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My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.


My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships


I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age


and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

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I've always loved to sing, but have only this year been in choir at my school( It's only offered in high school). I am a soprano, and I'd like to think that I'm a good singer. I recently fell in love with the Phantom of the Opera and opera music. And yesterday I was hit with the notion of becoming an opera singer now, or when I'm older. I'm fifteen years old, and have a pretty mature sounding voice. Any ideas of how I could fufill this dream?

well you can start out by getting lessons and i would recommend getting invloved in some sort of musical theater and go from there. most highschools have school musicals and some performing arts places have musicals as well

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what is a good program you can make pics smaller and cut them to cool shapes and all that ?whats a weebsite to download it I RATEE

well i use print shop pro 11 and i love it!

you can download it at downloads.com for a free 30 day trial

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hey last year i was a size kids 12 in bathing suits. i usually go up a size every year. so that means this year i will be a size kids 14. i am interesting in these two bathing suits. but they are juniors not kids. i am wondering if i get a size xsmall if it will fit a size kids 14 girl. i rate 5s to all answers. by the way 13/f. here are the sites. http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_multiple2.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=286072859&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=17674123&bmUID=1140310999571 and http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_multiple2.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=286072859&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=17674123&bmUID=1140310999571 ♥

edit:: well then you should have said it didnt fit last year? and rating me a 1 means i should get banned!and i said nothing offensive! and just because it didnt fit last year doesnt mean a small wouldnt fit this year. i went 1 year not even being able to fit into 00 jeans and the next year wearing a size 1. juniors aren't kids sizes. AND WHAT HAPPEN TO I RATE 5 FOR ALL ANSWERS?


well i would say try a small instead. like my sister is a size 10-12 and she can barely fit into a xs bathingsuit. kohls bathing suits run weird though. i would say big. if you can i would say go there and try it because you may wear 1 size bottom and a dif size top like i can wear a 14 in girls bathing suit if i really wanted to but i wear a small in bottoms and a med/large in tops. i would say if you can buy xsmal and small and try them both on at home then return the one that doesnt fit because juniors sizes can be so weird

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how many oz of water are we suppost to drink every day

well you should drink atleast 8 8oz glasses of water each day. but there is also water naturally in other drinks and foods but no nearly as much.

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i go to a tanning salon before dances, and i've been going every other day for about 3 weeks. i've been using the same lotion for about 3 weeks also. i went tanning yesterday, and today i woke up with these little bumps all over my thighs and stomach. they aren't red, but they are itchy and you can feel them if you run your hand over my skin. i'm not sure what they are - is it sunpoisioning from tanning too often? or maybe im allergic to the lotion? but i used it all over my body and there are only bumps on my thighs and stomach. what could this be?

i would say its sun poisoning or your skin is too dry. upi arent tanning to much though. like ive gone as much as you and ive been just fine. your prob not allergic to the lotion because it would have given you a reaction within the first few times of using it. make sure after you tan you moisturize and maybe take a few days off. like only go mon. wed. fri. or something like that so you have time for your body to regenerate itself for w/e

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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

im 16 and ive had boyfriends for short periods of time but never been kissed either... your not a loser

i would say alot of girls havent been kissed they just dont admit it. eventually someone will date you when the time is right!

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We live on a farm in rural Minnesota. We are a 3/4 mile from the county road. We live on a dead end road. There is a zero crime rate in this area. My husband insists on keeping our doors locked at all times. I hate this and feel I am being locked in as there is no way in the world that anyone ever comes to our farm. To me, this is abuse. What do you think? I also say that it is cruel to lock me in when I have arthritic hands and opening the locks could be a problem, especially if there was a fire.

well i guess hes just trying safe. maybe convince him to leave the screen doors locked but the main one unlocked? or only leave the back doors locked where robbers whould most likely enter. or maybe you guys can try going to a hardware store and try to find locks that are good but easy for you to unlock ( like the door nobs i have on my doors that are always unlocked on the inside even when they are locked on the outside) or you can get the kind they have on bathrooms that when you turn them they unlock.

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I can never find jeans that are right for me. I have large hips, but I'm short and I have small tighs and a small butt. My jeans are always too big or too small. Does anyone know a store where I can find jeans that would fit someone like me? Websites would be nice.

edit:: I SEE AFTER I SUBMITTED MY ANSWER YOU SAID YOU WANTED TO SPEND NO MORE THAN $45. YOU CAN DEF FIND HOLLISTER JEANS FOR THAT PRICE OR UNDER.. YOU JUST HAVE TO WAIT TILL THEY HAVE SOME ON SALE. LIKE I GOT A PAIR THERE FOR ONLY $30. ALSO AMERICAN EAGLE HAS JEANS FOR AROUND $30 WHICH FIT THE SAME AS HOLLISTERS BUT THEY ARE HIGHER WAISTED!


i have the same problem.. and are the waistes to high on you too? well i like jeans from hollister because the are biger in the waiste but tighter in the butt. they are a little long but its not really much of a problem. the only bad thing about them is some of them appear tighter on you than they really are but otherwise i LOVEEE them. they are def. worth your $40-$75!

