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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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this is more to add on the 2 questions i have bout my ex wantn to be friends..i dont understand what to do. last nite he called and said asked what we were going to do and i said i didnt care well we decide we would figure it oud later so i was getting ready and he txtd me and told me that he didnt want me to come over anymore cuz he had hmwk and it would be to wierd if i came over well i started crying and i calld him and asked him y he told me to come over and then change his mind. he said he didnt want to hurt my feelings by telling me so he did it in a txt. well i was balling b/c it hurt my feelings that he was going to do that and then he said that he would put hes hmwk aside and hang out so i went over there and we went to the college and playd basketball for about an hour or more then went to his house and watchd the texas game. he was falling asleep so i told him to go to bed and i went in his room with him and all my stuff is still on his walls and i tucked him in bed and gave him a hug and kissed his forehead. well i was driven home and i sent him a txt saying that i had a good time and he said he did to. i got home and i sent him another txt saying that i still cared about him and i wished that we could be together well this morning i told him want i wanted outta this relationship and he said sounds good. and i asked him to tell me what he wanted and he sent one back saying that he was doing his hmwk and that he couldnt talk now. i just dont understand him...HELP!
I think that he doesnt know what he wants right now and the only thing that makes sense to him is to just be friends. Then he thinks that he needs you so he wants to be with you. You should just wait and be patient and whatever he decides you have to support him. The best thing for you is to find someone else who wont hurt you like he did. I think that if you guys get back together he will do the same thing again. You deserve better in my opinion.
ok so i like this guy and im afraid to tell my best friend bc last time i told her i liked someone she got involved and it kinda made things confusing but shes my best friend and i think i should tell her but im afraid she will just get involved again like last time its not involved like in a bad way its like trying to help when no1 asked you for help and i really like this guy what should i do tell her or not last time i told her i asked her to not talk to him bc i didnt want her to get involved and she did anyways please someone help me!! thanx so much!
If you tell her this time she will just get involved again and you dont want that. You should be able to get a guy in your own way and your own time. Her rushing it isnt romantic at all. It is best she stays out of it. Do you want to get the guy by getting him yourself or do you want to spend the rest of your life knowing that your best friend hooked you up b/c she couldnt stay out of the way. i like hooking up with someone when i did it not when someone else did it.
heyy my name is cate and im 13 and i liek this kid named shaun and hes 13. He likes me too so we both liek each other. Well the last time i went out with him in 7th grade we didnt talk much cuz we were both shy. Then i had to go to cheerleading practice one night while there was a dance. He went to the dance and ended up making out with one of my best friends. We are all still friends though soo.. Anyways i liek him again and i wanna go out with him but i dont kow if i trust him enough. Recently i wen tot eh football game and met up with him there. We walked around around and we held hands and he pu his arm around me and it was really sweet. I wanna go out with him but how do i know he wont cheat on me again or just wanan go out with me to make out. He really nice and super hott. What should i do?
Xoxo
CatieZ
Just answer this question are you really willing to take a chance with a guy you know that cheats on women. I think you should at least give it a shot and if it doesnt work out then you guys can still be friends. If you dont you will just wonder what would have happened if i would have gone out with him. You shouldnt have to wonder you should be able to know depending if you are up to take that chance.
Ok, last sunday I went to the scary haunted house hay ride, cornmaze place. Well, while my 2 freinds and I were there, we met these guys. Me and one guy hit it off real fast and we were all over eachother... not makeing out though (just the hands and arms) so, at the end he asked for my number. I gave it to him. Then he came back and sad can I give you my number and I was like my ohone doesn't work.. it really doesnt! I left it out in the rain and the screen doesn't work I can only call people. So i told him that and i thnk it turned him off... anyways I really like him and have been thnking about him since then. I have asked so many people if they know hinm and finally my freind said yes. SO, she's getting his s/n and number for me. Here's my problem do you think I will look desperate? what should I say to him? i really really like him. Where can we go together? we live like 20 min away from eachother. pleas write back with answers and tips for me!!!
You do not look desperate you just want to talk to this guy. When you talk to him when you get his screen name you should find out what you have in common and tell him that you like him if you are comfortable with that. Tell him you didnt mean for him to react the way he did when you told him about what happened in the rain. Just act like you did when you first met him.
ok ive been going out with this guy for 3 weeks and like i didnt rly like him at first i used to but then he kept goin out w other girls and so i stopped liking him but then out of no where he asked me out n i syd yes n now i really really like him and i love to be around him and like he tells his best friends he rly likes me but then some of his friends say hes thinking about breaking up w me and like i had a dream that he did and it was horrible. and i just dont want it to come true. wat can i do to make it not come true???
thnks
(oh and im not real clingy or annoying or nehtign liek that so were cool wiht the whole eahcothers space thing)
If he wanted to break up with you i am sure that he would have done it already. You fear of him breaking up wityou and you continue to fear this it will happen. The thing you fear most usually comes true but if you conquer your fears and relax nothing will happen. Just relax and take one day at a time. Sometimes friends say things like that so you worry and they may want you to break up b/c they have a crush on you most of the time.
