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drifting apart
well me and my best friend well not sure if we are best friends anymore but anywyas to make it short she became a cheerleader and i didnt she hangs out with them now and acts like shes better than me and ignores me and the other day she started a huge rumor that i do drugs and its so not true and most the people know that but i jsut hate it bc she has been thorugh everythign wiht me and now i dont think we r going to b firneds again bc im not going to tlk to her until she appologizes bc that was totally wrong and shes not the person to appologize and shes knows im mad. wat do i do ?!
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Sounds like you're not really friends anymore. Just ignore her and make other friends whose company you enjoy.
If you've been through a lot together, maybe you can be friends again in the future when she chills out and stops treating you badly. If you leave her alone, she'll just get on with her life. If you want her back, make that known later, not now, when things have blown over.
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Just forget about her! She doesn't deserve you if she is going to be like that. Also, don't try to be her friend, she won't be ever again. And if she is like, all of a suden not popular anymore or something, don't let her come back. She will end up running back for help and a friend, don't let her be your friend again. Becuase most likely she will do it again. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you son't want to, but it would be nice. Thanks.
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Hey chickiee
well i am also a cheerleader and one of my friends doenst liek cheerleading and she a;ways makes fnu of em and stuff and she even made me cry one time whcih was mean. but anyways i said something to her and she stopped i jsut told her i how i felt and stuff and were friends now. but anyways you should talk to her and if she is hanign out with her cheerleaers she is always gonan be yoru best firend and while shes hanging out wiht other people, jsut remebr you have other friends too so hang out with them and then shell come back to you.. or you could become a cheerleaderrr...
hoped i help
xoxo
Catieeroseee
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its her fault that shes soo immature. shes acting like a 3 year old.if she is a good friend she should have a reasonable answer for why shes acting so snotty.a friend should treat you like she wants to be treated.so talk to her.dont let the rumor or HER get any farther
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well you could go to her and ask her why she wants to start things with you and just go out and try to find people like you that would probobly be best 4 both of you and maby you might be friends in the near future.
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If she is treating you like that then she is not your friend at all. Friends do not do that to each other. The best thing is to find another friend and tell her you dont need her. She is turning into something that you guys didnt want her to but now that she has there is nothing you can do until something happens in her life. When something happens she will come to you for comfort.
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Leave her alone. She thinks she's "cool" now so leave it at that. Friends drift apart, that's life. You meet new people, you know. So dont worry about it, if she says sorry she does. But for now, find new people to hang out and find a new best friend. I know it might be hard because you'll remember her, but shes spreading rumors about you and stuff. What kinda "friend" is that? You'll find someone that really is a friend! Good luck !! And if you need more help I'm always here=)
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