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whats discharge?

1. discharge

the stuff girls excrete from their vaginas. It cleanses the body including the vagina. Its left behind in a girls panties. Its usually whitish, yellow, clear. Very sticky and wet. May also be confused with female cum, but is not the same thing.


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I'm 16/f and I have an older sister (just turned 18)and an older brother (21). Well my sister and I used to be really close (we're only a year and half apart) but ever since a few months ago, she's started hanging out with these guys that are way older (like my brother's age)and I hate it because we used to do everything together but now her and my brother are always together.


She was a cheerleader in high school so she barely ever drank and she's never done drugs but ever since cheer for her senior year was over she's started partying a bunch more and I now she's gotten high a few times. I know weed isn't all that bad for you really but it just isn't her!


My family and I went on vacation to the Virgin Islands a few weeks ago and like 4 of the nights we were there my brother and sister went out clubbing and stuff with this guy that came with us. I love my brother and everything but he's such a bad influence on my sister.


She's moving to Austin after the summer is over (we're in Houston) to go to college and I know it's just going to get worse. She's really pretty so guys are constantly all over her and I'm just afraid she's going to get herself into trouble. I know she's had sex with 2 guys--one long term boyfriend and another guy she dated in April after she broke up with her boyfriend. In April she was still 17 and the guy was 21.


I don't know if I should say something to her or not because sometimes I just feel like I should mind my own business and not act like her parent but I just don't know.

Explain to her that you are worried about her. And explain that you dont like the way she is acting now, that you like the old her. Just tell her all youre feelings. Thats really all you can do.

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I just got this shirt and it says "Dude, STFU" on it (cool points if you know where it's from). Well my mom said she doesn't mind if I wear it but my dad wouldn't like it. She told me to tell him STFU stands for something else but I can't come up with anything. Any help?

uh..Stop teaching famous unicorns.

lmao.. i have no idea

PS: is that the shirt from Hollister?

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My best friend is everything to me, but sometimes we make plans and she ends up ditchin me. And she always says that SHE'LL BE THERE, and then I ask her if she if going and she says "no", and when I ask "why" she says "I made plans before" and that absolutly ticks me off. And I get sooooo mad at her that I end up calling her a name or something. I always think that she talks about me because we kinda fight when we're not together. What do I do? Not be her friend? or... tell her to screw herself? or just ignore it and keep being her "friend"?

Well, you say she is everything to you? But, it sounds like she doesnt think the same about you. You need to get rid of her, i know it is hard...But it will probably be the best thing to do. A real friend doesnt do stuff like that to you. She is not being fair to you or to herself. And when you finally get rid of her, later on she will kick herself in the butt for doing what she did to you.

Just be done with her. Or talk to her about it, and if she does it again...Just be done

Good luck

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hey! i recently permed my hair (about 3 weeks ago) and while i was at the salon, the stylist told me that i cant swim in swimming pools because the perm will come out. origionally, this wasnt a problem, but i separated my shoulder and now have to get in the pool (head under also) for physical therapy. is my perm going to come out?

I think it will be fine. I know its like that when you dye your hair. I dye mine and your not supposed to go swimming cuz your hair will turn green..But a week after i dyed mine, i went swimming and it was fine.So, i say you should be okay.

:) Good luck

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okay, so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f and i really like her but i don't know where i should take her on our first date (if she'll go out with me) if you live in st. louis area, (or anyware) got any advice?

There is so many things you can do! Take her to the movies,hang out at your house and watch a movie,Take walks and talk, go out to eat. Theres so many you could do. You could even go to the park and just talk. It doesnt nessacarly have to be a "Date"

Good luck

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HI, this is really embarrassing, but i feel this is what i can only turn too, i met this guy...on the internet... yes it sounds wrong, but we never had cyber...and i am totally glad we didnt, because that is just wrong...i saw his pick he didnt see mine, but he said he respected that i was safe, and i think he is telling me the truth that he is 16 no... i KNOW it....he acts like it and everything...we tell each other secrets and he is a guy and even told me his greatest fear, i feel like i can talk to him about anything and he is so sweet, i even made plans about me going to see him when i get older and if he was lying to me and he is reallyl ike and old perve, i would know because i would see him , and get right back on that plane if he was a perve. though my heart lights up when he goes online i tell him i think about him and he is like i hope that doesnt get in the way of your school work and you know, not many guys care about that but i think it is the sweetest thing in the world that he does, he even told me all these sweet things like he is starting to fall in love with me and he hasnt even seen my pic and he said he cares about me a lot and i do too.. i feel like i am falling in love a lot. i think about him more than any other guy EVER. i have dreams about him and he tells me his dreams about me. i feel this is not the right way to carry on a relationship though, on the internet, doesnt that seem a little......weird? unorganized? not true love? i dont know and i need some MAJOR help.....and please none of this 'follow your heart' because that doesnt help much at all.

Everyone has a romance on the internet. Its normal. even me. But, its not a good thing unless you both actually meet eachother. Usually, guys on the internet are looking for someone to help them get off. And mostly just use girls and all. But i dont think this sounds like one of them cases. Anyways, you should just talk to him and all...Just dont let yourself fall too hard, like i did.

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what is powderpuff?

football for girls

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ok im over weight and my family and friends are always like "loose weight" and ive tried the no junk food and exercize and thewhatching calories and non of this seems to work what should i do?

DONT BEAT YOURSELF UP ABOUT IT! Some people just have a slow metabolism. And also, some peoples genetics cause this. It just happens. If its the case, then its not your fault. Just ignore them. and learn to love yourself.