My ex and i have been broken up now for a year. He jumped in a relationship 1 week after we were supposedly over,(very long story). 5 mos. into their relationship, he was telling me that he still missed what we had, that he loved me and didnt want me to hurt him (being with other guys) that he thinks about me all the time, and dreams about US! i never gave into my feelings to him since our breakup, (because of the fact that he had sex with this 14 yr old the 2nd date, and ive ahd a hard time thinking about being with him) A year later and i still have alot of feelings for him, and i want to let him know, but not be so blunt. Hes still with his gf, and i really dont know how he feels about me since he told me how he felt 5 mos ago. Im not just gonna come out and ask or just pour out my feelings. We're both seniors, and i want to ask him to exchange pictures, but i dont want to do this at school when hes with "her". I want to do this alone, and i also want to get him to open up to me again!
Please no immature advice!!!
Ive been going back and forth on this for a year now and i realize that i want him. I never got involved in another relatinship, but i do have lots of guy friends, but thats all they will ever be to me. It took me 3 yrs to fall in love with my ex, and my heart doesnt want to be with any1 else.
Remember>he has a gf and i need to do this very consciously, and take things slow!!!
Thanks!!
The best thing is to write him an email or a note or even call him. If you can get him alone with you you can ask him if he still has feelings for you. If he was serious about what he said then he will tell you how he feels for sure and will break up with his g/f if he knows you want him back too.
well me and my best friend well not sure if we are best friends anymore but anywyas to make it short she became a cheerleader and i didnt she hangs out with them now and acts like shes better than me and ignores me and the other day she started a huge rumor that i do drugs and its so not true and most the people know that but i jsut hate it bc she has been thorugh everythign wiht me and now i dont think we r going to b firneds again bc im not going to tlk to her until she appologizes bc that was totally wrong and shes not the person to appologize and shes knows im mad. wat do i do ?!
If she is treating you like that then she is not your friend at all. Friends do not do that to each other. The best thing is to find another friend and tell her you dont need her. She is turning into something that you guys didnt want her to but now that she has there is nothing you can do until something happens in her life. When something happens she will come to you for comfort.
ok
there is this gy and we have gotten really close...
too close.....
i really like himk and he knows this.
but the problem is
he has a girlfriend.........
please send your advice
anything will help..........
;)
kashia
If he really likes you he wont tell you b/c guys who like you are to afraid to tell you b/c they dont want to get hurt. The best thing is to wait until he is free and then get with him. If you break them up you will cause something that you dont want to happen. They will blame and hate you just me i know from experience.
ok, im a 16 y/o guy, and i've never had a health class (reason i'm asking.) What are some signs that a girl IS NOT pregnant? like, is her period not the same? my girlfriend is 15, and we dunno. we had sex about 3 weeks ago, and we were woried about it. she's on her period right now, but does that mean she is FOR SURE NOT PREGNATE
?
If she has a period after conception then she is for sure not pregnant. Some signs of her being pregnant is nausea or eating like alot or craving for food she never liked or had an interest in. But if she has had her period then you are ok.
I need major help , im 15 f dc and i'm just
confused about my love life. My boyfriend told me that he loves me but now i don't think he means it. The reason why is because i haven't talked him in about 7 weeks. i talked him like twice and all he had to say was whats up and then he would leave out of nowhere with out saying goodbye or what not. It's starting to get fustrating. He didn't tell me he was going on vacation or anything and when ever i try to talk to him its like he has nothing to say. Now im really wondering if he has another girlfriend or something ... i mean could it be true or what?
please i am asking for your advice. please help me.
If you didnt say i lopve you back he may need some times to think about it. The best thing is to talk to him about it personally. I dont think that he has a new g/f if he did he wouldnt be acting so weird. Maybe if you went to his house or something and went to the movies. It will help if you talk to him though if you dont you are just going wonder about it. Dont regret not talking to him about it.
ok the first 5 people who answer right ill rate 5's. what is this song?
sometimes im right sometimes im wrong
.....something....
sometime my head wants to explode.
thats all i know if you could help i would love it. thanks.
every other time by LFO. I like that song
Ok so my friend asked this guys out for me that I really didn't know. He said "Well I really don't know her so not right now". So is he thinking 'No I won't go out with her or was he thinking what he sayed to her? Plz help! I really like this guy!