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I would like to get a nice stomach. Not asking for rock hard abs but something impressive. The thing is i need at home ideas. I dont have access to equipment. Also i have a slight heart problem so runnings kinda hard on me but i can still do it. Any ideas?

lots of crunches, pushups, yoga (which would be very good for you and your condition) and along with all that maybe go for walks everyday (walk the dong for an hour, walk with a neighbor or just walk and take your ipod)

ohh yea if you have an ipod they accually help you alot because they make time past fast. like i could run 25 min on a tredmil with an ipod and only like 10 without one because i was too consitrated on how i was feeling (I have asthma)

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female 16

Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.

How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You.

well your boobs stop growing at the earliest in most cases 18 so you are okay.

to make them look bigger with a low u neck cut shirt with a cami (i think v necks make you look smaller)
you can get implants at any age but most doctors will want you to wait till you are done growing so they stay the same size and dont get weird shaped.

and no one can tell you if they are still growing.. basically if you dont grow for a while you are done

most people are done from around the age 18 to about 22 so dont worry!

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ok i have a friend from school that have lied to me and she told me the truth like yesterday and shes my best friend i don't want to loose her if she keeps lying to me. What should i do?

well it depends on what she lied about. if it was to protect you i would just forgive her.. i mean atleast she told you the truth about it. if she backstabed you or something that is another story

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so my periods been really weird latley. i had it in december, but i dont think iv had it since then. im kinda worried because my boyfriend and i mess around are both of our "areas" whave been near eachother but we have never actually had sex. I am also very underweight though. I know that being underweight can mess up your period. So i was wondering if its most likley my weight or if theres a chance im pregnant? thank you! (i rate high!)

well if any semen got on your vagina there is a change you are preggo but its very small. it really all depends on your age and how long youve been underweight. ussually if your underweight it only chances youe period if youve gone back and forth from being normal weight and underweight. also it would just make you have your period later in life not neccesarily make it irregular. it would all depend on your age. if you in your teen i would say tis prob your weight but if your in your mid 20s or older i would say your prob preggo. either way you can take a preggo test to be sure because it can pick up a pregnancy at as early as 2 weekish

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Well, I don't mean to sound conceited but a lot of people come up to me and say they like me, but it's always these guy's friends that like me. Is there something wrong with me that the guy who likes me can't come up to me and say it himself? Why is it always their friends?

guys are just stupid... ive been told guys are intimidated by me and thats why the cant come up to me. maybe its the same for you?

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Today I'm going over to my friends house and I'm doing her hair for a dance. She always wants me to straighten her hair because I do it right lol.

Anyways, her hair is thick and wavy and it stays straight for about an hour or so.

My question: What tips can you give me so her hair can stay straight. I really don't have time to go out and buy products, so I need tips.

Thanks so much and I rate with feedback. :]

what i dod is a brush hairspray through and it works well for me. also you can have her gel her hair a little after she washes it/before you straighten it

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Where can I put my poems so that they won't be stolen? Like, I need an easy to use place and it has to be free.

on xanga.com. you can post them in blogs and disable right clicks and get a tracker so that you know who is looking at them

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Is there anything I can find around the house to make my hands softer, besides soap?

ive heard baby powder and baking soda.. i know the first 1 works for sure but im not sure about the other one. also i believe veggie oil if you rub that or any kind of oil on your hands it will work but it will make them greesy

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My hair is curly/wavy/frizzy. But blowdrying then straightening takes FOREVER. So I was wondering, is there anything out there, like in salons, where they put stuff in your hair so it will stay straight for a while? Like I heard about japanese straightening but thats like major...is there anything else? i rate!

at hair salons you can get your hair relaxed which is basically getting it straightened and it should last between 6-8 weeks. but it may not work. its ment for african american hair basically (im guessing your not that) and so sometimes hair dressers have to guess on how strong to make yours and it may not be strong enough and you just waste your money. it ussually costs anywhere from $50-$100 and you run the risk of your hair falling out because of how strong the chemicals are

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I'd like to talk to you about the moderator discussion and your behaviour there. No, you aren't in trouble or anything. I just want to talk about it. Could you please send me an email at fernishness@gmail.com (from an email of yours that you'd like me to reply to)?

Much appreciated,
FernGully.

i sent one

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i am a 15/f and last summer i was raped, but the thing was i was high so i cant tell my parents or anything, but i am now clean and everything, but i have really bad flashbacks of that time, like they are so vivid and i can feel it happening and i say stuff outloud like "stop" and sutff....now i told my boyfriend and he was really upset, and i dont know how to get rid of these flashbacks without telling ne one, i mean i have a councelor but i just couldnt tell her, does anyone know what i can do?

go to the police. everything you say will be confidential.. well so is everything with a counselor. you can tell them everything and they dont have to tell your parents that you were high if you dont want them too! you have to alteast tell someone!

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what does "pop your cherry mean"????

when your hymen breaks near your vagina when you have sex

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