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i want to walk 6 miles everyday so what i need to no it how many steps equal a mile also if i drink water and eat heathy and do tiebo twice a day how long will it take to lose 25 pounds i more thing i wanna keep motavated and after i read websites like toneteen.com it helps so i would like other websites like that thanx

Dont you think by doing all that a day, is a little bit much?

You might work yourself too hard.

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hey! 16/f
well you see there is this guy...and its one of my cousins good friends. they're a year younger than me but who cares. anyways i kinda started to like my cousins friend (kevin) and we always flirted like him grabing me..wrestling..just anything. and then yesterday me and my other cousin came back to her house afer being out and then she had to just do something quick and we were gonna go back to my house. well we see kevin and my cousin hanging out and my cousin is like where are you going? and we're like back to my house.and then kevin comes over and just sits in the backseat of my car and they want to go back to my house for a little bit. so we did and then when we were coming back kevin always wants "shotgun" :D i dont mind at all haha. but he is just so cute and he was like singing these love songs it was adorable the only problem is he has a ..GIRLFRIEND. yeah but then when we both got home we were talking on the computer on AIM and hes we had like the longest conversation and how we said we are best friends haha and im like are you scared to drive with me? because some people say im a crazy driver and hes like no why do you think i would sit in the front..i trust my best friend. i was like aww

If he is your bestfriend..I would date him. Unless, you are willing to realize things will never be the same again. Only if you guys dont work out.

DATING BEST FRIENDS = BAD

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When you have sex for the first time on a scale of 1-10 how much did it hurt for you and was it really that pain ful ?

haha, for me was about a 9.8/10.

But, some people it doesnt even hurt. It just depends on there person, really. But i made the one mistake...I didnt relax, at all. I kept tensing up so much. So, my advice to you...DO NOT TENSE UP! RELAX! :)

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ok so here it goes how do i masterbate and then cum afterwards whenever i masterbate i never get the white stuff? im 18/female anyone got any good masterbating ways? please help thanks don't mean to sound pery but also ive never had sex in my life if that helps.

Youre probably not 18. But o well.

Umm... well not every girl cums usually. Some do and some just dont..

You can try to use the faucet method

its when you put ur clit under your bathtub faucet. Or like you could use a really good shower head.

Or get a vibrator or something.

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until when does the victoria's secret sale end? i want to get a bra there that is on sale and i havent had time to go so does anyone know when the sale ends

Look on there site.


http://www2.victoriassecret.com/?cm_mmc=goo-_-brd-_-brse-_-13123

It ends July 13th online.

:)

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ok well im a girl.. i dont want to give out age. But ive had alot of relationships but whenever im around my current boyfriend i tend to be nervous.. then i become quiet.. and hes used to me being outgoing and energetic because we used to almost be best friends... but its almost as if im afraid of messing our relationship up? if that makes sense.. but i want to see how comfortable i am with going further.. but i dont kno how i would lead him onto it.? like at most him fingering me. But a couple of friends tell to lead him on while were kissing.. but i dont see how i could do it?

Look, you probably didnt pick a good choice by dating him if he was your best friend. When you choose to date your best friend, you have to realize that things could NEVER be the same. You might not even still be friends, if yins break up. I think youre scared to do anything. Maybe yins realy arent compatiable as a couple? and only friends? i dont know.

BUT

If you want to know how to get him to do things and such. While yins are kissing, grab his hand and look at him and kinda put it down ure pants...if you know what i mean. Or you can just start unbuttoning his pants and just go from there.

But seriously, i dont reccomend you doing this just because you think if you dont, your relationship will fall apart.

Good luck

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my parents give me a hard time about studying..they make me feel like i'm stupid...i hate it...i come back frm school and do all my homework and when i'm done my dad is all like "go study...and i'm like i did.."i'm finished"...then he goes..."oh..so no wonder ur grades are bad"...and my mom if i ask her a quesition she eexplains it to me and if i still don't understand it then she gets really pissed off at me...she says i'm not paying attension...then my mom's friend always calls in and says my son got a 100 on this...wat did ur daughter get....and my mom's all like an 85...she sounds embarresed...so that's why i can't ever show her any of my grades that i'm proud of....or ask her any questions...that's why i always make a low A...B's and sometimes high C's...i've tried tutoring but that does'nt help...even the tutor gets pissed off at me...how can i make my grades be higher w/o getting my parents invovled???

Just pay more attention. try the hardest you possibly can. Even, if you are trying really hard now...try even harder. Thats the best you can do, and they need to accept it.

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I am getting an MRI scan soon for my head (jaw). Would I have to take out a belly button barbel? It's some type of surgical metal I don't quite remember what type. Is there anyway I can keep it in? I have had the piercing for a couple of months but I still have a month to go before I can take it out or change it and I really don't want to mess with it.

Thanks!!

eh. I am pretty sure that, you have to take EVERYTHING metal out. Because it doesnt mix right.

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A dog scratched me all over my arms and it looks like I cut myself and the scratches are really noticable and I really have to wear short sleeves or I will die out in the sun. I don't want people to think I cut what can I do to make the scratches and the burns from them go away?

I had that done to me before with my cat. Everyone believed me cause they could just tell what kind of sratches..SO, i think you'll be safe.

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Whats some good leg hair remover then?

Other then using a razor.

You can try Veet. I dont know if it smells bad.

But i have tried Nair and it smells and well it burnt my leg.

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I dont think that it completely protects I just want to know if me & my bf are going to be parents..

I highly doubt it.

Just make sure next time, you use a condom as well. :)

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