I think that most cute nice guys like to get to know someone before they go out with them. So i think he was telling the truth. Maybe if you hung out more or went out with your friends and his friends you could get to know him better.
this year i moved to a new school and everyone has a boyfriend and i have had four first of all i am always so hyper but for some reason i just like cant be hyper at my new school even though i have tons of friends its just weird and also i dont talk to any boys but i love flirting what should i do i rate high for great answers
xoxo
Maybe being at a new school changes meeting new people being in new places can change our personalities. Even trhough it doesnt seem like it to us but it does in our unconscious. When we dont deal with problem we push it in our unconscious. If you want to be hyper at school try drinking energfy drinks or mountain dew that always perks people up.
ok i know so many poeple have love life questions but heres mine...and please help. i like this kid...ALOT i mean i practically love him! but he has a girlfriend, it doesnt really bother me that much cause hes never around her, and they just seem like only friends...BUT i see him EVERY day in school...hes in all my classes and i dont talk to him that much but i always wish i had later, i want us to be friends at least cause im not even aloud to have a boyfriend, but hes really nice to me, and i really really like, what should i do?
-broken♥
Find out if he has an email address or something that you could talk to him more with. Having an email helps for people to get to know people better. That sucks that you cant have a b/f. Or invite your friends and invite him and his friends to the movies and you guys can all hang out together and you can get to know him that way. No strings attached and no reason to be nervous if you do that. If friends who go out continue to act like friends it wont last that much longer trust me i would know lol.
ok, it was about 11:50 am and i was shaking a bottle of nail polish and the cap wasnt screwed on right and it opened up and spilled all over my carpet. I couldnt do anything when it happened, now its 2:07 and i need to get this stain out. Is there any way i could get it out without my mom knowing? my carpet is hunter green if you need to knoiw....please help me!!!!
Using nail polish remover always gets the stain out for me or bleach. If you have a steam cleaner that helps the best.
ok so this past week i have been talking to this guy on AIM, he seems really cool and im startin to like him. we exchanged numbers, but im shy and im so nrvous if he call me were not going to have anything to talk about. can u guys help me out and give some suggestionn what say n stuff
thanks in advance!
Hi is a good thing to talk about. Actually pretend like you are on AIM and thats how you can start talking. Tell him about school or ask him how his day was and talk about interests that you have together that are similar. Like movies or dvds or food lol.
yah i love kids but i dnt knw f i can be a good mom 2 them
As long as you love them and take care of them you are the best mom in the world to them. I love my mom and i think she has done a great job and she has only loved me and helped me and did nothing to dissappoint me by telling me to not have sex before marriage or not do drugs or never talk to strangers. Her being there was enough to call her the best mom.
ok theres this boy who is my friend and we've been friends for a while and i found out that for a little while he liked me, like a few weeks. Now he doesnt and he likes this girl, alot, and they're going out and she doesnt like him at all. shes only going out with him for a joke. I wanna tell him but I don't because then her friend might start shit with me. Also the more I think about it the more I begin to think I like him. What should I do, tell him in a way without really telling him about this girl or not and have him find out I knew and hate me??????
I'll rate high for good answers!!!
btw im f
I think that if you say something he is going to get mad and not talk to you yet if you dont say something then he will still get mad. The best thing is to let things go and not do anything. She may be trying to trick you into saying something so he wont be friends with you anymore so dont fall for it. You should wait until they break up and if that happens he will come to you for comfort. The best thing is to stay out of it so they cant blame you for what has happened.
ok i really like this guy, i have liked him more then ne ohter guy. he knows i like him. on friday me and him flirted a lot. he was touching me and hugging all over me and stuff, and he has done it before like once. and on friday i broke his sex bracelt, i really want to hook up with him, i really lie him my friend says that she thinks he likes me but somtimes i cant tell. i hang out iwth him everyday at lunch. do u think he likes me.
I think that he does but sometimes they dont like to tell. If you write him a note or something and ask him you will surely find out. If you dont you are going to just wonder whether he likes you. Maybe he is just afraid that you dont like him and he doesnt want to get hurt so you have to make the move.
i love this girl who is in my class at school but i think she fancies me how do i find out?
i rate 5
You should either talk to her or write her a note or even have one of your friends talk to her and ask her if she likes you. She sounds like she likes you. If she flirts and sends all kinds of signals like staring at you or talking to alot then that shows that she has an affection towards you.