ones can i add

Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
The Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.
Mary J Blige - Be Without You.
Nick Connon - Are You A Dime Piece.
Ashley Parker Angel - Let You Go.
50 Cent - Best Friend.
Bif Naked - I Love Myself Today.
New Ridaz - Special Girl.
Damian Marley - Beautiful.
Panic! At The Disco - It's Time To Dance.
Bif Naked - Let Down.
Teddy Geiger - For You I Will.
Angels And Airwaves - The Adventure.
Mobile - Out Of My Head.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Dani Californa.
Panic! At The Disco - I Write Sins Not Tragedies.
The All American Rejects - Move Along.
Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Gold Lian.
Incubus, The Perfect Circle & Finger 11 - Falling Behind.
The Dandy Warhols - Sleep.
The Wallflowers & Counting Crows - Heartache.
The Spill Canvas - All Hail The Heartbreak.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
A Perfect Circle - Thinking Of You.
Aqualung - Strange And Beautiful.
3 Doors Down - Landing In London.
Seether - The Gift.
Breaking Benjamin - So Cold.
Default - All She Wrote.



I hope this helps you out, some. Enjoy the songs. ♥

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Do you have to be a stoner to say "happy 420" or wear a hemp necklace?
just wondering because I wore mine today and stuff. thanks.

No, you don't HAVE to be :) I'm not a stoner and I told my friends 'Happy 4.20' and I wear hemp necklaces. Just because you wear them or say 'Happy 4.20', doesn't make you a stoner, hun. ♥

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ive always wanted to make-out with this boy. one day he asked me to. but i said no and just kissed him regularly. im so afriad that im not going to know how to do it, that everytime i get asked i deny it. i need serious help.
--confused

I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.


I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.


Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥

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Does anyone know any sites that are similar to Greatest Journal or Myspace?

-- http://www.xanga.com
-- http://www.livejournal.com
-- http://www.blogspot.com
-- http://www.blogdrive.com
-- http://www.facebook.com
-- http://www.tagged.com
-- http://www.bebo.com
-- http://www.nexopia.com


These's are just a few. I'm sure there's TONS more out there. ♥

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hi, i'm 13/f at school my friends say they've had sex and i'm starting to want to have sex now. its weird its like an influence but i want to know if it's normal to want and have sex at my what. and what is sex like?

Well, since you're 13, yes you're going to want to have sex. You're going to want to know what it's like and what it is all about, that's totally normal. But, you shouldn't be jumping into something like this so soon. You should wait for someone special, someone you really love and care about. Don't just have sex because everyone else is doing so. Wait for someone you love. ♥

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i just got some wedges. the kind with the ribbon that you tie up the leg. i was just wondering, should the bow (after you tie it) go in the front or back of your leg? thanks.

You can have the bow in the back or the front, which ever way you want. It tends to look better tied up with the bow in the front, though. But, if you want to be different, put the bow in the back. ♥

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is a tomato a fruit or veggie i need to know now !!!!

It's a fruit. ♥

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hey um..ok well my best friend and i are kind of like..drifting apart i guess. like she's still my best friend and she says i'm hers too but there's this other girl who like wants to be her best friend too. she always leaves me out on purpose in convos and w/e so idk what to do b/c my "best friend" seems like she likes the other girl better..i talk to her about it all the time but nothing ever comes out of it..helpp? =/

If you talked to her about this and nothing ever comes out if it, just drop it. I know it's hard, but just let her go, for now. Let her be with other friends. Maybe one day she'll realize how great of a friend you are and will come back to you. Sometimes best friends need some space, just to realize how much they REALLY do care about one another. So, give her that space and see what happens with time. ♥

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